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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

And why on earth do I STILL like him now after a year!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been merely a "booty call" for someone for more than a year. As hard as it is to think of myself as just ass, I was okay with it, because I thought I merely wanted the same from him! Now I've developed feelings for him. Is there any way that I can let him know how I ... (179 words)

Opinions needed! Should I be telling her these things or should I be keeping them to myself?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So heres the thing, umm i like this guy and it seems like he likes me. let me explain: hes always glimpsing me, he always laughs at what i say, hes very friendly, but doesnt talk much, he always fixes his hair when hes walking by. the bad thing is that he has a girlfriend but i ... (72 words)

Should I be telling her these things or should I be keeping them to myself?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm going to go on a little rant as I need to vent my worries. They vary in relative importance and some may think I shouldn't be including such varied situations alongside each other. Some things i probably shouldn't be sharing but i need advice. Any advice for any ... (659 words)

He just won't get the message that I'm NOT INTERESTED!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently passed my driving test and a guy that I was with a long time ago has been constantly texing me and asking me out and asking loads of Q's and most of the time I just ignore him and I keep telling him I'm not interested but he never gets the hint. My best friends ... (115 words)

If my girlfriend's grandmother and my grandmother are sisters what does that make us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - If my girlfriend's grandmother and my grandmother are sisters what does that make us?... (14 words)

Do you think I'll lose weight on this particular diet? Opinions needed please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hey, I am starting a new diet where I eat a different amount of calories each day, ranging from 100 cals to 500 cals, and I do one and a half hours on the treadmill each day fast walking. I was just wondering, do you think I will lose weight if I stick to this diet though one ... (107 words)

He says he wants me to stop texting him for "a while..." How long is a while?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age - Met a guy on online dating site... we got together, and then he kept blowing me out, about a month ago. I started texting again last week, and he said he really wanted to see me, and seemed really into me again, but on Thu, he wasn't able to see me b/c of work commitments... (257 words)

My boyfriend is doing my head in!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend went nuts at me for phoning my sister, I owe her money thats why I phoned. But then he starts going off about me wasting my credit on people that arent worth it. It's my money he doesn't do anything to make money he's on dsp because of a "back problem" and his ... (141 words)

What words can be used to describe a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I suppose this is a bit wierd, but you know how guys get so many words to describe a girl? such as beautiful, gorgeous, stunning, ect.. what words can be used to describe a guy? I mean, I think handsome is a little old fashioned, but do guys like being called gorgeous? ... (52 words)

I'm 14 and fancy the pants of this guy in our group. I'm so confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay guys, please help. To understand this question, I feel you need to know the full story... well the significant bits anyway. 2005. I'm 14 and fancy the pants of this guy in our group. He's all I think about and we get along really well, my best friend fancies another l... (668 words)

I'm having real trouble with speaking properly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm having real trouble with speaking properly. Whenever I want to say something, it's like I can't get the words out or fumble the sentence and use bad grammar. Also, I talk in a high pitched voice- how do I speak calmly and clearly? Help! It's driving me nuts.... (52 words)

My group of friends are awful to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you help me? I go to a private, all girls school. I'm on a bursary though, although my family is well off but nothing compared to most of the people there. Anyway I'll try and keep it short. My group of friends are awful to me. And if I try and talk about it, it's seen as ... (644 words)

Is this something she's going through or is it just me should I stay or should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - With our first child she wanted sex all the time but with our second child which she had early b/c she had high blood pressure and had 2 have the C section, everything has changed she's always tired she says or the couple of times she did it's like I had to damn near take it ... (77 words)

Please help me with my relationship!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a teenage guy with a younger girlfriend (2 years) which can make a big difference at my age(16). She likes getting off( kissing) but I want to bring our relationship a little bit further, but she is kinda frigid and finds the idea of oral a bit offputing. We also rarely ... (60 words)

I'm 16 years old but I have a question about breasts/nipples.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey Cupiders, I'm 16 years old but I have a question about breasts/nipples. When my bf kisses or licks them, I don't really feel anything unless he sucks really hard... It also kinda tickles when he moves his tongue over them is this normal or am I just weird =/ ... (65 words)

Do you think I have anything to worry about or if I should just be patient??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My friends tried to set me up with a guy they knew the other day but before they has a chance too I met him out one night and we got on really well and danced together and kissed and he bought me a drink. He was so sweet and I really liked him. I text him the next day... (138 words)

Help please... I don't know where I stand with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met someone on holiday who is a bit older then me like 12 years older and sort of has a girlfriend I know bad idea, anyway it was just a friendship thing at first but I really started to like him and well he likes me too. So back in UK and now he has just finished with hi... (253 words)

Can a thirteen year age gap go the distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, can a thirteen year age gap go the distance? I'm 35, my partner is 22, we've been together nearly a year and are madly in love, currently we have spent last few months in different countries cos of her work but I am moving over abroad to set up home with her. I've never ... (192 words)

Growth, puberty, teenage...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age - Will I ever hit a growth spurt? As far as I know I haven't had one. I mean I've grown a lot since sixth grade. I've grown a foot since then and I am in the 9th grade. But many people I know have grown a lot like 5-7 inches in a year. I am averaging 3-4. I was 4'7 in 6th ... (91 words)

