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Big Questions: Help and advice

Why is age of consent in UK lower than age to view porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

4 November 2007 (M) - I was wondering why the legal age for sex in britain is 16 but most porn films are 18. It doesn't make sense. Does anyone know why this is? ...

I've missed the boat. It's long gone now. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

4 November 2007 (?) - I've been in love with this girl for three years and she's had feelings for me for five years. a couple of weeks ago I told her how i felt. But she said I was to late, I'd waited to long. now she's going out with this other guy. when I see them ...

My husband doesn't have time for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 11 years. He was previously married before with one child. I have taken care of this child since day 1, his mother is no longer a part of his life. We have since had 2 more children, so now I have a 15, 8 and ...

How else to show I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (M) - I get on well with my dad. In fact if it hadn't been for him I wouldn't be the man I am now. I just have a sligth problem. I do love my dad, but because I'm a guy, it's difficult to say that to him. I do hug him (i'm 20) so I think that's a way of s...

Can I forgive my cheating ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Is it possible to forgive a cheating boyfriend? I dont know what to do. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and we were friends for much longer. He is a kind hearted gentleman but the past 6 months something came over him. I am 22 and he is 25, he ...

UK national insurance question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Does anyone know what the minimum age in the uk is to be able to have a national insurance number? what i can send off for myself thankyou...

Does he want me just for sex, or is there a future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt no my ex so it was nice to talk. im not read...

I never wanted to be the "other woman"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I started seeing this guy eight months ago. We had a good relationship for the first six months, and then one day he gets a call. The woman he had been seeing before was pregnant. 6 months pregnant, she never contacted him, until then. I’m I stupid ...

Do you think he would say yes if I asked him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - hi aunts i wonder if you could please help me. Sorry its so long. There is this guy that i REALLY REALLY like. ive known him for years. i used to be good friends with his sister in school(we still speak). im 18 and hes 19. The problem is thou...

How can I handle this and maintain dignity

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Thank you to all who respond here. I broke up with my boyfriend because of his cheating and roving eye and have no interest in maintaining a friendship with him. We are on a committee together and he has not said the nicest things about me..not ...

How to KISS

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I really wanted to snog my last bf, but I don't know how to, so I didn't, then he dumped me. I now fancy this other guy but I'm scared that he'll ask me to kiss him and I won't know how!...

I get worried but I don't want to stop her from doing things.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

4 November 2007 (M) - I have been goin out with my girlfriend for 11 months now. We have both made it clear what we want from this relationship and how much we love one another, But everytime she says shes goin out drinking with her friends i get paranoid and it leads to ...

I really like a boy but I'm worried about his attitude!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I really fancy this boy in yr8, I am in yr 7, he flirts with loads of other girls, but not as much with me. I think he likes me but I think he thinks I am too young. He is a very strange boy, as in way taller than average (but then, so am I,) and he ...

It would make it worse if she found out from someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I hooked up with my friends boyfriend about two months ago while they were still dating, we did it twice and continued doing it even after they broke up. The deal was we would never ever tell anymore. I was at a party last night and I told about six ...

Why don't guys make a move on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Hello. Im 15, and turning 16 soon. And my deepest darkest confession is, I've never been kissed. What i can understand is, why no guy makes their move? I mean, I'm smart, pretty, funny.. Jeesh, what do you want? A barbie doll? ...

Who would you choose - money or no money?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Ok,Simple question. If you re torn betweet two men for marrige, One of whom Is pretty rich(can have laisure and relaxed life with), and the Other not so much(indeed may have money problem later), You like them both in certain way, Who would you ...

How can I tell if he truely loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - ok. so i told this guy I love him. he said he loves me 2. but does he really love me? i mean, how can i tell it's true? HELP...

How can you tell what love is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Ok. I really really like this guy who is 3 years older than me. He is funny, kind, shares some of the same interests as me (and as a bonus he is gorgeous aswell!!) However i don't see him very often as he is away at boarding school for most of the ...

Potential proposal, but how can I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Hi I am 17 and I am dating a guy who is in the U.S.A. and he wants to marry me ... but how can I be sure he is not cheating on me? (Mod note: required heavy editing)...

Why didn't they hit on me when I was single?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 305 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Hello, things seem to be every confusing and betrayed... Lately I have Cute guys after me and i thought about it, how come they didnt hit on me when i was single? ...

My boyfriend is moving half the country away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I am 15 years old as well as my boyfriend. We have been going out for 10 months and our 1 year is on Febuary 16th. We are both Military Brats and live with our parents. Currently I live off post and he lives on post so about 15 minutes away. We go ...

