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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2006 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I have unwanted sexual thoughts and can't escape my past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - Ever since my ex boyfriend i have been getting unwanted sexual thoughts about anyone. I would never ever act on it but i even get them for a kid i babysit who is 1. I think i only get them for him though because when i was 5-7 i got on top of ...

What should I get my bf for our first Christmas together?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - I want to get my boyfriend a gift for Christmas and I want it to be special because this is our first Christmas together. We have been dating for about 4 months and I don't know what to get him. I need help, what do you suggest?...

How do I get the bullying to stop?! I'm so fed up!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 675 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - i'm being bullied in school and i'm fed up of it i get in trouble from things i didn't do and its really getting to me i don't know how to stop the bullying i want to stop them i've told my mum and she's like had a complain with the school but its ...

How do I enlarge my penis size?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (M) - i am looking for a way to make my dick bigger i am 22 and it is about 5-6 inches and i am looking but dont know what to do about it can u help me ?...

Iis it true that teenage boys think of sex every 8 seconds? How is that even possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - is it true that teenage boys think of sex every 8 seconds? how is that possible? i mean, what part of sex do they think about? also how can they be thinking of sex while they are talking to their friends for example, or playing a sport. how can...

I'm afraid to make this casual realtionship more serious! I'm afraid he'll say no.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - i have been in a casual relationship with a man for 2 years now and would love for it to be serious but i am afraid he will say no, and i'll lose what we already have. im currently helping him renovate his new house and a female friend of mine is ...

While visiting him, he ignored me and spoke in Dutch to his friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 676 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - while i was with my boyfriend in his country. everytime we were with someone he ignored me and spoke to his friends in dutch. sometimes even forgetting about me completely do you think he should of tried to speak to me a bit more? and sha...

He wants to be with me and not his baby's mother - I don't want to split them up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - i need alittle advice. ive known a guy for around 5 years we got on really well and were pretty close, we ended up sleeping together for around 6 months, we've remained really close since we decided to stop sleeping with eachotha. he met a girl ...

My friend is falling in love w/ a good guy friend. I told her to go for it! What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - Hiya, Ive got this friend who's falling in love with this guy, but she thinks shes got alot of competition b/c many girls like him and he likes someone else, theyre REALLY REALLY good friends and i told her to go for it and ask him out and if he re...

My life has been a train wreck b/c of her! She wants to be friends but I just want to move on. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 676 days ago

7 December 2006 (M) - I had a child very young, and later married the mother. I truly do love her; I always have. In November 2005 she left me, and got together with my best friend. She later told me that she only went to him for help with us (with our problems) ...

Can a 23 year old guy be in an exclusive relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - Is it possible for a 23 year old guy who has professed to be bi (has been with 7 women and 9 guys) survive in a committed monogamous relationship with a woman (which he started)? He stopped me in my tracks when I brought this up to him and said, "I ...

We like each other, but we're just friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (M) - there is this girl i realy like and she has said she realy likes me but all we ever do is be friends and i jjust donno what to do any more someone please help...

Does size really matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (M) - Does the length of your penis realy affect how well you can plesure a woman,and does it matter how big around it is? Thank You ...

He flirts with me but doesn't want a relationship - what's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - He likes me but doesn't want a relationship, then sometimes he just flirts and asks to meet up what's going on? ...

I think he went to a bachelor party and lied to me about it last year - is it worth worrying about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - I just started thinking about something. My b/f went out one night last year without me around this time of year. It was a friday. He said it someone's b-day. I didn't really like that he was gonna be going bar hopping. He said they were going ...

After asking where we stood, he said he just wanted to be friends! Is it my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - Cut-off! I'm so confused! ok so i met this guy at a few parties, ages ago!decided to finally add him on msn n we got proper talkin, n found out we had loads in commen, n he told me that i was legendary n he wished i lived where he did (whic...

I am afraid for our relationship b/c he is bi. I know he's committed to me, so how do I move past this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 676 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - Hi, I've never written for advice before. Ok, here's my/our sitch... My boyfriend was/is bi. I'm not and I'm very scared, petrified actually. Not of STD's, I'm scared in an emotional sense. We met through a Christian dating site and he offe...

I think i might have mental issues and it's hurting my relationship! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (M) - Well me and my girlfriend are having Problems. I am 16 Years old and she is 14. We have been dating for alittle over 11 months.I feel bad about what is going on. I make her feel bad all the time,And I know it's breaking us apart. For example ...

