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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Was he jealous about me keeping in touch with this other guy he knows?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I've being friends long distance more like a crush kinda thing with this guy I met 2 years ago in a meeting. He's military and in duty while I met him. We exchange emails and phone calls, well phone calls recently. When he was here in his duty there ...

Can we make it until the end?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 356 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - I am a third year college student studying in singapore. I been in love with this girl back home in india for about 2 years now. We got into the relationship knowing its going to be like this for quite a while (6 years totally, 3 years of education ...

How do you break off a LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - How do you end a long distance relationship. We have been going out for over a year and she moved 3 month ago. She visits frequently (once a month), but do I end it now like over the internet or in person when she comes to visit. One is imperso...

How should I handle not being able to see her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Ok, I met a girl online and we have been talking for a while, and its been heavy flirting both ways. I'm pretty sure in a few weeks I'll be able to move to considering asking her to be my girlfriend. Although, I have never met her in person, we plan ...

How Do I Convince Him????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (?) - Okay, here goes...I'm used to doing the answering, but I am feeling troubled right now, and there are so many wise Aunts out there, I've decided to reach out... I am in a LDR, very long 3,000 miles. We have visited each other and fallen in love. I...

My boyfriend works abroad and it is getting hard to make this work, I don't trust him anymore and I don't know what to think. Is he fooling me around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 360 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationshipe with a younger man for 4 years now and he has recently been seconded abroad to work during the week and coming back at weekends. This was supposed to be for 3 months but now this has extended to six months and I am ...

Should I wait until she returns from this "trip" to give her an ultimatum, me or him? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Basically I am seeing this girl (not officially my girlfriend) who has a boyfriend of 2 years who lives quite far away. She has told me that she has fallen in love with me, and I have fallen in love with her too. But she also says that she still ...

Am I being too hard hearted here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend so much and yet have never felt so confused as well. We have been in a long distance relationship for just over a year. He has gone from being the most attentive, affectionate and wonderful man who wanted to spend time just ...

Long Distance Depression? Confused...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I have a long distance Relationship. That was love at first sigh! Feelings i never had before and that on!, Now, We have 6 months of know, and 3 and a half living together, Now we are away of each other again. He loves me and i...

Is our relationship healthy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - ok well I'm 14 turning 15 on January 3rd...my bf is 15 turning 16 on December 2nd...we have been going out for about a year and three months now since August 28,2007 but i want to know if I'm in a healthy relationship...i mean he loves me for who ...

If I meant so much to him, why did he leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I am feeling terrible right now, possibly the worst I have ever felt. I am 27. I was going out with an amazing guy and he planned to go travelling before we got it together.I guess we were together about 6 mths but it was the best relationshi...

I'm feeling isolated and useless! I'm in the army, far from my very pregnant partner!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - hello everyone sorry for any spelling that may occor in this. first of all i think i need to explain my postision. i am a young man in the british army based in england and have a 8 mounth 3 weeks pregnant partner back home living with my parents as ...

I'm not sure about being intimate with my long distance guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hi, just need a bit of advice please if anyone can help. I met a guy on a chat site just over a year ago and have met each other twice since then. We live approximately 150 miles apart and both work shifts so meeting is quite a challenge. we talk ...

Long distance relationship... seeking advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - So here is a dandy. I met a girl on the net about a month ago. We met on a video chat website, and at first we just talked, you know the normal 'hi, how are ya's' But we quickly started sharing pictures and falling for each other. There is an ...

Is there something I can do to strengthen the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I love my guyfriend who's 18 years older than me. He is very nice to me and very mature which surprises me that he's not already in a relationship. He seems to like me a lot. Last time he hugged me it felt a little romantic. I've known him for a ...

Female advice wanted please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - So, I recently got back together with an ex-girlfriend. This has only been going for about a month though. We have been dating on and off for the past year and a half. In that time, she got back with her another ex-boyfriend for a very short period ...

I feel really unappreciated and feel he wants to control me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I have been with my bf for like 8 months now and it was a long distance relationship at first for a month and a half, he was in isolation and I was always there for him, emotionally since we were far apart and he told me he'll never forget the ...

