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Help!!! He's playing me, I know... but I love him...

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Question - (28 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *razybeast writes:

To put it simple i'm in love with my best friend, again! i have known him for quite a while now.

After a few months of knowing him i became attracted, but ignored this and that soon moved onto hardcore crush mode. Then i couldn't stand to be apart from him, he was playing me. He even admitted it, because i said i liked him.

So he stopped and i stopped liking him After a few weeks of seperation, then a week ago all the flirtyness came back.

i mean how couldn't it... he KISSED me!

So times have gone back to normal, with me being an idiot when ever he is around and being super into him.

And he has now got me wondering, is he doing this for attention or could there be genuine feelings involved. We get so close to each other, anyone could feel the sexual tension.

i know for a fact he has been spreading rumours that we are going out and such, i told him to stop if it isnt true but he kept on saying stuff.

He hasn't had a girlfriend since i've been wanting him again either, mainly because he has no time, after spending most the hours of the day with me.

what can i do i'm at the point of crying for nothing :'(

Xx Beasty xX

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A male reader, Nathan1 Ireland +, writes (31 December 2010):

Treat him mean and keep him keen. Honestly some good old fashioned pulling power is whats needed here. Sex yourself up, wear some cologne thats hot, do something new with your hair, wear guyliner, go all out, I'm here I'm queer. Get a tan, new jewelry. Look if he doesn't want you by the time you've had all this fun reinventing yourself you'll find there are others sitting up taking notice. The key to good looks are clean shiny hair, good clear skin, and good teeth. So plenty of water and a good nights sleep, fresh air, exercise and a healthy diet. Go set your man trap!

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