Have I gone too far?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (M) - Hi i'm 20 years old, happily engaged to an amazing girl and have a daughter that I love so much. I work behind a bar in a busy nightclub and recently a new girl has started her and no matter how hard I try I cant keep her out of my head, and with ...

Should I let her know how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (M) - i recently posted a question which really relates to this one but time has passed and im still in the same situation, i recently told you that this girl i like talks to me when i see her on nights out. her friends come up to me and yell me she likes ...

Does this shy guy like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - My crush knows I like him or that atleast I did at one point anyway. Sometimes he acts like I'm not there and other times he's like every where that I go.The other day he was walking towards where I hang out on his own. He was on the phone and he...

His car brok down and can't continue this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I am a 38 year old woman who was in a long distance relationship with a wonderful man. He is handsome, charming, smart, fun, kind, and everything else that a man should be. I have never met a man like him in my entire life. The problem was that ...

Beyone annoyed at friend of opposite sex who is obsessed and "secretly" in love with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - help! for quite some time now my best guy friend (Mark)has been secretly in love with me although my friends and I are very aware of his feelings for me. Recently though I have become so annoyed with him but dont know what to do or say. Mark texts ...

I can't see watching tv and just blurting out "I'm Pregnant!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Hey everyone im 33 and have been with my husband since we were 16 n married for 7 years. We are very much in love owever i have a problem. I'm pregnant with his baby(obviously) and i don't know how to tell him. I've only told our 17 year old ...

Why does he insist on family functions etc.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Hi! I broke up with my boyfriend three weeks ago, after which I found out he'd cheated the whole time we were together ( a total of 2 and a half years, one and a half we lived together). I don't know if he slept with any of those women, but he did g...

What my bf doesn't know, won't hurt him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I am 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. he cheated on me but i decided to stay with him. recently i have been texting someone else, my boss. we have always had a flirty relationship but in my last shift (as a ...

What does this mean, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Okay I really need help with this. My ex-boyfriend and I "dated" for two months...although I wouldn't exactly call it dating because we didn't really get along and barely talked to each other. It was my first relationship so I didn't really kn...

Should I hold on when he has another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I dated this guy for a year and a half. We broke up and hadn't talked for a while when he started texting me, he has a girlfriend and has only been dating her for 2 months. He always calls me and texts me even when he is with her, He ...

Are relations about sex or love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - earlier my families were planning for me to have arranged merraige and now they seem like they drop the subject as a result i stayed vergin till now. the thing is i don't know how to choose the first guy to have sex with plus my past ...

I'm 17 and so scared.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - hey i had unprotected sex d other night.. i was drunk bt took d pill the next day.. bt stupidly enough i had unprotected sex the followin night with a different guy.. one i liked.. i hvnt taken the pill yet and its two days after.. are u ab...

For the child's sake, should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I haven't had my period for about a month and a half. My daughter's dad wanted to work things out, again. I thought about it for awhile. So, I decided to give it another chance. He wanted to get married, move in together, have another ...

I feel stupid like I've acted like a teenager.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - please give some advice i am currently going through a seperation after 14 years together because weve become friends not lovers. we have 3 young children together. during this seperation ive become attached to a guy 7 years younger than me hes ...

I always think of lesbian relationships. Maybe I subconsciously stopped believing - after my disappointment - in a guy-girl relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (M) - Hi Everybody, There is somthing I am very worried and confused about. I am a 17 year old male that has a problem involving lesbians. The thing is, I think I feel more involved when hearing about a lesbian relationship than a straight one. Wh...

Would we be punished in the state of California?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - im curious as to what would happen if two minors (17 and 17) were having sex and were to get caught, what would be the punishment in the state of california....

I'm a girl in love with a girl who helps me with music.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I really need help on a question I dont understand. Im 16, and the thing is, I play the violin and I'm in intermediate (between beggining and advanced) orchestra at my highschool. After playing horrible at a concert, I felt ups...

Will my ex girlfriend ever come back to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

4 November 2007 (M) - I went out with a girl for 3.5 years. It was an intense but happy relationship...She ended it though....Approximately 2 months later we were talking again and was even talking about getting back with each other but she started dating some else and ...

I'm afraid to fall for someone who doesn't love me as much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - do you think i should end it? the problem is i don't feel the way he does and i am still with him for three years because i'm afraid to fall for somebody that doesn't love me as much and not to be hurt. ...

I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I have a guy friend who is engaged.Him and I have become close over that past coupla weeks. He has called me everynight since I have started house sitting and we have spoke on the phone for up to three hours at a time. He tells me he calls me ...

Theirs Bad Communication Between Us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend did something that hurt but I am not sure whether to speak to him about it. I had not seen him for two days and we were supposed to go to the movies last night. He had previously told me he would spend the day with his flatmate, his ...