I can't seem to get my dream Aussie out of my mind! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Ello all, i know this isnt one of you run of the mill questions but im just curious if this has happened to anyone else as its a first for me and has left me confused all day!! well its about a dream really, ill explain... this dream involved a man ...

Is it wrong for a 13 yr old to date a 19 yr old?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

23 November 2008 (?) - Is it wrong for a 13yo girl to be dating a 19yo guy that lives over seas? I love him to death, but i want other peoples point of view. No my parents dont know about him-im not supposed to date. I have been with some one that was 14....it didnt work ...

Why is he so different with her? Was I just nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Please help me. My life is in chaos. I met a man online six years ago and we wrote all of that time. Then we met and spent two weeks together to see how it would go. It went well (I thought.) and he promised to come and see me for the weekend in a ...

His HS girl friend is vacationing in Greece where he's going to school. Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 366 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Last week, my boyfriend of a year (who is studying abroad in Greece) and I had an argument about trust and such. Usually we set an appointed time to go on Skype to see each each other, and sometimes he doesn't show up. I was really angry at him, and ...

Is my long distance girlfriend just playing games and trying to hurt me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 360 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - I've been with a girl for almost 3 yrs, she was from spain, was studying and working over here. We got together and like any good relationship... it was good. However, she found it difficult after a while, didn't like the culture, found it difficult ...

How do I ask to have phone sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - i want to have phone sex but i think the guy always asks. how am i supposed to ask?...

Would it be a problem if I told him directly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - I am almost depressed because of being single for a long time. I had just 1 boyfriend in whole my life that we broke up 3 years ago. everybody agrees that I am beautiful, friendly and sociable. I have a lot of boys roaming around me and all of my ...

He said the distance is too much for him and wants to end it... I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 366 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - Hi, Ive got a little bit of a strange situation but I would be grateful for any advice. Just over a month ago I was introduced to this guy through a mutual friend and we got on so well that night and I ended up staying up to 3am talking to him. The ...

Losing extreme faith & trust in someone I thought I loved...what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - Recently I've been having trouble with someone I met online who I was meant to meet up with soon to get closer/get to know better. Mind you this little relationship spark is long distance, and anyone who has negative responses towards "online ...

Should I pursue this long distance relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - I am 24 years old girl. I have just met a guy during a trip. We have been together for 3 whole days with a lot of my friends. I got really interested in this guy. I have heard through my friends that he has a long distance relationship but he rarely ...

I went away to university and with the distance I start feeling confused about my feelings for my boyfriend since 5 years, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 279 days ago

21 November 2008 (F) - Dear Reader, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly five years now. But im 19 and just started university and things have suddenly taken a turn for the worse. I feel like I live a seperate life here and I really like the indepedence and freedom ...

I'm in love with a girl that has feelings for me but can't get over her first love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 368 days ago

21 November 2008 (M) - hey everybody.. I'll try to keep this simple.. but long story made short.. I'm in love with a girl that has feelings for me but can't get over her first love. She recently got back with him (for the 3rd time); not to mention has always been a lo...

How do you think he really feels about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 368 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - Trying to understand his feeling.. we dated 20 years ago and recently started seeing each other, but three hours away. I am currently separated. i have visited his home several times, when I’m there it is like I’m the most important person. He ...

Break up!! What to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - Hello everyone, I have had a long distance relation for 2 years now and I really love her! Now that she decided to break up, I am really down and desperate. Unfortunately I commited begging to her to come back and I seemed really desperate ...

He lives in another country... but I want to date NOW!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - Hey everyone I'll say sorry for the length now but I really really need someones help I have the most amazing boyfriend, He understands me, makes me laugh, and truely cares about me. And I love him more then air more then anyone in the world. T...

Long distance relationship - I'm afraid it's not going to last...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm curently in a long distance reletionship I love my bf but he lives 45 minutes away. I don't want to leave him and i hope it dosent come to that but im afraid I'm going to lose him because we only see each other for like a week or weekend ...

My long distance girlfriend hates my in town female best friend, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - Hello Cupid. I am currently in a long distance relationship. Everything is going well so far and I have no complaints. The one thing that is putting a stress on our relationship is an issue my girlfriend has with a very good friend of mine....

