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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I ask him or just leave it...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for around a year, he randomly added me one night on msn soo we got chatting and it turned out that he lived pretty close to me, in the same city/town. i never trusted people online, with all the stories you hear and stuff, but he was on webcam, he had ... (411 words)

I'm bi, and want to be with my friend "straight" friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm bisexual, and my friend knows but she thought she was bi-curious but now she says she's straight, and we play around like stare into eachother eyes and lay in bed together but I try not to touch her sexually. Thing is I'm sexually attracted to her and sometimes she make me ... (91 words)

Will it hurt or is it a right pain in the ass?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months now. I'm 16 he's 17. And we've had sex before but now he wants to give it to me in my ass. Will it hurt? That's all I'm asking.... (42 words)

Why is it that I have to suffer like this? It hurts not feeling good enough for her. What's wrong with me...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I never realized how much power a single girl can hold over me. I fell very hard for a girl back in 2004, and to date, I cannot get her out of my mind. She's everything a guy would want: absolute natural beauty, intellect, shy personality. What's worse is that she's been around ... (401 words)

Should I ask him what was said?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, So me and my boyfriend have been dating for about two years. Somebody told him some things and won't tell me what they said.. I don't know what it could be, so I'm not that worried about it but he hasn't talked to me in three days, what should I do?... (52 words)

Your comments are appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age - My b/f has been very much involved in the behaviour management of my 17 year old. My son is very intellient but very rude and argumentative and drives me mad and I have had to get social services and counselling organised for him. I turned to my b/f for support and I thought ... (259 words)

Crushed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a crush on one of the popular kids ( to be expeded) we use to be friends and then he found out . now he won't talk to me my friends ask him out for me but he yells no please help... (44 words)

I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!

This question has 116 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short there's a guy I'm working ... (868 words)

Do girls feel anal is humiliating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Do girls feel anal sex is in some way humiliating??? My gf and i had anal for the first time last weekend, and in the middle of it she started to cry. Of course we stopped, but at that moment she couldn't explain why she cried. After thinking about it, she now thinks it was a... (193 words)

Is he just afraid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - He says he loves me in many ways. We were together for 8 months and broke up for 2 months. We got back together and it was great. But then there was some jealousy on his part due to an older man saying hello who knew both of us he said I should have walked away that I was be... (346 words)

Why are my ex and his friends accusing me of these weird things?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years at the beginning of this year, as our relationship has not been good since I started university in October, and we had serious trust issues. Unfortunately things did not end that well between us and we had a couple of major ... (302 words)

Feeling sick with diarrhea, after anal sex! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had anal sex unprotected, and i then gave him a blow job. That was yesterday and today i am feeling sick with slight diarrhea, could this be because I sucked him after anal? :(... (38 words)

Second thoughts? What could I do to improve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been having thought of my own with my long time relationship going on for six years. He says he is happy with me, he gives me all that I could possibly think of emotionally. He's the perfect guy for me. We fit. Yet, it's been a week and I've been having doubts of wh... (348 words)

How can I get over always thinking he wants to be with her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex last year while i was heavily pregnant with our 2nd son, and even though i hated him at the time i took him back. Now our son is 4 months old, and our first born is 2, and my boyfriend wants us to start having a regular sex life again. H... (172 words)

Knowing how serious they were...I'm not sure I can be with him anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner cheated on me in 2007 but we got back together after 6 months, 4 of those months he was with the woman he cheated on me with. When we got back together he said that she'd meant nothing to him, that she just showed him some attention and he liked it as at the time we ... (346 words)

How can I erase him from my head when she keeps talking about him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant get this out of my head and i know i should. I used to go out with this guy dave. when we started talkin, i found out he just got out of a on and off 3 month relationship. I didnt really care since he was single, because whats the harm in that now? So, afterwar... (486 words)

She doesn't care about me but I still do her...how can I move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I love her so much, It hurts alot when i'm trying to forget her. She said to me she likes me and i told her i love her too, we are together about 3 mouthes for a serious relation, and one day she told me that her x-boyfriend want to return to her and she accepted him again, s... (146 words)

Should I snitch on my pot smoking friend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I'm on the bus and my friend Dylan and my enemy Joe were talkin. So, my friend David something and he's like wow dude why'd you take that to school and I'm like you guys have weed or something sarcasticly and they just looked guilty I'm then like you don't then I t... (149 words)

