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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

From the sounds of things is this still worth pursuing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - A couple of months ago, I met a guy via online dating and I have not felt this excited about someone in such a long time. I have been single for 3 years. In the early stages, we mentioned about the idea of meeting up and seeing what happens. He ...

Does it mean my LDR is over?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We talk about our future plans sometimes and decided to live together in Aug. He studies abroad and has a part-time job. He has to work almost every day so he can afford the rent and other ...

Why is it that he can afford this rent and living expenses now, when he said he couldn't when we moved in together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. He has been living with me for over 2 but he has always called it my place. He claimed he couldn't afford to split the rent ($1200/month) so instead contributed $300 a month plus we take turns ...

I intend to stay with my boyfriend no matter what. Is that the wisest decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My long distance boyfriend who I have known for eight months has recently began to take a long time responding to any messages that I send him. I asked him yesterday of why that is, and he said that normally he is doing multiple things on his ...

My head says the break up is the right thing, my heart is telling me no

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Basically, me and my boyfriend have just split up from a 2 year relationship, one of which has been long- distance as I am at university. I am 19 and he is 20. We're both absolutely devastated as we both still love each other and were also best f...

She does not want us to break up. Yet I feel doubtful all the time. What can I do? Because I want to get to know someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - I have been dating my first and only girlfriend for almost 4 years now. i am 21, shes a couple years older. for most of the time we've been together, about 1 and half years after we started dating, we've been in a long distance relationship, seeing ...

Does everything has to be "his way"? Is there anyway to get him to see reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, hoping to get some objective feedback. My partner and I have been together for three and a half years, but have been in a long distance relationship for the past 1 year and 8 months (approx) and we have a two year old son who live...

Should I believe that I'm a special girl and that he will wait for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I recently have been hanging out with a guy (i.e./ he skateboards/buses to my campus which is roughly 45 minutes away everyday this past week and we walk around and talk, he taught me how to skateboard, cuddle on couches watch mo...

I'm hurt that my boyfriend didn't get me anything for my birthday

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - I am with my boyfriend for almost a year now. I am happy being with him. The thing is...he didn't give me anything for my birthday. He simply said "happy birthday babe." We are in a long distance relationship but I came home for my birthday....I was ...

I started feeling insecure after I heard my boyfriend telling his friend that another girl is stunning.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year now. He and I have long distance relationship 'cuz he is studying abroad but we have been pretty good friends since young. About three months after we became couples, he let me check into his ...

He has a close, touchy female friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship. we've been apart for almost two years and plan to see each other and live together soon this year.he studies and works abroad. he has a very close female friend who is his co-worker too. the ...

Girlfriend still has 'feelings' for her ex. Is this normal? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) - Hi everyone. Please can you give me some advice. I have been with my GF for about 3 mnths. She is from Italy and has gone home there for a month. we spoke on skype and she told me that she had seen her ex at the weekend. she then told me that...

A classic case of miscommunication, hurt male pride, and immaturity LDR

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Background information: He and I met on the internet when I was 13 and he was 14. He lives in London and I live in Tennessee. The last time I was there in August(2012) things changed between us and we decided to try a long distance relationship ...

The relationship was impossible, how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - How can I get over an impossible relationship? I met a guy during a trip a couple years ago. We added each other on Facebook. We sometimes chatted, and got along well, but it didn't go past that because of the distance. However, a few months ago...

'm in love with my best friend and get jealous when she dates other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

21 April 2013 (M) - Hey I don't know if anyone can help me, but I'm feeling a lot of stuff and just want to get it out. So, here's the situation. I recently fell in love with my best friend, and don't really know how to handle it. Especially considering the ...

Am I blowing this out of proportion? Should I confront him? He's my LDR and claims he forgets to text as he's "busy". But never explains what that means.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid May be i'm blowing this out of proportion? I wanted to write here and check before i fight with my bf (of 3 yrs). My bf works in a different city, few days he stays with his friends and few days he stays here with me. I ask him t...

