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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Have you ever gotten to the end of your teenaged years and realized you didn't do anything?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - I'm actually quite annoyed at myself, i'm 19 and i don't feel like i've lived my teenage life to the fullest! I haven't slept with anyone.. STILL. I haven't experimented or at least tried one drug, something even small such as weed. I haven't had a ...

FWB said I love you, then took it back?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - Today I was talking to my fwb when towards the end of the phone call he said "I love you". I immediately replied with "what" since it was such a shock and he repeated it. I said "no you don't" and said bye and hung up. A few minutes later he...

Found out my fiance has been cheating....should I go ahead with the wedding or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - Im about to get married with my bf of 2years. Ours was a long distance relationship for a year as we are both working abroad. Communication had been constant, almost everyday we did get in touch. Never did i doubted my bf's love and sincerity ...

Is love really worth fighting for? Should you have to fight for love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - Is love really worth fighting for. weve all seen it in the movies where the hero saves the planet defeats the bad guys and tattered and torn he gets the girl or the girl gets the guy.... roll credits. In the movies the hero faces impossible odds ...

Is sex nessassary for a happy life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - How important is sex in life? Apart from the whole producing life bit. Is sex necessary for a happy life. Sex causes a lot of problems in peoples lives from unwanted children to emotional and physical complications. If sex was not a factor in life ...

I want my husband to dress as a woman permanently, are there any pro's or con's to my plans? Has anyone else pulled this off before?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - A few months ago I talked my 25 year old husband into dressing up in my clothes during sex play. He is a small framed somewhat effeminate, 5'8" 145 pound guy. I was very much amazed and turned on by how much he looked like a real female. Here is ...

Is he scared of taking that next step? Or has he changed his mind about getting engaged?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - Background: My boyfriend and I are both 21, and have been faithfully together for 4.5 years. Right from the start, we both felt that we'd found 'the one', and he made it very clear that he hopes to marry me one day (3 weeks into the relation...

Does your families opinion have bearing on the race of those you date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - Would you ever not date a particular ethnicity because of your families opinion?...

Is beauty a blessing or a curse?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - Do extremely attractive people have a more difficult time maintaining a relationship? With all their options and the multitudes drooling over them does it make it more difficult for beautiful people to stay in a relationship....

Fell in love with a guy after a week and now trying to have a LDR in another language! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - So. Problem. I'm absolutely in love with a wonderful young man who I met during the summer over the course of a week. After that week, of course, we each returned to our respective homes, and are now literally thousands of miles apart. The chanc...

Should I choose a major that I like or challenge myself to something new that I have an interest in?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - I'm graduating next year and I having a heard time choosing a major my choices are business management and graphic design. I can't choose between the because it's pros and cons the reasons are I love to draw industrial design and graphic design is ...

Is an abortion ever morally wrong because it transgresses the father's rights?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - Sometimes the mother wants an abortion and the father wants her to have the baby. Is an abortion ever morally wrong because it transgresses the father's rights? A Post in here made me think of this question. Would like to hear peoples opinions...

I don’t know if the issue is me being insecure or jealous, or his past, how he is, his stubborness, meaness and defensiveness or a combination of it all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4520 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - So I have known this guy for about 4 years but we barely spoken until this year. He had a girlfriend when I met him and SHE just broke up with him last year. I ran into him again about May of this year and we started talking and became very close ...

Why cant my ex just forgive me for cheating on him? I regret my actions yet he's stubborn as hell

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - I know it's long, hope someone wants to read it though.. I really want to get back with my ex boyfriend who I had 5 years ago (at this time i was 15 and he was 19). He was my first love and I was his, we had a wonderful relationship and...

Paranormal Activity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - I feel like I'm going crazy. I'm so scared right now and I suppose I've been feeling uneasy for some time, I've just been trying to ignore it... But I’m really starting to think that there might be something in my house. It started off smal...