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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Is he a "Phony"? Am I being taken down the Primrose Path? HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

23 November 2009 (F) - What do you think of the situation where you IM and text daily and where a man and woman have exchanged telephone numbers as well, but every time I try to call him, it goes to voicemail (both cell and house phone), and when I ask (via text) if I can ...

I want my girl to feel sexy and be sexy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

23 November 2009 (M) - My long distance relationship has just eclipsed the 3 year mark. I love my girlfriend, but the distance has been a substantial challenge for us both. We are working to resolve this issue but there is no foreseeable resolution given the current job ...

To those with LDR experience is lack of emotional trust normal before meeting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

23 November 2009 (F) - I love my ldr to death, really, and as cautious as I am to even let myself feel this way, I feel like I might be falling in love for the first time ever. Yet, at the same time, I sometimes feel like I can't believe him when he talks about how ...

How can I keep my long distance girlfriend interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 November 2009 (M) - i met this girl but she lives far away i like her a lot and i think she is starting to like me too, but im not sure how to keep a long distance relationship together. i suck at txting, and talking on the computer. Im not sure what to do she seems to ...

He flirts with me, but doesn't want to date me because I'm his friend's ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

22 November 2009 (F) - okay so im having a bit of a problem. about 3 years ago i met my ex and we were together for a year and a half he was my first love. he introduced me to his best friend straight away and i thought he was lovely. about a year into the relationsh...

What can I get my Navy man for xmas...having a hard time thinking of something! Help!

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22 November 2009 (F) - hey all i apologise that this is totally the wrong site for this i just need a lil help if you dont mind please :) as you all no, its comng up to christmas, im finding it hard to think of soething i could get my boyfriend for christmas.. we have ...

We ended things amicably, so why is he suddenly rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for 9 months, it was never exclusive. It then ended when he moved to another city for work and we left on good terms without any closure. We kept in contact as friends for the two months since he's left. But since he left, he's been ...

Two states apart and I feel like I'm losing her, please help!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - So I've been at college for 3 months now, and it's hard on me and my gf of 3 years. I'm two states away. Recently we took a "break" just to see where our lives were, and we both decided it was a mistake, that we never wanted to be apart. BUT, while ...

Now that I attend high school away from my friends, I've become shy and withdrawn

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - I was once the life of the party, but after leaving my friends after middle school, I feel as if I'm not there. The decision was mine... For the past three years, I had been driven 20 miles from home every day to go to school to be with my frien...

Lately I've been paranoid about my long distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 November 2009 (F) - Lately, I've been really worried about my boyfriend. I feel like I have an unfounded fear... a couple of weeks ago I tried to break up with him and after I started talking to him I realized that he really does love me when previously I had been ...

Should I tell him how I'm feeling or just ignore it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship that seems to be one sided at times. It's been 3 months since we saw each other and almost a month since we spoke. I decided not to call him and see what happens but I now feel like I'm a burden to him. I have con...

I want to spend as much time with her as possible but her family are getting in the way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys, Me and my GF is in a long distance relationship right now. We haven't seen each other for 7 months and counting. Now, I'm going to visit her soon, and me and my whole family are going out of town to a nice beach resort. So I asked my GF...

I hate having doubts... and she seems to be full of them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - Uhggg I hoped I wasn't in need to come back and ask a question again :S... I'll start off saying I am in a sort of long distance relationship, I see her on weekends and am at school from Tues - Friday morning. At the beginning of our relatio...

How can I get the intensity back that we once shared...?

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19 November 2009 (F) - My story is super complicated! I do not and want bore you with the details. I just need some advice. Im in my first relationsip. It has been a 3 year long distance relationship. I visit her she visits me and so on. NOt as often as we would like. We ...

I have a boyfriend but no friend to talk to if I have a problem or just for fun. What do you think?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Hiya everyone :) Its not really a question question, just kind of needed some other people's views and opinions, or someone to listen really! I have a lovely family who i am quite close to, however when i was growing up they always kept themselves ...

