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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Were we ever really friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a question about a long time friend (18 years) with whom I ended the relationship / friendship with because he deliberately concealed his marriage from me. Basically, I'm wondering why someone with whom I've been frie...

Should I Travel Other Places in a LDR?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - If you are in a Long Distance Relationship, should you travel anywhere unless it's to see your partner? I am having a difficult time and need some advice. I have a LD BF and we are new to the LDR. He moved away for school in September and I made a ...

My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and ...

Insecure in this LDR

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship for about 2 months. My boyfriend went away a month ago to study at university,so we only spent the last month together. Since he's been gone we have communication and trust problems as i don't feel i can trust ...

How do I get my LDR boyfriend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - How do I get him back? I have posted on here a few times now. I was in a LD relationship with an amazing man for nearly a year. But due to my stupidity it has now ended. We have had a roller coaster ride. I was going through a divorce, my Dad ...

Should I try and work this out or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hello good people. this is my situation. ive been dating a guy for 8 months now. he's in the army and got deployed a month after we started dating. Our relationship had such strong chemistry that i decided to wait on him till h comes bak in june. ...

My love for him is so strong, but he just plays with my emotions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - i have a boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months, we are long distance(live 5 hours/230 miles apart) and we met 6 months before we got together through a friend i went to see for a week, i was with someone else at the time, but that didn't stop me doing ...

Should my boyfriend join the military to escape troubles at home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a month and he is going through a rough time with family problems. Not to go into detail but hes basicly on his own right now, he has been staying with his grandma so far but he know where hes ...

She thinks I only want her because I can't have her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I met this girl two years ago, We both broke up with our present prteners for each other. She ended up getting back with hers but coming back to me again. The past six months have been an LDR. I saw her last weekend for the first time in si...

How do I keep this LDR relationship going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - Hi, I'm a normal guy living the usual life. I'm 15 and I've got a pretty cool story that I can really use some help with. So I have a youtube account and about an year ago I randomly came across another youtube user and her channel. We actually just ...

How can I help her try to move on from this traumatic experience she's been dealing with for about 3 years and put that fire that we used to have back in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

24 January 2012 (M) - Ok so, I've been dating this girl for nearly a year and a half. Right now we live about an hour apart so I go down to visit her on most weekends. Things were going great until almost 2 months ago... she seemed to become more distant all of a ...

I love him like I've never loved anyone before, but should I marry him and be in a long distance marriage for so many years?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - Hey guys and dolls there :-) my head is about to explode. I'm in a longdistance relationship with my bf- soon to be husband. He lives a bunch of hrs away by plane. We get to see each other very often, we're both very committed to making things work. ...

Can this relationship really work out for us??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - A little over a year ago, I met a guy online. To this day we have never met. We talked a lot, and things got serious, he asked me out, and I said yes. I really really love him, he's 95% what my dream guy would be if I could make one from scratch. We ...

He was interested, now he doesn't respond, what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - I met a guy while away in another country and we spent lots of time together. He insisted we exchange phone numbers so we can keep in touch and see each other again. He said he wanted to come visit me for Valentines Day. He gave me his number and ...

LDR advice please?. Because I need it. He's stressed out over his exams. He's not giving me the attention I need. He thinks it's not big deal..

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together going on two years, we're pretty serious about each other and are planning on moving in together after I finish my Foundation degree next year. We're both 18 and we've been in a long distance relationship for ...

I have a Major Crush on this 18 year old girl. Should I try to move on and forget these feelings or keep persisting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

22 January 2012 (M) - I'm almost 17. I fell in love with a girl who played in the opening band for my band a while back. I thought I was in love the first time I saw her. It felt like a movie scene for the night that I was with her. I found out a few days after talk...

Was this a just a fling on a cruise or is there something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

22 January 2012 (F) - I went on a cruise with an ex boyfriend and his friends. It was a couples thing and I guess his initial plan was to get me back during this vacation but he failed. He was being a complete jerk towards me the whole time and he kept starting petty ...

Is my penpal flirting with me or is it just my imagination?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

22 January 2012 (F) - I have a penpal and yesterday we were talking (we talk 6 hours everyday) and i am starting to fall in love with him but i am not so sure if he feels the same way about me (we will see each other in a couple of weeks in NYC). Yesterday, he ...