I just want to get over him, please help me it's really hurting me and I can't stop crying

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, The boy who I really love is being really dry with me. He does not speak me to me the same way I want to move on and forget him but I really can't. I have spoke to him online since September and I know it's not just the lust and how nice he was to me that I like, I ... (180 words)

Signs of female orgasm

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What are the signs of female orgasm? Is it excesssive sticky liquid... cos i get that all the time, it like squirts out of my vagina. and im only 13. no b/f. what could it be?... (36 words)

What do I do to get her to want me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - The only way she's going to want me back is if she feels like she's losing me. How do i do that? We've been apart for 4 months and she doesnt' want to date me, but wants to remain friends and talk/catch up etc. Up until a month ago she would say she loved/missed me and could ... (190 words)

Why are some men so rough with breasts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever a guy goes up my shirt, he squeezes them so hard that I sometimes scream out in pain. Dont guys understand that they are sensitive? I mean its like the equivalent of having their testicles grabbed just as hard, now guys wouldnt like that would they?... (47 words)

He's 12, will I become pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and had sexual intercourse with a 12 year old young guy. This lasted for about 4 or 5 minutes and I orgasmed. Now I am afraid, will I become pregnant. He has no hair down there. ... (43 words)

Can you get pregnant and STD's by penis up the butt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im a 14 year old girl. I have a Amazing boyfriend who would never hurt me, We talked about the future, and we desided to wait a longg time before we have sex. he does finger me, and i have gave hand-jobs to him only. hes the only one i been with but i know hes the one for me. ... (265 words)

Why do I feel like this and what does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i broke up with my boyfriend. we were moving, like, halfway across the world, but i dont think it would have gone anywhere because although there was love there was nothing else. when i came home, i made a new friend. a girl. i have never ever felt anything more th... (249 words)

What is this discharge in my underwear? I'm worried guys will be put off by it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I always have a white creamy discharge in my underwear and i don't know what it means... and it happens most of the time i'm worried when i go to have sex with guys they will see and be put off. I'm not entirely sure what it is so i'm not sure how they would react to be honest!... (59 words)

Sex is getting boring, how can I improve it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Im Taken09!!!! Me and my boyfriend has been together for 3 years and the sex is gettin boring.i dont want to lose my man so really what is there for me to do??????... (34 words)

Why does he keep putting his hands on my bottom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my friends friend a while back and we drank together and ended up kissing. He wanted to have sex but I said no and I found out he was a major player. We partied again some time later and he kept putting his hand on my butt, but I kept taking it off. Like everytime I was ... (131 words)

Is he interested or does he just want to be friends?!

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I finally got round to texting the guy I like, at the weekend. He expressed an interest in me in the past and told his friends that he fancied me, but that was a few months ago now. Things have been kinda weird between us since then and we never actually got round to hooking ... (273 words)

I feel close to him but sometimes he is smothering me, I don't know what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for almost a year now and he is the most kind, considerate, thoughtful man i have ever met. We knew one another at school but when i left home i didnt see him again for 20 years. When i got divorced 2 years ago i returned home and bumped into him... (190 words)

My man has a history of cheating on me and dating teenage girls. Now another one says he's with her, but he denies it. Am I wasting my time on a man that'll never change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I would like to make it clear that i love my man 101% before i go any further! I'm not sure how to put this but I've been with my man about a year and a half and all is good but in the early day's he did cheat on me with someone but i forgave him and continue... (445 words)

I sincerely regret I cheated on my wife, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have messed up. I cheated on my wife. I tried to come on to her best friend and I feel awful. I was going to tell her about it tonight when I got home but her friend already has. She says she is done with me. How can I get her to stay with me. I love her more than I have ever ... (101 words)

She never says "I love you" first, what does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 months. She got out of a long term commitment last summer that was really hard on her. We've known each other over the years and we reconnected last fall. Our relationship has moved quickly and is very healthy. We both new we were ... (167 words)

Am I being foolish by letting this upset me? Why the secrecy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age - About 2 years ago my live in boyfriend told me a girl he had gone to school with (20 years ago) had contacted him. When I asked a few months later how she was, he said he hadn't talked with her for some time. I recently found out he has a secret email account. Not only have ... (170 words)

My ex is confusing me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age - my ex boyfriend and i have been broken up 6 mths. he just got a new girlfriend 3weeks ago[she asked him out he rescued her from a bad marriage]. he wants us to be friends. he told a close friend of mine that if i ever needed anything i was to just ask him and if i didn't and ... (140 words)

My boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me... and I'm getting to like it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right my problem is that my boyfriend's best friend is always hitting on me and my bf never seems to notice so he just keeps on doing it, but now I'm confused! The other day I was at a party and I was looking for my boyfriend when I bumped into his friend who said he might be... (245 words)

He's thinks I've been unfaithful to him because my vagina seems stretched!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for one year, faithful the entire time. Even before we became serious, I was not with anyone else (he was). He has also spent the past few months attacking my past and telling me the most hurtful things about the 'size' of my genitalia, that it's ... (378 words)

