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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

How long should I give him before I decide its not going to happen?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - Dear Cupid, I met this guy online and after two months have passed he asked me if he could contact me on my mobile, so I gave him my number and we chatted a couple of times and texted each other. The thing is he keeps telling me that he want...

I've just broken up with my LDR......I'm in pieces and need to know how to cope and be strong

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - i need some advice please. Ive just ended it with my ldr boyfriend, after being messed around with yet again and now as i sit in here in tears, my heart is broken and i feel sick, I just need to know how to be strong over the next few weeks. We had ...

Should I sit here and wait for his call? Or should I just break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for three years and most of our relationship has been long distance due to the fact that he is in the army. I love him with all my heart and he is my first boyfriend. We had only been dating for six months when he went ...

I feel like my LDR is pulling away and doesn't want a baby anymore. I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4532 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Im so confused about my ldr boyfriend. Weve been together for almost a year. It hasnt been a great time, certain trust issues and a few arguments. However, I fell in love with him hard. I bent over backwards to make it work. In September I fell ...

Nervous about going to my boyfriend's works Christmas party...how do I stop worrying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4532 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - So my new boyfriend has invited me to his annual works Christmas party at an elegant hotel. Not only am i meeting his friends and co-workers, im also meeting his family. Only thing is, he hasnt told his family yet that we've been dating and wants to ...

I'm worried my long distance potential g/f won't wait for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - My potential girlfriend lives a long way away and she wants me to come up and visit her soon, within a month or so. But the problem is that I have no job and can't afford an airline ticket. I am currently looking for a job but I'm not having much ...

Long Distance relationship feels one sided.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4531 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I've been in a LDR for about 9 months now. During that time my bf has visited me once. We both live in the same state but about 5 hours apart. He had a car accident a year and a half ago and as a result he had a lot of injuries. He has recovered but ...

The ex? or my current b/f who's going over seas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4534 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I seem to have gotten myself into a bit of love trouble. I was dating someone long distance when I met, well, someone else. My boyfriend and I hadn't been getting along - he said he loved me, but he would be controlling and jealous and say ...

I don't feel the spark for my boyfriend whom I am in a long distance relationship with, and I have cheated on him three times now!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, I need your help. I have been dating my boyfriend for 1year now. its a long distance relationship. Of late my boyfriend does call me as usual and all but lately I feel like he's kinda changed he is too busy for me, he doesn't give me ...

Three year LDR. It's not working. Should I tell him how I am feeling now, or wait until I get back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Ive been with my long distance partner for 3 years. I am travelling overseas and planning to live with him when I get back. But I don't believe in our relationship anymore. I care for him and want him to be happy. I do love him, but we have bare...

LD Boyfriend takes snapshots of me on skype.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Hi. I just found out recently that my boyfriend takes snapshots of me while we talk on Skype. He did that for every time we talked on Skype, we are in a long distance relationship. And he took SO MANY like really TOO MUCH pictures. He just showe...

My depressive ex gf is really confusing me. Any opinions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - Hi all. Ex and me was engaged and been together for 5 but had a LDR. ANW she left me two days after she bought her dress for the engagement. I tried everything , even showing up on her door step 3000 miles away with flowers. Nothing. I st...

LDR: Too soon to move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4536 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - So I'm crazy about this guy, he definitely caught me off guard and now I'm head over heels for him. We've been dating 5 months known each other for 6; We met at work and we've been through some rough spots (job loss and rehab) and we came out better ...

My long distance boyfriend told me not to miss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - I guess I made him angry or sad because when he was going to go out to have lunch, I told him in a happy way "have fun" and he said that I seem to be happy not to talk to him, which isn't true. he also told me he wants me to talk to ...

Leaving my whole family behind for marriage. How to deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - My soon to be husband is English. I am Australian. We met in the UK whilst i was living there for 2 years. In a few months we will be getting married and i will be permanently moving to the UK for the rest of my life (in theory, life changes of ...

Unexpected feelings have hit me hard!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

23 November 2011 (M) - Ok, my neighbor girl basically pursued me, I felt no attraction of any sort for her in the beginning(except for she was hot), but her persistence, and her cute way, eventually started getting to me without me even knowing, she is 20, im 34, she is ...

Involved with a married man and need unbiased thoughts, please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - Hello all, Please take the time to read: I met my boyfriend of almost two years (in December) online by chance. I actually caught his attention and made the first move, but we took a lot of time to get to know each other as friends first be...

