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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2006 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm pretty enough but I get no male interest!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 662 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - My family says I'm really pretty, and there are times when i see my self and I'm pleased with what i see, not meaning to sound big-headed. However, despite flirting in moderation with guys and making sure I look my best all of the time, I never get ...

Do I tell my best friend I've fallen for her, or keep it to myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 662 days ago

18 December 2006 (M) - I've fallen big time for one of my best freinds, We've knowen each other for years, do I keep my feelings to myself or tell her and risk loosing her as a freind...

I went to counseling b/c of some issues I had, so how do I show my long distance ex the changes I am making in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 644 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - My ex and I have been mostly together for over two years, we met and fell in love on sight, we live 1100 miles apart, we are both 22 and finishing school. We did the long distance thing for about 6 months. It went very well, we were incredibly in ...

Is abortion right or wrong?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - abortion? wot does everyone think? right or wrong? i would love to know your opinions x x x...

He split w/ me, but when we're together we still cuddle, kiss and flirt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - Im 19 and was with my ex for 2 years. He told me he loved me after 1 month together, and from there we had a really good relationship. We were best friends and both loved each other so much. We split up just under a month ago on his terms. He said ...

I left my husband of four years bcause I was unhappy. My parents are saying I should work it out. Thoughts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 566 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - I am 23, I have been married for 4 years and have a three year old daughter. Unfortunatly I married not for love, but for other reasons. Like I thought he was a good person, and he would take care of me. I never had that "in love, infatuation" ...

He watches porn when he knows it hurts me. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 653 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - Should my boyfriend watch porn? I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and have tried to accept the fact that he watches porn, but I can't. He hides it from me now to save arguments but sometimes when I'm tidying his flat I come across ...

Do you think my ex wants to see me to tell me if she really cheated on me, or b/c she wants to get the money I owe her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 662 days ago

18 December 2006 (M) - My Ex Girlfriend want's me to see me tomoz. do u think she's going to finally tell me the truth about what happend last weekend. i know she doesn't have to tell me. but she must of knew the rumor about her going back 2 some guy's house would get ...

I'm about to start my new job as a care assistant for the elderly - how do I stop being nervous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - hello. i am a 19 year old female. and i have resently received some brilliant ntews that i am to be given a starting date for a care assistants job wensday, how ever i am so nervous. i have been a carer in the past but never a care assistants for ...

Since I've been dating my older bf, who used to be married to my cousin, my family has not allowed me my privacy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - My family is beyond crazy... im 15 and i am dating a 25 year old (who was once married to my cuzin) and they found out. ya i kno its a little crazy but anyways.... But now i have absolutely no privacy or trust. i understand the fact that they don't ...

I don't want her pity sex, I want to win her heart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (M) - hi cupid?i have a problem i have been seein this lady who i met in a joint in town. she'ss being very good to me but i have a problem. she's been spoiling me in many ways that i even ask why she's doing it but she is relentless. now this is bugging ...

Contraceptive advice - side effects?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - Hi. I have a question about birth control. I just started Yasmin about 3 weeks ago and i have this tingling sensation in my right foot and sometimes it's like an itching feeling in my lower calf muscles. I've been on Junel and experienced "charlie ...

My best mate has a gf - how can I distance myself from him without hurting either of us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - I love my boy best mate but he has a gf and i know that me and him will never get together but im finding it really hard to let go as i know i wont be able to cope if he wasnt in my life. How can i distant myself from him without either of us ...

Am I likely to be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - i had unprotected sex a week b4 i was supposed to ovulate and 4 days b4 too. am i more likely to be pregnant than not be. i do not need to worry about sexually transmitted infections as he hasnt had sex with any1 since me as i was his first. help ...

GF or older woman, which way do I turn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (M) - Hi, wondering if you can help. I have been with my g/f since i was 16 and she was 18. We quickly grew to love each other over a short space of time. She revealed to me that she had suffered with depression and used to be really ill as a child. This ...

Fiance or best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - I am engaged to my long time love of 10 years, but I am in love with his best friend, who has recently pronounced his love to me. we want to be together, because we have felt this way for years now, but don't want to hurt my fiances feelings or he ...

Media images of scantily clad females, what do YOU think?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 650 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - The Lynx advert; 'Spray more, get more...' with loads of scantily clad females leaping over rocks and parts of their bodies leaping around too, in which to race towards some rather gormless looking guy with a leery grin on his face. What do you thin...

Stop my period!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - I'm on the pill, is there a way to stop a period from starting? I have a special week coming up and it conflicts with a certain unwanted visitor? ...

