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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How can I get my bf to clean his place??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - okay, been with my boyfriend for a year. we have had a few lulls in the relationship recently. just as things were looking up, i went over to his house to spend the night but the state of his house (hygiene, smell etc) made me feel ill and i didnt ...

Could we be prosecuted?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I have been involved in a loving sexual relationship with my sister's eldest son for close on ten years now. We became intimately involved when he was seventeen years old, and I thirty-one. We have a beautiful nine-year old daughter together. Our re...

Does my new boss fancy me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I've been working in my new job now for a few weeks, and i think one of my managers may have a crush on me, over the last few weeks hes been getting steadily more and more friendly towards me and i catch him staring at me alot. He always asks how...

Is it wrong to ask a guy out??

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Is it wrong to ask a guy to go out with you or should you just keep it old fashioned? ...

What are the pro's and con's of swinging??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - What are the pro's and con's of swinging??...

How do I ask a girl out face-to-face??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - If i ask out a girl face to face tell her everything how do i? After i tell her i like her, ask her out? We're both 17. Should i expect a reply? If she needs time how do i give her time? Won't it be awkward until i get the answer? Lol easiest ...

I'm a big flirt. How do I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - i know this might not sound like a serious problem but its really getting me down. I flirt too much. i am serious. I flirt with everyone (not women obviously) but any guy, any age over 14, even if its terribly innapropriate (teachers) which is the ...

How can I stop this male escort from blackmailing me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - i had sex with another man..he was an escort..i paid him money..now he is blackmailing me for more money..which i gave him ..and now he wants more money from me..and he threatens to tell others about this experience if i dont pay him...it can ruin ...

Is there such a thing as destiny? For everyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - hi guys..............is there such thing as destiny??? Is there someone for everyone out there???...

Why doesn't it pay to be a nice guy? Why are women attracted to unkind men, abusive, players?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Why dosen't it pay to be a nice guy? i do all i can 4 her and still no reward just get crap. I even tryed being bad to her and i got crap. So why are woman attracted to a%^ and *^*4? and why are they messed up? Someone tell me? because im so lost ...

She said no but I cant stop thinking about her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I am 13 and I asked out a girl i have known for 3 years and when I asked her she said no but that day i felt so bad i went to the office 3 times and i felt like i wanted to die but now I cant stop thinking abbout her what should i do?...

If a guys says that you're annoying, does this mean he likes you... ? Or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hey guys. What does a guy mean when he says that you're annoying or irritating?? Does he like you is he being mean??? Help!!!...

Worried about the values I transmit to my daugther. Dating several men, having sex. Friends say it's normal after my divorce?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - i'm a 43 years old mother of 2, i just had a divorce after 19 years of marriage. it took me a while to get back to dating again and when i did the problem started. i have sex a lot and with more than just one guy. my friends told me that it'...

Is it true that most men need to sleep with various women? Is "it was just sex" just an excuse? Or is there actually a connection?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - is it true that most men need to sleep with various women? is it possible for a man to "love" a woman but cheat on her constantly and it mean nothing? when men say "its just sex" is there really a connection. Is this true or just intended to make it ...

Guys, can you be normal friends with a girl you find attractive, even though a relationship would not be possible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Guys: Can you be normal friends with a girl you find hot and wish you could sleep with, but know nothing can happen? Would you hang around and continue being 'friends', even though you never saw eachother out and only got on really well when...

How do I avoid losing my marriage for being a bad stepmother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - my marriage is on the brink because i dont get along with my 9 and 10 year old stepkids. i have been married for over 3 years. i love my husband and dont want to lose him. i dont get along with his ex and am having a hard time with the kids. ev...

How can I stop being so overprotective??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - My girl says i'm too overprotective of her, can my condition be corrected?...

What defines a weak person??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - What is defined as a weak person? I heard somene say it was someone who didn't stand by their opinion. I do stand by my opinion most of the time but it's hard when everyone doesn't agree with you but the other person and no one is on your side and ...

How will I know if this relationship is at the end of the road??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children from ...

Is it normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Is it normal for couples to put up a poster of a woman in a bikini on their bedroom wall?...

My wife has given me permission to have a sex buddy....is it a bad idea??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - My 46 year old wife is going through the menopause and has lost her sex drive to the point she has no desire for me or any other man on earth. I asked her to use her hand or to give me oral sex and she refused. She told me to find a woman that is ...

I don't want to mess things up with my gf but how can I tell if she fancies me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - I have got this girl at work and people say she fancies me but i think we're just friends. She always talks to me and i have fun talking to her and i quite like her but she has a bf who she does say she is having bad times with. The relation...

She thinks a sexy joke I had with my friend means I cheated but she dumped me and I miss her so much.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I recently broke up with my girlfriend of since may 6th 2006. I love her so much, and she loved me so much. She broke up with me because i had this joke with one of my friends who is a girl, which was rather sexy. She took it as i cheated on ...

How do I stand on my own two feet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I am divorcing my husband at the moment. It is stressful. I am a housewife since I've married my husband 20 years ago. I have to look for job and stand on my own two feet now. I have no work history or any qualification to fall back on. I met ...

The big question is How do I get her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - Hi there I have recently been dumped by my first "true love". We are both 22 and I am still a virgin. The question is how do I get her back. My ex and I started going out 3 months ago and we saw each other a lot, everything was great apart from...

Shall I pay my own way or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I have started dating this guy and we have been dating for about a month and I havent ever really dated before. i was wondering if i should let him pay everytime we go out or should i offer to pay or how that works!?... ...

