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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Do you think that my call could have been the beginning of a relationship or does he really means when he says "friendship"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 36 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - A guy and I met almost a year ago in a meeting. It turns out he's military and had to go back to his base shortly. Since then, we´ve being in touch by email as friends , share joke pictures, thoughts, etc. Last week he wrote me a note saying h...

Falling for my best friend who I might never see again... should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I think I am falling for my male best friend.I've known him since the 3rd grade and we've gotten along great.The problem is I don't know if I should tell him how I feel.I don't want to ruin our friendship.My other best friend says that in 2nd ...

I stayed faithful, but he is ending our long-distance relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - After 2 and half years in a relationship (12 months long distance - not my choice but his) my boyfriend has decided that its over. He told me that if I was not able to be with him (re-locate overseas) he is calling it a day. He has been ruthless ...

He came home from working abroad and I think he is not as interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who's moved interstate for work. He told me he's coming home in a few weeks, but has been booked out by his friends and family and wont have time to see me. I'm not upset that he's spending ...

How can I convince him not to leave me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 38 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - i've been datin this guy for over 2yrs..he's my 1st love..i lost my virginity to him..he wants to break up coz accordin to him..i din give him his space..i do repent all dat i did out of impulse..i love him crazy..so i told him instead of breakin up ...

How do I tell my long distance lover I cannot join him in the USA without my kid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 39 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I am widow with child 8 years old and have long distance relationship with man who lives in USA and I live in Asia. Everything fine with our relationship But I have culture(I live in very strong tradition country) problem and he know already ...

Should I ask ex if she feels the same way as I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 39 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - My first girlfriend; who broke up with me about 4 years ago. We still email each other about once every few weeks and help each other out but i never see her since she is in college across the state. She was my first love and i never forgot about ...

Love and lust!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 39 days ago

31 May 2008 (?) - Hey, i have a HUGE problem. I live in south america, and my boyfriend live sin england. we have been tgether for a year now. we love eachother we do. and he has propose dto me, but we are only so young! 17. and i want that, cause i like the saftey ...

She was drawn to me because of my guitar playing. Should I send her song lyrics, nothing too sappy, just light and funny! I don't want to push her away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I was dating this girl for a couple months, doing the long distance thing while she was at college. When she came home from school she said she didn't think we should see eachother because she didn't want to get attached. I txted her a litt...

My long distance GF is moving close to me but I recently started feeling that we are totally wrong for each other!...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - I have been seeing my gf for 7 years. We began dating in college and continued to date through grad school but at that point it was long distance. I guess we have had a long distance relationship for 4 years. Now she is finally moving to be near me ...

I don't think I am being unreasonable I just want to enjoy quality time with my man undisturbed by any one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met my boyfriend last year on holiday and fell in love with him. He is a caring and loving person we have a lot in common and most importantly he makes me laugh. We live in different countries and I recently flew to his country t...

He's going to Peru for a year, should I wait for him or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

29 May 2008 (?) - well my boyfriend is going to peru for a year becuase he needs to learn better spanish (he's hispanic) and his grandmother is sick or something. im 13 and weve been together for 4 months now. i dont know if i can wait for him like that. cuz im going ...

Long distance - he gets depressed and it brings me down. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 40 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Hiya everyone, I'm in a long distance relationship with this bloke. We've been together for over a year (long distance) and I love him very much. The distance is very hard to deal with, of course. I get down and sad because I miss him so much, ...

On again, off again with my online girlfriend, tomorrow night we decide what our status is... I need some advice to help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - hi, umm.. i have a gf, well, i donno if its a "real gf", we met through a website called bebo, its similar to facebook and myspace.. i live in new zealand, she does in australia, i'm 18 in college shes 17 in her senior year. we've known eac...

My boyfriend is going to be gone for a year! I'm not sure I can wait for him like that, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

29 May 2008 (?) - my bf is going to Peru to visit his family for the summer but i just found out he has to stay there for a year. weve been going together for 4 months but i dotn know if i can wait for him like that. what should i do??...

She broke up with me because we live too far apart! How do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - Right, I've just been to see my girlfreind for the first time. she lives about 200 miles away, i really liked her and she really liked me, i came home and cried on the way back. she broke up with me today because we live too far away and we'...

What should I do to keep my relationship fresh and get his attention more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I have been a relationship for 6 months: 2 months of staying close and 3 months being far away. We have a long distance relationship because I have to work in another country for 6 months. I have 3 more months to work and then I'll be back. Norm...

