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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I dont think its going to work out but he is my only friend!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 540 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Okay I have a big problem. I came over New Jersey on the train last night. It took me 3 and a half hours to get here to see my boyfriend. Besides coming here to see him I also came to go out and have some fun with him cuz ever since I moved to ...

Is he trying to tell me something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend in the last 3 months has stopped e-mailing me regularly, using the excuse that he's in a remote area with no signal or his e-mail expired---10 days to have it validated,and he doesn't seem to want to answer much of what I ask, what ...

What's going on in this guy's head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - Three months ago I moved away from my home town and away from a guy I liked there. We went out before I left but I couldn't find the courage to tell him how I felt only to then walk away, knowing I would be away for such a long time. Over the ...

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

He feels we are to far to have a LD relationsnhip. I disagree-I like this arrangement. How can I get things back on track with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 543 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - I have been in an on/off relationship for 4yrs. We live in different cities but this has suited me fine as I'm divorced with kids and at the moment don't want to get married again.I'm really relaxed with this guy and we get to see each other as ...

I can't go be with him in London and he can't come to me. Will we make this work or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for 1yr and nearly 6months. weve been very happy and have always spoke about our future. we was planning to move in together within the next year or two and also start a family but ...

He lives 200 km from me..any point in continuing this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - Hi really confused 19yr old. Met a boy new years eve (friend of an old friend) we kissed the whole night. Since then we spend most days talking and flirting online. But he lives 200km away in another city, is there any point in continuing it? thanks ...

Her counsellor told her to ditch me so that she could form relationships with guys who lived nearby!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend now for just over 4 months. We live both live in britian but about 4 hours on the train apart. I thought we were doing fine, a few bumps on the road mostly due to my girlfriends insecurity's. On my last visit ...

He moved back home and I am to join him--but I haven't heard from him in 4 days! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 537 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for 2 months, we've spent alot of time together, and got on so well. I've fallen for him big time. Thing is he's from another country, and has now gone home. I'm going to move over for a year to stay with a friend in 5 months. ...

We want to live together..we're both in different cities though. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I were discussing about living together. We currently live in two different cities about 1 1/2hrs drive apart. We spend a long time thinking whether I should move up or he should move down. If he moves down, I would be able to be ...

She met an older guy online and now she's got a one-way ticket to Russia, for Thursday! I am scared for..what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 549 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - Okay, I am at my wit's end here. Please please help! I am 18 years old and my best friend (let's call her "Laura") is making a huge mistake. Laura is 19 and I've known her my entire life. She's never done anything remotely rebellious or ...

I've moved into the big city with my boyfriend, he loves it here but I really miss my family! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 548 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - So i've been with my guy for years..we met in my home town where i grew up.When i graduated the two of us moved 5hrs away from there to the 'big city'. We both decided it wasn't for us but instead of moving back to my hometown we agreed to move to ...

After not seeing me for a while, my ld gf told me she doesn't feel the same. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 550 days ago

22 January 2007 (M) - What do I do? Im involved with this girl over a long distance relationship. We've never been togther at the same place for more then a week at a time but its now a year and 3 months and I never thought things were better. But after a painful ...

How can 2 people with such goodness together have such a geographical problem and get through it to be together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 549 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - I am a divorcee of 3 years now and just turned 50 this year. I met and have been seeing and much in love with a new significant for 8 months now. I live in NW Arkansas and he lives in S. Missouri. We are 96 miles apart but are weekend warriors to ...

long distance break up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - I have been having a long distance relationship now for aout 3 month. my question is one weekend i got a strange e-mail well i tried to call and i guess i called to much now he says he needs time to reaccess the relationship so i broke it off. I ...

At first things were great, but now it feels like I don't matter anymore. Why has he changed towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - i've been with my long distance boyfriend for over a year now. Dispite the distance, at first things were great. He made me feel so wanted and loved..which before was something I didn't think i'd ever feel.But now things seem to have changed so ...

We love each other but he works out of state and it's doing my head in!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) - Do people that seem to still love one another get divorced? There's no physical/emotional abuse to speak of, no alcoholisim or drugs, and no "omg..I just found out I'm gay". The problem is growing apart...and my husband works out of state. We ...

My bf was due back last month and has extended his studies abroad for 4 months w/ no explanation! I love him, but I feel I should move on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 550 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - I feel am loosing him. I have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years without seeing or meeting my boyfriend, who went abroad for further studies. We have been communicating everyday by phone,mail and text messages until the for the last...

I'm afraid that my long distance relationship with my boyfriend. Should I dump him before he dumps me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 555 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - my bf and i have been dating for about a year and a half before he left for further studies in the U.S. before he left we had no trust issues but now I am afraid the whole long distance thing wont work. I am in africa, he's miles away and i have to ...

