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writes:I was talking to my mom the other day and she says to me that it's strange that although I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year I don't know much about his finances, salary etc.I've never wanted to know or asked, and he hasn't asked me about mine either. We don't live together and when we go out we take it in turns to pay for dinner,movies, etc.I know he's got an investment property and I know that he's not doing badly. I'm an attorney and I do fine as well.Should I be worried that we haven't had the financial talk yet?I feel that when the time comes to move in together I will want to know, but for now, do I need to know? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010): Thanks for your answer, I thought the same but it's good to get someone else's thoughs on this.
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (3 August 2010):
 If you don't have the desire to know... don't ask. Until you guys are ready to move in together or get married. You guys are just dating so there's not need to get all complicated.
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