I'm feeling troubled about my relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, ok so I'm feeling troubled about my relationship. In short I've been with my boyfriend just over a year, we moved in with each other after a short while as it just seemed right. I have no doubts about this, I'm happy in my living environment. The problem lies with my fee... (219 words)

What went wrong? Help/Advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was talking with this girl for about 1 month and a half. Around the 2 weeks we were making-out, kissing, and holding hands, but we were not a couple. Then she tells me that I can't see her at all any more cause of her mom. She said her mom was checking up and spying on her. ... (178 words)

What causes this to happen? is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and i don't understand why through out the day my testicles hang low and a few minutes later they are bunched together close to my penis. i know that it is partly caused if my testicles are warm or cold. but there are times to were i play sports and i am ... (111 words)

How do I make my boobs smaller?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so im 13 years old and my boobs are ridiculously huge(about 44DD!) And i really hate it. no 13 year old should have boobs that big. I can't wear any cute clothes because my boobs are too big to fit in them. and boys are always staring at me and making comments about my ... (68 words)

What if my husband doesn't get me an anniversary gift?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My 5th wedding anniversary is coming up this Saturday. I got my husband something I know he will really like, but I'm thinking he is going to not get me anything great. He has a habit of not getting me gifts. I don't think I have ever gotten a anniversary gift at all. I ... (109 words)

Is my ex worth giving up the life I built here to move with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am turning 29 and him 31 and we've known each other for 9 years. We dated 2 and half years in the same city. We have been on and off long distance and it did not work. We tried other relationships but never loved another person the way we loved each other. We also tried to ... (204 words)

I need objective advice... She wants to be friends... is there any serenity in this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I began a relationship with a woman who was younger than me a little over five years ago. Initially I didn't imagine the relationship would last given numerous variables beyond our age difference, but as time went on I quickly learned that I had drastically underestimated the ... (988 words)

I can't handle all the time she spends with her friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - ive been married for 20 years. i love my wife completely. but i feel so cheated on. 3 years ago she got a best friend thats male. they work togher. every friday they spend time togher they talk every day sometimes for hours. he is married. i cant handle all the time she spends ... (110 words)

How do I get back with my ex who lives in another country, I am willing to move there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question for all the men out here. Let's say you love a girl very much but thing did not work because of the distance but you both love each other very much. If your long distance ex girlfriend was trying to get you back but you were in a relationship with a another ... (99 words)

What does it mean to be straightforward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Help me. I broke up with a girl and she wrote me a letter telling me that it was because i was not straightforward. Today one of my girl friends also told me the same. I felt bad because i am not like that. What does it means to be straightforward and how can i be ... (59 words)

Do I have any legal rights after living with him for 7 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had posted yesterday, I am the woman who is involved with the married but separated man. I appreciate your responses. I have this question and it is really urkin me for some reason. Even though I have invested almost 8 yrs with this man and lived with him and helped pay for ... (126 words)

Did he only come back to me because the other woman didn't want him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age - I got married in 1981, 7 years later I had an affair, cause my husband was always leaving me in the house with 2 kids and I thought he was, he found out then 6 months later he left me for another women he worked with. She ran a pub he moved in with her, a week later he said he ... (216 words)

Does he truly like me? Or is he just trying to get in my pants?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this guy (he is 22) through a friend and we all partied together a couple of times. The first time, we didnt really talk much and I was into his friend and we ended up kissing. He wanted to have sex (and is a major player) but we didnt do anything and I think I will ... (276 words)

How to get over bumping into my first love, and am I back at square one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive just bumped into my first love in town. Im so upset :( We didnt end on good or bad terms, i cant be bothered to go into it , its complicated. But hes never been mean to me or anything. so its not like i can even hate him for hurting me. We broke contact before chri... (188 words)

I really need to know where I stand but he does not seem to want to talk to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. Me and my boyfriend fell out a few days ago and are barely talking. It's absolutely killing me. Last night he told me it was over but still continued to text me a couple of times that night. I left him to it until this morning when I sent him an email from work asking... (288 words)

New marriage - identity crisis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age - I am having an identity crisis. For 49 years, I was single. I lived first with my parents, then alone. But, I felt at home. I recently married, moved in to the house my husband shared with his ex wife and feel so alone. I hate the house. We cannot move because of finan... (226 words)

We broke up due to the long distance, should I visit her now? She invited me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i feel so pathetic for even writing this message. But the truth is im still in love with my ex. She was my first, so i understand that im going to be caught up for a while, but it has been about 4/5 months now. The only reason we broke up was because of the distance... (251 words)

I want to be with him but I feel unhappy about our secret relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I've been dating this guy for a year and change. His whole family is not fond of me especially his mother. This is because I dated her other son prior to this one for about half a year. I found out that he cheated on me so I broke it off with him. This was two yea... (344 words)

Is she cheating or really just second-guessing herself with her huge commitment fears?

