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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

My girlfriend's past bothers me so much, and I think it might affect our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is the best girlfriend I have had and think I ever will have, but it's just her past that keeps bugging me! See, my girlfriend 15 and lost her virginity at 12 to a 13 year old boy who she no longer speaks to. She said they did it b...

Help me win my long distance girlfriend back

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - Where to begin? I been in a long distance relationship with a girl for 4 years but it goes deeper than that, alot deeper as this is'nt the normal meet a girl online, fall in love kind of thing. We been best friends for 5 years before we fell for ...

My boyfriend has to move for work, and my mother wont let me go with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - okay so heres the deal . my boyfriend got offered a job about 8-10 hours away , and im still in school so my parents wont let me go with him .my school year so far has been hell and my boyfriend is like the only way ive been getting through it ,to ...

How can I make my boyfriend realize my worth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - i've been in a long distance relationship for seven months now.my boyfriend and me both love each other a lot.of late, he has started taking less interest in me, he even lied to me once but i forgave him.we even broke up once but patched up within ...

After six months overseas my boyfriend is coming home

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for four years now and he's coming back home the second week of March after a six-month tour in England. He joined the military nine months ago, so I've never had that "long anticipation for my true love to come ...

She is leaving regardless of whether I am coming with her or not, is she being unreasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of six months is moving away for a new job. She will be a 12 hour drive away in a state and part of the country I don't like. It's not a desirable location. She could have a good job and stay here, but doesn't like the company....

Should I give him another chance and not pressure him so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Alright, where to start. I'm 16 and i've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. He's from a different state than I am. We met on Myspace and just got to know eachother. We thought we might try a relationship out just to see how it would work ...

His parents say driving 2 hours to see each other is pointless...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Here is more about the guy that lives 2 hours away. He just turned 17 and lives in a small town. He is the most amazing guy I have ever met. He makes me smile and he gives me butterflies. Whenever I text him I don't know what to say because I never ...

Is there any hope in convincing him that a relationship may be worth it?

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26 February 2010 (F) - There's a guy that I like. I like him a lot - I fell hard and fast for him (which is totally outside my personality). We've hung out and talked for about 4 months now and I recently got accepted into graduate school. He messaged me to tell me ...

How can I deal with missing my long-distance boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid- I'm in a long distance relationship with the man I love. Our relationship is strong and we really do love each other (yes, I am young, but I really do think that he is the one.) However I hate being away from him and the hours we can ...

How do I deal with trust and jealousy in this long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5173 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - my boyfriend lives in another state. im being really irrational but i can never see him and im afraid he will forget me and or find someone else. sometimes he doesnt call for one or two days and there is a new girl on his facebook and its driving me ...

I don't understand my boyfriend's behaviour.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - (Mod note: Titled by poster) hello! i am in a distance relationship for almost one year and half. we met each other 2 times. once he came to me and than i went to his place. as we are not the same nationality. after i came back from his place i just...

I want to do my own thing occasionally, how do I explain this to my girlfriend so she can keep herself happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - My Girlfriend wont let me go away for a couple of weeks without getting very upset. I've been going out with my girlfriend nearly a year and a half. Last year I had to go to South Korea to work for a year, my Girlfirend came to visit for 4 mont...

I have a long distance guy who I've been talking to for months, but now another guy wants to date me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - So I have been talking to this guy for about three months now. We are three hours from each other, and used to talk everyday at the beginning. I have recently met this guy who wants to go on a date, and I dont know what to do. ...

Is he cheating or am I being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - So lately I have not been feeling very good about my boyfriends and my relationship. I feel like crying.and also I have a weird feeling that he is cheating on me. Because last week he left work and went to wendys to get some food and he ordered two ...

I love my girlfriend but I can't see her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Okay, so I'm 13 and I've always felt like no one's liked me in that special way... I recently found out that my crush likes me back, so I asked her out. It's been almost 2 months now and I couldn't be happier. She says she's crazy about me and I am ...

He's sending a gift to my house and I am afraid my Mum might see it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - my long distance boyfriend is sending a gift to my house through the post and i`m worried it might be something sexy like a thong or something and that my mum will see it. he said that he hasn`t put his name on it but he would love to see me wearing ...

