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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

He says he is young for a relationship, does this mean he has feelings? Should I try for an LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - More than just good friends? I have this really good friend and I have known him for 5 years. At the moment we are in different countries and we only stay in contact through facebook. I have had feelings for him for long. So on April fools day I sa...

He doesn't seem to want to plan for the future and pushes me away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Wow… there are so many “break” or give me “space” stories, I feel like I am in the right place. Thanks for the stories ladies. I hope someone can give me advice on mine. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years officially and I have ...

I don't want her to fall for some guy while she's away at school

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Holy F*ck im going nuts. long story i was planning on going to college with my girlfreind (who im facking nuts about. she means the world to me and id do anything for her)this september but my father got a buyout from general motors which he used to ...

No communication in a long distance relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 21 years old and have been involved with the same person for almost about 2 years now. Its a long distant relationship, he lives in New York City and I live in Virginia. I met him when he was visiting Wash. DC for a concert his friend was ...

This whole situation is messing with my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - I met this girl at a big bon fire about a year and a half back. we started dating less then a week after we met. we dated for 5 months, she got drunk, cheated and we broke up. almost no contact for a couple of months. we started talking again an...

What should I do next? should I ask him out?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...

Is she joking or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - Hi! I'm 16 and a little confused. I've had this on and off relationship with a 15 year old girl. It's a long distance relationship and i only get to see her on weekends and holidays. When i do see her we usually end up going back out but when ...

How can I find out if he is falling for me like I am for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I don't know if anyone can reall help me, as I know that I have no choice but to hang in and see, but any feedback would be appreciated... I met a lovely guy online last April and started dating him in May. He is in the RAF and lives on base an...

If he doesn't love me why wouldn't he let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Mod note:OP's own title I've been with a guy for almost a year now i do love him but he said it once and never said it again i used to say it all the time but stopped because i never got the response i wanted it is impossible to stay together, ...

Is our relationship doomed to fail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Hello all. Im 21 and after a year and a half of a long distance relationship I ended it with my boyfriend (whose 24). Why? His friend spilt out everything to me, He told me how my boyfriend has repetitively cheated on me whilst we're apart. So I ...

Could this be my soulmate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I came in contact with a gentleman at a mutual gathering place about 3 years ago. After seeing him there a few times I started to feel this powerful energy from him. He has since moved out of state but every time he returns I get the same energy f...

Bf overreacting or is it ok?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - me and my bf are in a committed long distance relationship since one year and two months.. my bf lives in a house with two of his friends. 5months back my bf introduced me to one of his good friends who stayes with him in the house.lets say h...

How do I interpret these actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Please help me interpret this guys actions. Me a guy last November at a restaurant, he live five hours away. He flirted with me and we went out once. He came into town several times and asked to get together but did not follow through.. There was no ...

Long distance confusion

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - In short, I met an American during 3mths over there (I'm in uk) and now I've had to return home due to my visa. He was charming, a gentleman, lovely and funny but totally incapable of expressing an feeling. He cried at the airport when I left but ...

LDR issues!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - It's been 9 mths. I'm in my first long distance relationship and that's one issue. The other is he constantly throws in my face that he need's to be number one- and that means before my 16 yr old son - in my life. He said to me bout 2 mths into it, ...

Living without the love of your life...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title. A year ago i moved overseas to the united kingdom. About 4 months after arriving i met my current boyfriend, whom i have been in a serious relationship with for the past 5 months. I love him more than anything, and even just...

I wan't her back, I miss her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Ok I meet this girl online about 2 yrs ago. In I gave here my phone number in she called me up. After that we started to talk for a long time. Like for 2 yrs stright. When I meet her she had a boyfriend but she broke up with him after a 8yr ...

Open relationship? break? long distance? what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I met a guy this summer and we ended up going out for a bit. We didn't make a big deal about it (no change in relationship statuses on facebook etc.) but he lives far away. He left a few days ago and i am puzzled about what is going to happen now. ...

