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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Torn between two lovers, who do I chose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Do you love with the one you're with or wait for the one you love? Man 1: I've been dating a guy for 3 years. I love him more than anyone I've ever known before. Whenever I see him, I know I want to spend the rest of my life with him, even after ...

Our long distance relationship just isn't working...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boo are in a LDR. I was prepared to split up as the distance is so big, he was really keen about keeping it going. My compromise was to talk every day, be it phone, skype, msn, letter you name it. This didn't happen. He started making e...

He's either sleeping or at work, how do I make him see how neglected I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm a military wife, I met my husband in highschool and we've been married for 3 years now. He's working a lot more now so most of the time its just my almost 3 year old daughter and I. The continuous work used to bother me, now I don't care. Part ...

I have a LDR but am drawn towards somebody else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hey, i'm in a relationship at the minute, have been with him for a month now..although at the minute he's in a different country and he isn't moving over here until next year, so it's a long distance relationship. The way i feel at the minute, b...

How can I keep our love alive...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - When you're in a long relationship and you think your lover is falling out of love with you, what should you do to make him stay in love with you?...

Have I just totally ruined any chance I ever had with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Hi, Help! I met this guy abroad. I thought he liked me as he asked me to exchange contact details. We did. I gave him a card which was about missing someone, with my details inside. He rang me after I arrived, to see if I landed safe...

How do I know I'm not just a rebound?

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27 November 2009 (F) - I recently started dating a man who lives 6-7 hours away from me. We met over the summer in my city when we were both in the same month-long professional development program. He is funny and flirty, but he's like that with everyone. I developed a ...

The distance isn't working out and he wants to break up with me but I just can't do it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. we've been at it for almost one full year and i am COMPLETELY attached to him but recently the distance just hasn't been working out. We fight a lot and he's officially tired and bored of me. ...

To stalk the girls at his school, or to be miserable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - so... here's my story. i like this guy. i'v known him since i was 6. we were best friends. and he lives more than 90 miles away. in 6th grade i went out with him a few times. and for the past two years i've been sad, depressed, and obsessed ove...

Long distance relationship, I'm not sure if it's working! what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years now and it only worked out 'cause ever since we started dating, i've been doing every thing he wants. For example, in the first year that we were together, he was insecure and didn't trust ...

Who to choose; my long distance boyfriend who I love very much or the new guy who lives close by?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend who tells me he loves me very much.but i rarely get to see him coz he is very busy with work,we live miles away anyway there's this new guy who i have recently met and he also tells me he loves me yet he is very close what can i ...

I broke up with him because of his manipulative ex, but now I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I have a very complicated situation here. I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy. Now before I actually met him he had this female friend, I knew this girl was secretly in love with my bf. So he and I were just friends in the beginning ...

It's been 5 days and he hasn't called me! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My Long distance guy and I have been communicating and see each other once a month, about 6 months ago the last time i visited for a week and he had been behaving very distant but his excused was because he is getting too close to me so he says he ...

Do I have any hope of a reconciliation for a third time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Do I have any hope of a reconciliation for a third time? In reference to my last post... cutting a long story short we met last year online, Long distance etc we split up first time coz he wasn't ready etc... I knew how I felt really loved him...

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't care any more, should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship, and have been for almost 7 months. It went pretty well at first, and I thought it was 'perfect' during the summer (but perhaps that was just the honeymoon stage). Once school started, we both began to get very ...

I have no idea what he is feeling and I guess he doesn't either?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - So this is quite a long story. I have been dating my boyfriend for exactly 1 year last week. We have a long distance relationship and have from the beginning. We talk and have always talked allll the time whether through texting, phone, email and ...

Feeling miserable over missing my bf! Is this relationship worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old, in college. My boyfriend graduated from college this year and we are staying practically on opposite ends of the country. My problem is that he doesn't seem to have enough time for me. If I call him, he says he will call me back ...

I am literally love sick over this guy! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - hello i was thirteen when i knew him i loved him more then anything in this life and i still do maybe way more , well i left him cause i had to move to an other country for some reasons for over a year now am 19y this summer i went there for vaca...