Did this seem like an unreasonable question to ask him? Why did he not reply?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - Hello All, I recently started a relationship with a guy and both of us were very nervous about getting into a relationship. After talking a lot about many things like previous relationships, family, friends, ect. and a few sleep overs without sex, ...

We're in a long distance relationship, how can I show her she's not alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

23 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is telling me that she feels alone. We are in a long distance relationship and I'm trying my best to be communicate with her. What should I do? She's also been picked on by people who used to be her friends as well could that be ...

My friend created a fake profile to trap my long distance B/f, when she realized he too had a dating profile. I'm upset at both of them. What do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - I need some advice on a situation with my friend and my Long Distance boyfriend. My friend created an account on a site to meet friends that she found my long distance boyfriend had an account on. She didn't tell me or ask me before doing this, so I ...

I am so scared to see him, I feel like I look even worse than I did when he left!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4538 days ago

22 November 2011 (?) - Hey everyone, so the guy who I've had a thing with for awhile, a very long while actually(two years almost), is coming home from college for the week. I wanna see him so bad, but at the same time I don't...I'm not good enough for him and it hurts me...

What's an appropriate level of intimacy to have with male friends when you're in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I met my wonderful boyfriend during my gap year (2010) but now we're LDR. I love him to bits and I couldn't imagine being with anyone else, but since starting college, I've been finding it tough not to be at least a teeny bit flattered by the sudden ...

I want to see him at least once before I leave, is that too much to ask?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid Me and my bf are together for 2 years and i am travelling away for my studies in another 2 weeks and we have to be in LDR for 6 months. Since i am travelling i asked my bf to meet once before i leave (he stays 5 hrs away from my pla...

All I do is think about sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

20 November 2011 (F) - I'm certainly not the first and I won't be the last to have this problem, but I can't stop thinking about sex. It's terrible! It started all of a sudden at the beginning of this month, and since then I haven't been able to concentrate on anything ...

Distance made me feel safe -- what about this online girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

19 November 2011 (M) - I had met this girl online during September, she is about 8 or 11 hours drive from me so i never met her in person. At first we didn't talk much of relationship related topic. I was really careful with her because i really like her in the pictures ...

Can my new Facebook friend be trusted? Should I send him the picture he wants?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

19 November 2011 (F) - I met a guy on Facebook, he said he likes me, he is really nice and sweet. But there's something weird about him, he wants me to send him my picture but he doesn't want to give me his phone number. He said he is just being careful and I'm being ...

LDR boyfriend does not appear to respect me. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3156 days ago

18 November 2011 (F) - hey, so this is my first relationship ever, and him and i have been in a relationship for over a year now, he's over seas right now so we video call, instant message or call each other but he speaks to me really disrespectfully. So i asked him about ...

I love him... But should I let him move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

17 November 2011 (F) - I know this is long, but it's a good story. Well, my ex boyfriend and I have been friends for about 6 years and we dated for about a year and we broke up last May. First off I would just like to admit that I love him. I love him so much, and I can't ...

He deserves so much more than me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - I've just moved away from home to study at university. I love it and the freedom it gives me. Over the summer I began dating this wonderful guy who loves me to pieces and I love him back. It sounds awful but I'm not sure if a relationship is what I ...

Does she not want me to succeed? Any suggestions to get her back too, if you can?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

16 November 2011 (M) - Hey guys I am 19 years old ,and I had been in a relationship for a little over a year until recently. She broke up with me a couple of days back cold heartedly. Info:she has been my friend since childhood. Her and my parents get along pretty wel...

It's been a week since I last heard from my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - I haven't heard from my boyfriend in a week. We've been in a long distance for almost two years. Every now and then, he'll just disappear until I confront him and he'll tell me something about how he's stressed out and can't handle being a bf right ...

I cancelled plans to visit my long distance boyfriend. Now he says he doesn't love me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - I was supposed to go visit my LDR boyfriend but didn't because of stresses in my home life and lack of funds (he said he would've helped with money, but then I wouldn't have any). Now he says he doesn't love me anymore! I've told him that I ...

Should I wait? How can I know if he is a liar or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4548 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - hello there. i met a 53 years old man at work and i started to go out for lunch break with him - the relationship got stronger and we started to go out for valentine and after one year i asked him to marry me. he started to divorce since 3 ...

