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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i've been chasin this girl for over a year now. As soon as i try get step closer (by askin her to catch a film as friends) she moves away. I than give her space. 9months later after our friendship is stronger i ask again. She accepts but i find myself tryin to contact her and gettin no responses. But she acts fine in school. I like her so much i cannot accept her not likin me. I'm really nice to her, make her laugh alot, i've even changed my character as in from a stupid kid to bein a bit mature guy who doesn't act like an idiot in front of his mates and dresses decent.Everythin you name it, i done it. Nice new haircuts every so often. I dunno what else to do.I feel so depressed! Everytime i'm thinkin of her face, her! Why does she not realise i spent half my life thinkin of her!What should i do?Thanks for reading
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 hey,
i really don't know why girls like the boys who don't show them any attention and who don't look at them ,so why don't you try to show her that you don't care any more (if talking to her doesn't help) ...
show her you aren't interssted and for some reason( i don't know what it is) ignoring her will make her chase you and crae a lot more about you:S.
but before you do anything i say that you have to talk to her and see if she has the same fellings as you.
good luck and byeXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): yeah I think you should talk to her and let her know how you feel.. She just might not have any idea that you care about her that way.. So dont be scared she just might feel the same...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): yeah I think you should talk to her and let her know how you feel.. She just might not have any idea that you care about her that way.. So dont be scared she just might feel the same...
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Relax a bit. Perhaps you are trying too hard to impress her. People get a little skidish when we think people are too needy. Try being yourself and try to get your mind off of her from time to time. I do understand how you are feeling and it is a very tough situation to be in. When you like someone so much sometimes reality becomes a fantasy and you truely do believe the other person will eventually like you. I think you have to consider that she may not like you except as a friend. Life does go on believe me. You sound like a very nice young man and I know there are plenty of girls who will are just waiting for the chance to be with you.
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