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writes:hi am new to dis but i need advice on how to get over a ex. we met in oct of 09 and i moved to his hme twn and 10 so we started dating and so on, then things began to change we argured more, broken up over dozen of times, so things started to happen on mi end and i moved bk hme and went bk to texas then mi grandma got sick and i explained it to him so i went bk and lived wit her shoe got very sick and passed n oct 10 then i con to argued wit him everyday all night to da next morning and it just went on on and on then he text tellin me how much he loves me and have feeling for me then he wants to break up then he loves me then he want to break up am just to da point i really want to move on but i love him so much and just cant let go
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (29 December 2010):
 When he wants to break up, he wants to end that arguing and not he doesn't want you. If you can come up with a way for both of you to talk only when you calm down, and to agree to stop and talk later when it reaches a limit, you are able to ride through this. So maybe he will talk to you again. Agree that a brief separation, even a longer one, is necessary, and for both of your benefit. You both need space so the next time you see each other again the negative associations will dissolve, and you can remember how attracted you both are from the beginning.
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