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend an I had only been together for a couple months when all of a sudden in december she just stopped being affectionate towards me wouldn't kiss me, barely look at me, let alone make love to me. We had made plans for christmas eve and christmas day, only to have her ... (1361 words)

I was raped twice, please tell me how to deal with this, I'm torn!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i would like to know if i am a magnet for being raped. i was raped when i was 12 years old by two men who were good friends of my family, especially my father. when i told my stepmother what happened, she adviced me not to tell anybody, then she went and told my parents, my ... (265 words)

Is this a no win situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age - Hi yet again! If you've been following my story you might remember my husband who was for several months flirty texting a work colleague 20 years younger and saying they loved each other etc. although a text I luckily saw from her confirms it was not physical. Apart from all... (437 words)

We had unprotected sex, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well....I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend kinda had unprotected sex. He didn't cum all the way. He said he only did a little bit. I was just stopping my period. I don't know if I am or not. He has also been known to do drugs, like pot. I have resources and they say that he did pot ... (138 words)

Men, what do you enjoy most? How do you like to be teased? What can I do to make it better for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ive been giving my boyfriend hand jobs for a while now and he always enjoys it and i cup his balls and we use my breats too,, but how can i make sure its GREAT for him?? men..what do you enjoy the most? what can i do to make it better for him? also how do men like to be t... (197 words)

My FWB knows I am a virgin - will he still want to have sex? I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my friend with benefits we havent slept together and i am still a virgin i lied to him and said i have been with loads of guys and then yesterday i told him the truth and now he is feeling guilty that he has ruined my first time doing certain stuff i just dont know wha... (101 words)

I love talking to my ex but this makes it more difficult to move on, should I cut all contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me a few months ago. She lead me on and kept saying i love you and how much she missed me following the break up. About a month ago she gave me final closure and said she wouldn't contact me because she didn't want to make things more difficult. ... (508 words)

Partner kept nude pictures of a one night stand, I'm not sure what to make of it all!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi:) My dilemma is a bit complicated but here goes! I was on my partner's PC looking for pics of a family holiday we had recently had. While looking for the folder they were in I came across a folder full of poetry and short stories he had written. Among these were poems ... (794 words)

What are the tests that can be done to check for all STD's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering what you would have to do in case of an STD to check a guy for all possible diseases. Is the urethral swab (I think that's what it's called) or a blood test the only way of thoroughly checking, or will a urine test or a less intrusive examination suffice?... (53 words)

How to handle my husband's trust issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old, with three kids and a husband of 6 years. We have been together fo 10 years this April. Well, about 4 yeas ago i left my husband for several reasons the main was i was tired of being taken for granted. I stayed gone for about 3 months and during these th... (182 words)

One of my breasts is itchy for weeks now, what could this be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boob itches. But only on one side. It's been weeks now.. What are the possible reasons? By the way, I'm 16.... (22 words)

Should I leave my married lover after 8 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

23 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, here goes! I met a man 8+ years ago (when I was ending a bad marriage of 8 years) who told me his wife was "sick" and not able to be with him. After a while I gave in and we started a relationship, working together at a few places over the next 8+ years and his wife is ... (374 words)

Two relationships that went bad for no apparent reason??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

23 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i feel like everything is my fault and i i don't know I mean i just came out of 2 really good relationships that went to hell for no apparent reason and im not getting why, am i doing something wrong? i was dating this girl named amber and we were together for almost a mont... (227 words)

He bought me a couch at our second date!...

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So i just broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago. I met a guy online shortly after and we met one time and he seemed great. Said hes new to the area but we didnt do anything - no kiss or anything we agreed that we'd, if anything, be friends. he showed me his driver's ... (176 words)

I'm seeing someone new. She is great but I still love my ex (who cheated)!

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, I've been reading some very good advice on this forum. The posters here are very cool and helpful. If I can ever help I promise to, but right now, I'm afraid it is me who is going nuts. Let me start by saying, I think I'm crazy for going nuts over women, as mo... (744 words)

First time sex, the pain was an agony and it hurts when I urinate, is it normal?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity last night, i barely bled but i was so tense the pain was agony! we did it twice, without a condom but he withdrew before he came. Im sore now and it really really burns to wee, its awful! is this normal and will it always hurt when i have sex? ... (56 words)

Could I get pregnant after a late pill?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,im a bit worried.Im on the pill but i went for 24hrs without taking it.could i be pregnant? i took it about 2pm saturday and then 00.20am monday.I had sex at the weekend.My period is due this friday and i have only one more pill out of my pack to take.Please help thank-you.... (53 words)

I'm worried that my b/f's ex wants to bring up their past, what do you think?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend was with his ex for 5 years. They have been split up for 2 years now and me and him have been togeher for 9 months. When he split up with his ex they were still sleeping together and she got pregnant she got rid of the baby and my boyfriend was heart broken. Now ... (154 words)

Is it because he doesn't like me that he never comes over and says hi?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy and I love talking to him and being around him, but I am always the one that has to start off the conversation! He seems friendly enough when I talk to him, and he doesn't seem shy at all. I've started not talking to him recently because I don't want to ... (75 words)

I forgave my abusive boyfriend but I cant seem to forget!

