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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have a dilemma... Uh oh!

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm going to try and make this as short as possible. I have known this girl for about three years now. I first met her through a party at her mom's house, we instantly became great friends. We "did it" quite a few times back in that time. Eventually we decided to stop, and ... (313 words)

My daughter is only 14 and wants to have sex with her boyfriend.

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Basically, my daughter wants to start having sex at fourteen and I do not approve. She has been with her boyfriend for just over a year now and I know they are both ready to and she wants to, he is not forcing her, it's just as a parent I'm sure you all know what it's like... ... (107 words)

Bisexual, open and honest....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a very sexual female. I have been very open with my husband and admitted to being bisexual - he is fine with it. I am now comfortable enough with him that I am wanting to not only find a real girlfriend and involve her sexually in our lives but I want to also watch th... (111 words)

Is my voice breaking?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello I'm 15 years of age and whenever I speak my voice cuts out, is this a sign of my voice breaking? I have hairs down below and I have enough armpit hair for people to notice but saying that I have little else hair so is this a sign of my voice breaking? ... (55 words)

My teasing him forced him to force himself on me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, my husband has been telling me for weeks now that if I keep teasing him the way I do he would make me carry through with it. I never thought he would actually make me do it, but of course I was dumb enough to push him to it. I know you all will think I deserved it, but when ... (279 words)

I'm tired of being tired.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me, my boyfriend and I have been together for a year... we live together too.. everything has been great till 3 weeks ago.. we don't talk any more we don't kiss, and sex is like once a week and when we do have sex there is no foreplay... or anything just wam bam and ... (85 words)

She's not sure if she wants to be in a relationship right now...

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 so me and my partner have been jokingly playing around about sex, although I don't know if she's kidding or serious, I have never actually had sex before, but I know I do actually love her and she does as well the only thing is right now we're not going out, because ... (183 words)

To invite or not to invite!

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - A person who I thought was a pretty good friend of mine had a birthday party recently, and I was offended because I was not invited. She admitted to me that she did not plan the party --it was a surprise!! I still felt that her husband, who I considered a friend also and I ... (249 words)

The hardest decision of my life... help me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old. I have 3 little boys which I love and adore more than life. I was married once and divorced and then remarried 4 years ago. We have 2 of the 3 sons together. My husband is 15 years older than me and after our last child I could tell he did not want any... (1207 words)

My wife does not like sex...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

8 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 11 years I love my wife sooooooo much but sex priorities are far apart, I had doubts about our compatibility the week before our wedding but know that a lady can't be 100% perfect, sex is the only area that she is not 100%. She is great at it but it ... (126 words)

My ectopic pregnancy.

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm asking this because my Ob/Gyn didn't explain it very well to me. I had an ectopic pregnancy with one fertilized egg and another egg that had fertilized and ended up embedding into my uterus. So I was suppose to have twins, but only one egg made it. I don't understand how ... (163 words)

How do I help my friend get some bottle?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend's fallen in love with a sixth former (we're both in year 9) but he's leaving next year and she's really depressed! I don't know how to convince her to do something about it. Either tell him or forget him... basically I just want some advice on how I can help her!?! a... (60 words)

Girlfriend thinks I'm cheating what do I do?

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8 February 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My wife thinks I'm cheating on her because I've been refusing sex for about 4 weeks. But that's because I've been feeling like crap lately and quite stress out as well. She keeps asking me straight up if I'm cheating or not and I kept telling her I would never do that. She ... (109 words)

Do you think this shy guy will make a move?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going after a shy guy. At first when I heard he liked me I was like no but now I hope he does eventually ask me out. I like him but if he doesn't ask me then I might move on to others who want me. My birthdays coming up so I hope he does something special but I know he ... (122 words)

Update: She wants to see what else is out there after 5 years.

