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writes: i feel like the bad guy here just because i am a guy. My ex absolutely believes i cheated and that i'm a liar and a jerk a good for nothing. She pounces on my faults and torments me emotionally even though she tells me its just a joke yet without regard to my feelings she still makes fun of me and when i try to make a joke about her she gets mad at me and says its different cuz i mean it when i don't. What i don't get is that she says she still cares for me but calls me immature just because i tend to show my emotions rather than surpress them. What can i do to prove i am not what she says i am?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2011): Okay, she thinks you are cheating,i think its likely to be because she herself has a cheating heart. It is common, and then become insecure through a fear of being on the recieving end of the cheating game. Also when they are in the act,accusing diverts you from noticing as you are too busy defending. She is what you call excess baggage and likely to make you miserable,believing you will never do better. She is so self absorbed that she hasnt the ability to recognise you have the right to be an individual. Get rid.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (12 January 2011):
 Just looking at the age range of you two. I think she is immature and playing games with you. I'ts a way of testing out your feelings for her. She doesnt trust what she has with you and will goad you until she regains some power over that. She sounds like she is a bit needy as well. All you can do is reassure her that she is the one for you, no matter what she says. Hormones play a massive part in behaviour in this age group.
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