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. About six months ago we had a fight which lead him to pushing me and choking me. He told me he could never be with me because of what he had done. I love him so much that I couldnt let him go. It has been 6 months now and I ... (239 words)

I'm getting mixed signals from my boyfriend and I want to know where this relationship is going

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice please. I have been seeing this man for about 2 mths. He just took me on a vacation over valentines holiday and paid for everything. He says we are friends getting to know each other. He also has had a talk with me 2 times about us dating, meeting his family ... (167 words)

I need help understanding the Frendulum Breve problem

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello My boyfriend has the frendulum breve problem and i have researched it but nothing seems to sink in so if someone could explain it really simply so i can just get grips with it would be much appreciated. Also im so worried about hurting him and he is the kind of person w... (88 words)

I'm still in love after 5 years but I'm starting to think we want different things

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i dont know what to do. Ive been with my fella for 5 yrs and yes i do love him but recently im beginning to think we want different things. im really wanting to get a house but because we said last year we would go on 1 last holiday this year in august he wants to go on it. Yes ... (131 words)

I am irritated by his changes of attitude and faults but he doesn't appreciate that I tolerate all these!

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i am in my fourties and have been with my partner for 3 going on 4 yrs,i love him to bits but i also am more irritated about his change in attitude since we met,i never saw it at the start,the trouble is i love him for all his faults and mistakes,and told him so,but he ... (92 words)

I still have my needs but he wont listen!

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old female...I have been with my partner for over 3 and a half years now. And we have been planning our marriage for some time now. But I must say that in the beginning of our relationship our sex life was really healthy. I couldn't complain. We have concieved 2 ... (206 words)

I think I am falling for this girl but how do I take the next step?

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have just got back from spending a couple of hours with the girl I like this afternoon. Only our second one to one meeting. A bit longer than the first, which just over an hour and a quarter. This was just over two hours. I had a lovely time and am getting a good feeling a... (159 words)

I tried to save my marriage after my wife cheated but now I think it is time to move on

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Today is Monday .. saturday we got a big fight with my wife and she took my two children ( 5 and 11 yrs ) to a friend's house, now I dont know what to do, mainly the fight is for always the same,for money, I work she does not, she and my kids just came to the US since september ... (141 words)

Why did I not express my feelings to my friend?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I invited a friend over for a dvd night in and stay over at the weekend. As the film progressed into the night, my friend was starting to feel the chill in our house, despite our heating to have been switched on for already a couple of hours. I didn't agree (prob cos I'm used ... (165 words)

Is his ex lying to get him back?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my fiance for 3 years on and off, we've been back on for just over a month now, thats when we got engaged...I love him so much, the last time we split, was October last year. While we were apart, he got a new girlfriend, since he dumped her, she keeps ringing ... (117 words)

How to deal with my mother constant put downs?

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23 February 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice with how to deal with my mothers constant put downs. I consider myself a good daughter-im 26 and live at home. I have never been drunk,never done drugs,i have never even tried a cigarette. I've always been honest with my parents when going out on dat... (363 words)

I am very sensitive and take things very personally, help!

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well first i 10xs all that we are helping each us we can my problem is that i am so sensitive and my bf, he lives far away from me so we dont see each ather just talk by phone and he went out with his friends so i texted him that even that i am not next to him i am with him ... (108 words)

I'm very concerned about my sister (16) dating a 19 year old!

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I am a thirty six year old male and am concerned, having just found out that my little sister, who is 16 is dating a 19 year old man. The worse part is that she seems to be the one going after him and my parents seem to be ok with it, whereas, I am not, she is stubborn ... (74 words)

I want to grow old with her but our sex life is problematic and she is not receptive to any change, help?

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a 34yr old guy dating a 31 yr old lady. I'm not all that experienced however I have been around the block. The girl I am seeing is all that I've ever wanted and more and couldn't be happier but this is not so when were in bed. She is not experienced at all and is not f... (387 words)

Should I confront my friend and tell him to stop hitting on my girlfriend?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question. One of my best friends liked my girlfriend before we started dating. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and I have to travel a lot for my job. While I was gone on one of my trips, my friend hit on my girlfriend. My girlfriend doesn't like him ... (92 words)

Getting married with my b/f soon but falling in love with a female friend! I'm so confused!

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a straight woman (have dated 8 men in my life) and currently in a happy relationship with my boyfriend of 18 months...we're getting married in oct! a month ago, i went to a pub with some friends and one of my girl friend's friend (call her C) came and joined us.. she'... (344 words)

We've been really frustrated and angry recently... about nothing?

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone...I've been reaaaally frustrated and angry recently. I manage to hide it really well though so people don't notice it. It justs explodes at home though even though i live in a good family environment. The same thing coincidently enough is happening to my girlfrie... (166 words)

My ex doesn't want to talk about our break up, do you think he will ever contact me?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello. It's been about 7 weeks since my ex boyfriend broke up with me. we were together for over 4 years. he broke up with me after the stresses of life (working all the time, no money, lack of sleep etc) and we kept arguing so much, he couldn't take it anymore. he wa... (450 words)

What is my ex really feeling? Is it love or is he playing me?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex and i were together for 2 years and broke up 2 years ago. a few months back he got back in contact with me saying he missed me and was sorry for how things ended between us and i was happy to see him ive missed him a lot. since then we talk often hang out go out but we ... (373 words)

I've stopped speaking to my ex altogether...will I get over the dissapointment or should I try and be friends with him?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Although i don't want to continue my realtionship with the man i used to date last year i feel dissapointed that we haven't communication any more. I don't call him and he doesn't call me either. I think that he won't call me any more if i don't call him, something that i don't ... (97 words)

My wife is chatting to hundreds of men online even though I have asked her to stop!