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, so here is an update on my situation. The girl that I've been with for almost 5 years wants to see what else is out there. It has been an amazing relationship. We are our first everything and it means a lot to me, and I used to think to her. I saw her last night ... (692 words)

Confused after boyfriend left

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Can someone please help me decide. My ex and i have split up we were living together it was all his idea to end our relationship but i am sure he still has feelings for me. I still have feelings for him it is very painful for me at the moment. It is a few months sinc... (388 words)

My secret!

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay this ones a complicated one. Basically a year and a half ago I started teaching my best friend's girlfriend the drums. We both had feelings for each other (you know when you can just tell they like you and vis versa)and eventually we ended up seeing each other for reas... (377 words)

I do not want to just throw it all away for something he has pretended and lied to me about

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a huge problem. I met this wonderful guy on the internet in January of 2008. I was getting ready to move to Europe and he was from the UK. We were just friends and took time to get to know each other to see if things would work out that way when I came over to Europe if ... (577 words)

How can I handle him with a new GF?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Hope i can get some advice. Me and my boyfriend split up new years day after 3 years together... i am getting out there and keeping busy. And feel like im not too bad in dealing with things. Theres just one thing bothering me...i know that a time is going to come ... (125 words)

Problems with my boyfriend's family

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He is the same age. He is Sikh and is family can't find out about me. This means that I cannot go to his house or go to any social events, ie weddings or parties, in case someone he knows sees him with me. It's ... (361 words)

My boyfriend doesn't last long then gets all sleepy...

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my boyfriend have sex, he can't last for longer than about 15-20 minutes before he comes. And then that's that. He apparently has such a long refractory period that having sex again isn't worth it and doesn't feel as good - until the next day! When he's fini... (142 words)

I don't trust him on nights out but he is suspicious of me!

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok what do u think about these answers? Im the most honest person you could meet.id never lie you.i tell you everything. I hate lying. These are some of the things my boyfriend says. But i just dont trust him. He never tells me thing important unless i ask. Ive heard him lie ... (439 words)

Is it wrong to like younger guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - is it wrong to like a younger guy and i am 2 yaers older.he was born in 1982 and i was born in 1980. is it wrong to like a younger guy.i like younger guys but i don,t mean to ? is it wrong .do younger guys like older girls? can you help me ?i get depressed about my age be... (72 words)

What can you give a teacher for V-day?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what can you give a teacher for valentines? will some lovehearts be seen as inapropriate? i wna give somthing viki x ... (36 words)

Can I ask a girl out through facebook?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Its kinda pole question for girls. Can i am very shy boy of 19. I love someone who is 15.she is my first love. Can i ask her out through facebook? I mean would girls find it weird to be asked out through fb mail? Um too shy to face her or call her. Suggestions?... (57 words)

Set up on a date and don't want to go!

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend is having people round next weekend but it's going to be her, her boyfriend, another couple, this guy and me. I'm not into this guy at all and I feel like it's really cringey and 'set-up' so I don't want to go, but she knew when she asked that I had no other plans and ... (69 words)

Is he ever going to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my best friend have been friends for a while. i started liking him and i told him i did. he said he doesnt see me as a girlfriend but as a best friend nothing more.so two days ago i told him i dont like him anymore even though im still in ove with him. i dont understand ... (100 words)

Sexual orientation and parent problems

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Agony Aunt, I have recently came out to some of my friends as a homosexual and I am worried that when I am older my parents will look down on me for this. Have you any advice on coming out to them before I am at least 18 - 21? I am nearly 15... (55 words)

Can guys and girls be just friends?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, i was just wondering, can girls and guys just be friends??? i kind of have this dude friend who's best friend went out with me. his friends won't accuse us as dating or something because of the way i broke up with his best friend, but other people i BARELY know thi... (110 words)

Flirting advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok heres the deal i came out of a long term relationship back in september last year. Im finding it really hard to flirt again, im not sure what to say, ask or do... Any advice on flirting would be a great help, iv met this girl got her number and now not to sure what to do.... (90 words)

18 year old b/f sent me naked photos..is it illegal?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend sent me pictures of him naked on my email, and we both r aware of r realtionship being illegal, cuz he is 18, but is it illegal for me to have his naked pictures. cuz i no its illegal if i send him pictures, thats child porn, but he is an adult. so what u thin... (76 words)

Any ways to grow taller?

