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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: I have had this one boyfriend for six months starting on the 7th and he means the world to me. But we have a huge problem. I can't trust him. I'm 15 years old and my boyfriend is 16. I first met him at the beach near my house on June 1st. First night I met him he was drinking with a whole bunch if my friends that night. I didn't drink, smoke or have sex. The reason why me and my friends were at the beach was because we were going to play manhunt ( we still ended up playing but he joined us) I had no problem with him being there. Thats how I met him. After that, for a whole week everyday he would walk two miles to the beach to hang out with me. I thought that was the nicest thing a guy could do. And then it started getting to the point where I really started to like him and I just kept my feelings to myself. He had just gotten out of a relationship and everything. But a dew days later he started hitting on me. A lot. I flirted back knowing this guy for about two weeks Ish I knew I really liked him. I have dated guys b4 some for years and I have never felt that. Way. I would constaiontly get sick around him cause I got nerves so much. It was so embarrassing one night he walked me home and I got sick all over the street. My words couldnt come and right when I thought they were "blachhhh" everyyywhere! The next night he asked me out. I said yes and lost my v card a few. Hours later. We dated for a full month then I found out he cheated on me. A week later he dumped me for another girl. That relationship lasted for a month and a half and ended quickly. Then he came crawling back to me. I made him prove to me he was worth it and he did . A few weeks later we got back togeather. Turns out rhe whole tome he was begging for me back he was seeing another girl named sarah. Every guy in my life has let me down . My biological father lost his right to see me due to abuse. My step dad recently lost his rights to see me cause it's not safe to be around him due to drugs. My boydriend has always done drugs like weed and hes always drank. He said he would stop fir me but I thought last thing I need is another let down from a guy so I said no. Now that we have been in a relationship for six months its time to take a step up so I asked him to quit . He said anything for you. A day later I get a text saying he won't quit. Two days later he goes do u want to babysit me at a party? There's going to be lots of drugs. Just so I won't do something stupid. And I go "no I will not spend my new years watching u do drugs!" andhe goes I won't go then . Tomorrows newyears eve and he is saying he's sick and u think he's lying..... Just to go to that party..... Should I go it's me I'd drugs and leave. Or deal with it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): You deserve better than this and deep down I know you that you prob have huge doubts about this relationship. He doesnt respect you enough, if he did he wouldnt be fooling round with other girls. i think you should take a step back to reflect cause this guy must be having a really negative effect on your self esteem. i remember when i was 16 i dated this guy for 3 years and he ended up cheating on me on new years eve. i tried to make excuses for him because i thought that i loved him but it was eating me away plus it made me very self conscious about my appearance. i felt way better when i ended it with him. take time off... he would respect u more if you backed away. right now he has way to much power in the relationship because ure always there when he needs you. you are way to young anyway to have a relationship. have fun, be free. hang out with ur friends and have fun with other guys. you dont deserve him.
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