Why do girls do this to good guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I just had to break up with my gf of 7 months today because I found out that a month earlier while we took a one week break she asked an ex of hers out and only took me back because he rejected her. I know its not like she cheated on me but thats still a shitty thing to do ... (179 words)

What if he's scared to ask a girl to be his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how do you know when a guy is ready to ask the girl he likes if she wants to be his girl friend?how do you know if he is scared to ask her?and if he is scared,what should the girl do to give him courage and more confidence?please answer.... (49 words)

Why does a guy ignore the girl he likes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - when a teenage boy ignores the girl he likes(everyone is almost completely sure he likes her very much)and it's not the first he does it,could it mean he doesn't like her anymore?or it means he is confused or wants to move on?what reasosns could a boy have to ignore the girl he ... (63 words)

Should I give the green light to my friend to have sex with my mom?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Hello… My friend wants to have sex with my mum. They are both single. i care for them both and want them to be happy. I know my mum thinks my friend is cute. My friend said that he has liked her since we both were in high school. She is in her 40s and he is of age. I just d... (210 words)

Will this help give me closure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So.. right or wrong I'm writing this letter to my ex and sending it via the internet. I wrote to him a few weeks ago, and we spoke for a while and then he just didn't answer me. The last thing I said was "I'm glad you're happy". That was a week ago so I'm thinking of sending ... (486 words)

I just realized I really didn't treat my husband the way I should have

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Afew days ago my husband told me he wasnt happy anymore. I was completely devestaded, and all of a sudden started thinking of all of the things I had done wrong. I asked him why, and he said he didnt know and that he had been this way for a few weeks. I feel awful because I ... (1062 words)

She's sent a photo to him but says she loves me but there's things I know that she hasn't told me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 6 months. I love her i really do and i understand that females have guy friends and thats cool. She tells me she loves me all the time but i found a letter from one of her friends in prison and he wrote her for vday and she ... (331 words)

How do I explain to my friend's nieces that she killed herself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend of 5 years committed suicide 2 weeks ago. I understand why she did it, she had alot of trouble in her life, and was in every sense of the word an orphan. The only family she had left was her nieces, who were put into foster care because they wouldn't give them to ... (114 words)

I was just a mess when we snogged!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what I am doing, there is a guy I work with whom I have been attracted to since I first saw him, we have been flirting for a couple of years (yes years) we finally snogged but I was rubbish I completely froze (my hands were shaking and I didn't really respond),I ... (207 words)

I really want to have sex but I'm afraid that I'll get pregnant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone... My an my boyfriend are to that level where were ready to have sex. well i really want to do this but i'm afraid i'll get pregnant an i don't have enough money for birth control. He's goin to use a condom but i don't know if that will be enough for me not to get ... (63 words)

Is he just confused, angry and taking it out on me?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, me and my ex split in early october last yr, anyway weve stayed friends untill this week, but now im really confused he says im stalking him, and wont talk 2 me now, but only 2 weeks ago, he said 2 me that he wanted to suck my tits,and a week ago friday,he asked ... (217 words)

Why do my family not let me be my own person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) age 30-35 - hello, i just wanted to ask why is it that my family do not want to see me happy, i come form an asian family and all i ever want to do is be happy, however whatever i do that makes me happy is something that makes them sad, for example im 17 and i want to go out with my ... (333 words)

He swears he won't hit me again, should I get back with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I get back together with my ex? I dated this guy almost a year ago we were together for 4 years before that. While dating, he did a lot of things to me. First everytime I wanted to hang out with my friends he would try to guilt trip me and make me feel bad for doi... (565 words)

I'm in a sexless marriage wanting more

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age - I'm in a sexless marriage now for over a year--irregular for 3 years prior to that. counseling hasn't seemed to help. I've been seriously thinking of a "friends with benefits" type of relationship rather than an outright affair and would like to hear from others on this ... (132 words)

Is there a possibility that I can get back with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - We been couple for 2 years and we broke up because my parents didn't agree with her. Every day we always met each other, we are like the best couple in church. So I told her that I'm sorry I can't take you any more, but I still love you. Her heart was broken, but I still be ... (823 words)