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8 February 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Are there any ways of growing naturally taller at the age of 20? I feel very short and it hits my confidence in general.... (24 words)

Facebook random contact I want to talk to him but unsure what to say?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got random contacts on facebook that i'm not really friends with and only vaguely know, there's a guy that i find quite attractive who's one of these, i would like to start talking to this guy but don't really know what to say, any ideas? Thanks.... (50 words)

He has a g/f but I want him to know my feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Oks, so, I like this guy (naming no names) and I'm not sure whether he likes me or not but I'm pretty sure (80% maybe?) that he does. We used to go out a few months ago but split up due to certain reasons, nothing serious though that would stop us getting back together... (306 words)

What can I do so my holiday isn't ruined

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of months ago I was getting on with my friend really well, we always had a laugh together and had great fun on the weekends, I even invited her on a holiday with me and my family, but now she seems to irritate me all the time, I don't seem to share her sense of humour ... (107 words)

What could his behavior mean? Could he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14. A boy that i fancy used to talk to me lots and always got excited if i was going to see him soon, and on msn he always started convosations, wanted me to go on webcam and he would go on webcam, i loved it. Recently he hasn't been doing that i always start the convos... (204 words)

How do I tell my friend its a "girl's weekend" and boys are not welcome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend is constantly with her boyfriend,they've been going out for just inder two years and never seem to be apart, obviously i'm happy for them but it's so annoying on the weekends she wont ever do anything with the girls unless he's invited, making the whole girlie ... (209 words)

Very difficult to have orgasm from penetrative sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It takes me absolutely AGES to orgasm from penetrative sex - I've only actually come once! - and because I don't want to bore my boyfriend or tire him out (I'm not exaggerating, it really does take ages), on the majority of occasions I'll reach to stimulate my clit and just ... (86 words)

Boyfriend's porn makes me feel betrayed

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

8 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for around seven months, it is my longest relationship and it seems to have been going better than usual recently.I love him and am happy in the relationship. However, the topic of porn came up recently in discussion, and I asked him to s... (283 words)

I can't get hard like I used to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so this is kinda long am sorry but its really a frustrating thing..it hurts me inside my ego is like dead ok so here it goes..ill tell u everything coz i really need ya peoples help and encouragment in a way it was on november when i tried to have sex for the first t... (451 words)

I don't want to fail but I don't have the willpower to study

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15 and leavin school this year in a few months, my exams start in may and i starting to panic im not at all prepared and i feel like i may fail. i cant revise because i cant physically sit down and read over things or do activities because i just dont have the will power. ... (66 words)

Why does he insist on talking to his bf who doesn't even care about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year and a half has been talking to his best friend. He's been doing this behind my back, I'm pissed about it. My boyfriend's best friend and also his twin brother were doing methamphetamine's on my boyfriend's father's front porch. My boyfriend's Dad came... (312 words)

Any advice on making 1st time sex special?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have some questions about sex--And I do NOT want anything about "Oh your too young for sex" and stuff like that. Please. That's not what I'm asking for here. Anyway, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now and I really do love him, and He loves m... (227 words)

Will all boys make me feel like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! These a boy who i went out with and then we split coz he wanted sex and i didnt also it turns out he was seeing some other girl just for sex! . Im only 14 and hes 16 so i wasnt ready. But hes asked since then first time i said yes but it didn feel right some how i felt like ... (131 words)

Depression over girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I were going out for about 4 months when all of the sudden she said she didn't feel the same about me anymore. Everything was going good too; we would say I love you and tell each other how cute we were etc., but then she stopped saying I love you and then she ... (150 words)

