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I'm ready for this relationship but he can be unreliable. How can I fix this relationship so he's ready too?

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Question - (31 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 January 2011)
A female Mexico age 26-29, *ilagros18 writes:

I recently got back with my exboyfriend, he asked me out again. I feel as if he's not ready for a relationship yet. I really love him. Im ready for him, but i don't feel he's ready for me. I don't know how to make him know how i feel. I've been waiting for so long to get back with him and he finally asked me out, but im scared to fail at our relationship and him breaking up with me. I just don't want to get hurt again. I'm willing to work it our but i just don't want to loose him again. I feel lost with out him like i can't move on. I feel as if he wants me but doesn't know how to act around me. Im just so lost. In the past we've had our ups and downs, but now whatever it is, im willing to make it work, im just not sure if he is. He also tells me he's going to call me and he doesn't. What should i do? How can i fix our relationship? Please help me, i need supportive advice.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2011):

petina1 agony auntHe obviously is not ready for a commitment. You could either keep it light and see him when he wants to be bothered or you could find someone else instead. It sounds like you are prepared to do all the running to keep him, you could end u p like his doormat. Don't forget you are a person in your own right and don't come accross as being desperate to him, that's why he is unreliable to you because he knows you are there at his calling no matter what. Be very careful, you will get hurt if not.

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