I think I'm more emotionally involved than he is, should I just cut contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

12 November 2011 (F) - I've recently became single after being in relationships since i was 16, im now 20, and i'm finding it diffcult to get back into dating again. firstly i have been talking to a guy on the internet who i used to go to school with but he moved away. we ...

Is it strange that I am always missing and dreaming of my dead grandmother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4549 days ago

12 November 2011 (F) - My mum and dad split up when i was 7! My mum moved away and i stayed with my dad with my 2 older brothers! Not through choice: i was too young to realise what was going on. Anyway my dad ended up drinking all the time, my brothers were never in ...

Do move on to a more mature, confident, secure man? Or persevere with my military man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

12 November 2011 (F) - I am 52 and have been seeing a military man on/off for a year and a half. He chases me, has me then disappears. When we are together the chemistry and connection is wonderful, but I get too close and he says he doesn't want a relation...

I would hate to fall for her and find out she's playing me.Am I a convenient fantasy or a genuine love interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

11 November 2011 (M) - I met a woman online in a chat room. It wasn't any sort of "Adult" chat room. It was just casual. She lives one state over from me, but we have never met. At first we were just friends, but over time our conversations became more intimate and ...

He'll help his ex who is ill. He chooses to encourage me to pay off my debts. Is he just being kind? Am I making things out of stuff that isnt there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4550 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Ok I know this may sound trivial but given the past couple of months in my LD relationship I dont want to mess anything up. I have posted quite a few times on here and always got good advice. I saw my LD bf last week and had a fanstastic weekend....

Should I wait until my boyfriend returns from Afghanistan to break up with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, Quick back story: My boyfriend is in the Marines and he is currently deployed to Afghanistan. We've been together for a year and a half and had been friends about 5 years before we started dating. The problem: I started a ...

The Guy is Distancing himself from me and I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

10 November 2011 (F) - I started talking to this guy on an iPhone dating app and he seemed to really like me. I gave him my number and we startes texting and Skyping the same day, we really hit it off. Only problem is he lives about 1000 miles from me :( well we've only ...

Missing my Ex. Is feeling Mutual?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

10 November 2011 (F) - I miss my ex so much, though, I feel he doesn't of me. We have been separated for three years(haven't seen each other since) and only spoken on blue moons(very rarely). He has mentioned to me that he has a lot of pictures of me and that he thinks of ...

Date night plans may not work with football! Advice please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4550 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been seeing this man who is roughly the same age as me (two years difference in age - he is 25, I'm 23) for a couple months now, after speaking to him for a month via emails and texts. He is due to come back from a weeks' holiday a...

How can I be more romantic when we live so far apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - I am currently in a long distance relationship with a woman right now and she is becoming dissatisfied with the distance. Neither one of us can afford an airline ticket right now and she is not sure we can maintain this for long if we don't meet ...

My wife shared a hotel room with a male colleague!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - Is it ever OK for a married woman to spend the night in a hotel room with another man? My wife has been working at this new job for 2 years. The company scheduled an out of town trip for seminars which will help her get a promotion that s...

Should I consider Saving a Long-distance Relationship or Should I let it Sink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has recently brought up to me that the distance is tearing her apart, and she doesn't know what to do anymore. She talked about upcoming semesters and how much longer it will be until we see one another again. I asked her if she still ...

Married 5 years now. Is this relationship still intact? Worth saving? He's coming home soon.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - Hi guys, i am so confused and sad. My husband has been outside the country for almost 3 months now. He rarely calls. When he does it is usually for short time. He is so jealous, if i tell him i hav gone out with lady friends, he calls and shouts a...

Should I continue flirting with her even if I know we can't be together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - I am having problems reading this girl She was visiting my town for 4 weeks by some relatives. When we met we were attracted to each other the first week, we went on a moonlight walk and kissed. She doesn't own a phone but she used one of ...

I need help preparing a marriage proposal

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

8 November 2011 (F) - Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...

My Boyfriend versus the guy I really like? They are friends. The other guy wants me to stay with my Bf. Which one do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

8 November 2011 (F) - am 19 i have been with my current boy friend for almost a year. he really loves me, and i like him too but i dont love him. i care about him. but am insecure around him, i dont like being in his company. There is another guy (guy two), he is my bes...

Is it possible to keep weight on your butt and breasts but not your face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

7 November 2011 (M) - For the last 4 years, I have been in LDR and we meet after every three months or sometimes six months. Otherwise we keep it going through phone. There is 400 miles distance between us. When recently I visited her, after eight months, she gained s...