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married to my wife now for almost 5 years now. We met online in an animated avatar chat room called Habbohotel, and things on the whole are great. but... Basically, i have an issue with her talking to men online. When i knew her online I was single and vuln... (637 words)

My ex wants to find god first, should I wait for him or move on?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, what should I do. I just broke up with my bf, we were together for 3months. At first it was happy then he got stressed with work and we both dunno how to handle it He needed space while I felt neglected but we both tried to work it out. Over the weekend, we went to churc... (267 words)

He doesn't arouse me enough

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23 February 2009 (F)

age - My husband of six mos., rather we remarried after 34 yrs. we had fun dating and was intimate, altho he has ed, and went to drs and can have implants in but he turned me on tremendously two yrs ago, took the effort to make me happy, and i did him with what we could work with. ... (450 words)

Should I come clean or keep it a secret?

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi guys this is me and i need serious help. am tryn to date a very hot gal who is slightly younger than iam but am afraid she may freak out when she discovers my addiction to porn. Should i come clean or keep this addiction as top secret?... (49 words)

I can't trust her though I know she loves me

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi as i have send a question on 15 feb and i have followed it and again she is back i thank u all. But now the problem is that i am not able to trust her what to do. I know that she loves me but as previous i am not able to trust her. I am worried that if again she left me ... (86 words)

G Spot pr Clitoris orgasm more explosive?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age - I always thought a clitoral orgasm is more intense then a gspot orgasm ,, but a male friend said it was the gspot orgasm that is more intense . Iv heard many woman have never had an orgasm and I am fortunate to be multi orgasmic.. And I know I have a gspot orgasm when I have ... (66 words)

Did he ejaculate multiple times over a day or a week?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age - Do guys ejaculate creamy or clear and watery. If it is clear and water, is this because the guy ejaculated numerous time over a day or in a week?... (30 words)

A sharp pain in my butt as he fingered me

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so here's my question. I'll start off by saying that me and my boyfriend are both virgins. we do everything from fingering to oral, but like i said, we've never had intercourse. My boyfriend is really good at fingering me, and he knows where my g-spot is and can hit it ... (165 words)

Is she attracted to me?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A few years ago, I went to a nightclub with a social worker. I was her client, but we decided to stay in touch. One day she asked me if I wanted to go out and have a drink. The night of the event I spoke to her on the phone. She said that she was worried that I would meet ... (153 words)

We fight a lot, he broke up with me and now wants me back

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello again, My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year and 2 months we usually fight over really insignificant things but this time we had an arguments and he broke up with me saying that we fight alot and that thats not how a relationship should be. this was befo... (161 words)

I want to find the women of my dreams. How can I make sure I only think with one head?

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23 February 2009 (M)

- I haven't been in a relationship in over 5 months and the lack of sex is really clouding my mind. Hard to think concentrate. I'm not interested in one night stands. STDs are way too scary. I'm worried that this will tint my appraisal of the women I date. I want to find the... (87 words)

How do women respond to tenacious and persistent men whom they are not interested in?

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23 February 2009 (M)

- So, I'm not very good at dating. I'm very shy around women. On the flip side, women that I'm not interested in are very persist about getting me attention and asking me out on date. I admire one woman in particular who's been at it for 2.5 years now despite having a bf for ... (228 words)

He makes me feel bad about wanting to leave him!

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a a strange relationship for almost four years now. I stated to him 2 weeks into it that I did not want to be with him and he cried. I felt so horrible for making him cry that I capitulated. Since than I would have to say I have "broken up" with him nearly a ... (221 words)

My boyfriend says hurtful things, why can't I leave him when I realise I should?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfrind is-and I can't say this any more nicely- a complete moron when it comes to trying to express what he's saying. I mean, it's one thing to put his foot in his mouth every once in awhile. We all do it. But it's like he has some sick game where he tries to say the wrong ... (236 words)

Want to try online dating but worried about ID theft and stalkers!

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23 February 2009 (M)

- I want to try online dating but I'm really worried about identity theft and stalkers. The idea is very appealing to me but I don't like giving out all that info for the world to see or worse have someone not take no for an answer and follow me. I have no idea who I could ... (102 words)

Moving out for a healthy love life or staying at home for healthy finances?

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23 February 2009 (M)

- I'm 24 and living at home with my parents. This has obviously affected the relationship side of my life. I will be graduating from what was a very expensive professional degree this summer with some daunting debt. I'd like to move out but my parents advise me that it might... (271 words)

What do I do if she doesn't want sex as often as I do and she's not even affectionate?

