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Found out boyfriend is on dating sites, what now?

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Question - (31 December 2010) 8 Answers - (Newest, 1 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Been going out with my fella for 6 months thought things were going well, he is supposed to be coming to see me tomm night, my friend has just seen him sign up today for a dating site saying same old me back for another crack at it.

if he turns up tomm what the hell do i do ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011):

Thank you all for the replies i guess i knew the answer but didnt want to -

thing i dont understand is just before xmas he was feeling so down because of debt so i gave him £500 to help him and he was really overwhelmed and said no one had done anything like that for him and this is how he repays me.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2011):

kenny agony auntIf your friend had not visited this dating site and saw him on there you would have never have known. And he would have been seeing you, while at the same time hooking up with other women too, so ultimately having his cake and eat it.

You know in your heart of hearts that you are worth so much more than this, so i would ditch him and find someone who gives you the love and respect that you so rightly deserve.

x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011):

Check that its true first. If it is, when he turns up just say 'Same old you, here for another crack at it, eh?'....then close the door on him and keep it shut. Dont be sweet talked by this old McDaddy! x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2011):

End it now. You know he's signed up for a dating site, which means he's ready and happy to cheat the moment he gets the chance. Why even bother for second best when you can just move on and find someone decent.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011):

end it asap. thats if he hasnt replaced u already.

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (1 January 2011):

xanthic agony auntSimple, ask him about it and see how he reacts. If he gets really defensive, it means he's up to something he knows he shouldn't be doing. The most classic sign of this is if he calls you paranoid, crazy, insecure, etc. It's how people caught off guard try to take the focus off themselves People that are legitimately innocent will keep going back to the issue to find out why they're being accused, guilty ones will run from it like it's the plague and try to change the subject.

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A female reader, Secretlife Congo +, writes (1 January 2011):

you confront him about it and ask him why he signed up for that. Don't get all serious with him. He seems like a cheater.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011):

Im gonna go on a past experience here so i apologise if im gonna sound harsh.

My ex done simular things like this. I confronted him which was deff the right thing to do and then i gave him another chance, big big mistake, he never stopped and made a complete fool outof me. Im soz there is no other reason for ur guy to b on the dating site unles he's looking for casual sex and to b unfaithful to u or to replace u if what he thinks is a better offer comes along!

Dont stand for it! Find out it it is deff true and if it is then kick his butt the curb!

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