Is 32 years... old???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is 32 old? In people's eyes and in comparison to some still in their 20's?... (16 words)

Will all of this that I have found out "blow" over???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I just found out my wife cheated on me while we were engaged. I'm really angry and hurt. I don't know what to do. We were engaged and got married in Summer 2007. There was one time we had a big fight and didn't speak for 2 weeks, but didn't break up or anything. I just found ou... (485 words)

My ex is causing problems between me and my guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was sleeping with a friend/coworker. My ex came by my house drunk over the weekend. I was drunk too, worried about him driving. Let him into my apartment. ended up going through my phone. Found some questionable texts between me and this other guy. Called him drunk and told ... (116 words)

Is he really gay or is this a sick prank... I'm confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so me and my boyfriend are on a break and I see him every once in a while because he is in college so I get on my facebook account and he's posted pictures of another reavealing his penis and the album title says my secret life and lover.. so this really shocked me! Is he ... (68 words)

How can I win her trust back? I love her so very much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - At the start of our relationship, I made the horrible decision to talk with some ex's in a way that I shouldn't. It was completely online, and I did not cheat physically in any way. To be frank, I was scared of the relationship I am in. It was working out fantastically and I ... (459 words)

I'm confused because he hugs other girls as well, help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy at school, who i knows likes me but i don't think i like him in that way, but there is a guy that i kinda like and i was talking to my friends about the guy that likes me and the guy that i like was there too and he's friends with the guy that likes me but he said ... (215 words)

My b/f of 3 years is losing his sex drive and I'm not getting my needs met! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have a horrible problem. my bf of almost 3 years is loosing his sex drive and im not getting my needs met . when he is in the mood i take care of him and i dont get anything. im going crazy i know hes not cheating. his sex drive is just going down the tubes its driving ... (119 words)

Wondering if the guy I'm seeing is also seeing hookers...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Wondering if the guy I'm seeing is also seeing hookers.. I found dozens and dozens of emails in his account going back and forth with hookers on Craigslist.He travels a lot, and most of the cities he was in, he seemed to correspond with the hookers in that city. I can't te... (217 words)

I have a b/f but I miss the thrill of the chase that I could have with this new guy, any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im happily in love with my boyfriend, and though we have our ups and downs, its great, only thing is, theres this guy.. and i dont like him, but he speaks to me on msn and lately hes been telling me he likes me .. he gave me his mobile number and im so tempted to text him, its ... (131 words)

Whenever I want to discuss an issue my b/f gets defensive, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you discuss an issue concerning your relationship with your boyfriend when his immediate reaction to the discussion is to get enraged and become distant. He is not able to have a non judgemental conversation or just hear you out about your issues with the relationship ... (63 words)

How to handle marriage issues?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone one here in dearcupid,i dont know if my question is right for my topic about my marriage i,ve been married for almost 2 years and now we have a 6 months old baby,i dont know if my feelings is normal i felt jealous,insecurity,and hurt..first i caught my husband ... (344 words)

How do you tell your partner you aren't happy with the sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you talk to a partner/lover about your unhappiness with the sexual aspect of your relationship? I have some issues with my girlfriend, and I feel like I need to talk to her about them, but the more I think about it the more I feel like an asshole, I don't want to hu... (116 words)

I feel more like a roommate than a lover

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I just bought a house and moved in together, about 3 weeks ago. Before this we were living seperately with our parents. We saw each other often and the relationship was everything I could ask for, but since we have moved together things have become too ... (249 words)

Can someone explain erectilve dysfunction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age - hi could you tell me wot erectile dysfunction is and why you get it, and wot can be done thanks... (20 words)

I don't want him to know how inexperienced I am!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I lied to the guy that I fancy, we had a quick snog, I wasn't very good (because I have never done it before), he stopped and asked me what was up, I just said that it had been a while and my last boyfriend wasn't very nice to me and it has made me shy around the opposite sex ... (88 words)

What can a person do to get their ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - What can a person really do to get his ex back? None of this rubbish that you find posted online, these terrible quack advice givers. Has anyone been successful? Have any of you felt all hope was lost yet managed to win back the heart of your love? I need some real lif... (69 words)

Bite the hand that cooks for you

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age - what would you do if your boy friend breif case is open and you went to get a stamp for your letter, and you find pictures of some women and him? what would you do or say?... (38 words)

