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Archived questions from: July, 2009 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I'm dying with guilt! I feel like I cheated...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Ok this is kind pf complicated but ill try my best to put it in writing ….I was in a long distance relationship and we were totally in love .We meet and after a past abusive relationship I never thought id ever feel for some1 like I did now. His ...

Here we are saying we'll wait for each other... What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Im going to just let everything out because I want an answer. First off... I can't believe im writing on a site like this.. but from the answers ive seen.. i want to. About 2 years ago.. i randomly added this girl, who lives in germany, she ...

Puzzled over break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Where do i begin. I met this girl on a mates stag do last July in Barcelona. We were both single and not out looking for a relationship. But on that night are eyes met and that was it. Exchanged numbers at end of night with a kiss. Came home and the ...

Which guy should I pick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I have been with this guy for more than 4 years now. He is my first love and my best friend. We had our share of problems but amidst all that we managed to survive. My mom loves him like he's her own son and his family and my family are really great ...

Do I ignore him and give him space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I have been seeing my boyfriend on and off since December 2007, it began as a long distance relationship but he moved nearer, to manchester which is about 25 miles from where I live to see me more often. However, this year the realtionship has hit ...

My girlfriend's neighbor...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I have been in a long distance relation for a few years now. We are both looking into avenues that will finally put us in the same city. No luck so far. Anyway, my question is about a re-occuring issue we've had. Let me start by saying that my ...

The distance between my girlfriend and I is starting to cause problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I have a girlfriend who lives 1 hour away from me because I recently moved and now when I call her she's alyways at bbqs and partys and I go to school with alot of pretty girls I'm just afraid I'm not gonna find someone who loves me as much as my ...

Should I wait for my ex or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - i and my ex boyfriend still loves each other but the distance is keeping us apart we are both currently dating but we want each other back... he therefore suggested that we should just wait for next year when the distance issue will be resolved ...

I think I love him but he annoys me with his silence..... is it fair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - well i met a guy a while ago through a friend and i tend to like him in the same way he liked me too.we decided to build up something concrete in the sense that it supposed to be something strong which can not be destroyed that easy.but this has ...

Her daughter told me she is cheating on me...who do I believe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - i got a question for you all.. i have been in a long distance relationship for 12 months. 3 months ago my girl cheated on me with another ..he was an old boyfriend..she said it was the distance and booze that helped her do it.. she said that in wil...

How do I prevent his mood swings, that make him break up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 117 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - It's an interesting situation, actually... You see, I'm in a long-distance relationship with someone who's a few years older than me (though that might not be relevant); I guess you could say that he's a... 'mercurial' boyfriend. I read about that ...

Is he just not into me or shy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for a couple of months and we are constantly flirting with each other. We don't really see each other that often because he has a job in a town 2 hours away from where we both live and I don't know when he comes up. I can tell ...

I don't want to push him but my life needs to move on also!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Well I am back.. Just had dinner with my ex again. His words and his actions have given me every indication he wants us to get back together he did his best at expressing himself which is hard for him. (Sometimes I feel that he never knew the ...

How do I give her that space she needs without stepping aside and going away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for 5 years. It has taken me the better half to realize that she is the one. I have hurt her and broken her heart more than once by way of, moving to oregon. My son lives there and its hard for me to be away. I ...

Should I text him to check to see if he's dead or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - i am somewhat close to my ex boyfriend, and last night he called me from the place he just moved to, and told me that he had relapsed on heroin (he's been pretty much clean for 2 years minus one day-long relapse on heroin and coke)...he told me i ...

Am I at a healthy weight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hello :D I was wondering if I was a healthy weight. I am a 13 year old girl, 5ft 9 and I weigh about 128 lbs. I play some sport, not very often though, and I eat healthily although all my friends say I am really skinny (I have very skinny legs app...

The aloof man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I am really in a confused state of mind. I feel loved starved, and desperate because I have strong feelings for someone, and I know that I am an important person in their life. However, we went through tough times. We met each other in 2007, h...