He keeps asking me to be his girlfriend; I don't really want a bf but I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 676 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - hiya i am 13 and i like this boy in my school i no he loves me back he keeps askin me if we should go out as in boyfriend n girlfriend hes propa sweet and kind but i dont no if i feel like i want a boyfriend right now but i think if i dont say yes ...

It's been 10 years since we saw each other and I still like him! But I'm too scard to make a move with him online!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 676 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - hey im 22 and i've liked a guy that i went to school with when i was 10. When we were both 12, he moved away and i never saw him again.I was heartbroken when he left. Since then i've had 2 failed relationships, always in between i've had thoughts ...

She broke up w/ me for the fourth time in six years. I'd like to make it work or else learn how to get over her. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

7 December 2006 (M) - my gfriend and i have been together six yrs now she has broken up with me now for the fourth time last week and moved out of our house.you would think i would know what to do by now but i love her and want to better our relationship i cant get her ...

What forms and regulations does my bf have to adhere to, when he goes to work in the UK? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - well! this is for people living in the UK and that have had long distance boyfriends moving to the uk. my long-distance boyfriend is hoping to move to the UK in a few years time. but I need help on what things he has to do to move to England. ...

I have the ability to read people and it's affected my relationships!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - I've had a problem since i was a kid. I have the ability to read people, know when someone close is in trouble, what is in their hearts. This affected my relationship with my mum and boyfriends. As a kid i had a bestfriend. Anytime she is about to ...

I don't know how to act during our split from one another - any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 676 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - Hi there, My boyfriend has asked me for a break in our relationship. i cried a lot, was v upset and distraught but agreed, as i had no choice. He basiaclly wants to think about whehter I am the one for him long term. if he decides no, i gu...

My coworkers just talk and stab each other's backs! They keep telling me I'm too quiet, but I'm just protecting myself - how can I handle them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 661 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - Hi. I work in an office where people seem to just talk about personal things. And most of them are backstabbers and spread rumors about their "friends" here. I'm totally different. I know about three people here that I talk about person thi...

The only way his sister can come here is if he divorced me and married her. I don't know what to do. Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 676 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - my husband sister lives in india. she is bedridden for the past 10 years due to an accident. her family have tried to bring her to london but no luck. now there are saying that there is only one way possible. my husband surname is different to her ...

When he enters during sex it hurts - why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - I've been having sex with my long-distance boyfriend for a couple of months now. everytime I see him we have sex. but i've noticed when i've had sex the first time he enters it hurts. why is it hurting?...

How can I control my temper more and just ignore the little things about him that bother me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years now. I love him very much but I seem to have strange urge to destroy our relationship by letting little things about him get to me and, instead of just mentioning what is annoying me once I will get ...

I work full time and need to get a second job to support us, and he still pays for everything for his unemployed ex!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - Hi all, Have a question for you all. I am feeling really down at the moment. Have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year, and i love him to bits. But, and this is a big BUT, he still supports his ex and thier grown up children. I dont have a p...

I want to know about her previous sexual encounters, she says it doesnt matter, should I let it lie ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 673 days ago

7 December 2006 (M) - My Girlfriend when she was 16 she cheated on her boyfriend with someone she knew for a whilie now she's 20 with me i wanna know what she did. she told me she jerked him off While he fingered her (which she told me she never liked anyone doing) sh...

We had sex, but never spoke about it, I want to be more than friends but how do I tell him!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 676 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - He was a senior when I was a freshman in highschool. We were acquaintances but never friends until the summer before my freshman year. We began to hang out a lot talking for hours late at night. One night we had sex and never talked about it again ...

Im due to be married next year, but stuck to my guns on staying a virgin, thing is im now confused about it, should I just give in now ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 665 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - Hi I am 23 and to be married within the next year. I strongly didn't wanna have sex till marriage coz I believed in being responsible for my actions and not getting carried away. So I am still a virgin. My boyfriend who is not a virgin has tried...

He Broke up with me so he could date my friend!!! I dont want to lose a friend but im confused!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - I just got out relationship with this guy, that I am not sure if I still love, or hate. We went out before, but I broke up with him because I wasn't feeling the love there between us. But i evolved a crush on him after the brake up, and we got back ...

I'm glad my boyfriend is out of prison... but drinking makes him more paranoid than ever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

7 December 2006 (F) - Hi, I guess I'm just really confused at the moment and would like an impartial view on things! I've posted on here before and had some really kind words and useful advice. Basically... (here goes!)... My boyfriend has been in prison for the l...