Our families won't accept we're getting married

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m 26 years old and have been engaged for 6months to my partner of 4 years. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with this man who is truly the love of my life and want to start planning the wedding, but both of our families are against it. He is 16 years older than... (192 words)

Should I try and talk to him or just let him go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - His jealousy makes him angry and he gets himself very upset. He is not one to handle any type of emotional strife of any sort. But instead of talking about things and working through it he would rather walk away. He says he cant have any roller coaster rides. He can not ... (123 words)

How do I know if he'll lie and deceive me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age - My husband has been having an affair for 9 months. Twice he said he would never see her again. The third time I kick him out. He has been living with her the last 2 months, lying and deceiving me. He was calling a dating service 13 years ago for 3 years. When I found out he ... (174 words)

How can I get my colleagues to mind their own business?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi me and my wife both work at the same office but in different departments, my wife is senior to me and have had a one night stand with my boss and now she is pregnant with his baby. My boss has made a MMS of him and her and is circulating the same in the whole office, and my ... (84 words)

I think I can get over him... but I can't get over what happend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So... I'll try to make this the abridged version. When I was 15, I met a boy. We had an instant connection and fell in love. He was the love of my life. I was convinced, as most young people are, that this love was eternal. We were so happy for so long. But he was older... (826 words)

Would it be sensible to hold off on the military until I'm divorced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so im leaving for basic within the next two months, I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile now...and when i say awhile, im not talkin about more than a year. I love him to death, i would take a bullet for this man. Here is the problem. I am already married and a... (231 words)

We made out, does this mean he fancies me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I told a guy i fancied him, he didn't say the same back but we made out, does that means he fancies me or just thought he would because i like him.... (32 words)

I'm attracted to him, but he snogs me and I'm a rabbit in headlights!

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27 February 2009 (F)

I really dig my friends younger sister, go for it or...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, heres the deal... My friend (who is a girl by the way) has a 16 year old sister and I am 19. I like her and she seems to like me but I've been a bit hesitant so go too far with it because I'm not sure how my my friend (her older sister) would react. Another part of t... (173 words)

Is he just not that into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been going out with this guy for the past 3 months. we're both in the university. even if were dating, our status is still just friends because he doesnt want to have a relationship. it started this way. one day when we went out, we started kissing and saying how much we ... (251 words)

Could sex be used as a way to celebrate friendship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) age 36-40 - I have been working as an English teacher here in Poland. In about a month I am going to leave Poland and return to my home country. My issue involves two women. One woman is also an English teacher at the same language school that I teach at. She is from Australia and a... (550 words)

My husband said it's "just texting" and I have nothing to worry about! What do you reckon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So, found text on my husband's phone of naked girl and dirty talk. She is my sister in law's best friend.. Lives 2,000 Miles away, so a lot of talking on phone and dirty pics. I set him up with a facebook account and this is were they connected. What should I think of this? ... (124 words)

Does sleeping with 4 guys in one year make me a slut?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question... At the age of 16 I lost my virginity to someone who I dated for only 2 weeks but we went on to be together for 4 and 1/2 years. I dated and slept with 3 other guys. 3 of the 4 guys I ended up being in love with but I am now 21 years old and I was wondering ... (162 words)

My long term b/f has caught me on several dating sites and left. Shall I forgive him?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My long term bf has caught me in chat rooms and several dating sites over the last 9 months. We argue,like a child he walks out and doesnt come back for a week or so. All i do is harmless flirting and the odd guy i text. We broke up and this time i placed my pic in my profile. ... (146 words)

My boyfriend said he was bi-curious, but found out he's more... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a female who wrote a question about my live in boyfriend. I wrote that I was worried because he had been bi-curious before he had met me. He and I had been dating for 4 months then moved in together. After several weeks I came accross some things on his computer (we share ... (308 words)

If he has changed his mind about me why does he not man up to tell me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was on holiday in France for 3 weeks over Christmas and new year and i met up with a guy who I had met and got with 6 years ago. He works and lives there. He was very keen on me and having just come out of a long relationship, i was hesitant. I did, however, embark ... (507 words)

I don't know much about her, how can I know her better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am in a strange situation and need your expert advice.I am 26, and well settled professionally. However I have never been in a relationship with a girl mainly due to my shy and introverted nature, moreover I always was of the belief that I should first try to establish ... (257 words)

