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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

LDR boyfriend is coming, there will be lots of sex but thats not what I want

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf and myself stay in separate places like 8 hrs drive from each other. He visits me like 2 months once , but lately he is very moody and not talking to me much in phone and is getting very irriated very often even for small things...

At what point in a relationship do you say I love you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I have been in an LDR for two years. I have met my boyfriend this past year. He treated me so adoringly I began to feel very nervous. It was almost like I was watching him fall in love with me. We have never said I love you to each other, but ...

My FWB is dating someone else, but still wants sex with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

30 August 2011 (?) - We had a friends with benefits type thing for a while. He said it was because we live too far apart and I accepted that. Now he's dating a girl who lives near him but still wants to sleep with me. He calls me "hot" etc I feel ugly :( I'm not easy a...

I feel so jealous and insecure when he looks at other girls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Hey So my boyfriend lives a long way away and he travels up to see me every weekend nearly, and im so in love with him. there was one night at the pub when this girl he knew came in with his step sister, and he'd had alot to drink but he jus...

Met him while on vacation -- should I try to contact him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - So I just got back from a vacation and I don't know what my next move should be. I'm going to try and keep this short but this is all the relevant information. I met this guy the second day I was there (I was there for a week). He was really n...

My boyfriend seems distant, and a new guy is interested in me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Well im dating this guy i met through my best friend he is her cousin. he lives 8 hours away from me but we both were content on making it work. he has made me pretty much fall for him by saying the sweetest things. then out of no where he ...

Traveling girlfriend's lazy communication is making me nervous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has gone traveling for 6 weeks to central America.We have been seeing each other for 4 months in what has been a whirlwind romance, we have both declared our love and said that we would be faithful. All was well sending emails, ...

Can a person really be too busy for the one that they love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about a month, we have a long distance relationship on opposite sides of the country and its really difficult. He told me that he loved me very quickly and said that he will wait for me and try to visit me again asap. ...

Its hard to fix a problem when we can't talk about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Me and my man have been together for 8 years. I've been posting different questions/problems to figure out some sort of clarity on what I need to do. He has 3 kids I have 2. Currently we live long distance. We have a huge communication problem. ...

How can I make my LDR boyfriend be madly in love with me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - So i'm in a recent LDR and my boyfriend will be going away for only a total of 6 months (and he'll be visiting for 3 weeks at christmas) and we have an amazing connection and want to make things work. We've had to be LDR before (we actually met...

He doesn't seem to accept any share of the responsibility for our communication issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hey guys, hope you can help me out. I'm involved in a LDR with a man who lives 5 hours away, we love each other very much but have recently been going through a bad patch. Me and him are pretty much opposites, so we don't always understand ...

Now that he's got new friends, he's not talking to me enough!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Okay so let me start this off by saying for the last few years my boyfriend hasn't really had any friends, and has basically only had me to hang out with. Anyway, he moved away for school a few days ago and is having a great time with all his new...

He never calls, Accuses me of things. should I break-up with him for good or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi! i have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months its a long distance relationship. At first things were ok,he would call every day and now our relationship is on and off. i ended up breaking up with him for a week and we got back together, since we...

How can I tell him? Have I lost him forever? Or could I make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - So there's this guy i feel in love with. We went to high school together we both recently graduated in may. He left to go to another state for college. There was no time nor room for a relationship. I don't think he wants to do a long distant ...

The one that got away. Did he care? What could I do to get him back, if ever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - So I’m sure we all have a story about someone we loved and it didn’t happen or wasn’t meant to be for circumstances beyond our control but for me, I messed up a good thing completely. So it’s the same old story girl meets boy, girl likes boy like...

His communication sometimes is tardy. Am I expecting too much from my LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have a long distance relationship. we see each other maybe once every few weeks. for the most part we text or skype sometimes. But seems like every time he is with his friends he takes hours to reply or sometimes doesn't even...

Are we both too proud? Why am I like this? I never wanted to hurt him or to get hurt so easily

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I am 19. Seeing a now 35yr old man. We have been seeing each other for nearly two years. I secretly love him, and he has told me he loves me. But, he has gone away on bussiness and I miss him. We spoke to each other on Skype every morning and nigh...