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - What do i do if my girl doesnt want to have sex as frequent as i do? i dont know if its me with a problem because i want it at least once a day. theres barley no advances from her not even for regular affection. im ready to move on without her it makes me sick. sometimes i ... (99 words)

Offended my friend with a facebook social blunder. What can I do?

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm quite the sensitive person. Usually about myself; I feel as if everyone else around me has it better these days, and I can't really seem to enjoy myself because of it. I'm quiet, I've been perceived as a sweet guy, and I keep myself out of trouble. I accidently offen... (198 words)

Is it normal not to feel anything during oral sex?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend liked to go down on me a lot but I couldnt really feel anything from it. I mean, its not that I couldnt orgasm, I didnt feel ANY pleasure whatsoever and I can only orgasm through masturbation. He is the only one I have ever been with so I dont know if its him or ... (62 words)

He didn't tell me he had an STD! Do I have it now?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I am freaking out right now! This guy ive been seeing has a profile on positive spot.He didnt tell me,I found it on google.What is positive spot? Well,that was my first question too! Its a dating website of sorts.what sort? For people who have an std! According to his ... (141 words)

We flirt. He's not ready. We make out. He's not ready. Should I ask?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I have a slight dilema and i would love some advice. so heres the situation. a few months back i told my guy friend (ill call him X) that i had feelings for him. X responds by telling me he isnt looking for anyone right now and he would prefer that we stay just fri... (240 words)

I can't stop thinking about how my dad cheated on my mom.

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - OK so here is what happened: Last weekend I went on a family weekend getaway with my parents and some other extended family. The cabin we were staying in had no insulation and anything said downstairs was heard upstairs. I was upstairs in bed, texting my boyfriend goodni... (321 words)

Isn't it too soon to find it weird that he's seeing other women?

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23 February 2009 (F) - i've recently started dating a man, just 2 months ago. i met him on a dating site. he says he's very interested in me but he's still on the dating site. he says he isn't in a 'monogamous' relationship with me yet and we haven't consumated that yet, but he feels it's going in ... (136 words)

Inexperienced with dating women, help please

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old, single, and always having trouble asking girls out. i have only had one woman in my life. but that didn't last long. i just have problems on getting a woman to like me or go out with me. i know a lot of girls. just not good friends with them. But i would like ... (77 words)

Does he genuinely like me?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who I know through a friend and we partied together a couple of times. The first time, we didnt really talk much and I was into his friend and we ended up kissing but he is a player so I think I will leave it at that. I started flirting with the other guy and ... (185 words)

My fiance won't let my friend come to our wedding because shes a lesbian.

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23 February 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My fiance won't let my friend come to our wedding because shes a lesbian. She says The Dike (that's what she calls her when my friend isn't around) will eye up all the bridesmaids and also she doesn't want her to come because there going to be a lot of little kids (like 1-5) ... (92 words)

Please help, I'm tired of crying because I think I'm in the wrong!

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 32 and in love with the best man ever problem is he is 43 has had a stroke and only wants to make love to me once a week. where i would be happy if we did it twice a week he wants to have a baby but we don't make love enough to even come close to thinking i might have a ... (141 words)

My BF makes comments about famous women, and I hate it - am I being too harsh?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend makes comments about famous women when we are watching tv or if he sees a magazine. It seems rude to me. My first instinct is to say, well if you like the way she looks enough to brag about it to your girlfriend, then maybe you are with the wrong girl. Find someone ... (97 words)

My best friend is dating the guy she knew I liked

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so when i first moved to a new school I had a crush on this guy and we became friends. Then i made friends with this girl and we became best friends, I told her I liked this guy and she knew him because he was in our 1st and 2nd period class. Later on one day she calls me ( ... (164 words)

How can I really be myself when I'm with him?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a very shy person when it comes to crowds and a lot of people. And to make it even worse I'm still shy around my bf. How can I be myself when I'm with him?... (36 words)

How do you deal with a two-faced manager?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Just wondering any advice on how to deal with a manager who is really (really really) nasty to you one minute, and then really really really nice to you the next? Thanks ... (40 words)

I'm too shy, how can I approach a guy?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I never had a boyfriend. I really want one but I'm too shy to do so. I get to shy to even talk to my crush. How can I approach a guy? ... (33 words)

How do you know FOR SURE when a man has REALLY lost interest in you?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a really really bad date with a man I am seeing for 7 months the other day - I now question whether he has lost interest in me or is simply playing mind games again. Your thoughts as usual would be much appreciated. Please give me opinions for both cases if possible as I ... (923 words)

Caught between two people.

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I moved to a new town just over a year ago. When I first got there I met someone and we became friends. After a couple of months, we started dating and I fell in love. The only problem was that I wasn't fair to this person. Before I left home, I made promises to anot... (258 words)

How do you know when love is meant to be?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know when a love is meant to be?... (11 words)

I've had two abortions, and still want a baby... I need guidance, help me!

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 15 like all girls that came on this page i want a baby too...but my situation kinda different from everyone elses on why i want a baby ... my boyfriend is 17 now he just turned 17 ...and a year ago i was a pregnant twice and got two abortions i didnt want to but my m... (230 words)

Even though I have an STD, that STILL isn't enough to make me hate him.