He may love me or may not love me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I have been with my bf for 2 years. Recently we have been having problems over his lack of interest in me and the relationship. He has retaliated by not coming home until 8 or 9 every night and on weekends alot later than that, refusing to tell me ...

He leaves me with a choice, break up or make up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Alrighty me and my boyfriend met online we spent a year on the phone and a year in person living together i moved to cali from nj to be with him i love him very much but we are about to move back to nj and i dont think i am ready for that kind of ...

Am I stressed, or do I have a problem with my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I've been busy at work (working 2 weeks straight without a break) and haven't seen my boyfriend for 2 weeks. When I finally get to see him, I felt really strange. I felt my boyfriend is very distant all of a sudden. Felt that I don't know how to hug ...

Talked abot living together, but haven't talked about when yet.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is working hard to start his own business. I know he wants me to have a comfortable lifestyle when I live with him. He wants me to not have to work to support our family. We have been together for 2 years (I'm 24 and he is 26). Our rela...

I love my boyfriend, but not ready to be his daughter's step-mom.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Am I a bad person if I don't love my boyfriend's daughter? She's a nice girl and everything. But I just don't like her way of doing things sometimes. When she wants something, she gets it. If she was my daughter, I would not let her be that way. I'm...

Should I go see him, or wait for him to come see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We took a break about 2 months ago and recently started over. We had been doing good until now. I haven't seen him in about a month. We both work a lot but that never was a problem before. I ...

If I find out he's doing this again, I'll leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I found out my husband viewed quite alot of porn on the internet, pretty much straight porn. I knew he was up to something because we hardly ever had sex. I did a little spying and found out he was also viewing alot of personal ads but these were ...

He won't help himself!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. we have not had sex for almost 6 mos. I do not know if I should leave him or what. I have tried to talk to him about it but he won't talk. he has gained some weight since we started dating but he ...

How do I figure out who I truly am.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I feel like I dont know myself anymore like ever since my first love passed away I feel like I dont even know who I am anymore. How do I figure out who I really truly am?...

How do I know he is being serious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 305 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I am really crazy about this guy, but when he asked me out I thought the relationship was going to be better but then after he just got to busy and we can barley talk and we havent been together for to long and he says he wants me to move there for ...

I need to find "hidden" internet history.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Basically, I want to know how to find internet history that has been cleared from my search window and internet explorer. Why do u ask? Well, i signed up for a recipe of the month email type thing and the firewall at work kept kicking the ...

Wife had an afair with someone large, now I am intimidated.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

4 November 2007 (M) - My wife had an affair with a man with huge penis. She went on and on about how she never knew sex could be that good and how she was driven wild by his size. Now, I am intimidated to have sex with her because I am afraid I won't be able to please ...

Every girl I like rejects me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (M) - i've never had a girl friend. I'm so desperate to get one. I just wanna be loved. I see my mates in relationships over 3years and they are so lucky to have someone care for them. They have the looks i don't. But i do have a good personality, i've ...

Why does she not realize I spent half my life thinking about her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (M) - i've been chasin this girl for over a year now. As soon as i try get step closer (by askin her to catch a film as friends) she moves away. I than give her space. 9months later after our friendship is stronger i ask again. She accepts but i find ...

I have to see her everyday, but afraid to get rejected.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (M) - i go to the sports centre everyday and see this beautiful girl workin at the reception. I really fancy her. I've spoken to her about twice just sortin my account out and jokin around with her. She calls me names for a joke. Everytime i walk in ...

I try to forget about him, but it's so hard because I love him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - so, i liked this guy all summer and we ended up going out. After about a month we started getting into arguments. 3 days befor we broke up he told me he didn't want to be exclusive anymore. And then he broke up with me saying he wanted to take a ...

I can't send him home, and he'll never have the money to move.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Hi, i am 27 yrs old and recently moved from Poland to the UK with my boyfriend. We know each other since children but become boyfriend and girlfriend two half years ago. When we arrive we get job together at same place. We live with man in shared ...

I'm uneducated in sex. Do women crave sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (M) - im 21 and have my first girlfriend 6 months ago and havent had sex in like 2 months and even before that it was seldom. Everytime we try sehe gets pissed off and doesn't even talk to me and its cause I am unable toget hard and rarely if I can it ...

I need help finding my biological father.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - hiya! Well i really need your help, you see i want to find my biological father bt i dont have any idea as to where i start! I'm not sure i want to ask my mum incase she gets upset. Please help! xx...

I love him, he's my first, but I'm scared to leave him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - please help me. i'm really desperate because my boyfriend doesn't make any effort whatso ever. he'll say have a nice weekend on a thursday night and i won't speak to him or see him because he's busy with his mates. not even a phone call... ev...