I think I may have a problem and that is why I keep on lying to my parents!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have posted questions on here before about me and my mums bad relationship, which is basically down to me lying about my older boyfriend when we first got together, then lying again a few weeks ago when I applied for my passport so that I could go visit him in India where he ... (229 words)

I have strong feelings for my friend who does not love her husband, should I confess how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am very much in love with a woman who is also one of my best friends, she is also married. Her marriage isn't a good one, and she has talked to me a lot about being afraid to leave her husband because of being alone, because of her kids, and other reasons that have never ... (102 words)

Why do some girls want to become porn stars?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) age 41-50 - why do some girls want to be porn stars .why can't they get office jobs?... (15 words)

Are these signs that he's not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! I can't stop thinking about this guy. We started seein each other beginning of january. The last time I saw him was 10 days ago. He lives about an hour away. And since then he only texts back after i do first. I've only talked to him on the phone once since and I called ... (115 words)

Husband takes viagara but I'm not reeping the benefits!

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27 February 2009 (F)

age - I think my husband is cheating, were do I begin. 6 Years ago I fund a pack of 4 viagra hidden in his wallet (I only picket it up because I though it looked a bit tatty and I would buy him a new one), I cuckled at first until I realised 2 were missing I hit the roof of course ... (639 words)

Will it really take 7 years to get over my abusive relationship?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been having these emotional outbursts from anger to sobbing but mostly sobbing for the last couple of days feeling so bad for my man how much I am going to miss him, the pain he must be going through to why did he do this to me, goodness you can't imagine my turmoil, ... (219 words)

Is my ex trying to get a certain reaction from me by being so mean to me?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear everyone My ex bf is being really horrible 2 me, we stayed friends after we split in november last yr,he now has a gf, but he says im hounding him,and ot getting over him,and on sunday he had a huge go at me over the phone,saying he will speak 2 me when hes ready,well i... (288 words)

Am I protecting myself by not getting too emotional with my ex or is this how it is when two people split and get back together?

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfreind split with me last year out of the blue. We were so in love with each other that when she left, both of us were heartbroke. We carried on texting each other for comfort. Then after a few months we started going out at nights just as friends. Since then one t... (174 words)

No sex after 8 months?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hy is he waiting for us to have sex after 8 months of seeing each other? Could someone please give me some insight on this?... (25 words)

Boyfriend won't sleep in the same bed as me!

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend won't sleep in the same bed as me! We've been dating for a few months. Things have been moving pretty quickly as far as emotions go. But we have yet to have sex because I'm not ready. He has no problem with waiting. But when he spends the weekend at my house. But ... (85 words)

I want to leave my husband but yet we have a baby and I don't leave because of the baby

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im married for last one and half year after the courtship of long 8 years now i have 10 months son. for my husband i left everything he also love me but after some emotional crisis due to family problems and other women he dont love me or care for him i still love him from... (245 words)

I want to break up but I'm afraid of what he'll say about me

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello dear cupid friends francy is back on track again............ lol... well i have a problem with my current boyfriend , we have been dating for a year and two months now...... the thing is ,he once cheated on me with a girl in the same town as the both of us............. i ... (147 words)

Is she the one he subconsciously wants?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a very close female friend and perhaps I'm just reading into it too much but it seems to me that she's the girlfriend he's never had. When she walks into the room, he lights up and shouts out her nickname. When he talks to her, he's always touching her ... (105 words)

Friend using my ideas to do well in another subject!

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently found out that a close friend of mine has been going through my work with the intention of using my ideas to do well in another subject. I am in my final year of school so this is a big issue as it is considered my final work for this year. I am extremely angry ... (111 words)

How does masturbation impact your health?

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a guy, I have one question to ask you. I always have sex by myself and I like it when I stay a lone. how does it impact my health?... (31 words)

How do I get a girl I like to notice me?

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i like this girl can some one give me advice on how to get her to like me? i dont know how to approach her or even have the guts to ask her out im a virgin and have never gone out with a girl before or even kissed one, im such a loser:( everytime during passing periods at ... (71 words)

Found out that my ex cheated on me, and I feel guilty and have trust issues.

