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What to do... I think I'm in love with my sister in law...

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Question - (28 December 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2010)
A male Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi all,

i know this is a probably stupid but i am not the only i see, i am falling for my sister in law. i love my wife and we have a kid and very happy together but i am just infatuated with my sister in law that i cant think straight. i don't know if its just physical attraction or more than that. i use to hate her but as she is growing up i am liking her more and more.. don't know what to do at this stage. other day i told her i feel like kissing her and she just smiled and said that is stupid, does she like me? or am i just barking up the wrong tree. i have never thought to cheat on my wife although i had quite a few chances but with my sister in law i fell like going all out. after our 1st kid my wife hasnt able to lost all the weight and also we dont find time for each other but again i always like my sister in law as she is better looking than my wife. i cant get her off my mind..any advise is welcome

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010):

Zip up your pants and keep them there. I don't give two shakes who you have the hots for, your sister in law is off limits. Have some respect. If you absolutely cannot keep your pants zipped, then tell your wife and leave the marriage. Then screw whomever you so desire EXCEPT blood relatives of your wife. You have got to be one self absorbed horny dude.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010):

Do you really honestly truly without a doubt think everything would workout if you ended up with your sister in law????

Almost 100% NO! Your wife would be beyond hurt, your child would grow up wondering why daddy is with his aunt, your in-laws would think you are sick, your family would be disappointed and upset, your friends would be weirded out...

This is one of those situations that is completely WRONG.

The grass is greener where you water it. Start watering your relationship with your wife! Hit the gym with her, focus your thoughts on her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010):

I think you are barking up the wrong tree. I honestly don't think you love your wife, not in the romantic kind of way anyways, if you are having feelings for her sister. Love is when you love and have only feelings for your partner. You are not suppost to have feelings for someone else. I think you should talk to her sister and tell her you have feelings for her. If she likes you back then talk to your wife and get a divorce.

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