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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Boyfriend traveling abroad is posting on Facebook but hasn't called me like he promised!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2936 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. I am writing for help because I have never been so confused in my life. I have been in a relationship with a lovely man for just over a year and we have both said how happy we are together, we get on perfectly, do great things to...

What does it mean if she's afraid when I tell her that I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

30 January 2014 (M) - I have the misfortune of loving a 55 year old woman who was traumatically, emotionally abused in a 30 year long marriage, until she became so frightened of him she managed to leave and divorce him. She is now divorced for 3 years. She was also ...

I want to talk about the distance that seems to have come between us, but I don't want to seem needy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I began talking to him in August. as the months passed, we grew closer until he asked me to be his gf in December. Since we live in different states, he flew me out to spend a week with him. it turned out great. I got to know him, and I fell for ...

Facebook is ruining my long-distant relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3734 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - I feel like facebook is ruining my relationship. I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for the last 10 months and things are pretty serious with us. I personally do not use or have a facebook anymore because there s...

My boyfriend never initiates sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

28 January 2014 (?) - Dear agony aunts and uncles I am having a slight problem with my bf he never initiates sex. We have been together for almost a year and I can remember only about five times when he has and we have sex at least four times a month I asked him why ...

LDR--he won't make an concessions...should I end things?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

26 January 2014 (?) - I am in a long distance relationship and I am not sure if I should continue or not. We live only 88 miles apart so it is possible to see esch other during weekends. The problem is He lives in a small town and I doubt if I can find work there if...

Is having an ex help out wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

26 January 2014 (F) - Hi. I started dating a divorced guy with kids three years after breaking up with alongterm partner (no kids myself). We lived together for a year but then he moved for work, we see each other once a month. As it happens this move for work put him in ...

How can I win her over? Should I even try?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

24 January 2014 (M) - Question: A girl I really like recently told me she's going to pursue a long-distance relationship with a guy she's only recently met. Can I win her over? Should I even try? She and I went on three dates. The first two went really well. On the sec...

Girlfriend talks about new sex positions that remind me that she cheated on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

22 January 2014 (M) - My girlfriend of two years did the unforgivable sin of cheating on me with my enemy, and dating him in fact. After lots of pleas, I forgave her and tried to look past it Now the problem is, since after the incident, she doesn't have sex with me...

Little contact from my boyfriend while he's on vacation. Should I be concerned?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of a year has been on vacation for a month in another country ( visiting family). I went for ten days but now I've been home for 11 days and he has called me just once. I sent a two messages on FB and he did reply both times but very ...

I feel like I'm just a dog following my girlfriend around!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (M) - Hey Guys.! Im feeling very lost at the moment and no one to turn to or ask for advice. Anyway I have been dating this girl for about 4 months and everything has been going so good between us from A to Z. its almost like a dream and believe me Im no...

I feel neglected in this "unofficial" LDR

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - This unofficial relationship is driving me crazy! Here it goes, the guy and I live 4 1/2 hours away from each other. We divided soon, we want to get serious. I had sex with a man while we weren't really "talking" and he got upset. We promised after ...

Unplanned pregnancy after 1 month of dating and my baby's father isn't staying in regular contact with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - I am a 28 years old and pregnant for the first time. The pregnany was unplanned and came as a shock as it happened exactly after a month that me and this guy had started dating. I was living in a muslim country and since I was unmarried I had ...

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

19 January 2014 (M) - my girlfriend and i have been dating for a year now,we hav been living in the same compound up until last month. She relocated in another town,my problem is that sometimes when we hav a phone conversation and i start talking about her kising...

LDR boyfriend doesn't say he loves or misses me anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

17 January 2014 (F) - Why is he so irritated with me? I'm so upset:( My boyfriend has been acting weird lately. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now. (We haven't had sex yet). He's 28 and I'm 24.. Is a long distance relationship. He's so...

Potential boyfriend is demanding to know my past, and then comments negatively!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - I've been talking to a guy that I met through a dating website for almost 3 months now. We live across the country so we haven't met yet but we text all day and skype pretty regularly. For the most part, things are pretty good with him and I feel ...

My mother does not approve of my girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - I am 25 year old male and I have a girlfriend who is 23 and has a 2 years old boy. My mother has huge hate against her and I need you guys to help me solve the problem... I went to Japan for 3 months and I met a girl(Half Filipina, Quarte...

