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Big Questions: Help and advice

I want to stop hurting and move on but I don't know how! Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I am being so silly and need some help on how to finally get over my ex, please. We broke up a year ago. We'd been together 9 years, lived together for 5 years until I found out he was cheating on me with a woman from work. So we split up, he ...

Married man but now I KNOW I prefer men... help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - I've been married to a woman who I love very much for 4 years now and have been with her for almost 7 years. Before we hooked up, I was in two consecutive homosexual relationships. She knew and even supported me at that time, and we were good ...

Why should I raise HIS children while he does time in prison???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I'm in a bit of a squeeze. I've been married for 6 months to my boyfriend of 3 years. We have had continuous issues with his infidelity and disloyalty and I don't trust him. Recently he was sentenced to a minimum of 5 years in prison. When he ...

Mum wants to die, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - My mum is very ill. She has a wide range of multiple illnesses and is in alot of pain. The illnesses include: Emphysema and COPD Chronic Heart Disease Chronic Kidney Disease Cerebral Vascular Disease Fybromyalgia and Arthiritis From...

Where are all the real women???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - I was what is called a player in my early 20's. Now I am 36 and a single Father to my amazing 5 yr old boy. I haven't dated since his mom left 5 years ago. I tried a couple of times but it seems like games. Most women are not interested once they ...

Love lost in a storm of shame.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Help! I've never been one to have a strong sex drive but recently, like the last year or so, the libido really kicked in. I was engaged but he didn't have much interest in warming up those sheets more than once a month. You see where this is ...

This isn't the way she should be acting after her father's death.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - dear cupiders, I really need help on this one. My neighbor who became a little sister to me is only fithteen and in Febuary her father past away. Now before this she was a sweet spoiled little girl, and she was very misunderstood. Her father did a...

Does it matter if someone you love has had too many partners?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - If you meet somone and you then develop feelings for them and then love them, will it not matter to you if they've had too many partners or hardly any at all. No matter what age (be it 20, 30 or 40)? Just asking out of curiosity as I'm not the most...

Is there any way of making a name for yourself in the job market without a degree?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - This is not a question on relationships but I am still looking for some advice/guidance from the older working generation! I'm currently 2 years into a 4 year course studying Mathematics at Edinburgh University. Before this my CV was building up ...

I'm not in a very good place at the moment and need your help guys...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt Please can you help. I am 54 years of age as is my husband. Recently I have noticed that he has been visiting porn sites on the internet most mornings and evenings. Is this normal for a man of his age? Our sex life hasn't ...

Ladies, what's the big deal with making the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

3 August 2010 (?) - Hey Guys, I've been posting on this site for a while now and there's something that's been bothering me, something that I just can't figure out. Why are women so afraid of, adverse to or just straight up against making the first move? ...

How do I deal with jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - How do I deal with jealousy of people talking to my friends or change this? I get jealous when other people talk to my friends as they have their attention. I was never like this when I was at high school because I only had a few friends...

After the abortion I am feeling depressed but I cant talk to my partner about this.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - i had abortion 6 weeks ago i know it was for the best because i got a 6 month old baby and i got 2 older kids but i just feel so depressed, one min i want to cry the next im lashing out i cant talk to my oher half about this cus he think i want an ...

Can you be sympathetic to a person who has not been able to fully experience their sexuality?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - This question may seem long and convoluted but there is an underlying unity I can absolutely assure you if you just take the time to read between the lines and try to see how things might look from my perspective. I hope you can see when a disag...

My ex has totally messed up my head, should I see a doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - Hey people, This is going to be the last time i post something on this because i think my head is going? My ex totally messed me about, lied to me, messed me totally about. one week she wanted me, the next didnt then when it all came to a end she ...

Who's the Daddy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Morning everybody well i have something to ask im 7weeks pregnant and very happy about it but something is bothering me , well you see me and my husband have regular sex but then we tryed something else for 1 day i had sex with someone else i was ...

I can't seem to make anybody really interested in me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I am 18 years old, and I have never had a boyfriend. I'm very open about everything, and I always say whatever I think. I value people for being different, though sometimes I feel I have an impatient and rushed personality. Maybe that's why I can't ...

Is it normal to not want to experience any feelings at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - Hi, I went through a very bad period in my life almost a year ago and experienced a lot of intense emotional pain and the feeling of causing someone else intense pain. At one point, I became overwhelmed to the point of not being able to get out ...

We really want to keep the baby but my 14 year old girlfriend's mum wont let us, what is the best thing for us to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - im 16 year old boy. my gf is 14 and she is pregnant. her mom found out and she is trying to say we cant keep it. she is saying that we eather have to adopt the baby to her mom, adopt it out or we have to have a abortion... we dont want to do any of ...

Boyfriend is HIV positive and we want children, so which man do I choose to be the father of my child?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

3 August 2010 (?) - My boyfriend is HIV positive and we both want children...but i dont want to do it medically so i have to decide whether i want my ex or his friend who is married to get me pregnant. i weighed the options but i'm still confused...who do i choose? my ...

Is it normal to hate being at this school because I feel it is the reason for splitting us up?

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3 August 2010 (F) - Any kind of advice or words of wisdom would be much appreciated.... I just graduated high school and decided to go out of state. Right after I chose to go out of state I met a wonderful guy... He was someone I truly fell in love with. We dated f...

How do I tell my mum I am pregnant at 13 by a 17 year old guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Hey, I am 13 and pregnant. :| My boyfriend is 17. I want to keep the baby. But, my parents would never allow it. How do I tell my parents I am pregnant. I know automatically my mom would call me a slut. I just found out today. But, I was thin...

Is it ok to have phone sex with a friend before marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I am 28 year old girl, not married. Recently one of old friend told me about the sex process, since then I get aroused and started fantasing about sex when I am alone. He also told me about masturbation, so when ever I am alone, I call him or he ...

Why do some girls act this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - this is more complaining than anything else..its an observation i have made..i have some friends with boyfriends who i would say are the type you would have really absolutely and positvely nothing to worry about..and the thought wouldn't even cross ...

Is it weird that we've never discussed our financial situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I was talking to my mom the other day and she says to me that it's strange that although I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year I don't know much about his finances, salary etc. I've never wanted to know or asked, and he hasn't asked me ...

If he doesn't want her anymore, why is he going back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Me and my ex had been together 12yrs, i was 16 and he was 27.... im now 28 and hes 39, we have 4 children together but in feb we boke up, it was ment to be just a break, to clear our heads... but i found out he was seeing an old flame from when he ...

What does 'Trust' mean to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Would someone tell me what you think "Trust" means in a marriage? What do you think both partners should be bringing to the table? I just want to see if I am normal?...

How do you cope with being alone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - How do you cope with being alone? I hate it. I have never been in a relationship, never had a boyfriend, never had sex. Is there some magic formula for dealing with the lonliness and watching everyone else move forward with their lives, marriage,...

How can you know if love will last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Can u tell me what love means to u I'm so confused I don't really know. I know I don't love the guy that I'm with now and I'm a bit dissapointed cuz I thought I loved him I always wanted to be with him I felt something everytime we kissed it just ...