A twisted relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Ok so i do not know what to do so i thought i would come here for some help. I am 18 years old and in a very confused state of mind. It is really a long story but i will shorten it and please any feedback to this is great because i need som...

What do I do about my long distance, stressed out bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Okay so I've been with my guy for almost three years and we are long distance right now while I'm finishing up school (just three more months!) and hes trying to find work near home. We had a lil bump in the road a few months ago where he went into ...

My family and friends don't think I should have got back with him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are back together after a 3 month break, the prolem is my friends and family aren't pleased for me because its a long distance relationshop they think im stupid for it but they dont understand how i feel. Also, I have my friends ...

Is it possible to not have to play games in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

28 August 2010 (?) - Is it possible to not have to play games in a relationship? I am in a long distance relationship. I have been in contact with this guy for just over a year. When we were just friends, things were great. But since we decided to be "in a relationship" ...

I seriously feel I have lost a special person or maybe a best friend in life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I met this exceptionally beautiful girl about 3 years ago through a friend of mine. At that time we both got attracted to each other instantly. But she wasn't from US so she went back home after three days. She contacted me from there and soon after ...

Will he always love me and want to be with me even if he might meet other girls while clubbing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for so long, we met over the internet at the beginning of 2008 and we met face to face on 14th august 2009. we have been through so much. we have so many memories. we go different places, especially because he ...

He keeps reminding me about things from the past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - i have been in a LDR for 3 years now.My guy and I love each other a lot.The problem is that my guy loves dwelling in the past.In the past i was friendly with the guys in school but it was purely friendship and nothing else.it so happened that the ...

Haven't heard from LDR guy in 3 days

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - Once again I need some help from My Agony Aunts. I'm in a LDR for 6 months now. It has its trials but I love my b/f enough to make us work. Now I have not heard from hi in three days now. No message, phonecall, emails nothing. What in the world is ...

Is this a little odd?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

27 August 2010 (M) - This isn't really a love question as such, but it involves a girl so I thought this was as good a place to ask it as any. So sometimes I play a particular online game. Not a lot but maybe once or twice a week I will play for a little bit and c...

Am I going insane? I feel like I'm losing myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

27 August 2010 (M) - Need advice for LDR? Im in my first LDR ever and I have a had a handful of other relationship before this one. Its been successfully moving along for 6-7 months now. I really really like this woman. First of all I don't want anyone bashing L...

Was I just a back up if his LDR didn't work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - Hi I posted a Q on here a while bk about me and my ex, he walked out in feb and started seeing another woman abroad, but still seeing me, i knew about her but she didnt no he was seeing me but knew i was his partner of 12years (with 4 kids) Well a f...

Id rather us try and have it possibly fail then not try at all

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Hi there, I could really do with some advice... I met this guy at a club 6 or 7 weeks ago and we were "getting off" as they call it for about 45 minutes. We exchanged numbers and he started texting me every single day. We started to get more flir...

Should I wait for my GF to decide she wants me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - Update: my girlfriend and I have dated for four months I couldn't help myself and texted her today and told her that I removed the text block and asked her to call me. She did call and I asked her these quesions: told her I missed her, she said s...

I want to have a baby in a LDR

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I have recently got involved in a LDR, and have fallen in love with my man. I met him while on vacation in the US Virgin Islands, and Im from the states. I am 25 and I am ready to start a family, and he wants to as well. Unfortunately he is on ...

Another guy is telling my girlfriend he loves her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - I'm in a very-LDR, and in recent months I've become really concerned with the amount of interest another guy has been showing my girlfriend. He's in the same country as me. He writes on her Facebook page that he loves her, and he sends her expens...

I want to either cut it off or commit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Hi Cupid. My question is a little long but I hope manageable. Recently my boyfriend of several months returned to America after a year abroad, when we met. We have set no limit date on the distance and the relationship is more or less officially ...