She's always got excuses not to spend time with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - So I met a girl after ending a 10 year relationship. The new girl is much younger than me and she started the flirting and all that sweet stuff. So I really thought she was into me. We've been seeing each other for 8 weeks now. We live far apart but ...

We have a lot of growing to do. Should I cut my ties?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - I spent a few months befriending my now boyfriend. Finally after I started to get over him he came to and we started dating. Things changed in a snap. I was no longer a bro, I was his girl. He is the sweetest guy to me. The kind girls dream of. He ...

Would you be ok with your girlfriend travelling abroad with friends?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

13 January 2014 (M) - my gf and i have been in a ldr for almost two years and we are about to close the distance and move in together this year. first step before proposing ;) we asked different questions to each other to make sure we would exactly what we are getting ...

Feeling guilty for not pairing my wedding rings with my fiance's.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

12 January 2014 (F) - Hi. I'm in a long distance relationship for two years and now I'm going to UK for my boyfriend for holiday to spend time with him and meet his family, so he gave a ticket to go there and as a gift for my graduation day, which he promise it befo...

He asked me to leave my Bf. But is it love or lust with this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

12 January 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and in recent events he stopped being there for me. Its a long distance relationship so its understandable he gets busy with work but it become all he cares for. Certain things have occurred where i need...

Why did this happen? I don't know why. Can you help me understand what went wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3751 days ago

12 January 2014 (F) - after two months of dating he told me we have no connection. when we first meet we did hit it off. we would talk on the phone text. text in the morning goomorning baby. we talk about our future. i told him about going into the military and stil...

She's all I've got, but I need to break up with her anyway

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

11 January 2014 (M) - I hope any of you can solve my problem. I am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. I just wanted to end things with her due to many reasons. But I am just unable to get off my emotional attachment from her.(I am still in a relationship ...

What can I do with my cheating ex's love notes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

10 January 2014 (F) - So this is my last post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-possible-that-my-ex-said-he.html I'm now over my ex. He's completely dead to me. I think I only hate toward him now. I was reading the love notes and cards he wrote to me which I d...

I have feelings for my friend, now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3752 days ago

9 January 2014 (F) - I am in 25yrs and bio all my friends know about this and some of them are lesbians and gays others are strait now I have this friend I meet usual we enjoy our friendship my problem about her I have morethan feeling a friendship with her I do have ...

I hope nothing is wrong but am worried he is playing games!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

9 January 2014 (F) - Hello im a 36 year old woman in a long distance relationship with a 48 year old man. He's in NY and im in GA but, he is planning on relocating to Ga to be with me. But sometimes things dont go so well between us, he accused me on two different ...

She's acting a bit distant and I'm afraid she's losing interest, how do I handle the distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

7 January 2014 (M) - I met a girl in early December and we get on great. She lives in my city, but had to go back to her hometown a week ago and she'll be there for at least a month and a half. Our text messages are already getting repetitive and boring and the phone ...

Less communication lately from my LDR

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

5 January 2014 (F) - Hi I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 9 months (it's a serious relationship and we have met and everything). For the past month or so things have changed. He hasn't been so 'into' me like he used to be and I haven't...

I cant forget he flirted with other girls and now worry how to react to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

4 January 2014 (F) - hii people i m indian teen ...it is about a week for my birthday i m in serious relationship with my bf for 1year and 6 mnths ....v hav our own ups and down ....i adjust myself to solbe issues between us now the problem is 3 months back he...

How can I improve my boyfriend's chances of getting a visa?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

4 January 2014 (F) - I am in a conundrum! My long distance, international boyfriend and I are trying to arrange for him to stay with me in the states for 6 months. He comes from a Nordic country that is listed at one of the top 5 places to live! I don't want to ...

He broke up with me a month before he moved away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

2 January 2014 (F) - He's twelve years older than me, I'm 18. When we started dating we were both concerned about other peoples reactions due to the age and so because he was moving away at the end of last month we decided to try stay secret given nothing long term ...

LDR and we are ready for marriage, but who moves where?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

1 January 2014 (F) - I am in a Long Distance relationship that seems to have worked so great until now that we are trying to make the next move into marriage. Neither one of us wants to relocate. When we met the talks of relocation was easy. Now he is very much ...