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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

My ex and I are talking again but my friend's mad because he likes her too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I have a problem concerning my ex girlfriend and my used to be friend. My ex and I are planning on getting back together. It would be a long distance relationship (100 miles) Well my ex gf still claimes she loves me after over a year now. She w...

How can he love me but not want to work things out??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I'm 19 and he's 22, we've been together 9 months. 2 months ago, he took a job offer in his hometown. Now I'm in NC (school, working and living at home) and he's in PA (working and living with his parents). He took the job up there b/c he likes th...

I feel like I am emotionally cheating on my long distance lover...but I can't cut this other man out of my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - My story has taken me across the world, but yet a part of me could never leave home. Three years ago, while traveling in China I met him. Newly single, and out of the safeness of my own surroundings he seemed to bring security and grounding to my ...

We both love each other, but is love enough? I'm worried about jobs.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - I Have a long distance realtionship. We both love eacho ther. I'm crazy for him and i'm sure he does too. The only problem is that he has a better chances for the future for good jobs. For me i may just be working out in a supermarket again. One ...

He said he hated cheatings but cheated himself! What to do about our long distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - Ive been with him a very long time (over 2 years) he used to tell me that he hated cheats and lies i thought i could always trust him, its a long distant relasionship. I love him but it hurts, recently i found out he cheated. He says it was a ...

He has bad migrains for which doctors could not provide efficient treatment - our relation has deteriorated due to his irascibility, please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Please help! I'm 21 years old in my last year of uni and my 24 year old boyfriend of 8 months has recently started work in the city. Although we have a long distance relationship we see each other roughly every 6 weeks for a couple of ...

I went abroad for my further studies, now I am having difficulties in trusting my gf, especially her good friend that is pursuing her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

24 February 2008 (M) - I have been in a serious relation for 4 years.During the 3rd year one common friend started coming very close to my gf.She started staying with him more than me on a few occassions, but eventually was with me 90% of the times.Still that made me ...

I'm 16 and I'm pregnant by a 13 yr old. Can I be charged with rape?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - (i live in New York) If I am a 16 year old girl and I got pregnant by a 13 year old while I was drunk and I wanted to keep the baby could I be charged with rape? Also, if his family wanted me to keep the baby and live in their house with them and ...

I'm 15 and pregnant. Could I legally move in with my boyfriends family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - I am 15 years old and I ranaway and I got pregnant while I ranaway. And neither of my parents like my 16 year old boyfriend. And his parents like me and would let me move in with them, but he lives two hours away from me. Do you think I could move ...

My friends say he will let me down again. Was I wrong to give him a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship with this guy we'll call him H. We met a week before he went to uni 5 hours away from where i live but carried on speaking on msn everynight- webcamming, video calling etc. He was due home for christmas in which ...

I really need so big time help on this one guys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

22 February 2008 (M) - Ok well it all started when in met a girl on the net, and we have got to make it as fars as bf and gf as we as now seeing each other. Ok we are quite a distance from each other. She lives in West Yorkshire amd I live in the West Midlands. ...

I told him how I feel for him, should I also ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 189 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - I have fallen for a guy who lives eighty miles away and only get to see him every 4 - 8 wks due to work commitments on both sides and small children from previous relationships. I really like him infact love him as I told him this when we last met...

Am I paranoid here or should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

20 February 2008 (M) - First off, let me say that I'm being treated for anxiety, depression and slight bipolar. I have no self esteem at all, very distrustful and extremely paranoid. My problem is, I finally found someone who makes me happy and feel better about mys...

How to fix a Long distace relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

20 February 2008 (M) - Hello, can anyone help? I am in a long distance relationship with a girl in New Zealand. I live in the UK. We are both 37 We have been together for one year and have met up 4 times. We text and phone all the time and the relationship is goo...

Should I get together with my long distance boy although plans for a trip with him and friends fell through??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 182 days ago

20 February 2008 (F) - Met a boy a couple of weeks ago when our two mutual friends set us up (at his request, after seeing my profile online). At first I wasn't really interested in the whole set-up thing, but after meeting him and spending the weekend together (the 4 of ...

Which way to turn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - Hi, Got a very good job and recently moved to a new country. I feel very lost with no friends. I have a boyfriend back home who is presently not taking well to the long distance. We constantly fight all the time and I always have to let him know ...

I've got back with my husband and it meant moving to his country, But I'm not happy here. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

18 February 2008 (F) - Hi, please advise me, i have recently gone back to my marriage, which ment me moving to the country where my husband is from, i am here because of my husband and to save our marriage, as i believed that if i had not come over to him our marriage ...

