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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so, i liked this guy all summer and we ended up going out. After about a month we started getting into arguments. 3 days befor we broke up he told me he didn't want to be exclusive anymore. And then he broke up with me saying he wanted to take a break. I found out he broke up with me for another girl. I was so devestated that i said I counldn't be friends with him. But I still loved him and we started talking again. about 2 weeks ago we got into another argument or verbal fight I sould say. And i guess it just slipped out but he told me that when we were together he had cheated on me. 2 months after we acually broke up. I didn't think anything could hurt worse than him breaking up with me, but this did. I try to forget about him but it's just really hard cause I loved him. Sould i be friends with him or just try harder to forget???
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 hey,
i think being freinds with him isn't the perfect idea because it will just kill you everytme he is with another girl or talks to another girl, and it will make it ten times harder for you.
maybe it is hard for you to get over him now but it will be much harder if you stay freinds. and if you decide on being freinds with him you have to be careful.
you have to move on .... good luck .
byeXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): If your his friend just be careful around him......After awhile you will be able to forgive him but dont forget....just be really careful because if he will cheat then he will most likely lie to so just watch out because If been through the same thing...
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