I broke his heart when I was young and want to show him he can trust me again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Okay so this is going to be a little long and little confusing, but I'd really appreciate any type of advice, so please read it(: When I was 15 I met this guy who we'll call Rob. He was 18 at the time and we hung out once but he basically ignore...

Love Triangle: Should I wait and see how things go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - ok, I'm in a dilemma. I like this guy and he says he likes me too, but he has a gf that he has been on and off with for three years. The complicated thing is that in between their relationship she was married and had 3 kids.(He has no kids with her) ...

I feel as if I have given my all to this guy but I'm worried I might not get anything in return!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hi all, I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years and am now in a long-distance relationship with a guy who I love very dearly. In fact, it was falling for him which made me realise that my previous relationship wasn't working. I fe...

To date or not to date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I've been talking to a guy for almost a year and the past 2 months we've been spending more time together. I have a couple of questions.. he has bad credit and short on money. I feel so shallow when I think of that being the dealbreaker for going to ...

My girlfriend gets easily frustrated with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I have noticed some new behaviour in my girlfriend, she gets frustrated easily now. As far as I know she and I are in a really healthy relationship, I do anything for her but I keep my own life, and she keeps away from me when I need to do my schoo...

I want him to ask me out, but he says the distance is too great.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - I met someone a while back and we hit it off really well and we became instantly interested in eachother. He told me he was going to ask me out but the problem is is the distance. We're also studying at different colleges which makes the situation ...

Is this relationship over? Is trying to talk through the trouble ruining my chances?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Long story short... we have had our fair share ofups and downs, it's LDR, he broke up with me first time because he wasn't ready and then asked to take me back a few months ago, I took him back met up with him again, felt like i couldn't ever be ...

Long Distance Troubles

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months now. He is only 2 hours away but it's still a long ways away when you're in a relationship! I'm 23, live in a small town where all my family is and I've owned a boutique here ...

How do you make a long-distance relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Does anyone have any tips on how to make a long-distance relationship work? I only see my boyfriend at weekends as I'm at university. I was blocking him out of my head so I didn't feel sad but ended really screwing up by cheating on him. We've ...

My b/f doesn't give me enough time, any help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are in a comited relationship..since 4.5months..we both really love each other..but the problem is that he is not giving me time..he stays 545km away from me..we generally sms each other..he used to give me a lot of time earlier ...

He's giving me contradictory statements, how do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Hey!! Ok....so i'm really confused and need all the advice i can possibly get! Basically...theres this guy that i kinda got together with at the end of summer..but then he had to go back to wales and i'm still here in London. But..we kept it ...

I never told him that I loved him! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - please give some pieces of advice.... my problem goes this way.. i am an ESL teacher for more than a year. i told myself before not to fall inlove with any of my students. but after a year i met a new student who comes from Osaka Japan, he had be...

How do I find out if there is an 'us' without sounding needy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - hi a while back i met this guy and we instantly clicked, the sex with him is amazing i can go so far as to say that its possibly the best sex of my life!!!the thing is he lives in another country which is not a huge deal its like 45min flight and ...

How can I save my LDR?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Ok i love my boyfriend more then any thing. We have been dateing for seven months. He broke up with me once in the beginning of our relationship. He asked me back out and said he made the biggest mistake of his life so i forgave him. Now he to...

How can I help him with this depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Hi im 18 and I need some advice as to how i can help my boyfriend. For the last 2 weeks my boyfriend has changed. i think he is experiencing depression - i come to this conclusion as i have depression myself and i have been learning about it in my ...

Should I give her time and accept her with open arms when she comes back, if she does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Me and my now ex loved each other a lot and all our friends and family said we were the perfect couple for each other. We both were talking about her moving here, us living together, her getting a job as a PD officer while I finish school. We ...

She needs her time alone right now. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 8 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend needs to be alone right now, I have no doubt's that she's the love of my life so I'm going to do everything I can to keep her. We've been together for 2 years. We met on the west coast and fell madly in love and dated for a mont...

I'm really paranoid thinking that she is cheating one me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - Now this is a tough one. Me and my partner have been on and off for 4 years. I love her more than anything and I wish she felt the same but she has said that she doesnt. I cheated on her for 2 months but never had sex with this girl, I had ...