My self esteem is low. I have a huge crush on this guy. So how do I get over all my worries that he's seeing other girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

22 January 2012 (F) - Hey, I've had a thing with a guy for about two years, he's asked me to be his girlfriend, but I said no because he was leaving for college in another place soon. Also, I'm not good enough for him and I just don't want him to be stuck with me. ...

I miss him a lot. But 4 year age gap. Is he into me? Should I tell him? And if I so could it make a difference?

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22 January 2012 (F) - I've added this guy on my facebook a few years ago out of boredom but never talked to him because he lives in another country. So a few months ago he planned a visit to my country so we met up and I showed him around and we got along well. A...

Do I have a right to get mad and/or jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - Long story short, my boyfriend, who lives about an hour away, went to his schools winter formal. This morning, I see all these facebook posts about that night. It seemed like a lot of fun. Apparently he ground on some girl (he even said so in...

My boyfriend seems more interested in himself and his games than he is in me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - So, I'm 19 and I have my first boyfriend of all time. I'm excited, I adore him, I find him to be the sweetest boy I've ever met... unfortunately, this is a long distance relationship. We have to communicate over skype more often than anything. W...

How can I regain his trust after what I did to test him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - this one,i would like then men to answer me.i'm feeling extremely low right now. i did somethig horrible to my goyfriend of 2 yrs.i tested him from a fake ID i created on facebook.it turned out to be totally dumb because the profile looked obviousl...

Am I moving too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of only 3 months emigrated to Australia on a working holiday visa today. Before I had even met him I'd planned on going myself with a group of friends in September. Now Im thinking that I hate being away from him and I'll go over ...

Can our relationship survive the distance and years apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - So, there's this girl. She is almost seventeen, finishing high school, and I am 18 in first year engineering. We've been casual friends for close to 2 years now. Except 5 months ago, we somehow ended up in a relationship, and turns out, we really ...

I still have feelings for my ex but I need to move on!

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20 January 2012 (F) - I was in a LDR for 3 years and we were perfect for each other...I love him!! This exact time was when I saw him physically last I went to see him on the 20th and came home first week into february but when I left things changed and he became in...

Why isn't a man ready to commit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

19 January 2012 (F) - I wouldn't have problem with that at all if I was living close to the one I love, but I'm not. We're a 12hr flight apart (he's from the USA and I'm from Europe) and it's not very easy to deal with the distance. We have been together for a year and a ...

Boyfriend contacts suicidal ex-girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

19 January 2012 (F) - Long story short: my boyfriend regularly contacts his suicidal ex-girlfriend to make sure she is not going to kill herself and he lied to me about this contact for a long time because he didn't think I would understand and it hurts him to talk ...

He's gone hot and cold on me should I give him time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4480 days ago

18 January 2012 (?) - Hi. I met this guy online and he's travelled miles to come to study in the country I'm in. He first visited the capital city and is going to join and course there in Feb. Now, he's moved down south where he found this temp job. We went out on ...

Why won't he put me first?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

18 January 2012 (M) - I'm a 25 year old gay male (if you hate me already, please move on and don't leave me mean messages!). I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. He is two years younger than I am. We fell in love at first sight and it was amazing and still is ...

What is it like dating a policeman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

17 January 2012 (F) - I live in Southern California, and went to visit some friends in Las Vegas. While I was there I hit it off with a guy there who was hanging out with his friends who are also my friends. We exchanged numbers before I went home and we've been talking ...

How can we overcome conflicting schedules?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

17 January 2012 (M) - I do not want us to fade. Basically, me and my gf, who lives 1hr 30mins away from me have been dating for over a year, we chat all the time, calls last 2hrs a night. We meet every fortnight and dedicate/spend the whole day with each other 10hrs...

He rings me every day but I'm getting mixed signals

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

17 January 2012 (F) - A guy friend of mine and I live far apart and have only met a couple of times. Initially, he was into me as a girlfriend, but I was on the fence about it (because we don't know one another very well in a physical space) and he had other issues that ...

She seemed eager to meet but there has been no contact in two days

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4482 days ago

17 January 2012 (M) - Hi, I met a girl two months ago and for the first month we saw each other and stayed together for a few days maybe a whole week in total time. Then the following month I haven't seen her as she was busy over the holidays with family like we all are ...