When I'm on top during sex, I have an awful shooting pain going up my spine and into my head. Has anyone heard of this before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 662 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - OK - ive got an embarrassing sex question. So ive had this problem a few times now - im quite worried but a bit too embarrassed to go to the docs yet. When i am on top during sex when I orgasm I get the most awful shooting headache pain, i ...

how soon after unprotected sex can you take a pregnancy test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - how soon after unprotected sex can u take preg test?...

I am always worried that my relationships will fail horibly so I've never had one! How can I overcome this matter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (M) - i've been asked out loads of times before in the past but i've never been able to bring myself to say yes because i am always worried that the relationship will fail horibly. and because im worried i've never rele had the courage to ask anyone out, ...

Should I ask him out-with all the stuff goin' on in his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - I have really liked this man at work for the past year, this week will be my last before I move due to a promotion. I was all set to tell how I feel but while out for our office party on friday night we really talked which was great but it ...

I've had panic attacks when he went away in the past - what can I do about the next time it happens??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 659 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - Hi everyone Does anyone have any suggestions for dealing with high anxeity and panic attacks My bf is going away on holiday for 3 weeks He has been working hard and needs the break but i am going into panic mode about it Its not that i ...

Losing my cherry, how do I make memories!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (M) - Hey! Im 17 and about to lose my virginity to my girlfriend of 6 to 7 months. Any tips? I want to make the first time good for both of us! (I know i cant expect fireworks or choirs singing 'hallelujah' chorus) But i want to make him and me fe...

When does a relationship turn serious? I want to tell him "I love you," but I don't think he feels the same way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - Hey everyone I have a few questions as im in my first relationship and finding it all a bit uncirtain at the moment When does a relationship become serious? Im only wondering generally I have been in this relationship for six months and ...

Did he cheat with the welder?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 652 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - My man has a girl welder helper and they were going on a trip for work. I got back some pictures and her arm was around him in one and in the other his arm was around her. also, pictures of her in her bikini.I had a feeling that she and feelings for ...

I am a control freak! Can you halp me change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (M) - i am a very controlling boyfriend and i want to change so bad but its really hard for me. i love my girlfriend and i want to spend the rest of my life with her but i have been trying to change for two months now but i just cant change. i really want ...

Why is he looking at other girls' profiles on myspace? It's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - Everybody knows what myspace is i'm assuming? What does it mean when your bf is looking at other girls myspace pages? why is he doing that, is it a bad thing like he's checking out other girls or what? Its driving me crazy. I asked him if he's ...

Disatisfied with life. (long but worth it)

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 643 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - I am so confused about my marriage and lost dream, I can't focus on anything else! But, to warn you, I have cheated, my husband knows and he calls me a "classic bored housewife", even though I a very-well educated and have tried to resume studies ...

Do these signals signify his interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 662 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - Hi,Is he serious with his flirting or am I just being made fun of? I think this younger man age 28 seems to like me. He is always trying to make me laugh and he goes out of his way to stand next to me and tease me....he talks to me at work about ...

Can guys be with female friends they don't find attractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 663 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - was browsing some old questions and in some of the ones about infidelity there were male posters saying that men don't have female friends that they wouldn't sleep with/find attractive.... now I don't really believe that could really be true but ...

After we spend the day together, should I tell my close friend that I like her? She says her bf doesn't care about her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 662 days ago

18 December 2006 (?) - me and my very close friend are both 16. she is just an amazing friend. i fancy her. i'm goin on holiday for 4weeks which is a very long time. the day before i'm takin my friend on the day out out of town shopping as it's christmas. on the way back ...

They treat me like I'm dumb!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 661 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - I am not sure if my husband respects me. My family loves him and I don't want people to know this. He treats me like I am dumb. I never realized it before but I have fed into. I find myself saying things like don't ask me like I would know. My ...

Does she have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 655 days ago

18 December 2006 (?) - please help me i really need help and need to know if she has feelings for me before i go on holiday. i have a very close friend. she and i are both 16 and go same school. she has a 10month boyfriend. she's had lots of up's and downs with him. i've ...

A friend but not a lover, how can I keep him at arms length?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 652 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - My ex , has started being really realy nice to me ! .. he bought me an xmas present , he hugs me all the time , tells me he likes my picture =S i dont want him to fall in love with me like he did last time , because i know me and him wont work h...

She wants kids - I don't.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 664 days ago

18 December 2006 (M) - im 22 been in relationship 1 yr and i think she wants a baby? i told her from start i dont ever want kids and am saving for vasectomy i love her but am i a bad person for not wanting kids?...