My long-distance girlfriend broke up with me, I realise I made mistakes but I miss her badly, should I contact or visit her on her birthday??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 369 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - Hello everyone, I am in a long distance relationship. She live sin Russia and We have been together for 2 years now. We really shared best moments and we really loved eachother. However, now taht it was time to make decisions about the future...

He keeps referencing being single and a bachelor while at the same time he wants to be with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hello ladies and gents both of your answers are very appreciated. Heres my story. I met a man back in 2001 I was 19 he was 21. Our relationship then was strictly sexual. I liked him alot and if I could choose who I wanted to be with/marry/have ...

Can a guy just be shy or is he avoiding being questioned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - What does it mean when a guy doesn't answer a question? - I really like this guy who stays in touch by phone with me as we live apart! - The thing is - he rarely shows any emotion and sometimes when I ask him something outright he just doesn't ...

Did I do something wrong to the potential love of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - Hi, I've been friends with this girl for 5 months who has a boyfriend. She moved from the east coast out here in the West to be with him for his new job. She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live tog...

We broke up as I moved away, should I tell him I still like him and how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I went out with this guy for about 3months and I had to break up with him cause I moved to another state but I still like him I keep in touch with him what should I do?and how should I tell him that I still like him...

What are some ways for me to please my BF without intercourse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm going to see my boyfriend soon (yay). I'm not ready to have intercourse yet, and I really dont want to do any oral/anal either. My bf doesn't have a problem with that, but I wanted to know other ways of ...

Does she truly love me or is she just obsessed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship with this girl for 2 years now. It is long distance, we dont see each other as often as we would like but we still have managed to stay together this long. Don't get me wrong we break up a lot because I believe it is the ...

When he goes to college we'll have an "open relationship" and I'm not crazy about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 373 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and he says that once he goes off to college (in about nine months), he wants an open relationship. I am definitely not for that but he told me that he wants to make sure I am the one for him ...

Should I discuss/consider asking her for a divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 358 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - First, Thank you in advance for your time an advice. I will try to provide as much background and relevant info as possible. - I was divorced from first wife after being together about 18 yrs (13 yrs married with two kids, now 15 and 11) - met cur...

Confused and wondering what is next!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - I am a 31 year old guy who has been in a steady relationship for 3 years with a woman who has a young daughter. I have grown close to her and especially the daughter.. The father is not involved in her life at all and never has been so she sees me ...

I'm so alone now my boyfriend is in prison.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

15 November 2008 (F) - Im 18 but am madly inlove with someone ive been with for 2 years. hes got the kindest heart but he lost his way a lil while back and was sent to prison. hes been in there for almost 6 months now and has a couple more months left. im not sure how...

I would like to take the relationship onto a physical level but all I ever get is a goodnight kiss.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

15 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I have been seeing a lovely guy for bout 2 months now but not had many dates cos of his work pattern - he works day and nite shifts. He is really lovely and we always end up having a good laugh and seem to like a lot of the same things. We met ...

I got drunk and I accused him unfairly and quite vulgarly of talking with other women...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

15 November 2008 (?) - I am writing this anonymously, because I feel like a fool. I got very drunk last night (alone) I was on this site for a couple of hours, after spending 2 hrs on the phone with my man (long distance relationship) we had a terrific conversation and ...

He says I'm spying on him and that I should trust him, but it's hard...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

15 November 2008 (F) - I had been in a LD for 4 years. I had never been able to trust my bf 'cause I always caught him a lie. First, it was his ex-gf, he would not stop calling her, then I found emails from dating websites, and now he is exchanging txt. messages with a ...

My girlfriend is getting married to someone else due to work permit! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

15 November 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I need help! I was going out with this girl for 5years. For the 5year we've been apart, me Africa and she USA. Recently her parents called me to visit them which i did in the evening, they told me their daughter is getting marrie...

Should I forget I ever met this girl and never speak to her again? Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

15 November 2008 (M) - Hi I have some major problems going on at the moment that i need opinions on. I've been going out with a girl for 2 years, its been quite a serious relationship and i do love her. At the moment she is out of the country and has been for 15 days, and...