Should I be patient or should I let him go? He's focussing on his career, and is finding it difficult to balance.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

18 February 2008 (F) - In June I began a wonderful relationship with a man a few years younger than me. I knew at some point his work would take him to a different city. After 6 months spending nearly every spare moment together, we fell in love, and everything was ...

Long distance relationship with a catholic girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

17 February 2008 (M) - Hi! I have this great girlfriend that I have met during study in Italy. After a while we started having a great relationship knowing it was gonna be hard because she lives in Mexico and I in Europe. On the other hand it is totally worth it because...

How can I make this long distance romance work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 195 days ago

16 February 2008 (F) - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 23. We have a long distance realationship and its been so hard on me! i really love him and i really need him in my life! He loves me too he tells me he loves me that he would never leave me and that he has already decided ...

My ex may have a new guy, and I fear they slept together yesterday. How can I stop torturing myself??

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

15 February 2008 (M) - Since I found out my ex has met somebody new, I just can't get her out of my head... AGAIN!! We hadn't spoken for a long time, but about a week ago, we got back into the habit of talking to eachother again. We had done this before, but last...

Planning first time sex. Does it hurt? If so, for how long?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

15 February 2008 (F) - My friend and I have recently been talking about sex, A LOT. I am a virgin and he isnt. A few weeks ago, he asked me if I wanted to have sex, but I said no, because I wasnt ready. Now I am ready, and I have told him this. He is about 100 miles away ...

I can't cope with the long distance relationship so I decided to break up during his visit in my country. Good idea? What to say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

14 February 2008 (M) - Hi, I really need advice on how to let my boyfriend go easily. We have a very long-distance relationship, he's older than me (21), i'm 17 but he is like my 4th boyfriend, i am his first. So as u all probably know, it really hurts when ur f...

I want to redress the situation, but I can't physically take the pain she puts me through with her "I'm over you" attitude. Any point in persisting?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

13 February 2008 (M) - Hi there. My and my ex decided to mutually end our relationship 6 weeks ago. We would have been together 3 years tomorrow. We've had a strange relationship, sometimes it being long distance, and sometimes almost giving up our normal lives for each ...

When we are apart, he doesn't seem to miss me. What Gives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - My bf is so loving and affectionate when we are together. I notice a weird pattern when we are apart. With each day, he seems more distant and quiet. He tells me he loves me, but he doesn't act like he misses me the way i miss him. Sometimes he ...

Should I go back home, or stay for the man I love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - Do I go back to South Africa or do I stay with the man I love? I came to London with my two children one of which's father lives in London and we live with him. I was with him 14 years ago and we sadly parted. Now we are back in his life four...

Do I give up my dream degree to be there with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

12 February 2008 (F) - hi guys, I have a huge problem and I need some help!! I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for over a year and it's been absolutely amazing. In 2007, I studied at boarding school in Melbourne and my boyfriend went to an ...

My relationship, its end, and the 7 months of confusion and hurt... that made me stronger.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

12 February 2008 (M) - Hello everybody, this is Andy00. And to all fans who like long articles, this one is a treat for you... Unfortunately, it's a true story. I have been on this site for about 7 months now. I have posted many, many questions over time, but...

I recently became involved with a long term friend. What does he want from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 200 days ago

11 February 2008 (F) - I recently became involved with a long time friend and who I have known for about 11 years. When we first met eachother we dated very casually (we were both about 16-17) so it was nothing serious. Over the years we have both been in long term ...

How do I move on from someone that had an affair with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

11 February 2008 (F) - I just need some advice on how to move on.i was in a long distance relationship for nearly 2 years,with a guy who lives with his gf.i didnt know in the begining and only found out a few months into the relationship.he always said hes only there ...

Confused about my two online friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

11 February 2008 (F) - I have two friends that i met online,the other one is in Europe while the other one China,but the one in Europe has helped me alot. He later stoped calling me,it was the one that is in China that is calling me,and i have started loveing the one that...

Should I or Shouldn't I???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

11 February 2008 (F) - I recently met a great guy online. However he lives 1200 miles away. Anyhow, I was supposed to visit him few weeks ago and although he didn't know I had already booked a hotel. (he thought that I would stay with him cuz we do have mutual friends ...

We now live about 900 miles apart and I have never felt the same for anyone else, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

10 February 2008 (M) - I'm 25 and I've been in love with a girl since I was 18. We met in college and were together twice for about 2 years each time. We've stayed close over the years by talking on the phone frequently. I should mention we now live about 900 miles apar...

