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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay well theres this guy and we've met way long ago, since then we've always liked each other. He lives in the Philippines and i live in United States. but no matter what everytime i go there its like the feelings never go away. In other words we've liked each other for a while but never really did anything. So everytim i come home that feeling we have always comes back. Though i have a bf and he has a gf. but see:Hes getting married to the girl, and theyre waiting after she finishes college so basically theyre fiances.Ive been with my bf for almost 9 months now. and im not thinking to get married anytime soon.So right before i left, he admitted to me that he liked me. He said that hes happy that we saw each other again and that the memory we once had came back and is hard to forget especially now. which was the time when we were talking and my last day in P.I.So i said yeah me too, even though we dont say it in words atleast we know our feelings towards each other.Since he and his gf share cps he said not to txt like that while his gf has it since we might get caught. We havent done anything to the point that ppl might say ive cheated, we just talk and text.So we promised each other that no matter what we wont forget each other and that i will always be in his heart. I thought that it was funny how it was him that brought it up since i thought it was all a lie but i believe him...i just cant wait to back to the Phil.Soo when i got back to the U.S my bf came over. and man how weird it felt. he hugged me and i was like disgusted i had no feelings whatsoever. is it just that i was thinking of Greg and not my bf? i felt like nothing...What should i do? Its not that i dont like him anymore but its just sometimes i cant stand him. things he does even before greg happend. My bf always wants me, gives me too much attention. i even think he loves me more than i love him. Is it bad to ask for less attention?
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reader, Bushrod +, writes (25 March 2008):
It sounds to me like you don't want to be in a relationship with this guy. I think you should get your feelings as straight as you can on your boyfriend and see what you want in a relationship right now and if isn't what you want then break things off. I know it's and old saying and that most everyone doesn't do it but be honest to yourself and to him. Your still young and you shouldn't feel any pressure try and find a guy to marry.
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