How do I stop the fire from fading in our long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 10 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Hi my name is tuesdai Im currently in a long distance relationship with my Bf it has been a 1year and couple months since we were in this. We love each othe dearly but right now we getting the feeling that the fire in fading how do i prevent this ...

Conflicted in having to choose between my girlfriend and my out of state job offer

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - I'll keep it short: I am 20 and I live in Texas. I have an oppurtunity for a good job in New York doing what I love doing. My girlfriend of several years, however, is reluctant to move out of Texas. I love her more than anything, but I'm having ...

Met a man from the Internet but now he says he needs to back off...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I met a lovely man through the internet, we chatted via msn and text for quite a while first before meeting. When we did it was gr8 (for me at lesat) I was crazy about him and thought he felt the same! He came fot the weekend said he had a ...

He says I'm 'getting carried away' for wanting to visit him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 11 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Hey!! You guys have to help me!! Ok...so there is this guy that i was/am/could be kinda seeing..but it is a long distance thing...coz he lives in Wales and me in London. BUT...we've only been together a short while so its nothing serious at all...i ...

I will have my car fixed soon so I can see him, what do I say to make things better in the meantime?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - so i have currently been talking to this guy ive known him for a year and he is 2 years older than me in college i am still a senior in highschool, i litterally never get to see him. we text costantly and recently it is just about how he doesnt get ...

Long distance: will it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 11 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Me And My Boyfriend of a year and a couple of month. Have are currently going through a long distance relationship. I'm in miami fl and he's in savannah ga. I feel terribly bad because during this month I kissed two boys one was my ex and the other ...

How do I make sense of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 10 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - How do you deal with someone online who states they like you very much and want to get to know you better they tell you they want to talk more later on in the day but are in a need to go out now. Then you see them online and say hi, they don't r...

Can two people successfully come together again when distance is no longer a factor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Long distance relationships are incredibly hard and I know that not everyone can handle them. I was with my ex-bf locally for a few months and we fell head over heels in love. Then I moved across the country for work. We were long distance for ...

My LDR didn't work out, but I can't get him out of my head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 12 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I'm 28 years old and during the past 10 years I've never been single... until now. In August I broke up with my boyfriend, with whom I had gone out for 2 years. I made the decision because I fell for someone else. The thing is, this guy lives v...

I am isolated from friends and family, and my boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship that I am not happy in. I feel that my boyfriend does not love me or care about me. He does not treat me well. He hits me and says stuffs to me. When he does it he says he is either joking or was angry but if i do anything ...

I had just started to get over her and now she texts me saying she wants me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - ok so my ex and I were in a long distance relationship. I was in love with her and she told me the same. we met in person after a few months and we had a real good time. soon after we got back home to our own places. she broke it off and didn't give ...

Dating an older man who won't come to visit me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi guys! I'm in a long distance relationship of 1 and a half years now, with a wonderful man I really adore. He's 40 and I'm 24, big gap but we get on great and he makes me laugh all the time. Basically, I have to go away to uni for approx 6 mon...

Will our relationship last if he moves half way across the country?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - heres the scenario.. We are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years. I switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our f...

How do I make this long distance relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - Hi there, I have recently started a long distance relationship with a girl in America. And me being from the UK. We both love each other very much but we only get to see each other every few months. And we're both finding it hard but I'm willing to ...

He's sending mixed signals. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Hey!! Ok...so I met this guy (he's 20) right at the end of summer and we kind of got together, went out a few times, and i really liked him....and i think he liked me too. SO..then he had to go back to uni (which is in Cardiff!!) and i'm still here ...

I have a problem with my boyfriend talking to girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 14 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I have a big problem. I'm extremely not okay with my LDR boyfriend making any new female friends. I know it's impossible to separate the two when A) I'm so far in distance to actually see if it's just a friendly thing and B) there are only two ...

How can this girl who told me she loved me break it off so out of the blue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - so a couple years ago I met a girl online. I would say she's perfect in my eyes but that would be an understatement. needless to say I loved her so much. I don't know how I could when I met her over the internet. we talked every day. via text or ...