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Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Should I push for him to decide how he really feels? Should I tell him my feelings alot(that I love him)? Should I push for us to meet in person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - 2 months ago I broke up with my then boyfriend of 2 years. I broke up with him because I thought he'd be better off with a girlfriend that didn't live 200+ miles away from him, and a girlfriend that he didn't have to leave his family to be with. ...

Should I continue this long-distance relationship knowing we can't be together for another two years at least?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Am I stupid to be willing to wait for so long for us to be together? My fiance and I are in a long distance relationship. We always have been. We are recently engaged. I love him very much, but I struggle with the length of time it will be befor...

We'd like to announce my pregnancy as a couple, but that means we will have to wait another six weeks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - ive just recently found out im pregnant and cannot wait to tell everybody!! somehoe - unbeknown to me I am already 15 weeks gone....but also its past the 12 week safe mark which means me and my hubby can tell people. what is bothering me is.....

He disappeared from my life and now he is back, should I hear him out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 March 2014 (?) - Hi everyone, I had posted a question a while back (My boyfriend has disappeared and I'm very worried.) After a about almost two months now I have moved forward but was still wondering what had happened I heard from him. I was looking at my em...

Feels like no one is genuinely excited about our engagement. There are challenges. What can I do to cope with it all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - It feels like no one is genuinely excited about my recent engagement. I've been dating a wonderful man for about 6 months and he recently proposed. We are in a long distance relationship, and there are a lot of challenges to us being together-t...

My Gf finds flatulence disgusting. I am afraid to share a bed with her because of it. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

25 March 2014 (M) - i cant sleep at night with my gf, we have been together for two years now but we are LD, we have reach a very acceptable level of comfort with each other, but i cant still pass gas in front of her, not yet. she finds it disgusting. Every nigh...

The guy I'm seeing will be leaving for Germany soon and now seems reluctant for me to visit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - Met a guy who I really like. He said it was his best first date etc. He's now met my family and we get on so well we could spend days together. Been dating 2 months now. However he's unfortunately going to Germany for 5 months next week for univ...

She's leaving in two months and I'd like to be more than friends with her before that happens, but things are moving very slowly!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

22 March 2014 (M) - I've recently been on 3 relatively great dates with a girl I met online who is visiting my city for the next 2 months or so. However, it's moving a lot more slowly than I am used to -- I usually date more sexually aggressive girls because I feel ...

Feeling conflicted about my older LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - I have a problem. My boyfriend and I have been together about 3.5 years, and he is 14 years my senior (I'm 22). We got together when I was in my first year at university, and we share the same core values and ambitions. However, he has been unemploy...

Is this his way of asking whether I'm single or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - I know this guy from a book club, we used to meet about 5 years or so ago. We kept in touch through e-mails. We're continents apart and whenever he writes or I write back, he addresses me like so: Dear Miss/Mrs.Name... he insists on using this we...

What can I do to get my LDR boyfriend back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - So, if you want someone you have fight for it, isn't it? But what if me and him are in a long distance? Once he got used to send me a message first, ask what i'm doing, and all those thing. But now, he never contacted me again, or ask how I was ...

This guy is a scum. Do I tell his gf?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - My ex dumped me about a year ago. We had been together for 4 years, including 2 years LDR. We planned to get married, but he broke up with me 2 months before we could finally see each other. He thought I was too clingy. He cheated on me twice before ...

I was hospitalised for 10 days, and my LDR boyfriend sent nasty emails! Should I even bother to contact him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

20 March 2014 (?) - Hello to all on the site. I am so hurt and confused. I took ill around 10 days ago and had to be hospitalised. I am now back home and doing ok but am a bit shell shocked to discover that while I was on the ward, my boyfriend (who lives in France)...

IS it crazy for me to try to work things out with my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - I broke up with my bf last November after being together for 2 years. We're both in our mid 30's and were in somewhat of a long distance relationship causing us to only see each other on the weekend. The main reasons for the breakup was that we were ...

How do I remain level headed when younger b/f will be out having the time of his life in another country?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - My bf is going to study in Miami for 1 or 2yrs. We have been together now for 4yrs and he is 22 and I am 27. Of course, he says he is madly in love with me and says he wants to marry me, have kids etc. He even suggested we get engaged before h...

Her male best friend is making me feel uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 March 2014 (M) - My girlfriend has a male best friend, they have been friends for years, he has a romantic interest in her, however she said she was very clear with him about she wants to be with me and not with him. They go out together for lunch, to the movies and ...

How do I move on from an affair and a breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I posted before but for those who didn't read it... here is my story Late 2013 I moved abroad with my boyfriend. I had met him out there travelling and he came back with me to our home country(both from england), but we decided to move ...

Do I have a chance to get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3693 days ago

17 March 2014 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship where we loved each other deeply. Until I had OCD. My compulsive behavior caused a scratch on us. She got depressed and I was there, but I noticed she was avoiding me. For three months she doesn't knows what she ...