What does this comment mean from a random girl on my boyfriend's Facebook wall?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a distance relationship. This past weekend he went for some homecoming event and after the event he called me and we talked. Just recently a random girl who's on his friend's list leaves this comment on his wall "Just w...

My boyfriend's stressful situation is making me stressed too, I don't know what to do anymore....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Here is my story, my bf went to his country outside the Us for his granddad like 2 weeks.The reason why he went there with his family because of his granddad. He is so sick and about to die.. In His country he try to call me everyday for the 1st ...

My brother will hook me up with the friend I like

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I like one of my brother's closest friends. According to my brother, this guy would be over the moon if he knew I was interested in him. He's offered to make it happen if I let him say something to his friend. So my question is, should I let him? ...

We met online and are in love but he refuses to come and meet me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Well, I met this guy through a mutual friend. Well I wouldn't say met because we've never seen each other. In any case, we started talking and things became serious..we fell in love. The problem is that we've never seen each other, and every attempt ...

I'm on a study-trip for 4 months, how do I keep my girfriend of 3 years from cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Hi all, this is slightly long-winded .... sorry ... I have been living with my girlfriend in America for 2 years, and we are best friends and all that, I love her dearly. I do everything for her. But ..... When we started our relationship, she...

Why am I acting like the anxious one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hi there, I'm not really sure what to do. I started talking to this guy several months ago, online. Our level of talk time increased continually. We spent hundreds of hours on the phone, web cam (nothing in appropriate) etc. and I have to say I re...

It upsets me when people tell me long-distance relationships never work...is it true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - can long distant relationships work? Im totally inlove with this guy but he lives 3 hrs away and I will only be able to see him like once a month...we talk all the time.. but I wanted to know if it can really work..everyone tells me LD never wo...

Is the stress of an LD relationship causing us to argue a lot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I've known this guy for over a year. We met on an online dating site. In the beginning we made plans to meet, but it never happened because I always flaked out. But he never gave up, always keeping in contact. So finally we meet. We hit it off ...

My principles say pay him back even though I think he used me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I would like to seek for your advice if it is a right thing to do. My LDR boyfriend and I of 4 yrs separated 4 months ago. Our love that I used to believe was not really a love at all but was just a mere fantasy. He used...

I want to marry him, but my parents won't accept him because he is white

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I've been dating a man, whom I love madly for the past five years. However, much of that time it has been long distance, and we've only been able to see each other for an hour or two here and there over the years. I'm away at school in ano...

Should I maintain this relationship or look for somebody my parents will approve of?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I'm 20 years old and have been dating my crush/best friend for over a year. By far, this is the best relationship I've been in so far because we're very compatible and honest with each other. He's really sweet, caring (not just to me, but to people ...

How do you move on from a serious long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5178 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - How Do You Move On From Your Serious Long Distance Relationship?...

My boyfriend is in Canada and I feel like I have been forgotten!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I feel really bad but, I am really jealous of my boyfriend and selfishly hurt. I want him to have fun with his new experience in Canada and meeting friends and all that jazz it's just, he's having so much fun that he doesn't have any time for me and ...

Should I stay with my best friend, my ex husband? Or move across the country with my current boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I have a very complex issue, and im sorry in advance for this long story, but I need help. From the beginning: I married at 17 , had 3 kids by age 24 and an alcholic husband. In 2004 I met some one online who I ended up leaving my husband for , an...

I got drunk and made out with another guy, and now feel guilty

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. Right now were doing long distance and i see him every month and a half or so. i was basically with him all the time for the first month, then left for uni, came back and had a solid month with him, we ...

He is rude and mean and in love with somebody else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I have this friend.. And he is, well Just to get down to my point. Full on Emo. But I love him! (: I am the COMPLETE Opposite from him. But, we're like best friends:) -- I don't know wether my feelings for him, Are more then a friend. I want to fall ...

My girlfriend cheated twice, can she really mean it when she says she loves me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

19 February 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few years now and she has cheated twice. The first time she cheated was early in our relationship, but I decided to give her a second chance. After that we became really close and she told me that she ...

