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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

She is going to Uni and things are hard, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Okay, i'm 18 years old and have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years now.. i love her too pieces and i believe her too be my world, however, lately i feel distant from her, i feel un-loved like she doesn't care, i think its the ...

LDR - Is he taking me for granted or am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I met this guy online around 6 months ago, we are both mature people so I think we both knew what we were doing when we got into this LDR. I let him know about my health which is a severe neurologic condition from day one. He says he loves and ador...

Does the love for a previous partner fade away in time, or is there always something there?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - This question is directed mainly at the guys, but ladies please feel free to answer too :) My current boyfriend is my first for everything, and hopefully he'll be my last! We're a long distance couple, have been together for two years now and I ...

How do I stop jealousy from getting the best of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - I am constantly on the social networking side of the internet. I check facebook often, email for work and personal connection, etc. So now that I'm in an LDR I see that my very handsome boyfriend has added a few girls to his friends list that go to ...

I'm finding my long distance relationship very difficult. Am I doing the right thing by staying with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4220 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been dating a man long distance for 6 months now. The first 4 months were great, bliss actually but since then some things in his life have happened that have caused him absolute stress and grief. He was ordered by the courts to hand o...

I can't take this distance for three more years, but I love her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - I am 25 and have recently entered a long distance relationship (1 week). We met 3 months ago and fell in love with each other rather quickly. I actually didn't want to fall in love, or start a relationship with her because I knew she had two more ...

Do you think he is cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - First, my husband works on the pipeline, so he is gone for 3 weeks and then home for 3 weeks. This time, he worked for 8 weeks so he's been gone since july. We talk on the phone every night so I thought everything was fine, he was just working 16 hr ...

I no longer feel that I can trust my LDR boyfriend. Should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Hi everyone! I am on a long distance relationship for 3 years, I really love this guy to the point we were getting engaged and such. He hid from me the fact he went with a female friend to a concert, even after I confronted him. He delet...

My long distance boyfriend changed his relationship status from 'in a relationship' to 'single'. Is he cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I'm in long distance relationship with my boyfriend. He is Australian and I'm Indian. We both are sixteen years old. We met on facebook 2 months ago and he asked me for relationship after 1 month. I love him alot. Everything was going perfect ...

Long Distance to Married w Kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I've been dating a man for 11 months now. It is a long distance relationship but we see each other every two weeks for four days at a time or more and we talk every night. It didn't take long after we first started dating to start talking about a ...

Should I go and see him or write him off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I met a guy one night that I really liked and we arranged to meet up again. The date went well until he said that he wasn't looking for a relationship and he came on a little strong so I rejected him as I didn't feel ready to take such a step. I ...

My long distance boyfriend asked me to share my naked pic, I refused to share and now he is sad. Should I send him my naked pic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We both are of same age, 16 years old. He is Australian and I'm Indian. We met 2 months ago on facebook and he proposed me after 1 month. I love him a lot. I strictly follow what our holy book ...

Am I being to paranoid? Should I be suspicious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - hi everybody i need help with understanding this situation. i took back my ex boyfriend bout 2 months ago after a two year break up. during the two year breakup, he would call and text me, trying to get in contact but i would ignore the call ...

Why is my ex mad at me about my new life changes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Today I talked to my ex boyfriend about coming to this new state where I live now to make better choices for himself we both did some wild things during our relationship that's why I chose to move away. I wanted better for myself. I have a new j...

Possiblities? Is he worth pursuing? Is it possible that he may like me as well as I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

22 September 2012 (M) - The preliminary details: I am an open gay man and I have no problem with my social life, but my curiosity in meeting interesting people all around the world led me to a social networking site that connects strangers from every part of the world. ...

If he has time to spend with his friends, why didn't he have time to call me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - Hi Currently im in LDR with my bf, since he travelled to a different place for work. He will be returning back in 2 months. We are in LDR for 3 months, been seeing each other for 2 years. 3 days back my bf told me not to call him for 3 days, s...

I don't know if my boyfriend is the one for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I have never written in any love advice sites before, but have been enjoying reading this site, so I decided to give it a try. Thanks for reading. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. From the beginning, I thought he was not the r...