I want to be with her because I know that she is the one for me, but I haven't told her, and advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - Hi Dear cupid, I'm a 16-year old, going to be 17 in a few weeks, and I fell in love with a 16-year old girl in school awhile back. I told her, and she took it fine, and she loves me back, but because of (now currently fixed) family issues, I had to...

How fast is too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - HI , i met someone we get along great, he lives an hour away. We have been together a months. We are both finalizing our divorces but have been separeated for over a year. He said he wants to move to my town to be close to me and probably with me, ...

Is he cheating or is his ex lying?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - well I've been dating my bf for little over 3 months now. It is long distance, but we still love each other and are close. But recently i've been getting e-mails from his ex saying he is cheating on me and i'm ruining his life and that i should just ...

We had an abrupt break up from a long distance relationship...we haven't talked in 3 months...should I call him? I'm confused!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 43 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - hello I used to be with this guy that I deeply loved for a year and half. then things started going downhill for the last 6 months and hung on as long as could. I hurt him a lot and then he ended up hurting me back. we finally ended it, abrupt...

Did I come on too strong and obvious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 43 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - Hi, so me and this college girl a couple years younger than myself did the long distance thing for the past couple of months. We texted, facebooked, phoned everynow and then, and visited eachother a few times. Things seemed to be good. Well, last ...

Please help, the long distance is causing lots of problems for us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 43 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I just finished my freshman year of college. My boyfriend in high school and I dated for 4 years and I went to college in Florida and he went to New York. To say the least, we didn't make it past a few months away from each other. I have been with ...

I called him on the phone after so long and don´t know what 2 think about what he said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 43 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - A guy and I met a year ago, we did it shortly before he left to his home town in NC. We´ve being in touch by email since as friends sharing jokes, thoughts pictures etc. He wrote me a note saying he´s leaving for a job in South America, so I couldn...

He's too attached to his ex, should I break up with him over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - Hi, Just need some advice on what to do. I've had been in a long distance relationship for about four years. The problem is that my bf had never stopped talking with his ex nor had he talk her that he is in a relationship with me. They are not ...

My girlfriend is very distant, does not reply to my texts or make time to see me, yet says she loves me! I'm confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

25 May 2008 (M) - Hey guys i am in a bit of a struggle here i've in a relationship with my girl for about 8 months already, ok basically i am a bit lost because we dont live close to each other i am a Marine stationed in DC and well she lives in Roanoke Va anyways we ...

I don't love my wife anymore, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

25 May 2008 (M) - Dear all, I know my wife thru internet. I live in US and she is in other country. After almost one year chatting and went there to see her. We got married. Because of the situation, she can't live with me or come here to stay with me. So she stud...

Why does my boyfriend reject my suggestions on where and when to go out and how can we resolve this issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend rejects my suggestions on where/when to go out. We’re in a long distance relationship which I feel insecure about as I’m unsure when I’m going to see him again. At first, my boyfriend was an attentive, loving and caring man (I think ...

Could this long distance friendship be developing into something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 45 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - This guy and I are being keeping in touch for quite some time now, like almost a year. We live far from each other, he's in the military and we met in a mission he was assigned while being in my state. We are both in relationships, and we are ...

Please help! My boyfriend now lives thousands of miles away having moved to his dream city!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - Hi - please help! My boyfriend now lives thousands of miles away having moved to his dream city. This has been really tough on our relationship as he used to live 10 minutes away. I've never stood in anyones way but I did resent him for doing ...

She said she's not in the mood for me, does this usually happen in a relationship? I'm considering leaving her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

24 May 2008 (M) - Hi guys please help me decide what to do,today my gf simply told me thats she's not in the mood of talking to me and when I called her to ask why she simply said thats buzy she cant talk,I've done nothing wrong to upset her we having a long distance ...

It's been a little over two months. When will I heal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 46 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, A little over two months ago, my two best friends moved away. They are now living in a town that is about an hour's drive away from mine. I know that may not seem like a big deal, but to me, it's a HUGE deal. Even though it's only ...

Should I move for love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - My bf and I have been together for almost a year...recently he's relocated to another country and he's asked me to move with him. We are still going to live separately. I am giving up a career here, but he thinks it's not a bad thing for me to be in ...