My boyfriend doesn't do special things for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't do special things for me. My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship and have been together for 5 years. We care about eachother alot but he doesn't do special things for me, i.e. send me flowers, gifts or even ...

LDR: what's the point?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - I would like to know something, as it's always seemed highly absurd to me, and nonsense, what is the point of being in a Long distance relationship??? I mean, you cant touch the person, right? which means you cant hold them, kiss them, fuck them, ...

I want his personality and him,but not his looks. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I've been dating this wonderful man long distance for two years.it got to the point i wanted to marry this man!but then..he came to visit me.and when i saw him,my heart fell. I knew he was overweight but i didn't expect this! Sometimes i have dif...

Misunderstood lovers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are currently in a long distance relationship and have been for a month. We are 15 years old and live 700 miles apart. We talk everyday, and in no means are growing apart. We grow closer everyday. We have known each other for 2 ...

I'm going to miss spending time with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

24 August 2010 (M) - I've been seeing this girl which I met whilst we had other partners and broke up with them for each other. I feel that she is the one and am beginning to fall in love and i think she feels the same way. At the moment she lives in the next city so...

She is gone, what do I do? it hurts

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24 August 2010 (M) - I just wanted to ask for some advice im 22 now and the girl im about to talk about is 20 now we met when she was 17 and i was 19 long distance relationship she was in seattle and i lived in chicago we went through the long distance relations...

Is it a good or bad idea to go from one long distance relationship straight into another one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

24 August 2010 (M) - What are your opinions on going from one long distance relationship, (lasted around 1 year and half) straight into another one? Of course I know this isn't ideal, but it just seems to be my luck when finding new people!...

Should I love this man who is 30 years older?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - ok hi everyone im just so confused at the moment i feel in love with an american man over the internet he is sweet funny and kind and has always said the right thing he offered to take me and my baby which i am expecting at moment he has told me a ...

Feeling used and betrayed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Hello, A long time ago there was a guy in my life, and we liked each other, but he had a long term long distance girlfriend, and I was leaving town to go to uni and to escape a violent family. So, we came close, but never actually made anything ha...

Advice for sensitive guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - Hi my names dave 22 and i am a sensitive guy. I met a girl jenny 19 on a drunkern night out 4 months ago, wasnt really looking for anything but ended up in bed with her that night. we carried on meeting at hers watching dvd's and having intercourse, ...

I like this guy but he is not over his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - okay, so ive started talking to this guy online about 4 months ago, thats when he his gf broek up with him, they had been together for 3 years and he still really loves her, but he knows he's never going to get back with her, and he's now started ...

Is porn just mental cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I understand that porn isn't technically cheating. But I feel like my boyfriend may have a slight obsession with it. He looks at it every day of the week, maybe only 5 or 6 days some weeks, but for the most part, he does it every day. We are in a ...

Do I move and make a go of it or do I let him go even though I think I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - hi im a gay guy who lives in america but i have a boyfriend in the uk i care about him a lot and we talk every day he addmited to me yesterday that he had fluirted with a couple guys but nothing else has happend and i accepted that the thing is he ...

Boyfriend buys jewelerry and expenisive gifts for his married woman friend...is this appropriate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I have a dilemma ... I have been dating someone online for 5 months ... he is early 30s, I am late 30s. Neither of us has ever been married; in fact, he has never been in a serious relationship longer than 5 weeks due to many violent episodes ...

Long distance confusion...any help would be appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - (MOD NOTE: Two questions have been posted together) 1)-I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years.We get along great , told each other things ect...But , the thing is when he goes shopping he mentions it's with a girl then whe...

My boyfriend's ex is still part of the family, how do I deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I am recently reunited with my high school sweetheart from 30 years ago and he says that things are headed toward marriage for us. He and I both say that we've never been happier. We have a long-distance relationship at this point. I am divorced ...