Can my long distance relationship with a much older man really work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - Hi Dearcupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and love each other very much. We have so much fun together, whether it's going out or just enjoying one another's company. The only thing is that we are in differen...

Should I transfer to another college to be closer to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

20 September 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now, and I'm in my freshman year of college. Some background information: Before I moved here I basically lived with my boyfriend over the summer, and before that we did everything together and are ...

I need him, what if he doesn't need me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

20 September 2012 (F) - I would like more reciprocation in my relationship from my boyfriend. Sometimes (or quite often) I feel like I give him more than he gives me. In the past I have come to the agony aunts with a similar question, and some have said just move on. Bu...

LDR..I'm afraid of her leaving me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

20 September 2012 (M) - Im afraid of being left. Im tired of the nervousness, im tired of losing sleep, im tired of realizing im most likely overreacting but I cant help it. Ive been dating my girlfriend for 7 months today and we have a long distance relationship. We make ...

Need help with a long distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

18 September 2012 (M) - My fiancee and I are in a long distance relationship. She moved about 5 hours away for college. I try to visit her whenever I can (about once a month). The issue is about 24 hours before I have to go home she starts to get depressed and sad and ...

I'm concerned about my 45 year old boyfriend's friendship with a 22 year old French woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend who is 45 has a female friend who is 22, who is French, who he met 4 years ago when she was visiting England. She visits every year and they hang out, also he has been to stay with her and her parents in France. The thing is, I...

Should I wait for him to move back to my country, or move on with other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - Hy. I met an awesome guy on the net. He s 5years older than i am. We have been exchanging texts for a year now. His parents currently live in my country but he moved to another country(continent) with his god parents because of education etc(well ...

For the guys: Why does a perfectly nice guy stop talking to you suddenly for no reason?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - Hey, this is more one for the guys, as I would love to know why a perfectly (or what seems a perfectly) nice guy can just stop talking to a woman suddenly and that will be it! So the short of the suturation- met a lovely guy, in a bar about 3 we...

He won't officially end it if that's what he wants? What to do? I feel stuck!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - Dear all, Please advise. My Bf of 18 months moved recently ( not too far away) and he has been seeing me less and less. We had an argument and he left for two weeks, then came back breifly and I had it out with him then when I called him the next ...

Do people break up when they still love each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4232 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - My dear cupid friends, I really need some your help. I ve been with my,now ex bf,for 3 years. Its been distance relationship,but even though it was really good relationship,we were best friends,were crazy in love with each other...And this fall i ...

Excited to be engaged, but Mum has raised some questions!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - Hi there! So, after a few months being on a LDR my bf proposed a few weeks ago over dinner. WOW! We've been together for nearly 2 years (too soon to get married?) and of course I said yes yes yes and I wanted to jump and scream and let the world ...

Why does he stop replying for days?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

16 September 2012 (?) - This guy that I like often text quite a lot, back and forth as the conversation is really substantial and funny. He flirts with me and tells me I'm his favourite person to talk to etc etc...however half way through a conversation on facebook or over ...

I am torn. My Bf is in jail and may move away to be closer to his child when he gets out. What should I do? I want to be respectful.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - I'm 19 and My bf is 23 we have been together for 1 year and some months. He has a daughter but he is not with her mother. I have never had this happen to me before so i don't know what to do or think. Of course I am going to wait for him...

My parents won't allow me to have a boyfriend and are causing problems for my relationship. Please help!

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15 September 2012 (F) - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months now and we really love each other we talk about how we want to get married have kids etc. We have our ups and downs but recently there has been a lot of downs and i think that the long ...

We talk all the time online and he has sent me gifts but hasn't suggested meeting up yet.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - I have been talking to a man online for around a year. We knew each other through mutual friends but live 250 miles apart.. We talk every day and the chat is often sexual but usually in a banter ish way. Recenrly we have become more close, chatting ...

Do I take a chance on love and move to be with my boyfriend in Australia? Or do I prioritise my education first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

14 September 2012 (F) - I spent 14months working in Australia and came back home about 3 weeks ago. Whilst down under I met and fell in love with my now boyfriend. Things have been great, the long distance is tough and I spend every waking minute thinking about him which ...