Is he a "Phony"? Am I being taken down the Primrose Path? HELP!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - What do you think of the situation where you IM and text daily and where a man and woman have exchanged telephone numbers as well, but every time I try to call him, it goes to voicemail (both cell and house phone), and when I ask (via text) if I can ...

I want my girl to feel sexy and be sexy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - My long distance relationship has just eclipsed the 3 year mark. I love my girlfriend, but the distance has been a substantial challenge for us both. We are working to resolve this issue but there is no foreseeable resolution given the current job ...

To those with LDR experience is lack of emotional trust normal before meeting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I love my ldr to death, really, and as cautious as I am to even let myself feel this way, I feel like I might be falling in love for the first time ever. Yet, at the same time, I sometimes feel like I can't believe him when he talks about how ...

He flirts with me, but doesn't want to date me because I'm his friend's ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - okay so im having a bit of a problem. about 3 years ago i met my ex and we were together for a year and a half he was my first love. he introduced me to his best friend straight away and i thought he was lovely. about a year into the relationsh...

What can I get my Navy man for xmas...having a hard time thinking of something! Help!

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22 November 2009 (F) - hey all i apologise that this is totally the wrong site for this i just need a lil help if you dont mind please :) as you all no, its comng up to christmas, im finding it hard to think of soething i could get my boyfriend for christmas.. we have ...

We ended things amicably, so why is he suddenly rude?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for 9 months, it was never exclusive. It then ended when he moved to another city for work and we left on good terms without any closure. We kept in contact as friends for the two months since he's left. But since he left, he's been ...

Two states apart and I feel like I'm losing her, please help!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - So I've been at college for 3 months now, and it's hard on me and my gf of 3 years. I'm two states away. Recently we took a "break" just to see where our lives were, and we both decided it was a mistake, that we never wanted to be apart. BUT, while ...

Lately I've been paranoid about my long distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Lately, I've been really worried about my boyfriend. I feel like I have an unfounded fear... a couple of weeks ago I tried to break up with him and after I started talking to him I realized that he really does love me when previously I had been ...

Should I tell him how I'm feeling or just ignore it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship that seems to be one sided at times. It's been 3 months since we saw each other and almost a month since we spoke. I decided not to call him and see what happens but I now feel like I'm a burden to him. I have con...

I want to spend as much time with her as possible but her family are getting in the way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys, Me and my GF is in a long distance relationship right now. We haven't seen each other for 7 months and counting. Now, I'm going to visit her soon, and me and my whole family are going out of town to a nice beach resort. So I asked my GF...

I have a boyfriend but no friend to talk to if I have a problem or just for fun. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hiya everyone :) Its not really a question question, just kind of needed some other people's views and opinions, or someone to listen really! I have a lovely family who i am quite close to, however when i was growing up they always kept themselves ...

Love Triangle: Should I wait and see how things go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - ok, I'm in a dilemma. I like this guy and he says he likes me too, but he has a gf that he has been on and off with for three years. The complicated thing is that in between their relationship she was married and had 3 kids.(He has no kids with her) ...

I feel as if I have given my all to this guy but I'm worried I might not get anything in return!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hi all, I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years and am now in a long-distance relationship with a guy who I love very dearly. In fact, it was falling for him which made me realise that my previous relationship wasn't working. I fe...

To date or not to date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I've been talking to a guy for almost a year and the past 2 months we've been spending more time together. I have a couple of questions.. he has bad credit and short on money. I feel so shallow when I think of that being the dealbreaker for going to ...

Is this relationship over? Is trying to talk through the trouble ruining my chances?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Long story short... we have had our fair share ofups and downs, it's LDR, he broke up with me first time because he wasn't ready and then asked to take me back a few months ago, I took him back met up with him again, felt like i couldn't ever be ...

Long Distance Troubles

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5272 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months now. He is only 2 hours away but it's still a long ways away when you're in a relationship! I'm 23, live in a small town where all my family is and I've owned a boutique here ...