I kicked my husband out, did I do the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for 3 years. It has been 3 years of hell and abuse, not physical, mental that I have not been able to understand. I have 2 children and he has one. We have been living together for 2 years now and since we all moved in together my husband has been ... (711 words)

Relationship ruined because of first date sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A few weeks ago I met Sean* in one of my classes. I see him every M and W for 4 hours, and we sit very close to each other b/c of assigned seats. We are also partners on a project together, and there are 5 weeks remaining in this quarter (we're seniors in college). I recently... (919 words)

How can I feel happier about myself and how to approach a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

8 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - im a total outcast in school i only talk to people who i knew for a long time and boys thats it! i thought about suicide once but im way past that now. i feel that if i talk to a girl they would reject me, throw a insult, or a long moment of awkward silence. i just so scared ... (91 words)

He cheated, can it be fixed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - HELP!!! I'm not sure how to handle this situation. I started dating this guy about a year ago. We met online, he was new in town and looking to meet ppl, and at first we were just friends (I had just come out of succession of bad relationships where the guys had all cheated ... (1161 words)

Should I tell my friend's brother that I like him?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a best friend who has a brother and the brother is my cousin's friend and i really like him but i don't know how to tell him i like him because he is my best friend bother and my cousin's friend and also he heard a lot of bad things about me and i think he doesn't ... (90 words)

How to fix a dating mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy three weeks ago when I wasn't even looking for a relationship, as I'd just gotten out of one. He caught me off guard with how easy our conversation flowed and how much we had in common. He texted and called me constantly for days before he begged me to see him. I ... (548 words)

What do you do when the hymen breaks during first time sex?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what do you do if your hymen breaks during sex for the first time, do you keep going or what??????????... (20 words)

Am I a heartbroken fool or... ? He said he loves me but sleeps with other people.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Either I'm a fool, or I'm just worrying too much. There is this man *who is now my bestfriend* that I've been dating for almost 2 years now. I've been there for him even during his hardest of times. But at the beginning we were just "casual sex" friends. Within 2 months I told ... (440 words)

This is my first LDR, should I give her space and time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

8 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't even know where to begin this one. I met this wonderful girl when I went to study abroad in Japan during last summer. When I met her, everything in my life seemed to make sense, and everything that comes after her seems like nothing. We were together for a month in ... (830 words)

I don't know if this relationship is right or how we can have a normal relationship that is not based on sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone I have a problem that has been bothering me for a long rime. 5 years ago I was in a long term relationship which i would say that i wansnt really happy. I met somebody else and we started going out for drinks.he was pushing me to end my relationship and be together... (626 words)

Help please, my ex is starting to scare me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so im a 14 year old freshman in high school, my ex boyfriend, who is 17 and a junior, and with whom I went out for a little over 2 months. He thought our relationship was great but it wasnt all i ever did was bend over backwards to keep him happy. So we broke up. Its been... (166 words)

I don't like his ex in the picture, although he says they are only friends. Am I unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, feeling confused at the moment and would love some friendly advice. its a bit complicated but ill try to explain. I met my current partner on a dating site as he is in the forces. We live 2 hours drive apart. We met last july and have seen each other every weekend ... (499 words)

If he wants me as he says then why does he not take me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i have a problem. im 18 years old and in college. i have alot of fun and love my life. i have known robert for three years now. for the first two years we were very good friends and very close. we talked for hours a week and hung out constantly. a year ago i told ... (313 words)

The condom broke, what now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I hadd sex with my mate and the condom broke.so what do I do so I don't become pregnant?... (21 words)

I was jealous again and we broke up, what do you think? Help me get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi well im 15 and i just broke up with my girlfriend and i didnt want to but i had to and i'll tell you why. last night me and her were talking and she asked me if it bothers me if she talks to this guy and i said yes it does because they talk all the time and i mean all the ... (242 words)