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I dated for quite some time. For the most part, we had a good relationship. I fell hard for him, I'd have to say and well I can't seem to get back up. Our break up was very horrible. We basically said every rude thing to eachother in the book. We made t... (292 words)

We're both married, having a purely sexual affair - why lately has he gotten so clingy?

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23 February 2009 (?) age - I am having a sexual affair with this man. We are both married. The affair is nothing but sexual. We meet about once a month for no more than 2 hours. There is no calling in between meetings or any other form of communication. No lunches or dinners, nothing! Lately ... (89 words)

Where do I draw the line with her new friendship with this guy?

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 5 years, and everything is going well. We are practically open with each other, and basically "loyal" to each other. We are open in meeting ex's, old crushes as long as we tell each other, just to say our heart is clear and ... (243 words)

How can I have sex for longer and not get worn out?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for one year and we have sex very often, but when we do I find that I can't last as long as my boyfriend does (he can last for ages), I often orgasm and become to tired to continue. I want to be able to have sex for longer without tiring s... (104 words)

I just want to escape North Carolina, but I'm so scared that dream is dying.

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My family and I are "immigrants" from Florida who came to North Carolina for "a better life in North Carolina." I did NOT have a better life in North Carolina. Instead, I became VERY depressed and had a really rough time adjusting to the culture. I went through a very rough ... (796 words)

How do you know you aren't in love...

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - ...or is it something else? I'm in a relationship with a really great guy - treats me like gold. Recently, we've been having more downs than ups (all because of my reactions to things I've learned about him that aren't horrible by any stretch of the imagination) but... (207 words)

Why does my girlfriend stuff her bra and want a boob job? I love her as she is!

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23 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I was making love to my girlfriend (of two years) and I unhook her bra without her knowing. There was padding and toilet paper everywhere. Before I could say a thing she ran of the room. I called her a few times with no answer. I really don't thing she should padding up her bra ... (86 words)

My girlfriend won't make time to hang out with me, what can I do?

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this girl for 10 months. She was real closed up. I have broken down that wall a little. I still can't get her to spend much time with me. Lately it seem that her wall has come back up. I might see her twice a week. She is always making time for her ... (370 words)

Why can't a man deal with a facial peel?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - just curious: why cant man deal with a facial peal. a peal has 3 acids that sting a little, but if a girl can handle the pain, why cant a guy? and why do they get freaked out by hearing about it?... (44 words)

My hubby's best friend took advantage of me while drunk, what should I do?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married now for almost 3 years. While out with my friends, one of my guy friends took advantage of me being a little drunk. He was all over me in the club and made me nervous. I tried to avoid him knowing he was also one of my husband's best friends. Then he knew I ... (217 words)

I think people are talking about me behind my back, what should I do?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I get the impression that a bunch of my friends back home are talking behind my back. I feel kind of betrayed by it actually, and am wondering what to do about it (or even if I should bother to do anything about it). I guess I thought that, nearing 30, these kind of th... (390 words)

Why do I put so much pressure on myself to find a girlfriend?

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do I put so much pressure on myself to find a girlfriend? I'm only 20 years old. I've been in 4 relationships in my life, only one of which was long term. Despite my age, I worry that I'm never going to find the right person for me. Why am I finding this so hard to belie... (161 words)

My question is: why does she want to talk to me?

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a question about what is happening with a girl I recently met. She was casually introduced to me by a fencing teammate of mine and it turned out that we had the same double major and were in 3 of the same classes. A few days ago she asked to meet with me to ... (390 words)

Falling for a girl who I blasted in the past.

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23 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Last year my very best friend told me that she loves me.. For some reasons I blasted her.. She's been my best friend for 6 years now and I don't feel love for her. She told me that no matter what happened she will love me... She also told me that she will search for the guy ... (193 words)

Why won't my husband sleep with me?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My sex drive seems out of control. My husband doesn't really like to have sex with me as much as I think I need. Not only that, but when I do have sex with him, I feel disappointed. He has never been able to make me orgasm. He is the only person I have ever slept with, and I ... (230 words)

Could the pharmacist have been mistaken, or does he make sense?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Today I went to the drugstore to get the morning after pill. Now, I am on birth control too, but I wanted to get it just to be safe. But when I got to the pharmacy and explained everything to the pharmacist, I got the strangest look when I mentioned that I'm on the pill. He ... (97 words)

Depressed in love and scared.

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am currently going through depression and anxiety. I have grown up with a crappy view on relationships and men (sorry guys). I have this amazing boyfriend. He is so great but I have all these fears of love fading and pretty much any fear a person could have when regarding ... (163 words)

How do I handle this when she comes to visit me?

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my girlfriend long distance for 3 years and we broke up about a month ago. We agreed we didn't want to date anyone else and she told me if there was to be another chance we would have to start all over, friends first, but the "I love yous" and gentle talk was still ... (165 words)

I want to leave but maintain a friendship for my son's sake.

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23 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 24 year old female, I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years and we have a 7 year old son! I moved out with my mom for about 4 days and came back for all the wrong reasons! I have been back for 3 days and still want to be on my own but he makes me feel sorry for him ... (146 words)