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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:My teacher is incredibly handsome, funny everything I've ever looked for in a guy. But... I'm a student and it's clearly illegal to do anything. I fantasize about him and I can't think right when he talks to me.My class isn't a very big class and I have him first period so I always come to class extra early to talk to him and it turns out we have a lot in common. Also, at parent teacher's conference, he called me a sweet girl and that I was very bright, and he said he sees me going very far in life. And when I had a band concert... he was right there in the front row. I know this probably isn't good I know. But I just really need to know if this is normal or okay?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (29 December 2010):
 Pancakes nailed it. Your crush is completely normal. Enjoy it as much as you want as long as you don't act on it.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (28 December 2010):
 It is COMPLETELY normal. SO many people fancy their teachers. What you should not do, however, is tell him. But enjoy your crush while it lasts, you're young and it's fine to like him.
He obviously likes you (as a student, that is) and young people often idolise their teachers like this.
In years to come, he'll still be in the school and you'll be off somewhere with your boyfriend or husband or something and you'll think back to him and how important he was to you.
Students spend so much time in school that teachers become parent figures, role models, and they do play quite an important role in your teenage years.
Like I said though, enjoy it as a crush. You'll get over it eventually.
Good Luck
xx
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