Should I go to Sydney to visit my online lover or forget about him completely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I really need some advice regarding a long distance male I have had contact with for the last 6 months. He lives in Sydney. I live in Perth. To cut a long story short when I found him on Oasis I was quite vulnerable and hadn't been long out of ...

I never see my BF and now my ex is back on the scene

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 118 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I have no idea if anyone can help me but alright.. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost eight months. and i lived in rochester before i met him, then i moved to my dads, and then we started dating, but then like about 2 months or so i ...

Is the guy I met on holiday playing games with me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - met a guy on holiday, we got on brill. he did show signs of being insecure and a bit jealous. and i think he liked me to chase after him. since i got home i txt him the other week and he did not reply to me although my text did not require a ...

Long distance love is killing me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - hey...i am 15 years old...and i am from greece...i am in love with this guy...he is perfect...i love him and he loves me very much...he means everything 2 me...we want to be together but we cant..theres a hudge problem...he lives in a different ...

I've lied about trivial things, but he broke it off anyway. Will he ever take me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating this taurus for a year now and unfortunately I've lied to him about trivial things about myself simply because I have low self confidence and I felt that I needed to zest myself up a bit to make me look interesting to him (I'm...

He says if I bring jenny into the situation he will end it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Urgent Advice Needed Please Hello everyone who helps people on Agony Aunt. I really need some advice regarding a long distance male I have had contact with for the last 6 months. He lives in Sydney. I live in Perth. To cut a long story short when ...

Will he wait for me while I'm in another country?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 119 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been together for about6 months, but we were seeing eachother for about 6 months before we made it official. We both loved each other deeply and everything was going fine until I recently cheated on my boyfriend by kissing ...

My long distance relationship is over but he still wants me to see him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - ive been in a long distance relationship for 8 months . and on friday i am going to see him for the weekend but last night he said he doesnt tink its working out.spoke to him today and he said he still wants me to go and see him and he still loves ...

I had my heart broken in the past and became cold-hearted. Then I opened my heart to this girl...but she is pulling away. Why is this happening?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

26 July 2009 (?) - So, I never in my life chased after women. Just a male ego. I had fun with girls here and there that came my way but never chased after one, because i've been heart broken in the past and i'm not ready for that again but it seems like its happening ...

Does this prove women want what they can't have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - ok so I met this girl over the internet. I wasn't looking for anyone yet she found me. we've talked and have been texting and talkin for a couple months now. I would have never thought if meet a girl over the internet and fall in love. but I did. ...

Did she cheat on me? Emotionally? And with that kiss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - I am involved with a girl in a lond distance relationship and we've been together for the past 2 years. I was with her for the first year but I had to move abroad for work for a yaer on contract. I've been in touch with her onthe fone for literal...

Was this a dick move on my part?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - Recently i decided to enlist into the Canadian Army i'll be going in for Infantry which will require me to move to Alberta. My girlfriend and i have been talking for quite sometime about this situation and she has decided that once she finishes ...

Whether to go or not to go...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - To go or not to go? that is the question. The guy i like lives 8 hours away, its apparently a rule that the guy should come see u, we havent met yet and i AM DYING TO SEE HIM. He cant afford it though and nor can i. my friend told us to talk and ...

I like chatting and dating online...Anything wrong with online dating or LDR as a result?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - hi I'm a 14 year old boy. I like to go online into chat rooms and talk to girls around my age. when I'm talking to them I always ask of their features such as if they have a big butt or big breast. I love dating girls online. can anybody tell me if ...

Our new LDR is about to gain more distance! How do I keep the spark going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 124 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 17. we just gel! its amazing! but he lives about 3 hours away and we are both still at school so we dont see that much of eachother. its particularly tough at the moment because he is going on holiday for two weeks and ...

Keep in contact or let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 124 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - I met this girl while on vacation 10months ago. She lives in Colorado and I live in Florida. We hit it off and had a great time. We have spoken everyday since we met. She has visited me twice since I have met her even though she has never flown on a ...