Where can we go on our first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

9 February 2008 (F) - Hi, hope you can help. I need some suggestions on what to do. Next Saturday I am going on a date with this guy I met over a dating site. I really like him, we have been swapping emails over MSN, since early January. He had messaged me on the dating ...

Is marrying my bf the right thing to do??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

8 February 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years... he's Turkish... I'm going to his country to marry him in March... am i doing the right thing?...

My long-distance boyfriend and I want to live together, but my parents are standing in my way. Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

8 February 2008 (F) - hey peoples,i need advice! i am with mi boyfriend and i love him so much he is everything i have ever hoped for and he loves mi so much! i don't ever want to loose him. Even though we love each other so much, my parents are in the way. they ha...

She recently forgot my birthday. How can I tell if she still loves me? Should I say I won't call until she asks me to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend and I are in a long distace relationship. Last year she missed me a lot and found it hard in college. This year she is happier in school and doesn't miss me as much. Recently she forgot my birthday. What does this mean? I kno...

Met her in the internet, she said she'd be back in my life by the end of the year as she planned to move closer to where I live. Do I drown my suspicions and wait out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - Ok so I met this girl a year ago on the internet, she lives across the country from me. We instantly hit it off and spent hours talking to each other. After a few months we met up and we were inseperable for the whole day. A month or two lat...

He never says he loves me first anymore...how do I bring it up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

6 February 2008 (F) - Recently, my boyfriend and I had a chat that almost resulted in a break-up. The next day, he called me and told me he couldn't live without me... but that our relationship needed work. We're working out how to see each other more (we're in a long d...

Is this situation with an old school friend too good to be true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

6 February 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend in the Army and I haven't seen him for over 7 years. I've known him for 12 years and we went to school together growing up. I haven't seen him since I was in 5th grade. We started talking on the phone 2 months before he left for ...

How can I solve our communication problem??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

5 February 2008 (F) - hey.. I've been dating this guy for a year now, we will be celebrating our 1 yr anniversary 3 days before valentines day :) (yes we have had the exclusivity talk). My major problem has been communication.. he doesn't call me as often as i would...

Why am I testing my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

5 February 2008 (F) - Hi. I have an amazing boyfriend of 5 months, but I keep constantly testing him to see if he is really in love with me or not. I am about to graduate from college and I know that will put us in two different places, and I am terrified of breaking up ...

I'm scared to have sex again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

5 February 2008 (F) - Hey okay so me and my.boyfriend live in 2 different states and we have been doing this long distance for a while now and this past October he came to visit me and we finally made the big decision and both had sex for the first time. It was amazing. ...

I'm scared to show my long distance boyfriend my webcam.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

5 February 2008 (F) - I'm scared to get on web cam for my long distance boyfriend. I'm 18 years old and I met my boyfriend off the internet, he lives pretty far away from me, we talk on the phone and we already plan on meeting really soon, sometime in the next month or ...

How can I make mom support my decision in my long distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

4 February 2008 (F) - Hi, my name is Jennifer, and I'm 18 years old. For the past year, I've been in a relationship with someone who lives in another country. It's extremely difficult, but we take turns visiting one another and have been making it work. He live...

Is it too much to ask for a phone call everyday in a long distance relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

3 February 2008 (F) - Is it too much to ask for a phone call everyday in a long distance relationship? This is my second long distance relationship where my other decides to not call or return calls for 4 days at a time, when we typically talk daily. I ended the first ...

I am confused about my long distance boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

3 February 2008 (F) - I need help!!! I'm madly in love with this boy. We live 200 miles away and have been together for a year and a half. and we broke up a couple of weeks ago. He doesn't want me to be going out and having fun like he doesn't want me going to my h...

Would I be better off alone even though we love each other??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

3 February 2008 (F) - I fear I love my man too much. Currently, I'm living about a 2-hour commute away from him, in my parents' house, because I'm student teaching, and the school I teach at is close to my parents' house. I always look forward to weekends, because ...

How can we maintain this relationship with him missing me so much??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

3 February 2008 (F) - I am involved with a guy who is in the army. We have only spent a short time together but know we like each other very much and have done for around 1 year but the problem is he is finding it too difficult to maintain a relationship whilst he is ...

I have to go away for a year. I think we'll just enjoy the time we have and see what happens, but is this unfair on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 208 days ago

3 February 2008 (F) - Heya! I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past 2 years and i love him very much. Lately though we've been having quite a few conversations about our relationship and I'm struggling to understand how he really feels. I'm leavi...