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Archived questions from: 4 November, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Why do people have sex outside of marriage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm15, and I'm so sick of hearing about people my age losing their virginity!!! I mean, what happened to losing it on your wedding night?? I just want to know why people have decided that it's soooo important to have sex in a relationship? I ...

He is abusive and neglectful, skips work and is attached to his computer. What kind of man is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I have been with a man for close to 3 years after his divorce in 2008. He started to become violent but yet abusive in his own way towards me. I ignored all signs and continue the relationship. We moved in together and I began to see he was attached ...

Will I ever love again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I dated a guy for six years. He was my first real relationship, I guess you could say my first love. We got engaged and had plans to get marriied. After we got engaged we started having a lot of problems. I loved him and he loved me though he wasnt...

How can I control the thoughts that pop into my head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - this is more of a pshycology question, why do random thoughts pop into my head??? and why can't I control my own mind?? some thoughts pop into my head, and they're thoughts I'd never think of otherwise, because one is of my amazing girlfriend ...

When you go out with someone, do you have to have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I know, the question sounds silly. I was just wondering, when you 'get together' with someone does it always have to get physical? I don't mind kissing and stuff but it seems that there's a lot of pressure for teenagers to have sex as soon as...

He cheated, now I am falling for someone else and have no idea what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Ok, this is probably going to sound like I'm a complete bitch, but I do have a conscience and I do feel bad about what I'm doing here. I'm 26 and have been with my bf for 2 years. He cheated on me a year ago, and has been flirting online ...

Am I the only girl in the world who has taken their partner back after he cheated and had a baby with someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - has anybody else taken there partner back after they have cheated and had a baby with somebody else?i feel im the only one in the word?...

Good age to get married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - what age would be a good age to get married?...

Watery bath???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - What does it do if you inject water in your ass? Can it be harmful?...

We don't speak the same language!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - I'm in love with a chinese girl and I believe she loves me also. She doesn't speak English. I don't speak chinese. We can only communicate through email, mobile and friends (interpreters). What should I do?...

Is this just my negativity from being cheated on in the past? Is this a normal rate relationships go at? Or is he playing me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Hi All I am 29 and have been seeing a 20 year old man for 3 months. The problem is when we are together he is so lovely, and tells me how much he likes me and I am amazing etc. However, although he texts me every day the relationship just ...

End relationship or keep trying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I am late 40's and have been involved with a man for 4 years...a comitted relationship, but we are not engaged and do not live together. We each have 2 children...older teenagers. The beginning of our relationship was great, expected to marry this ...

I think I am not "in love" with my boyfriend of 8 years anymore, and now an old crush is back on the scene I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship which I been in for 8 years, I love him but not sure if I'm in love with him. I have recently been in contact with a old crush and the past 2 weeks we got close, my heart telling me to be with him but I don't know please help ...

I thought frogs were supposed to turn into princes, not the other way around!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I have a really big headache literally today because of a man I thought I knew but he turned out to be someone totally different and a liar. I have been dating someone for some months now - he gets on great with my child and some weekends we get ...

I had a relationship with a guy who had been with his girlfriend for 4 years and now I'm pregnant he wants me to have an abortion, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - im been since this guy for 8 months and im totally in love with him, theres a connection there big time and always have a fairly good sex life, but hes in a reltionship for the past 4y ears and admits he does love her and now ive found out im 2 ...

How could a man be like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Why would a guy not be interested in women until he was in his late 20s,never settles down,but had a bit of a relationship with someone years ago,keeps going round another womens house for sex now and again,when he finds out shes pregnant he wants ...

How do I get out of this slump without letting it have an effect on my relationship as well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I've just been made redundant from my job and I'm gutted to say the least. I love my work, I love the girls I work with and more than anything I'm worried about money and how I'm going to aupport my family. I do have a partner who works but even ...

In love with 2 totally different women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - I’m in love for two difficult women and I don’t know what to do: The French woman – She is 10 years older than me. I had a one year relationship with her, but she was breaking up all the time, so many times I never know when is the last one and...

I can't put up with this abuse any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Well me and my baby's dad been together for 5 years, and a little after a year he started throwing things at me, yelling at me, now its kicking me, socking me in the side of my head and at times he does it in front of our kids and he only does it if ...

Is it selfish of me to want more when she says she wants just friendship?Or is she playing games with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - Hi, There are two parts to this question, but they are really both of the same question: 1) I have been friends with a girl for about a year. We started off as casual acquaintances, then got closer. She says I am a dear friend to her. She is ...

Love him or "in love" with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Well my boyfriend and i been dateing for almost 3 months now. he tells me he loves me, and i tell him i love him back. but im not sure if i really do. i know i like him and i care about him so much, but in love with him no. or am i just confused ? ...