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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:This guy i know wants to be FWB with me, as he still misses his ex girlfriend.They broke up a few months ago. I have only met up with him once, although, we have known each other in person for a few months. He said they started talking again recently, but he said they arent back together. I said i was worried about what would happen if they did get back together, and he said we could still be friends and and we could still " cuddle ". I'm pretty sure guys dont just cuddle, and dont cuddle their friends !. Do you think that, if he did go back with her, he will still be wanting to be FWB with me ?. I wish he didnt still like his ex, as me and him have a lot in common, which i know as we have had a lot of conversations. He said his ex was clingy, which he didnt like, so i dont know why he misses her.He said he misses the attention from her though, which i think is different. She's also a lot younger than him,whereas i am closer to his age, and i wouldnt say that i am clingy. He's asked me to think about what i want, but i dont know what i should do. I think in a way that maybe we should just be friends and see if he will get over his ex in time, but since we are both attracted to each other, it might be hard to be just friends and not do anything physical. But at the same time, at the moment, i dont want to not see him at all. It's difficult really.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): Don't go down the FWB road with him. You will end up being used and it will make you unhappy. Better not be with him at all, than be used when he feels like it. You care for him too much to be able to handle a FWB situation.
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