What can I buy my girlfriend for V-Day with this amount?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and so is my girlfriend, I have no ideas about what to get her for valentines day, I have about £50, I want her to really like it, please help. Thanks ... (33 words)

We haven't seen each other for years, any tips for our reencounter?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've recently got into contact via facebook with a guy I met and used to really like about 3/4 years ago. At the time he was going out with a friend of a friend so nothing happend but we'd go to gigs together and hang out quite a bit. Then he seemed to just dissapear a... (188 words)

Tips to make masturbation more fun and enjoyable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey. im 16 and i get really horny i mean big time every day almost. is this bad? when i get horny i finger myself i love doin this but its gettin a bit borin. i dont have vibrator and i dont think i could buy one but does anyone no any ways i could make it more fun and enj... (73 words)

Doesn't "natural" feel better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are ready for sex.We've talked about condoms but I'm wondering if intercourse is more pleasurable if you can feel a boy's real penis and semen rather than just rubber?... (33 words)

Need help on getting my partners trust back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

8 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey. This is concerning my partner, who I love very much, we've been together for a year and 2 months. Basically, she went to a guys house a few weeks ago, didnt tell me, I found out and overreacted. Now she thinks I dont trust her, and I really do, I just freaked out, its... (206 words)

I don't understand his actions but don't think he is playing games

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi this is a loong story . almost its happening for a year. well I will cut shot.this guy would flirt nonverbal at beginning. almost a month, he tried. but I did not give in. so after some weeks when I did. he was happy one day, then serious the next day . so we spoke. but from... (191 words)

Sex for the 1st time and now wondering why period is late

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i am really stressing here! basically, i had sex for the first time 3 weeks ago and i was due to come on my period on thursday. ever since i can remember, i have never skipped or had irregular periods, they have always been every 28 days. i took a pregnancy test yesterday ... (97 words)

Seductive Valentine suggestions

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This Valentines is going to be myself and my Husbands first Valentines together as a married couple. Im quite shy but with the day thats in it, I would love some suggestions as to how to seduce him. Im trying my best to organise a meal for the night before so that on Valentines ... (111 words)

He told his mates "there's nothing there now"..yet his action speak differently

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - All i can think of is him its driving me Mad! We was together over 2 years and broke up with me out the blue without any warning for “Space”. ( He dumped me 2 days b4 i was due to get some medical results) When he finished it he was crying and kept saying sorry. I didnt chase ... (838 words)

He says he isn't used to having a girlfriend?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 months..(feb 18th) anyway he seems so distant.. we rarely talk (a couple texts a day or every other day) and since we've been dating we've seen eachother maybe 4 times..but before we started dating he was around everyday.. ... (146 words)

New mom needs help with boyfriend

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im 17 and me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years. We just had a baby 3 months ago, well my boyfriend will never stay home, he always leaves with his friend and dont come home till 1 or 2 in the morning sometimes later. He says he stays out cause all I ... (157 words)

I think he just wants me to shut up and be happy and I can't do it!

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8 February 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Basically my partner has just stormed out of the house saying he is furiously angry with me and I have to change. I love him and I know he is unhappy and I hate him being unhappy but at the same time I don;t know what to do. Basically he is a musician, with all the lifestyl... (667 words)

Is he still interested? Or are we just going to be mates?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi just to give you an update regarding my questions rwith lad who i met who said was too busy. I bumped into him last night while out on the town celebrating my promotion. He walked into a bar on his own looking for his mates, my friends said that he didnt look too surprise... (309 words)

First date blues

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 33 year from a big US city who is recently single...just ended a 4 year relationship..I'm a very social guy, funny, educated, in shape, ect... I'm just getting back into the dating scene and I absolutely hate it! I was recently set up with someone through a mutal ... (407 words)

Men's biggest turn on that women don't know about

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys its blue kev from girls ask guys. Guys we all know about the kind of woman we dream about and the kind of woman we meet in real life. How many times have we dreamed of a girl saying three simple words. I Like you. And she kinda floats like an Angel and is lit by the ... (307 words)

My mother is unfair with me and is causing problems in my marriage!