I pushed her away in the past, but now we've rekindled the spark, but we are both married and not sure how to proceed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - This is hard to share. I met the love of my life (I'll call her Jane) in High School. It sounds typical, but it's true. We dated for three years, and it was love from the very first moment. Those three years were the best of my life. The feelings...

When will I feel ready to go out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - Hi. My and my girlfriend of three years recently broke up about 3 weeks ago. For the past two weeks, we've had no contact. She was one of my best friends (my bestfriend before the relationship even started) who I confided in about everything. B/c of ...

I hesitate to move to his location because I question his commitment to our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - Dear all, I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. (I am 28 yrs old and he's 38) It's only an hour flight so we have been seeing each other like twice a month the past four months. I recently lost my job - my contract was not ren...

Any ideas why he's so changeable when we are apart? It's great when we are together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - Hi, Me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship t the moment and hope to move in together soon. But its been very difficult. He hates emailing, calling and texting in general as it is but does make the effort to stay in contact of...

What's the best solution? My LDR who lives in another country? Or the new guy who wants to see me again later this year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - i have a long distance relationship, my boyfriend (A) is in one country and I am in another country, One time, I met my past puppy Love,(B) and we felt the love between us again. I'm realy in love with him. And I can feel that he is too much in ...

Despite knowing about my Bf's past, now it's haunting me. How can better cope with my feelings about his past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - Hi..I have this really nice warm loving soul as my bf. We have been together for over an year now and the later six months (till date) has been a long distance. The issue is we made a mistake of discussing his past in detail. Well he trusted me...

Will my husband eventually resent me if he moves back to a small town rather than living abroad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4026 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I got married a few months ago and I'm now in a long distance marriage with husband working and living abroad. Since I work the weekend, it's pretty hard for us to meet and lately we've only managed to meet for a week a month- which is...

How do I tell my ldr b/f to go home and come back in a few days because of my studies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4027 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - been with the boyfriend 2+ years, have been long distance in the past couple of months whilst i finish my studies. however he is coming up for an event the day i hand my last piece of coursework in. however he has got a work meeting that means he is ...

B/f lied to me and said he wasn't a virgin when he was. Will he want to date others since I'm his first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

15 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone and thanks in advance for your responses. I have a boyfriend whom I dearly love and I believe he feels the same way. We have been together for almost 3 years and we often discuss a future together - marriage, kids, where to live et...

Is my long distance relationship essentially over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

14 April 2013 (F) - Me and my (maybe, probably, I don't even know) ex are both 35 yo females in an LDR. Very very long distance, like 10000 miles. I was meant to visit her but recently I've been diagnosed with a very serious anxiety disorder so I'm unable to. She c...

Our marriage is on the brink. How can I understand my husband and his actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

14 April 2013 (F) - A year and a half ago I would have said I had the best marriage ever. Three great kids, a devoted husband and good father for our kids. So much so much can change so quickly. It started with a move. Husband took a job transfer and the...

Slept with him before I discovered he was in a LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

14 April 2013 (F) - My problem is that I slept with a guy a few times before he told me he has been in a long distance relationship for 2 years. He keeps telling me he really likes me though. The problem is I really like him too. I know I wouldn't ever be able to ...

Still love him but he's leaving soon

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3667 days ago

13 April 2013 (F) - A guy broke my heart but i was still in love with him .His friend told me to stay away from him cuz he doesnt know what he's looking for. Soon, he started telling me he loves. i was surprised but the problem is i'll not be seeing him again cuz he'll ...

We can never see each other because my boyfriend is always in trouble!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

13 April 2013 (F) - I just wanna know what's the point of being in a relationship if we can't see each other. Me and my boyfriend been going out for 9 months and he's 16 and I'm 17. He's always on punishment and getting his phone taken, he lives with his dad and he's ...

She said she loves me but I think she doesn't understand me and I m thinking to leave

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

13 April 2013 (M) - I'm in a relationship with a gf i really love from 3 years. At the beginning everything was amazing,now i'm having real troubles. I m not working for 4 months,i have bills to pay and not enough money (unfortunately my dad passed away last year and i ...