I met a Turkish man in Germany and now I'm very confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - hi All I have just returned from a holiday in Germany with some friends who live their. While in Germany I met a Turkish fela the same age as me 34- he has lived in Germany apparently for 12 years or so and seems to be quite successfull in h...

She doesn't initiate contact - should I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Since last year, it has becomes long distance relationship. It goes well for the first few months then have a huge fight. Problem rooted from trust issue and we ended up badly. I believe it is both fault. If only I trust her little more and ...

I'm stuck here for 3-4 years away from my BF and regretting it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - For the first time in my life, I'm regretting a decision I made. I never have before because I've always seen choices as experience, even if I only learn never to make a similar choice again...But now I need some advice on how to live with my ...

Is all as it really seems between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - A brief outline: I met a guy online last year and we got talking pretty seriously straight away about pretty much our whole lives (we just seemed to click). We moved over to talking on the phone a few months later and talk every night. We're due...

She seems to have vanished since I let her know I loved her!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - ok so heres my problem, i met a girl last year around octoberish...we talked online and telephone for about a month until we met in person.she`s in the middle of a divorce at the moment and has been seperated for 2 yrs...so since then we ...

Is he just making fun of me or is he being flirty with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - ok this is my problem. i think i'm in-love with the wrong guy.he has a girlfriend that is far away -like long distance relationship- and the girl really loves him and he loves her (i think). And the worst, he's older than me about 10 years... ...

I'm crazy about a boy, but he lives very far away! Please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - ive met a boy.. and i am crazy about him! i met him after i accidently added him on msn, but when i saw how gorgeous he is, i couldnt help talking to him through webcam and msn. after a day, i also realised how funny, artistic, modest, thoughtf...

Will he ever be serious with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I dated a guy three years ago and although we live in different countries we've stayed in touch. When we dated there was a huge amount of chemistry, we couldnt keep our hands off each other. I didnt feel important to him, i never met him on weeke...

Due to college, we are breaking up in late August! What are some other options so we don't have to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I've known my boyfriend for a full year but have gotten serious since march. I'm 19 years old ( going to be my 2nd year on college) and he's 26 with a stable job ( has his life straight for the most part).since march, we've been doing a long ...

How do I tell if my long distance, on-line interest likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 127 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I really fancy this guy ive known online for years, we finally met over the weekend(he lives in a different city not too far from me), but it was just as friends, we've never talked about dating or anything. I don't know how to tell if he fanci...

How do you make a long distance relationship work, unable to go to see her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - How do you make a long distance relationship work if we cant see each other for a long time... we are both 16 and she lives 11 hours from me so i have no way i can see her. but we really like each other. There's no way i could see her till i was at ...

How do I start relying on myself to make me happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 8 months now. We are completely different in so many ways eg our outlook on life, what we like to do for fun etc. He constantly wants to be out doing things, whereas im happy relaxing watching the ...

Is it true that if a guy doesn't chase a girl, he is not that into her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for a couple of months and we are constantly flirting with each other. We've onlly hung out three times and don't really see each other that often because he has a job in a town 2 hours away from where we both live and I don't ...

Who do you think is right in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - Hey everybody I got this long distance relationship mess here:) I met this girl online and we hit it off. She is in different neighboring country. Not crazy love or anything, but mutual interest and feelings that we like each other. Long ...

B/f constantly asking for money! Even called me in the hospital to ask for some!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in relationship for the past 3 and 1/2 years now (it's long distance: I don't know how we've made it work, but we did). And we both love each other very much! Last year my BF lost his job and as a result he has ...

I told her how I felt but I feel like I rushed her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - Hey all I just wanted to ask for advice on what to do on my situation. So I've been seeing this girl for more than three years now and we've talked ever since we've met. We've met online on an mmorpg and we're been communicating since we've met ...

Don't want to screw the friendship up but should I tell the online girl that I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - okay so met this girl Online shes 16 gonna turn 17 in a couple of days and im already 17 ne who we have been talking for little over a year now and have become real close friends. And I have fallen in love with her... she lives in minnesota and i ...