How do I keep her interested in me during her month away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

16 March 2014 (M) - So I've recently started dating a girl I quite like; we get along well, we enjoy each others company and we can joke around with each other and act coupley. Basically I want to be in a relationship with her. Now there is a problem; we've b...

After a year of LDR with him I need more than just texting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

16 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together and a long distance relationship for a year now, but known each other up to 5 years longer. He's about to graduate from law school and is highly tense and upset because he is afraid of what the future holds if ...

Broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years, was it the wrong thing to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

13 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm in dire need of help. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now, long distance as of right now, we see each other once every 2 months for a few days or so. I love her, I know I do, but about 5 months ago I broke up with her beca...

Drinking is killing my relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3696 days ago

12 March 2014 (F) - Hi. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend from almost 1 year. We both like to go out. We both are social drinkers. But he loves drinking and he goes out every weekend to drink out, or if not out then at home. Everything was going good. We wer...

When we're apart, I want sex, when we're together, I don't! Is this normal for a pregnant woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

11 March 2014 (F) - I'm 26 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My fiancée and I live in different towns and see each other on weekends. My problem's I always miss our sex during d week (when he's not with me), but when we're together I just loose interest (want no ...

Someone is going to be unhappy, who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

10 March 2014 (F) - My boyfirend and i broke up at the end of january and have decided to get back together but my family wont support us. The reason is he broke up with me and its a LDR i'm so upset like i want us all to be happy and get on but its a case of if i stay ...

Will he ditch me? And is it okay to proceed with a threesome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3700 days ago

10 March 2014 (F) - hiii i hav with this guy for 2years....we ae in ldr met once in a couple of months.... basically he is possesive guy orthodox believes in "one gal for me policy" ...never let me to talk to guys ( i m ok with it ).... he takes care for my prote...

He's leaving for three weeks and I'm terrified I'm going to lose him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

10 March 2014 (F) - Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months now. We have known each other for a long time and fell in love with each other. Im writing this because he is going to trucking school for 3 weeks and i am going to be stuck here alm...

Has he backed off because he's about to move abroad for work, or is he just not into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

10 March 2014 (F) - I recently found out that the guy I've been dating for 5 months is going to be moving across the world for a work project for at least several months. His current job is temporary as well, so, when he finishes his project, he doesn't know where ...

My LDR boyfriend and I chat often, but he occasionally disappears randomly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3701 days ago

10 March 2014 (F) - My LDR boyfriend and I saw one another two months ago, and continued keeping contact ever since. We talk every day through text, but one time he did not respond to my message for three days. And then he responded as if nothing happened. I asked him ...

Am I just her guy on the side?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3702 days ago

7 March 2014 (M) - Hi, my name is Daniel. About 10 months ago i started dating this girl, i always knew her since kindergarden i just never talked to her until the very end of highschool. So we spent the whole summer together, litterally almost every day, i lost my ...

Are the obstacles worth it? He lives 12 hours away and doesn't earn a lot.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

6 March 2014 (F) - I love him, but I am tired of long distance and logically, he really doesn't have much to offer. I have been dating a wonderful man for about 6 months. I admire a lot about him, and the time we have gotten to spend in person is wonderful. He li...

Should I try to make our marriage work or just end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

6 March 2014 (M) - I am torn on what I should do. Here is some background information first. I am active duty military, my wife and I are both 24, we have been together for 8 years and married for 4. We don't have any kids and I am currently deployed. Recently my wife ...

How do we reconnect? I want things to work! Help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

5 March 2014 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We had a lot of good moments but after he moved away, for work, for 6 months things went down hill. I started to become the jealous, clingy, needy, insecure girlfriend. I started accusing him of cheating, ...

Boyfriend tells me my vagina is loose and we have other relationship problems. What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

5 March 2014 (F) - Hi all. I'm sorry I have question. Me and my boyfriend is on long distance relationship now. He was staying in same country for last 3 months and now he's in his country for some visa and application purposes to come back here. Actually I feel a l...

Did he just dump me? What is going on with him? Was I wrong to be so upset?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

3 March 2014 (F) - During the Christmas holidays, I got back together with an old boyfriend when I visited home for Christmas. He was my first love and we dated 7 years ago, after we broke up, he never met anyone else and still loved me. I've always loved him so ...

My parents don't have faith in my long distance relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

2 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in a LD relationship with a man I met at a speed dating event in September 2013. Five to six months later, we're still going strong and he's planning a visit to my home state in two weeks. In Jan 2014, I spent six days with him an...

I love her to bits but she is hurting me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

1 March 2014 (M) - my gf is drving me crazy, im in a ldr for about two years, we met and started dating in person and because of work and school we live in different countries. we plan to close the distance for good in one year. we text all the time and she calls me a ...

I always think the worst, even when things are great!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

1 March 2014 (F) - I've known my boyfriend for over seven years, but have only been dating him for a little less than a year. I love him dearly. However, he lives in Europe. I'm American. We visit as much as possible, but it's expensive. We've talked about vis...