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just found out my ex (broke up with me less than a week ago) cheated on me. i'm trying to deal with things in the best way possible. i'm not doing psycho ex stuff, or trying not to. i'm letting out steam by talking to my friends. i constantly tell them how he's a douche, etc ... (158 words)

I have been taking birth control, Can I still be pregnant if I still bleed?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In the past few months, since November, I've been sexually active. I'm on birth control and for the most part, I take it at 10 AM everyday. Sometimes it's 1 or 2 o'clock before I remember it, but I only have sex like one weekend out of the month. (my bf comes in to see me ... (147 words)

Should I tell her that I'm a virgin?

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Should i tell a girl i been on a couple dates that im a virgin? Im 22, she is 27 and definitely not a virgin, lol. Please reply soon cause im suppose to see her tommorrow.... Thanks a bunch *Mod Note: Fixed some txt speak. Please try to write out the words next time.... (56 words)

An unmarried woman calls my husband very often, I'm not sure how far can I trust my hubby in this case?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My husband and I got married one year back and ours was a love marriage. My husband is generally of humorous type and mingles well with everybody at work. But recently, an unmarried woman calls him very often and he also talked to her for a while. I noticed this and ... (117 words)

When will sex feel good?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had sex with my boyfriend twice, the first time like a lot of virgins it was hard and I didn't really expect to climax because he couldn't get it into far anyway. The second time was a lot easier but even though we were at it for about an hour I didn't climax. So my ... (73 words)

Is he playing with me? He hasn't replied to my message!

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i have a little of a conflict here. Well i have a crush on this boy for 3 years. After winter break i sent him a few messages on myspace telling him that i like him. Then some time past and i find out that he has a sister. She knows i like him so she keeps me up to date. ... (185 words)

I don't wanna lose her because of the way I acted lately!!!!!

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 15 and my gf is 14, in three days will be our five monthiversary, BUT, lately, ive been acting like a bit of a jerk to her. Now, ive apoligized, and were ok now, BUT, after i needed someone to listen to my troubles, she told me tht mayb we need to take a break, she dusnt ... (108 words)

I need to get my daughter and I out of my husband's house because he hits us, but I have no clue how!

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my husband for three years now, been married to him for two. We have a one year old daughter. My husband started verbally abusing me seven months into our relationship, but I didn't really think anything of it until just two weeks after we got married. That's ... (472 words)

I would like to finger her, how do I bring this up?

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27 February 2009 (?) age 26-29 - ok heres the situation..ive been going out with this girl for about 5months now..we both love to make out..i was her 1st kiss and 1st make out..whenever she comes over we make out all the time and she stradles me and all that stuff but i really do wish we could do more.. i ... (118 words)

Should I wait and see what his intentions are or should I get out before I really fall in love with him and lose him and his kids?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I've been seeing this guy for a few months now and everything is going great but, he says he does not want a girlfriend. He treats me like his girlfriend we go out on the weekends and stay at each others houses overnight and sometimes for the entire weekend we are ... (350 words)

She's the one. How can I keep her if she's not ready?

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello I'm dating this girl almost 2 month now, before anything happened she had boyfriend for 2 years and they broke up 6 month ago. we got closer and right at the time when i asked her out her ex boyfriend come's up from no where and i think she still loves him but over all... (195 words)

Not sure what to do about my long distance relationship !

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I will start from the beginning when I was in the 11th grad I met a foreign exchange student and we hung out and I took her out to dates and we even stayed over at each other house over night I really liked her. I even took her to prom and all at the same time know tha... (184 words)

How can I get my ex back?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My "ex" boyfriend and I have twin 3 yr old daughters together. He broke up with me about 7mths to a yr ago, saying he just didnt want to be my boyfriend any longer and had lost the love he had for me. When I asked him the reasons, he said it was because I didn't do the thin... (268 words)

Feeling down about my past. Am I alone?

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27 February 2009 (F) age 41-50 - This might not be a very interesting question but it would help me a lot to read some answers and see if I still have to work with things from my childhood or not. You see, I have a lot of good memories about my childhood and teenage years. Sometimes I like to see the pics and... (353 words)

Will my gf lose custody of her kids because we're seeing each other?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 21 year old Female. I am completely in love with another Female who is 39 and she is in love with me too. She has two children and is afraid that if her ex husband finds out that she is with a 21 year old that he will take her to court and get custody of her children. ... (117 words)

Worryed my dad will sexually abuse my niece as he did me!

