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writes:Well i met this amazing girl online we started a relationship 7 monthes ago. Well anyway everything was going great she would tell me that she would give her life to me and i would always tell her the same.Like for example i told her i was ready to start a life with her but current to long distant relationship made it hard.I knew it was a matter of time that she was going to run out of patience, i always told her that i was also impatient to meet her in person.She would always tell me i love you and i tell her the same.But lately we talked less and we almost had like nothing to say to each other. But i was feeling unsure of myself i didn't know if she was cheating on me, but then again it was long distant relationship, although she told me she don't do that, like have two guys at once. I believed her, until that day she was really pissed at me cuz she had found out that i was spying on her. All of a sudden we take the conversation on msn, then i told her that we need a brake, meaning like stay apart for a while till things cooldown.I can't stop thinking about her she's the one for me -the one i hope to start a life with.Can anyone plz tell me what do i do. Do i take a break without seeing her? By the way, the day after, my best friend broke up with his girlfriend also, saying that he was looking for someone else, of course my gut feeling tells me that he might go after my girl. I just don't know what to do anymore... I mean this girl has even shared her darkest secret with me as i for her, so like i said before do i take a brake to see if she calls or im's me?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 You are welcome. I am glad and happy for you. The sky is bright and the sun is shining again. Take good care of her .
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe called me on the phone crying she said "i can't take it anymore i'll wait forever for you i just want thing to be back the way they were" i'm so happy now thnx for the advice! ^_^
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey it's me again talking but it don't seem to me that she doesen't wanna brake up. she even told me "i'm not expecting you to come and visit me it would be awsome but not expecting me too". And she even told me that "it's hard to be in a long distant relationship..but we will be back together anyways.." is what she said i'm willing to risk it all for her i'm currently looking for a job to save up and eventually visit her.. but i don't know what she meant by those my heart was telling me that there's a deeper purpose within those words.. can someone give me hint to what she meant?
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (30 March 2008):
You should apologize to her and move on .
Taking a break may chill your relationship if the break becomes too long.
Make up to her and say nice things to her .
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