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all i was recently married and am very happy with my husband we have complete trust in one another the problem is my mother. A few nights ago i went out with my brother in law and got a lift home from a male friend my mother found out and is now not talking to me an... (112 words)

First time in back seat of the car! Have I blown his 1st experience?

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8 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I feel bad bad bad. I've been dating this guy for three months and a few days and he is great. we had sex last night and now i feel it was too fast. not only that, but t was his first time, and we did it in the backseat of my car. I feel like I'v blown his ... (90 words)

He popped my cherry but didn't cum, I can't get pregnant can I?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend and i had sex and he was so nerves we were having sex he told me that i was his fist time but what didn't make sense to me was he wasn't getting off and he said that there was no pre cum coming out.He told me the next day that he got high with my brother and I ... (132 words)

He loved giving me pleasure but now he ignores me, any ideas?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have now been together for a year and half. He was a virgin whenever we first got together. At first, he loved giving me oral sex and always tried to last and please me first. Lately, he never wants to do anything sexual unless I give him a handjob or ... (143 words)

How do I either get her to be my friend or just stop worrying about her?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with an ex of mine. For four years me and an ex have been the best friends(that isn't to say that our relationship wasn't rocky, in fact it was extrememly rocky. But we were still best friends.) A little while ago we were talking and she just turned around and ... (255 words)

Do men in theirs forties stay over night at their mum's place on weekend?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men in theirs forties stay over night at their mums place on weekend? i am going out with 46yr old man for a few weeks now he always seems to be busy on a saturday when i questioned him about it he said his normally busy (shopping, seeing family etc..) and sometimes stay o... (91 words)

All I want to do is to hide in my bed all day

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8 February 2009 (F)

- Lately I have begun to feel very low and isolated. Im usually a chatty, active 25 year old but over the last few weeks I have had such a horrible feeling inside me it wont go away. I feel cut off from my friends and sad that I havnt got anything exciting to look forward too. ... (191 words)

If he does like someone else so much why was he hooking up with me a week ago?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Thanks anyone for taking the time to read this/respond. I am kind of confused in situation with a new guy I hooked up with recently. I have kind of known him for about a year because I go to the place where he works all the time, and we talked casually, but I was in a ... (324 words)

My boyfriend is a loser, I try to help him but I don't know if I can stand it any longer, will he change?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. But, most of the time I feel as if he's lieing to me. He just doesn't seem to appreciate anything I do. I've tried to talk to him about alot of the things that I'm about to mention. First of all, I'm positive... (1090 words)

Why am I being ignored by someone that I thought liked me???

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, Just looking for a bit of advice really! I`ve known this girl for a few months when she came to work at my place, we got on really well, we just seemed know each other straight away, she was with someone at the time and she was also made redundant a few months... (371 words)

Why did he go from being so sweet that night to giving me this kind of response?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been best friends with this guy since we were six and we're now eighteen. Just before December he told me that he has liked me since we were 13 and what surpirsed me the most is that I realised that I liked him too, so now we're going out. Everything's going fab because ... (203 words)

I need a release after all my problems but would this be a correct way to have it?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, i recently came out of my first relationship. My girlfriend didnt want any intimacy at all, no hus or kisses, and as im nice and all i thought i wont pressure her at all, and she'd eventually get over her problem. I didnt want sex at all though so she thought i seemed l... (288 words)

Why do I feel different around him since I know his ex was pregnant and suffered a miscarriage?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just told me that he got his ex-girlfriend pregnant a few years ago when they were together, but she had a miscarriage. This happened a long time ago. But now I kinda feel different around him. I don't know if it's because I look at him differently or what. Can ... (80 words)

How do I rekindle my burning desire for success?