He's a good guy. So how much give and take is reasonable in my LDR FWB ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

16 January 2012 (F) - I just have a bit of a problem and would like some insight if possible! Thank you in advance. I have been I guess "casually dating" this guy for a couple months now. Whatever we actually are,we are not exclusive as far as I am aware. We have very...

Between two guys, shall I tell the one near NYC how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

15 January 2012 (F) - The thing is i have two penpals. Yeah, two. They are both american (same as me) but i am actually living in Perú. I have been writing to the first one 4 months ago everyday (6 hours each day) and i felt i was falling in love with him until i met my ...

Should I move to be near the new guy? I'm getting nervous about my ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

15 January 2012 (F) - So the guy I been talkin to since june, I finally went and met him in person for the first time in december. I thought it was goin to be super awkward and I was so nervous. But actually it wasnt awkward at all and for the first time I felt like I ...

My parents don't want me talking to him...Can I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4484 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - Im a 17 year old girl from london...Ok so here it goes...November 7th 2010 i met a guy who is from America, California...he was here in london for a holiday on his own...so we exchanged emails and numbers..he went home and emailed me right away..we ...

Feeling useless being in a long distance relationship with an emotional girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

13 January 2012 (M) - I'm having a long term relationship with an emotional girl for about 1 month. she is very emotional and feeling depressed all the time. we are in love, deeply. because we are living in different countries so I have no idea how to help her. but ...

So what is this? Is he just stringing me along until he finds something better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

12 January 2012 (F) - Hi there. I'm very confused about my relationship to say the least. I've been with a guy for about 2 1/2 years. We had an amazing relationship. He loved me with all his heart. And I loved him with all of mine. I gave my virginity to him last year ...

Long distance phone sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

11 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are long distance and recently he's been saying he wants to hear me come over the phone. The problem is I feel silly, I'm not a kid but I get the giggles and when we do do this I want it to be amazing - I want him to be thinki...

Did I wreck a chance at a third date?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

11 January 2012 (?) - I met this guy online and after a couple of months he flew to see me. On our first real meeting he brought a friend and all three of us had drinks. He covered my portion of the bill. The second time I met up with him over coffee, I paid although ...

Should I end my long term, long distance relationship? Its been 3 years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

11 January 2012 (M) - Hi All Ive been in a Long Distance Relationship for 3 years now, its not as extreme as some, we are just over 3 hours apart, and spend friday to sunday together every week without fail. All our holidays are used to spend extra time together. ...

We had something but he has a girlfriend. How can we remain friends but set clear boundaries?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

11 January 2012 (F) - I'm very confused. There's a guy I met who's in an long distance, long term relationship with his girlfriend. We live far away, but will live near one another in a few months time. After we first met, he pursued me heavily, despite his girl...

Living & Sleeping situation is complicated... we want to spend more time together but the distance is a problem. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

11 January 2012 (F) - Sleeping arrangements and Living situations? So my boyfriend and I have been together for about six months but known each other for about a year and a half. Our relationship is solid and we see each other every day, we are at the stage where we...

My boyfriend is moving away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4488 days ago

10 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is moving away in about 6 months to his hometown and he is moving later on to another continent for his job. I really wanna go with him but i cannot travel because of lack of documents. There is two options, one is a very long process ...

Boyfriend can't say 'I love you.'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4489 days ago

9 January 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We are both in our mid 20s. He has never had another girlfriend because he was living with his family until he finished college, who are very religious and didn't allow him to date. I knew all this going ...

I don't want to mess things up but I think he has gone to far with this comment to another woman....what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

9 January 2012 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend is quite a private person or so i thought esp in facebook, we have been in relationship for 13months now,few months ago i found he skyped a woman and in there conversation ,she asked wht he was doing and he replied,nothing,horny in ...

Boy troubles! Do I tell the boy at school to get lost? And is there hope for me with the 19 year boy in the army? I like the army guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

9 January 2012 (F) - Mod Note: two adjacent questions from same poster have been combined. I'm a freshman in high school and I'm having major "relationship" problems with this senior boy. I don't even know what's going on between us. The other day I was walking in the h...

I like him but he's leaving! Do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

9 January 2012 (F) - I have this guy that I have known for like over three years. And he left for varsity, and the other night we saw each other like bumped into each other and kind of clicked. Anyway we exchanged number and 20 mins later he asked what I was doing the ...