How do I hide my 'Camel Toe'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - i recently noticed that my vagina is fat i can't wear shirts up to my waist cause it looks to big is there anything you can suggest please...

Was I treated unreasonably?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - One night my fiance asked if I wanted to go with him to a bar that him and his friends were going to that night. It was a family night so some of his friends were his friend's younger sisters that he is better friends with and they are like 13 and ...

How do I work through my jealousy and confusion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - Me and my long distance girlfriend recently went on a break. I am 20 and she is almost 19. She has been very confused for many different reasons. first off...it seems to make her way upset to see other couples doing the things we do the rare ...

Is it normal to try to do something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Ok lets start with this i'm 18 I love my boyfriend but its so hard not to I mean everthings like perfect in every way. Is that wierd? Its like everything I do is right! Whats up with that? I know usually the questions are about them messing up and ...

I really love her, but is her emotional blackmail a good reason to stay with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Hi. I’m having a real crisis of the heart here. Let me explain. I’m not really sure if I’m happy in my current relationship and I think we need a break. My g/f and I have been together for a year now and we moved in together approximately tw...

He's catholic I'm not, will this create problems later on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm just wondering what people think about long term relationships between people of different religions? Can it ever work? I'm in a relationship (almost a year and a half) with a lovely guy and we are very much in love and spend all our ti...

My father-in-law died a year ago. How do I help my wife to get over her grief and enjoy our holiday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 357 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Hello my wife's dad died just under a year ago and in afew weeks we are going for a long weekend in blackpool with her family and our daughter because that where he liked to go, they went there a lot of holidays and because he spent a lot of his ...

Does my manager like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 354 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I've been working in my new job now for a few weeks, and i think one of my managers may have a crush on me, over the last few weeks hes been getting steadily more and more friendly towards me and i catch him staring at me alot. he always asks how my ...

How can I stop being so over protective and start to trust my bf??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I think i'm a bit weird...you know, a bit to over protective with my bfs. When i have bf's i can get very protective. For instance i don't like him looking at other girls. Sometimes my mates flirt with my bf and i kind of pull him away from them ...

Is it ok to date an ex's best friend??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Well i am going to ask this girl out soon and we flirt alot and it just so happens that her best friend is my ex. I was wondering if it was looked down upon. Me and my ex are still really good friends. Any help would be great... ...

He isn't ever open about his feelings...should I tell him how I feel or keep quiet??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I like this boy and i don't know whether he likes me or not. I can't ask him because he isn't ever open about his feelings. He goes around kissing girls on the cheeks and stuff but I'm the only one he kisses on the lips. I don't want to lose him as ...

He is an absolute angel to me...but he wont take me seriously.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months nearly 11 this friday. Hes the best ever but the thing is hes always saying i like other boys and it gets to me sometimes he says that he is joking but it hurts me deep down. Can you really fall ...

Can you be truly happy when you are always in and out of a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - can u be truly happy when you are always in and out of relationship and never on your own? my friend is 45yr old male and has 2 kids with 2 different women; he left the 2nd woman with a 4 month old baby to be with someone else..do you think he's h...

We broke up, then I found it was my duty to try again - but the time apart has changed things even more, and there are hardly things in common anymore or inspirational conversations. How do I know when it is time to stop trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children ...

Anyone else have a real preference for sex in evenings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - I really prefer sex in the evening. Morning sex rarely does anything for me in fact although I'll sometimes have the horn the wee fella downstairs is asleep. Bed time is another matter and I'm a sex pest. Anyone else like this? Prefer ...

If he loves me...shouldn't he care how I feel??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is giving me mixed signals all the time. He says he loves me but i dont know if he means it. He always goes running off to some other girl besides me. Ok one day another girl was crying because she wanted to go out with someone ...

How can I help people in need?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - I want to healp peoples who are poor, haven`t family or orphans, and so on. to do this I don`t have any adviser , exept my God what can you advise me? thank you God bless you I love you so much because of christ...

Is love worth waiting for??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - In relation with my last question... i do know he still loves me its one of those things you just know but is love really worth waiting for? I mean even when you got to go through a bunch of crap?...

Missed my chance with my crush....should I try and be her friend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I think I may have missed my chance with a girl I have a bit of a crush on. She was on the uni dating site, and I'd seen her around a couple of times. Have thought about contacting her but something inside of me was always holding me back. I'...

How long will a guy wait for sex??

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 34 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - So heres just a general question to see what everyones point of view is. How long is a unreasonable amount of time to expect a guy to wait for sex? What I mean is, say a girl isnt ready to have sex with her bf (whether she be a virgin or not) but...

How can I stop thinking about the future and think about the here and now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Ok i recently came on and said i was stessing about leaving school although i dont leave till may 2009. I am still upset and recently had a dream about the last day of year 11 which triggerd all thease emotions. I know i can always stop for sixth fo...

I know what I deserve and it's not to be "the other woman" or someone's "play thing..."

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Trying to keep this short, I was in a relationship with "Frank" for a while before it went down hill and he cheated, we split. We were the best of friends prior to dating and did our best to stay friends through everything. Over the past year we ...

I'm in my first year of a civil engineering course and am struggling badly...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 360 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - I'm doing civil engineering, I'm in my first year and I am struggling. In 2 modules I am doing really badly and these 2 I have exams in January for them. I've gone to counselling (not for that but self esteem issues) and I'm watching everything get ...

What can I say to my teacher, when he confronts me about my crush on him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Sorry if this is long... Right, On monday i made an appointment with the school nurse to discuss my problem over a teacher. I just went into details of how this situation is affecting me emotionally and also having such an impact on my life, etc....