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8 February 2009 (M) age 41-50 - How do you rekindle your passion for success. I remember being quite gritty guy when I was in teens. I have been fairly a good student ...I should say better than 80% of my colleagues. I loved doing what I wanted and have done this in past or I should say recent past. But ... (238 words)

Is he trying to come back or is he just trying to be friendly?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age - am i close to winning him back. i wrote a couple of weeks ago as my boyfriend who i been with for 11 years (we lived together have no children) met another girl who has a child and he moved out on me and with her and only met her 3 weeks before - and i do believe this becuase ... (238 words)

Why doesn't my wife give me her password, I gave her mine!

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife recently brought home her laptop from work. I asked her if she would bring up her email acccount, and she refused. I caught her having an emotional affair last May and wanted to make sure that nothing was still going on. I'm still having some issues with trust. She ... (92 words)

Should I give her an ultimatum?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend have been together for 9 months. she wants to move out of her parents house and move in with her friend and her friends boyfriend another 30 mins away (making her living an hour away after the move). we both consider this to be a very serious relationship. would ... (79 words)

Am I not being flirtatious enough? How can I tell? Should I just have an open talk with him about our relationship?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a gay male, and I am really confused about if a guy wants to just remain friends with me or have a romantic relationship. I will call him Jon. We became friends about a year ago. I came on pretty strong when we first met. I was very flirtatious, and I would call him to ... (467 words)

Should I tell my mother her boyfriend will eventually hurt her? What do I do about his attraction towards me?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, anyone been in this pedicament? My mom's boyfriend is 40yrs, good looking and a HUGE womaniser. They've been "going out" for about three months now. Problem is, my mom thinks they will eventually move in together, get married,etc. but these thoughts scare him to dea... (196 words)

Does he really love me? Why does he act this why? Please explain this to me...

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am engaged to a great man, we'll call him "Joey" (Common names, yay!). We've been together for many, many years and are planning our wedding a couple years from now (College). Some nights, if I forget to call him when I come home an hour late (I came home at 7 instead of 6) ... (294 words)

My husband is only getting worse, how do I make him realise that our family is important?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How can you convince your husband that God in your life is the only way for us to have true happiness. We were young and wild when got together and were very much soul mates I thought. Now its 20 years and 3 children later that I started church and got saved. Now Im alot ... (377 words)

Girlfriend too much to handle

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need help...I'm 33 and my girlfriend and soon to be fiance is 27.We love each other very much and we both know that we want to spend the rest of our lives with each other, but I have several problems with her and I need to know if its me, is it her, and what can I do about ... (597 words)

I slept with him...and now what?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well Ive known this guy for 3 years...weve been friends since weve dated common friends..and over the years there has been flirting..but nothing too serious...until about a month ago...I moved to the west coast..and later in the year he did too..he is now 3 hours away... ... (291 words)

How can I leave my husband when I love him more than anyone in the world?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - We've been married for almost 15 years and together for 19. We have 3 beautiful children that I love more than anyone could know. But my problem is that I love and worry about him just as I do my children. Sometimes I feel like he is my troubled teen. He's been in so much ... (388 words)

Should I try to pursue this? Will it work out?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I partied with my friend and his buddies a while back. I was drunk and actually kissed one of them two nights in a row but he wanted to do more. I didnt let him do anything and left. I found out that he was a major player so I guess I should stay away, no matter how cute he is ... (166 words)

My husband hangs out with the guys and doesn't do anything with me or our son

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is in the military.Our family is currently overseas. Our relationship has gone way down hill. He stop listening to me, hangs out with the single guys all the time, and never does anything with me or our son. I have tired to talk to him but he blows me off. I dont ... (84 words)

He won't commit, but says we're not breaking up either?!