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with my own dad. He sexually abused me when I was 10 years old. I am afraid he is attracted to young girls. I know he has bathed with my niece who is 8 years old, and everytime she is over, he has her on his lap. I wasn't abused by my dad long, it was just ... (191 words)

Should I keep trying to rekindle an old flame?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, So there's been something on my mind for a while now. I recently contacted an old flame, that I hadn't seen in nearly a year. I must say it was a pretty bold thing for me to do, I can be fairly shy. So I contacted him via email, and to my amazement he responded rig... (312 words)

Should I be loyal to a relationship that no longer exists?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend abruptly broke up with me about 5 weeks ago after I had confessed to her that I had been doing speed for a week straight. A quick background: She left a abusive relationship in June. We became exclusive in November. She had deployed at the end of December ... (327 words)

My g/f's grandmother died..is she taking it out on me?

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Yesterday night my girlfriends grandmother died. I want to be there for her but she's really not letting me. She tried to avoid me today... But she ended up talking to me. Overall she's been very mean to me... I don't bring up her grandmother because i know she doesn't want to ... (87 words)

Could she be pregnant even with us using a condom?

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi to all of you out there. well me and my g/f had sex on the 24th and we used a brand new condom and i came inside her with the condom on my penis. could she be pregnant even thought the condom didnt break or it didnt have any leakage. this morning she told me that she was ... (79 words)

Stuck between a rock and a hardplace

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, to start it off.. .I will begin from the start. I met this girl 8months ago, we progressed and we got to know literally everything about each other. We talk about everything, we see eachother at school 5 days a week, and hang out around twice a week, everyweek. We talk ... (364 words)

Are women put off by skinny men?

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I know everyone has different tastes and personal preferences, but in general, are women put off by skinny men? I'm 22, and while I eat like a horse, I just have never been able to put on any tangible weight, and have virtually little muscle and hardly any definition o... (89 words)

Could she be pregnant from dry humping

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, me and my girl friend were dry humping. When I came, the seamon went through my pants(like over the waist part thing). And it got onto her tights, and onto her panties as well. She went to the bathroom and removed the tights and underwear after about a minute this happ... (172 words)

Sad..confused..not used to these feelings!

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello All... I feel like I'm falling apart here and have no control over it. I was married for 3 Years.. split in April.. 3 months later I was officially divorce legally. Now almost a year later and I still have feelings for my ex. A person who the same month I split from her ... (803 words)

Is it weird that I am not obsessed with sex?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, ive got a question. well, im 16 going on 17, i have a lot of friends, guys and girls, and were all pretty much open about everything, homosexuality, sex etc. well im just wondering, everyone around me is soo obsessed with sex, guys and girls, theyre also soo ... (219 words)

Do I break up with my g/f and see the new girl?

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27 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a fairly common question, but would like to know the answer for my specific question. I have been dating my girlfriend for a year. I have been attracted to her for 4 years and we were friends during that time as well. We both left for college in September 2008, and sinc... (386 words)

Do drunken mistakes really exist?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship, in which we just went through a period of saving it. We came clean about everything we had done, and he told me he had slept with one of his best friends, who was also living in the room next to him for a while after this ... (225 words)

I need your help! How do I get closer to him and show him that I'm the one he needs exclusively???

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a crush on this guy for a while. He's really well known in my area and it's almost a privilege to be able to associate oneself with him. a few weeks ago, I started hanging out with him and found him to be really easy going and fun to hang out with. the problem is, he's... (248 words)

How do I tell him without sounding like I want to be taken out all the time and not have to pay?!?

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a relationship with this guy a little over a month now. We see each other on weekends. Every now and then he says, 'so where are you taking me?' I drive. Then he said, 'so you're inviting me.' Meaning I'm paying! I only paid twice for dinner. I figured ok he's ... (212 words)

Tongue tied and terrified of what I'll say!

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27 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in love but how can I know without kissing him? He asked me but I was so shocked I was speachless but I took to long so he walked away I wanted to but haven't ever kissed a boy befor (accept spin the bottle but that don't count) and he hasn't kissed a girl either but I'm ... (157 words)