How do you make a long-distance relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Does anyone have any tips on how to make a long-distance relationship work? I only see my boyfriend at weekends as I'm at university. I was blocking him out of my head so I didn't feel sad but ended really screwing up by cheating on him. We've ...

My b/f doesn't give me enough time, any help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5272 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are in a comited relationship..since 4.5months..we both really love each other..but the problem is that he is not giving me time..he stays 545km away from me..we generally sms each other..he used to give me a lot of time earlier ...

He's giving me contradictory statements, how do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Hey!! Ok....so i'm really confused and need all the advice i can possibly get! Basically...theres this guy that i kinda got together with at the end of summer..but then he had to go back to wales and i'm still here in London. But..we kept it ...

I never told him that I loved him! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - please give some pieces of advice.... my problem goes this way.. i am an ESL teacher for more than a year. i told myself before not to fall inlove with any of my students. but after a year i met a new student who comes from Osaka Japan, he had be...

How do I find out if there is an 'us' without sounding needy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - hi a while back i met this guy and we instantly clicked, the sex with him is amazing i can go so far as to say that its possibly the best sex of my life!!!the thing is he lives in another country which is not a huge deal its like 45min flight and ...

How can I save my LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Ok i love my boyfriend more then any thing. We have been dateing for seven months. He broke up with me once in the beginning of our relationship. He asked me back out and said he made the biggest mistake of his life so i forgave him. Now he to...

How can I help him with this depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 November 2009 (?) - Hi im 18 and I need some advice as to how i can help my boyfriend. For the last 2 weeks my boyfriend has changed. i think he is experiencing depression - i come to this conclusion as i have depression myself and i have been learning about it in my ...

Should I give her time and accept her with open arms when she comes back, if she does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Me and my now ex loved each other a lot and all our friends and family said we were the perfect couple for each other. We both were talking about her moving here, us living together, her getting a job as a PD officer while I finish school. We ...

She needs her time alone right now. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend needs to be alone right now, I have no doubt's that she's the love of my life so I'm going to do everything I can to keep her. We've been together for 2 years. We met on the west coast and fell madly in love and dated for a mont...

I'm really paranoid thinking that she is cheating one me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - Now this is a tough one. Me and my partner have been on and off for 4 years. I love her more than anything and I wish she felt the same but she has said that she doesnt. I cheated on her for 2 months but never had sex with this girl, I had ...

How do I stop the fire from fading in our long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Hi my name is tuesdai Im currently in a long distance relationship with my Bf it has been a 1year and couple months since we were in this. We love each othe dearly but right now we getting the feeling that the fire in fading how do i prevent this ...

Conflicted in having to choose between my girlfriend and my out of state job offer

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - I'll keep it short: I am 20 and I live in Texas. I have an oppurtunity for a good job in New York doing what I love doing. My girlfriend of several years, however, is reluctant to move out of Texas. I love her more than anything, but I'm having ...

Met a man from the Internet but now he says he needs to back off...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I met a lovely man through the internet, we chatted via msn and text for quite a while first before meeting. When we did it was gr8 (for me at lesat) I was crazy about him and thought he felt the same! He came fot the weekend said he had a ...

He says I'm 'getting carried away' for wanting to visit him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Hey!! You guys have to help me!! Ok...so there is this guy that i was/am/could be kinda seeing..but it is a long distance thing...coz he lives in Wales and me in London. BUT...we've only been together a short while so its nothing serious at all...i ...

I will have my car fixed soon so I can see him, what do I say to make things better in the meantime?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - so i have currently been talking to this guy ive known him for a year and he is 2 years older than me in college i am still a senior in highschool, i litterally never get to see him. we text costantly and recently it is just about how he doesnt get ...

How do I make sense of this?

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12 November 2009 (M) - How do you deal with someone online who states they like you very much and want to get to know you better they tell you they want to talk more later on in the day but are in a need to go out now. Then you see them online and say hi, they don't r...