My true love moved away to find himself. What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

12 September 2012 (F) - The guy I dated for over 2 years moved about 3,000 miles away a month ago because he wanted to go find out what a makes him tick. He told me when he made this decision to move is that he didn't want me to think he was trying to run away from me, ...

Feeling guilty and lonely. How can I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

12 September 2012 (F) - This guy and I parted ways a little more than a month ago, not because we had issues but because we both are now living in different countries. I talk to him often, and I miss him all the time (and sometimes it makes me want to cry). I think he ...

How do we deal with our different schedules?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

12 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in an LDR for almost two years. Over the past year, our visits have become significantly less frequent and shorter. His work schedule if completely opposite mine. I work 9-5 Monday through Friday, and he is 2-11 ...

Is it normal that my boyfriend and I don't talk when we're apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - Me and and boyfriend has been together for almost a year. When we were together in same city, we meet around 2/3 times a week and almost everyday when we have to study together. but whenever either of us is traveling/ back home, we don't talk at ...

My LDR boyfriend seems indifferent lately ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - What do I do if my long distance relationship with my bf has become shaky because he doesn't seem to reply most to my messages.. Also we didn't talk for 4-5 days and when he replied he sad he had been busy.. He seems very indifferent and uncaring ...

How do I break this to her without her thinking it's about her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a 17 year old for about a month and a half. Its long distance so we only see eachother once a week and for me, its a 5 hour round trip. She is in a big exam year so I feel guilty asking her to come to mine, but the ...

Does she want a relationship, with me? It's been 6 months. So why is she so cautious about a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4239 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - Okay so i keep asking this question but as yet the advice does not seem to help the situation. okay so i meet this girl online from europe and we have been talking for about 6 months and she came here to the United states to work for a while an...

We've broken up but how can we still be friends? Because I can't lose him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are broken up, but I'm so in love with him. Help me with my situation? My boyfriend and I were together for 3 years. It was long distance for the last 2. He said that the situation was really hard, cause my mom made us break up, ...

He mentioned the possibility of us seeing others whilst we are apart. I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - I have been in a committed, monogamous relationship with my boyfriend for about two and a half years. During this time we attended the same college, maintained relationships with mutual friends, worked together, lived together, backpacked Europe ...

Is it wrong to stay in this relationship and go behind my parents' back? I only regret the way we met but not meeting him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - Ok,rewind to start. In a moment of teenage rebellion, I (a typical goodgirl to my parents and teachers) decided to go on to a website which lets you talk to strangers. now, my parents hate the internet for one plain reason: you can talk to stra...

It's not like it used to be between us and I don't trust my judgement, so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - thank you for taking the time to answer! Basically, me and Him are in a long distnace relationship. We have been together for just over seven months, not met yet. Lately, I've begun to feel a little uneasy with the relationship. At the begining,...

Should I be worried that he doesn't want to involve me in his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for seven years now and at first there were alot of arguments. It has been a long distance relationship until now that we are on the same town . I feel we should spend alot of quality time together do we can rekindle ...

What do I do about my FWB and how do I tell if he has feelings for me? Alternatively do I consider an LDR with the other guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - Hi hope you can help me with this it would be greatly appreciated I met a man who is in the army on a online dating site who is really keen and wanting a relationship with me but I am not sure how I feel about him. This is because I have h...

Is my separation Anxiety ruining my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for coming up to a year. We are in a long distance relationship. He lives in one part of the country and I live in a distant part of the country. We see each other every other weekend or so. He recently came ...

Two days after I posted our pictures on Facebook he deleted his account

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i started our relationship july17 of 2011. I was working as a nurse in a hospital in Sudan and he was a student of aeronautic engineer in a university in the same place he was still in his 4th year and now he is on his final year. ...

All my friends throw doubt and scorn on me for me LDR and say nasty things. What to do about their words?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

8 September 2012 (?) - I have another question what do i do if my friends are giving ishh about my long distance relationship? like half of them would be like yeah you should give him a try and keep your realtionship and the other half is like you dont know what his doin...

Does she want a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

7 September 2012 (M) - Okay so there's this girl I have been talking for a while online and we meet and it was great. Well anyways I really liked her and explained to her that we won't be seeing each other for while, so in my desperation I asked her to be my girlfriend. ...