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I love her, can't stop thinking about her, but she hates me. I need advice please

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Question - (31 December 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 January 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I'm 14 going on 15 and there's this girl i really like, only thing is she hates me, and i don't know what to do next.

I think it's because first of all i got my mates to ask her out, and second when she said to them that she wouldn't go with me, i started sending her messsages on, She was answering them but i kept on sending messages and now she says, 'i hate you and leave me alone'. I really like her so much that i think i love her because at the moment all i do is think about her all day for the past couple of months and i would do anything to go out with her. so can anyone tell me what to do next because she won't talk to me?

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (1 January 2011):

TasteofIndia agony auntDefinitely leave her be like the other ladies have said! You don't want to come on too strong. If you start moving on, she may notice your absence, or you may find someone who really likes you and would never say something like "I hate you and leave me alone".

Give her space! Good luck!

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A female reader, Secretlife Congo +, writes (1 January 2011):

You should back off a little. If you annoy her she is going to continue to hate you. Just back off a little don't speak to her regularly. Then see what happens. See how she's feeling about you not speaking to her as much as you do. Other then that you just have to wait around for her heart to change

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011):

hunny this is gonna b hard but leave her alone and go with a girl who wants u. This girl has made her wishes very clear by the sound of it, and ur not helpin her or urself by obsessing over her coz i dont think she wants u at the moment. If u back off and give her some space she may come around eventually but if u keep hastlin her then it cud b seen as stalking and get u into a bit of trouble!

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