Is there any free software for Mac computers that you would recommend I use to block my access to porn websites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 47 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I get very turned on by porn (but wish I didn't). I will go for a long time without viewing it, but then go through a period where I will view a lot. On the one hand, I like to view it for ideas. I have seen some techniques that I hope to use with...

I'm running a family business and he's running his own business, but we live 2 hours drive from eachother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 48 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I don't know what I want. I might sound a bit greedy. I love my boyfriend dearly, and I really want to start living with him. He lives 2 hrs drive away from me. We both have a career where we live; I'm running a family business and he's running...

I met him on holiday and miss him so much. Any advice out there for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hi i met this guy on holiday about 4 years ago, only for a week and really liked him, he made me feel special and i have never felt more myself and confident and alive. He was about 3-4 years younger. I was kind of in a relationship, and i knew he l...

Is this feeling called love or something....?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 48 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - There is this facilitator or can also be regarded as my teacher. Usually from what I know and read, people said that your heart will beat faster when you like someone. But for me, having him near me or when HE’s talking to me (just asking questions ...

I let the love of my life slip through my hands.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 47 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - I regret not moving out to South Africa to be with my girlfriend. I dithered so much that she eventually got fed up of waiting for me and met someone else. I'm totally devastated. I pray that she will forgive me and take me back as now I would sell ...

I'm her long distance ex, can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - We been for 3 years together. Last Year , we apart to long distant relationship due to working. In this 8 month , our relationship become worse and getting break up. She started a relationship with other guy. The break up reason is that i didnt ...

She is in canada and I'm from UK I plan to one day visit any help from people who have experience of long distance love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - Ok well i met a girl a short tiem ago and to make it short we fell in love at first we though it was just puppy love but after we spoke more and more we found that it was the real deal i am only 15 and some may say im much to young to think of love ...

Did my calling him have any effect on him? Does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - My crush send me a message that he's going deployed next thursday to Asia. So, I called him on the phone to wish him good luck. He was very surprised mainly cuz he's stationed in NC and I'm in Fla. so we keep contact by email. In his message ...

I want to marry him but we don't have a plan! Should I move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I am getting married this fall but my fiancee lives in another city 5 hours away. It doesn't seem like he can find a job in the city I'm living in. I am planning to move to his city, but I don't want to stay there long term, especially if we have ...

Woman I fancied and had fallen in love with now has a boyfriend.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 49 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Hi everyone! Over a year ago I started speaking to a young woman on a social website in Lithuania. I eventually met her a few times in Lithuania(as I was visiting the country to see friends. We went out to bars and restaurants to chat and soci...

Should I cheat or not? I'm in a long distance relationship of 5 months and won't see her for 6 more!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 46 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Hi I'm a student and I'm in a long distance relationship but its only been 5 months do, bad thing is that I wont be seeing her for the next 6 months,do you think I should cheat whilest I personally don't want to cheat coz I really love this girl but ...

Give me advice please and tips on how to make a success of my situation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Hi guys I'm a 20 year old guy and have a 27 year old girl,I'm currently studying my first year bcom accounting degree at a university in south africa,my girlfriend neva managed to finish school and is currently a domestic worker,3 years ago we met ...

Falling out of love with my boyfriend! Should I try again or let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 49 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I feel like I'm falling out of love with my boyfriend. We've been in a long distance relationship since Oct, and its been fine up until now since we get to see each other almost every other weekend and talk/text all the time. Then he got re...

I'm interested in a new guy, but this knock to my self-confidence by the long-distance ex has me doubting things! I don't want to be hurt again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - bit mad here, as Im usually answering the qusestions, btu here goes....Met a guy and we dated for 2 months it was a long distance relaionship, I met him through my friend who was his cousin. Well he started going on about wanted to move down with ...

I've been online chatting with this girl and found I still have feelings for her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - i am married with one child, i work and live away from home. married since year 2000. before this marriage i was in a relationship a lovely sweet young lady but are relationship was banned due to religious differences, now she is also married with ...

Deciding to think 'what the hell' and just go for it....good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Im 19 and I have never had a boyfriend, although people have told me lots of times that I am pretty, I dont believe them because I have been picked on by this one girl since primary school who used to call me ugly. No one else ever said it to me, in ...

He wants naked pictures of me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 47 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 months. Its a long distance relationship. To be honest Ive never met him before yet. He is a friend of mines boyfriends brother. We enjoy talking to each other everynight for more than 4 hours. We just ...