Can you please help give me some clarity? Because I am drowning in all these relationship troubles.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Okay I have many issues with my relationship but I will bring up one at a time and see what we can figure out solutions. First off I am a 30 year old female in a 8 year relationship with someone who is 1 year older than me. He has 3 kids and I ha...

My Family or my Bf? I am worried that the choice I make will ruin my other relationship(s

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I need someone else's opinion. My friends/family and fiance seem to be biased for obvious reasons. Here's my deal: I am 19 and my fiance is 24. My fiance went into the Air Force after 1 year of dating. Our relationship was great and he had to join ...

I enjoy having sex with my male cousin. Should I be so scared about others finding out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - Hi everybody, this is me confessing something I would never tell anyone. While I wish I can write more in details about it, I'm making it short. This is also a gay thing, so if you are not comfortable about it don't read further. I am not very ...

My girlfriend has gone away to college, I'm scared she will cheat with her guy friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has just gone off to college and we are taking a small break since we will both be at college for some time. We still love each other but when she was leaving she was so excited to go to college that she didn't seem like she would miss ...

My girlfriend has gone away to college and I miss her so much. How can I fill this void?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Yesterday my girlfriend of over 2 years left for college. I had a very hard time letting go. Since I'm also going to college in a week we decided to take a break, but our relationship is by no means over and we still love each other so much. Which ...

I hate talking dirty with my boyfriend, but I feel I can't stop now that we've started.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4618 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - Okay, so. I've been in a long-distance relationship for a little over a year and I adore my boyfriend. Because of circumstances, we haven't met in person for a couple of years (since before we were together) and it's really not feasible that we ...

He's in jail for life, and he's telling me to cut contact. How can I deal with my strong feelings for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I'm in love with a man who is incarcerated. I met him through a pen pal service which asks for people on the outside, like myself to write to prisoners. To be on the safe side, I picked a man who was doing life without the possibility of p...

This long distance is killing me. What shall I do?? My friends say stay with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - hi... ive been in two serious relationships in this past year with two different guys... i was with a guy who i had a crush on for 4 yrs for 6 months and it was long distance because i moved to here three yrs ago. well me and him had a lot of trus...

Why is he pursuing me so relentlessly, despite my attitude? He has a partner already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I am currently involved with a long distance relationship/friendship that's puzzling. This person claims they are "in a relationship", yet has been pursuing me relentlessly. I have received flowers, money, clothing, letters, cards and other gift...

He has A Girlfriend. Why doesn't he see what happened was wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

25 August 2011 (?) - I used to be in a sort of "friends with benefits" with a guy i know who lives miles away from me. We knew each other from school and got back in touch over Facebook. It lasted a while then we didn't see each other for a few months and during that ...

I'm so insecure, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend incredibly so and we have been dating for 6months, its a long distance relationship and I have became really insecure, I tried to hide it from my boyfriend but I can't anymore. I don't understand why but he told me that this girl ...

Should I just quit my job to move to be with him? Or wait until February?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 August 2011 (?) - Had this friend for several years, always liked him, then last June we just hit it off and said we loved each other. We are made for each oter. We have the same interests, the same view on life, we have so much fun together... it's just, you know, ...

Nothing happened but my g/f doesn't trust me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4620 days ago

24 August 2011 (M) - I was single 6 months before going to college and decided I wasn't going to date anyone because it would be a waste of my time and I wasn't interested in anyone...then I met this girl who said she was probably going to the same college I was (the ...

Long distance relationship problem (USA / UK)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - I've been in an LDR with a guy for over a year now. He lives in the UK and it's getting harder and harder to cope with him being so far away. He's come to see me a couple of times, and I was going to go visit him but it was bad timing. He's a...

Long distance and age gap relationship forced to end because of pressure from his family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship with a lebanese guy for over 2 yrs. met on a dating site for age gap relationships (hes 25, im 43). after a few weeks, we were inseparable. hes christian and im from the uk. leb society doesnt accept unusual relationships, ...

Conversation with my boyfriend is difficult

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend just left me for England last week. Since he got home, we have just talked to each other twice but both of our conversations were very boring! When i talk to my friends on phone or skype, we always have so many things to talk about ...

Just how crazy would it be to go see her at her next destination?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

22 August 2011 (M) - So, I met this girl a couple of weeks back. She was in my country on vacation and we spent a week together. We connected in a big way and enjoyed each others company a lot. From here she went on to travel the world for a few more months before ...

