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writes:Hi(:Okay, as you all know adults and even other teens say when your in high school you think you're in love but you don't know what love is.Well, I've been with mmy boyfriend for almost 15 months now and honestly I can say I love him. I mean if something happened to him I would be devastated, and I hope we last. He says he wants to marry me, and he's not the type of guy that dates alot of girls. I was his first "real" kiss, and he was mine as well. He makes me feel amazing, he tells me I'm beautiful and that he loves me too. His parents call me their daughter-in-law, and I've met his whole family. I was even invited to his sister's wedding. My parents like him very well too, he spent Christmas with us.So anyways to the real question, do you think it's possible that were actually in love at such a young age? Also as a side question, do you think we could ever really get married and stay together, even though the it's not common?I appreciate the time taken to read this question. Thank you :)
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reader, NicoleMarie +, writes (31 December 2010):
NicoleMarie is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi(:
Thank you all so much for taking hte time to answer my question. :) I really appreciate it, and I will be happy with him while I can. You're right, who knows, it might actually have the fairy tale ending. I hope it does. You all answered my question very well, and a few of these actually made me smile. :)
Thank you again :)
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reader, iampurplesea  +, writes (31 December 2010):
 Well.. it's the best that you know all his family members.
Well.. love at such a young age is not very good for me. I just broke up with my bf because I have to hide all his smses from my family, I couldn't concentrate on my studies and maybe I don't know is this love. So, fall in love at 18+
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (31 December 2010):
 I remember my first love. And to this day, I still love her. Would I cheat on my wife with her? No. But I still love her.
With that said, I beleive that you are in "Love" with your BF.
Good Post Plexi :)
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): Yeah it is. That's the simple answer.
But... some people make a connection between "young/immature" with "they don't know what love is". That is not true. To avoid that stereotype, be genuine, which you appear to be.
(If you don't get it, I mean don't sound desperate or stupid in trying to convince others to believe that your love is a real thing, liek, u kno, seriously we r in love k? REALLY! we r old enuf 2 kno dat kinda stuff d00d! etc)
Hope I helped??
Happy new year!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (31 December 2010):
 Personally I would not listen to those who tell you that at that age you "would not know what love is", even some adults do not know until they feel it. Nobody knows. What people mean to tell children is that at that age your body is changing and your emotions are in a chaotic torrent so be wary, you may feel this undying love now but who knows how you will feel in say 3 or 4 years time? It is entirely possible you are in love and I pray you stay that way so, enjoy what you have together, perhaps you will be one of the few that have their "happily ever after" sort of romances.
Happy new year!
I hope that helps.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (31 December 2010):
 Of course it's possible you are in love at 15 ,in fact what better age for being in love...:)
Is it really true love,is it just a teenage crush.....we really can't say without knowing you and your bf, but, you know what- there are many different kinds of love, and each one has its magic and its poetry, therefore , if it makes you happy...do not look for labels and just enjoy your feelings...
You want to know if it's gonna last- forever,maybe. Well, that's another story, like you say yourself it's "unusual " , statistically speaking not many people end up their days with their first love. But, never say never, -it's not even impossible. Anyway- you are so very young, -it's a bit early to make long term love plans. Enjoy your love in the moment and be happy NOW !
Happy New Year !
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (31 December 2010):
 Absolutely! Hun, you sound so sweet and truly in love and yes i do believe that love is possible at 15. It does evolve and grow with age and at you age what most people calL love tends to be more puppy love or hormonal but yes I do believe that it is possible. Remember to enjoy your youth as well as this magical feeling and don't be in too big of a rush to grown up and start your life:)
Good luck to you two and HUGS!
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (31 December 2010):
 Yes I think it is possible to be in love that young. I cant say if you are in love. Sometimes you dont realize that you werent in love until you are broken up. But enjoy it! Who cares what people think. Enjoy your feelings and dont worry if youll make it. There is a chance you could make it. You never know. But there is no point dwelling on it. Enjoy the present :)
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