Any advice to stop me feeling this jealous? My LDR Gf is seeking out other friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4031 days ago

12 April 2013 (M) - I'm my long distance girlfriend's first ever friend and boyfriend, and she says I'm the only one who really understands her. Still, she is seeking more friends, and this is making me feel extraordinarily jealous. I think it's because she has ...

My boyfriend blew me off to hang out at a strip club

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

12 April 2013 (F) - Well.. Simply put. I'm leaving to go back home tomorrow and I'll be gone for a few weeks. Our friends are in town though and I wanted him to get some time with them so I said he could go out, and he promised to be home by 10 at the latest so we ...

Feeling disconnected from my LDR

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - I'm engaged and in college, it's somewhat of a long distance relationship though. I moved away for university, and he's doing the same. I was very scared about the distance, I know they hardly ever work out. Well lately I've been feeling very ...

How do I get over my shyness and talking openly about sex with my b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F) - I'm a virgin and very inexperienced. I'm also in a long distance relationship and me and my boyfriend have done everything but sex, and its great in person, but we aren't going to be together for at least 5 months and I have trouble talking about ...

Her roomate boyfriend is taking his male friend to see my ld girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

8 April 2013 (M) - Im in a one year ldr. my girlfriend just moved from her parents place and now she is sharing an apartment close to her campus with another girl. when her roomate boyfriend goes to see her, he comes along with his buddy. They talk and have drinks. ...

If she liked me so much, why haven't I heard anything from her? Why hasn't she replied??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

6 April 2013 (M) - I recently met a girl and she seemed really into me. She was constantly coming into my place of work and speaking to me whenever she had the chance. On one occasion a friend of hers had to physically drag her out and away from me! My boss was cons...

My fiance seems to have no goals or ambition

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - I'm 24 and my fiance just turned 30. He lives at home with his parents, going to community college for the last 10 years now trying to get his bachelors, and has no work or real relationship experience. His 'income' comes from his parents by working ...

How do I deal with my crazy MIL?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F) - My husband 34 in the military while he was gone I stayed with my parents with our 2 kids and pregnant for help cause I don't want to be pregnant and alone. He wanted all his mails to go to his parents house he don't want to change his address ...

My long distance boyfriend is asking me to send him pictures of my private bits. Why does he need them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1827 days ago

3 April 2013 (F) - Hello. I am a female in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend lives in another country. We still haven't med in person..but have communicated by email, telephone, text message and video and video messaging that he's sent me. This has been going ...

Why am I fantasising about this other guy, who isn't even my type?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F) - Hello, I have a boyfriend of nearly four years who i love. At the moment we are in a long distance relationship but can see each other rougly once a month (our jobs are long hours and mixed shifts) so its hard to see each other, but we call each...

BF hot and cold in the space of two weeks because of one night- what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

2 April 2013 (F) - My bf is hot and cold with me and now he wants time "think and get his head straight" I have been in a relationship with my bf for a year now. We are long distance but spent the first 4 months together. At christmas he dumped me saying the dista...

What can or should I do? I am in love with my best friend. BUT she has a boyfriend. Should I just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 April 2013 (M) - i am in love with my bestfriend but she has a boyfriend we had been close friends since we were in college when we are in our first yr she said to me that she loved me but at that time i cant love her back because i have already have a girlfrien...

He's confused me. Should I be concerned? He tells me he likes me, but he doesn't really act much on it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 April 2013 (F) - I met this guy through friends years ago but he lived in a different state. He recently moved to my town and we connected through facebook and started going out on dates. The first time we went out he tried to kiss me but I backed away and ...

Help for my distant girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

2 April 2013 (M) - Alright well my girlfriend and i have been going out for about a month and a half, any time we want to do somthing, i need to ask her and she never seems interseted to talk to me and never makes the effort to call me or message me on FB. I need help ...

She thinks that the guy has to make all the effort

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

1 April 2013 (M) - so i've been with my girlfriend for 4 months and we have a long distance relationship and its a strong one but the problem is that i have put so much effort to make it work and she has only put a few and she believes that in all relationships the ...