Long Distance has affected our relationship. Is a temporary separation the way to go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years now. Last year I went to college and she stayed back home in high school which was very tough, but we managed to get through it. Right now we are both getting ready to go to college, but we have...

He wants me to allow a violent friend to rent the room in my house. How do I say no to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - I am 50 with him 12 yrs. i do not work and we rent out a room . he is always gone he says to make extra money so why do i put up with people in my home . i dont have anything with him i feel so very bad. yes i do look for work. he says he loves me i...

I think about him all the time. can I really stay in love with someone so far away and who cannot speak my language?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - I go on holiday every year to the same place as me and my family have friends over there. This year when we was with the friends i met someone who was related to the friend and we all had a good time. The guy liked me from the start and towards the ...

I need to hear the truth. Should I persist with him or am I being too hasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - I'm 19 and I'm in a long distance relationship. I haven't had much experience before this relationship. My previous relationship (my first bf) lasted 2 months and was long distance as well. My current LDR has been going on for 2 years. He lives one ...

We live 100 miles apart and don't see each other much. Should I end things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

19 August 2011 (F) - I'm an almost 60 y/o woman who is dating a 45 y/o man. We live 100 miles apart an at present we don't see each other very often. Should i end the relationship or just hang in there until we can be together? ...

If suspicion does come from guilt....does that mean shes up to something behind my back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

18 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of 10 months is quite a strange character, in a good way mainly as I like individuality, but some things do bother me... She won't meet me near her work in case a colleague sees us as she says she doesn't want everyone knowing...

Our friendship is heating-up but can we ride this tiger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

18 August 2011 (?) - A couple of years ago, I met this lovely woman from another country at a conference for a shared interest (in yet another country). We got on really well, and afterwards be-friended one another on Facebook, and stayed in touch irregularly, but with ...

What are the chances of this working out even if we both try our best? Should I even try?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

18 August 2011 (F) - I was living with my boyfriend for 18 months. We had a good, loving relationship and enjoyed each other’s company. He left because his child from previous marriage changed schools and the ex who had remarried and was pregnant again told him the ...

How could a friend reject me for this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

17 August 2011 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for about 7 years. We met through work and became very good long distance friends. We have only been together in person about 10 times in those 7 years. We do however talk a lot on the phone or via email. I made ...

I love my girlfriend but she makes no effort with sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

16 August 2011 (M) - Hi, I've been in a long distance relationship for about 2,5 years now (we are both in our early 20s). We see each other about 2-3 times a month. Everything is great (aside from the long distance part and the fact that this won't be changing anytime ...

I'm finally meeting in person a girl I met online. She seems nervous and shy. How do I make it easier for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

14 August 2011 (M) - Hi, I met this girl online on a non-dating site. We've been sending each other PM's for a while, I found out that we were from the same city and share a lot of interests. We decided to meet each other on August 18 and here's the thing: she seems...

He seemed too good to be true and I don't want to lose him. But he hasn't contacted me since. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - Last night I was standing outside of the bar and a very attractive guy approached my (guy) friend and me looking for a lighter. We both pulled out a lighter but I told him that he should take mine because it was lucky- and he did. After talking to h...

How do you keep a relationship alive when you can't see each other for a long time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

13 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is leaving for the air force in November and we have every intention of staying together, but I know it will be hard. We're already doing a long distance relationship and it's going very, very well, but that's about five hours apart ...

For a year and a half he told me he loved me and begged me to move in. Now's he's dumped me. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

13 August 2011 (F) - How do you get over someone you love? It just seems so impossible at this point. I've been in a long distance relationship on and off for about a year and a half! I've never met him in person.(And were only 5 hours away from each other. I know ...

Why do people cheat? why be unfaithful? what's the payoff to be the "other woman"?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

13 August 2011 (F) - I have a question for all the unfaithful and the homewreckers. Why did you cheat!?!? Or help someone cheat!?!? I see so many questions about cheating..and they're the cheaters!! Doesn't anyone know cheating is wrong? And the only acceptab...

How can I trust my bf again after his various lies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - Thanks for everyone that has answered here on the past. Me and my bf used to have a strong love connection at first and we are in a LDR, it was until this Feb / March that everything changed, he used to have a crush on this girl before we starte...