My husband works away from home and we only see each other every 3 months! It is tearing us apart!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 555 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - Married 6 years. Lived together 1 1/2. My husband left our home state for a nursing job in Cal. 9 months ago. He rooms with 3 other guys there. He was coming home 6 days a month. He works there for the $$. Of course, I do not like this situation and ...

My LD gf doesn't want others to know we are going out. Is she playing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

14 January 2007 (M) - I have a long distance relationship and my girlfriend does not want to tell other people we know that we are going out, and is extremely flirty. I have never felt this way about someone before and I am worried that I am being played. She says she ...

My long-distance fiance is in Amsterdam and hung up when he heard my voice! What's going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 562 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we met in England. But my visa ran out so i had to come back home, he said he would come with me once he got his visa. Just before i left he proposed to me. It's been a month and a half since ...

I'm a woman in love with another woman. But she is denying her feelings. Where do I go from here

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

9 January 2007 (?) - I'm a 45 year old female in love with another female. She is married and loves her husband as a friend but say's she hasn't loved him for 6 years. She said she got married to get away from her step dad. We have been terrible flirts with each other ...

He lives on the other side of the world. I want to emigrate to be with him. Is this a good idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Heres a question for you the only guy I have ever really liked - I think he is my soulmate (if there is such a thing) lives on the other side of the world we usually see each other once a year either I go there or he comes here, but realistically ...

Met an attractive man at a party. He lives a fair distance away, but should I contact him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 560 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) - Thank you in advance to all who answer this. I broke up with my partner about a year ago. I went to visit friends last week and spotted an attractive man across a room. I noticed him but decided to leave the party anyway. He followed me outside. We ...

I want to move with him abroad but now am not sure if he's a cheater or a liar!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 566 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, i,m having a long distance relationship with a wonderful guy who i love dearly and am thinking of moving abroad to start a life with. Recentley i ve been getting parranoid that he has slept with someone else,as he started to ac...

I feel like he's only staying with me to spare my feelings... so should I break with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 5 years, and we've been long-distance that entire time - he is in the UK, I am in the US. In the beginning, we decided that the only way the relationship would work is if we planned at what point we would be ...

Is there any such thing as being too young for an long distance relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) - Is there any such thing as being too young for an LDR? I'm 18 years old, fresh college student, and I've recently become involved in a very very long distance relationship. I've waited a long time to be with this guy and now that I have something I ...

Away in Iraq, he grew tired of my constant need for re-assurance and ended it... where do I go from here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) - In april of this year I met a guy online who i got chatting to. It wasn't even remotely romantic to begin with and at the time was very into someone else. Usually if i logged off and cut the conversation short i would return to a message saying he ...

Should I be concerned that she never wants sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 567 days ago

5 January 2007 (M) - my girlfriend and i get aong great. she is wonderful. but she never wants to have sex and often refuses my advances. even when i try to rub her or kiss her she does not like it. we have a relationship that is long distance at time due to college. ...

My ld bf and his female friend hang out a lot - he even said her name when we were being intimate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 116 days ago

4 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has many female friends but one in particular worries me. I have always felt she would like more from him and recently they've been spending more time together and are in constant contact via text, myspace etc. Meanwhile my boyfriend ...

Is this a normal "guy thing" or does it mean he has 2nd thoughts has about our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 117 days ago

4 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years. I know he loves me but thats not the problem. We have a long distance relationship but we meet up regular, and talk everyday so thats not the problem either. The problem is he has mood...

He lives far away now and I feel we're growing apart. How can I show that I still love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - i have been with my bf for just over 2 years but recently he moved away because of work (temporarily). i will get to see him once a month, thats if im lucky- this is making me really depressed. it feels like hes on the other side of the world and ...

We cry all the time b/c we live 60 miles away and rarely see each other. Any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 555 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) - i have a girlfriend that i have not seen in almost a year, we talk a lot over the phone and have done since we last saw each other, the reason i have not seen her in nearly a year is ecause she lives 60 miles away, we love each other very much but ...

He lives far away from me. How on earth do I tell him my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 569 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - So to be blunt, how do you go about asking someone if they'd be willing to try a LDR? I met this guy two years ago (in person) and we had lots of fun hanging out, so we exchanged addresses and e-mails and all that, and for the past 1.5 years w...

I want to support him by moving with him but I don't want to lose the closeness I have with my parents. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 570 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) - I've been married for about a year now. I have a great marriage. I'm an only child and my parents live quite close to us. We're amazingly close. I talk to them arounnd 2-3 times a week and see them around twice a week. Now here comes a dilemma....

There is so much love and just no trust... can that part be fixed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (M) - I recently just cheated on my fiance. I love my ex fiance very much and i wish there was a way to tell her. I would never cheat on her. I proposed to her because i loved her, without realizing that love was only half of what is involved in a ...