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Archived questions from: 18 September, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Why do I constantly feel inadequate or inferior to other people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Why do I constantly feel inadequate or inferior to other people? I never think that I am better than them even if I have a nicer personality or am prettier etc. And I really hate it when im with a guy and I know his ex's and they are pretty. I ...

How do I stop feeling so needy and dependant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

18 September 2007 (M) - I rely too much on being in a relationship with my girlfriend for happiness, which means I'm always trying to make it more secure by being overly affectionate (which in turn means, I interpret a lack of return affection in a negative manner, and ...

We live in a really high crime and polluted area b/c my husband doesn't want to quit his job! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I hate where my husband and I live. I've lived here all my life (I'm 25) and my husband (24) moved here about 6 years ago. It's been fine up until the last several years. Now, for some reason, everything about this place is taking a dive. We b...

My friend is unsure about staying w/ her bf. We're going out soon, how should I tell her I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

18 September 2007 (M) - Ive met this girl in college ive known for about a month now. We both are really good mates and like doing the same stuff. She is really hot and I am going out with her soon. I fancy her but dont know what to do. She has a bf but shes mentioned she ...

I don't know how she'd take it if I tell her how I feel about her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have this very good female friend I am seriously attracted to. We find each other beautiful and appreciate each other's friendship. However, I crave some intimacy with this friend. Even though she's said she loves me, I don't know how...

Can someone please tell me about abortion pills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Hi I what shall a girl do, if she misses her first period and finds out she is pregnant. If she doesn't want the baby, Can she take abortion pills? What are abortion pills? How does an abortion take place in different stages? thanks...

How do you know when a guy is being genuine? I'm afraid I could be "blinded" by impressions.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - How do you know when a guy is being genuine? How do you know when he is truly nice? How do you know when a guy isn't being fake??? I've just met a guy who I'm dating and Im worried although I think hes a pretty good guy, that I may just be to blind ...

I'm bi - should I tell my best friend that I fancy her? She's got a guy, so I know I'd be rejected.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Ok this is simular to my other question but with a little more detail. Im bisexual my best friend is the only one who knows that ive only known her for about a year. Shes got a boyfriend. But i fancy her. Im not sure to tell her that i fancy her as ...

I think my partner is going off me - how can I regain lost confidence and realize I'm not at risk of losing my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

18 September 2007 (M) - I'm in a loving relationship with an older woman who has two children. I've never been happier, but I see her turning inwards, sometimes. She says she has issues, with her looks, getting older, etc,. I know she needs me to be strong, confident and ...

I think my bf's ex faked her suicide to get out of the relationship - how can I verfiy that she's dead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Could her suicide be a lie? Four years ago my boyfriend received a phone call telling him his on/off girlfriend had killed herself. He didn't go to any funeral, the call was from one of her friends, and I have searched the death records there is...

Is it normal for a guy not to let go of the last relationship when he's involved in the next one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupids I have been with this guy for four months now. He is wonderful and very appreciating of me. We are very good friends and the relationship is progressing well. When we started he told me he was dating someone who is 1000 miles away ...

Did I take the pregnancy test too early? Is there a chance I could ge pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - i recently had unprotected sex, i haven't missed a period as such i started bleeding about 4days earlier than my period was due, it started off a brown colour then gradually turned redder, it was really strange, it would go from nothing in the ...

How do you know when is a safe time to give yourself to someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - When I finally decided to have sex for the first time, it was with my bf who I had been going with for 6months. The following month he treated me like crap! I finaly broke it off a month later, at the 7month mark. It made me feel like he was puting ...

My current bf is a lot like my ex. I don't want to repeat what happened - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy recently for a couple of weeks and I really like him and he really likes me too. The only thing I have so far seen that may stop this working out in the long run is that he works so much! He works 50, nearly 60 hours a week! ...

I cheated on my fiance b/c I felt lonely! Do I tell him? How can I repair the relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I been with the same guy for the past five years. We got engaged a few months ago. He is truely a wonderful man. Two nights ago I cheated on him with a guy I work with. I believe that the reason I cheated was because I was lonely. My fiance has ...

How can you tell if you're in love or if you're just attached to avoid being alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - how do you know if you still love your boyfriend or partner? or is it attachment because you dont wanna be alone? i get confused sometimes because i wonder if it's supposed to be like a fairy tale where you get butterflies all the time when you ta...

How can I make sure he'll write to tell me where he is once he's back in the U.S.?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - How do I know if he will write back to me? I'm friend to this guy in the Air Force. We've been keeping in touch since December last year. He's in Aviano Italy, but recently got orders to come back to the U.S. but didn't told me where exactly. I...

Has anyone had a good relationship w/ their affair and/or w/ someone who is already attached?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Just wondering, has anyone ever had a happy ending out of having an affair, with a married partner or with someone who is just attatched? I'm just curious....