I lost my virginity to my friend but my ex is back in the picture!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone to make a long story short I was with my boyfriend for a yr before he moved away. We kept a LDR. LDRs are very hard work and we were both very occupied w/ school and work so I decided to break it off after another yr of being away. ...

She is away in a foreign country and I'm scared she is cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - Firstly, a bit of background about my SO and how we met: I visited China about 1 year ago and met a nice tour guide. At the time she told me she was living with her cousin (later I found out she was still living with her ex but they weren't getting ...

My LDR has changes and I think he doesn't love me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - i am extremely disappointed with my bf.we r in a comitted relationship and yeah its a ldr.its now 7.5 months.i am upset because he watches a lot of porn movies which irritates me.and if i say i don't like it he says so what,its so normal.this breaks ...

Is there a way to let him know I appreciate him without him thinking I'm ending the friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I know this would seem weird, but doesn't it seem appropriate? I have lived a life (as many others probably have) where some people I'm close to eventually are just gone from my life. I may casually say 'good bye, take care', to them one day ...

We are going to see each other again after 2 years! But my family won't let me date him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - i apologise for the long story but ive cut it down quite a bit. when i was little my mam and dad spilt up and they both moved away, i moved in with my grandparents and lived there for about 16 years, i visited both parents and my mam still had a say ...

He claims he loves me but won't leave his long distance girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - It's been just over a year since I found out the guy I was dating had a girlfriend. We had gotten pretty serious, exchanged the I love you's etc. Then, one night I stopped by unexpectedly and caught him on the phone with this woman. She does not ...

How do I tell him that this has hurt my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. Due to a compulsory year abroad as part of my uni course we have been in a long-distance relationship since October. I thought so long about whether I should go or not because I knew I would find ...

University break ups?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hello there Recently me and my boyfriend, of about 2 years, talked about what we were going to do for university,even though its about a year away from him actually going. we will be going to separate universities. He says that he wants us to break...

My boyfriend wants to watch a sex video of his friend, is this bad or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - i m in a long distance and committed relationship.recently i and my bf were chatting through sms and when we were talking,he was telling me that how he knows some guys who cheat their gf by keeping hidden cameras and taking video and selling them.i ...

Lately it feels like we are drifting apart and I have no idea what is going on with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together so long that I really can't imagine life without him. He feels the same way and we've somehow managed to stay together going to two separate colleges for the last two years. Lately, though, it seems like we're ...

How do I improve this situation? My boyfriend is not giving me any time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - well...umm im in a committed long distance relationship.its going to be almost 8months.i remember that the first 3months my bf used to go crazy with me.he used to text me a lot and even call.but now it seems as a dream.i know its not possible to be ...

I cant accept that she hates me! What is the meaning behind her blocking me on Facebook and not replying to my emails?

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16 February 2010 (M) - I have 20 years and am a boy. I love a girl for almost 7 years. I am certain that she was too. But i never communicate my emotions to her properly, (it was only through body language). Now we are enrolled in different universities and i have ...

Not sexually attracted to my girlfriend anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - I am a 23 year old male who is a collegiate athlete and never had any kind of mental or physical problems in my life. No trying to boast but I am not an ugly looking guy and my gf who i have been dating for 8 months exclusively and been with for ...

Should I postpone my career for another 18 months, in order to move with him? Is this worth doing or crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I've been going out with an amazing guy for nearly three years. We've never lived in the same place but have managed to keep it going this long - obviously because we both feel it's worth it. The thing is it's not getting any easier. At the moment ...

Do you think I did the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5183 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend just split up because we can't make it work at the moment - we're both at different schools and it's an LDR so it makes it really difficult for us so I suggested to him that we go our seperate ways and if he wants to give it ...

I tried so hard but I could not ejaculate whilst having sex, what is wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - i am in love with my girlfriend for 3yrs now...we both live in different places.... whenever we meet we used to have kind of sex.. which is not purely sex...she has a problem in loosing her virginity....in one of her birthdays i forced her to have ...