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I'm still in love after 5 years but I'm starting to think we want different things

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Question - (23 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i dont know what to do. Ive been with my fella for 5 yrs and yes i do love him but recently im beginning to think we want different things. im really wanting to get a house but because we said last year we would go on 1 last holiday this year in august he wants to go on it. Yes the thought of a holiday wud be great but ive found a house that i wouldve always wanted and its too good to miss. He doesnt seem to care and keeps talking about the hols.

What do i do ? i do love him as ive been with him 5 years but i dont know if we can work.

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A male reader, anoms United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2009):

anoms agony auntIts easy for people to grow apart within a long term relationship, but neither a holiday nor a house should come between you two because theres plenty of time for both at your age, and if you haven't gone over this thoroughly with him then maybe he does'nt want to rush it, espeacially given the current economy crisis, good luck.

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