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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear CupidMy bf broke up with me few months back since he said he got too attached to me and we got back together 10 days back. We work together. Yesterday he asked me do some of his work since he is going out with his friends. I too had a lot of work but still i worked late night and did his work too. Today i called him and told him his work is done, he said ok thanks. Thats it. I told him i worked whole night becase of him. He got irritated and was saying he sholuldnt have asked me to do his work, its his fault. He will never ask anything from me anymore and cant rely on me. He twisted the story such a way that i feel guilty for telling him that i sacrificed my sleep for doing his work.I feel manipulated and used. i just wanted to feel appreciated after doing a favour for him. It that too much to ask?
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reader, jacinta  +, writes (31 December 2010):
 Hes one ungrateful guy,he should have been so thankful and grateful that u sacrificed ur sleep to do his work for him,he obviously takes you 2much 4granted because he shouldnt have asked u to do it in the first place and then he had to cheek to try and manipulate you into thinking that you were in the wrong.i would seriously get rid..find sumone who respects you and whod never treat u like that.he dont deserve you.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): "It that too much to ask?" From him? Yes it is, obviously it is.
It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks is too much to ask only him and he does. You were used and manipulated and when you ask for some recognition he turns it around on you and makes you look like a bitch.
Why oh why did you get back together with this guy, he's a loser.
Good luck with this guy, he's an absolute douche and not only do you have to put up with this in a relationship you also have to work with the guy. I feel for you. Because it didn't work the first time and it's not going to work now either. 10 days you're back together and he's already made an absolute fool of you. He probably had a great time out with his friends all the while laughing because you did all his work.
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