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of two years is leaving the state to return to school. He says he loves me and doesn't want to break up, but also says he doesn't want to maintain a relationship while he's in school and doesn't want me to move to be closer to him. When I suggest that the ... (73 words)

Pregnancy, bleeding..possible miscarriage?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 22 years old and 6 weeks pregnant ive been cramping on and off for 3 days and had a bleed this morning im scared and dont know what to do. a friend said i need a d and c what is it?, if ive miscarried how long will i bleed for?... (52 words)

How do you move on when there is still hope?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically my question is How Do You "Move On" When You Feel There Is Still Hope? But here is my scenario: My (ex)bf and I were together for three years. We were both each others first love and real relationship. We connected in such a positive way and felt that we were eac... (371 words)

I froze up! Do you think he'll ask me out again?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So im 13 years old and i just went on my first date ever with a boy my age. I like him alot and have talked to him before but always with other people we knew around. This was the first instance where we were alone (sort of we went to a public place) . The whole time i barely ... (126 words)

Should I stop weeping & be a man?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - dear users and thanks in advance, i've been with this wonderful lady for nearly 14months. we are both 20 and at university in the same course. we have a non-platonic relationship i.e. a sexual affectionate relationship however we do not consider our status as boyfriend and gi... (339 words)

Can my married best friend and I be FWB??

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - OK, First I think its necessary to provide abit of a back ground to this question..... I've been good mates with this guy for about 5 years and we would do anything for each other whenever possible (That's what mates are for,right?) . He's 25 and got married 2 years ag... (1081 words)

My best friends b/f called and asked if I'd get together with him!

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The boyfriend of my best friend called me last night and confided that he's attracted to me and asked if there was a chance that he and I could get together...I've only met him in person once and talked to him once on the phone (with my friend's permission, he was asking me if ... (137 words)

Why did it hit me so hard to discover wife had slept with ex again before we really hooked up?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my wife for about three years. We were married about 6 months ago. When I first met her she had come to the tail end of a relationship with a guy that she had dated for about two years but had never committed to her. I was attracted to her but wasn't looking for ... (577 words)

We get along great online, but in person she shies away from me. Why??

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i recently met a girl, shes really nice to me and i kinda like her. she added me on myspace and talks to me all the time like normal on there, but whenever we meet up in person she always shies away from me, even if its just us. can any girls out there please give me som... (70 words)

Should I tell her boyfriend that she doesn't like him, she likes me?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im an 19 year old male and i live in Miami and recently my Cuban neighbor's have a few relatives move in from Cuba and one of them is this girl she is 18, and every time i go out she usually whistles at me to get my attention, i didn't really look back because i thought it ... (227 words)

How can I cheer up my man-hating friend on V-Day?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i want to cheer up my friend who thinks all guys are evil. I've been there for her, and she just gets hurt by her bf's. She is now single, Valentines day coming up and i just want to make it special for her. What could i get her? I also need to make it clear that i'm not doin... (112 words)

How do I invite her to my house?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - a friend of mine keeps askin me to "not forget to invite her to my place". Its 3rd time now, few other hints i got too. I want to invite her round but i don't know how to ask. Every reason just sounds weird. Any suggestions?... (46 words)

My ex still tells me he loves me even though he's got someone new.

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a boy and we broke up but we still talk on the phone and say i love you. Now he has a girl friend but he still tells me he loves me and i can't help but to say it back and i wanna move on and date other people but i love him way to much and i don't want anyone ... (74 words)

Fiance's family is mess! Worried about the reception

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm getting married soon. And I have a dilema. My fiances family are..a mess. I'm no snob. We both come from the same urban neighborhood. But his family is one of a kind. His fathers always drunk or high. His mother is crazy, certified crazy. I honestly don't think that they ... (77 words)

How to get over betrayal & distrust (broken engagement)

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I had my first relationship when I reunited with a high school friend. I fell in love with her so much that I proposed to her 6 months into our relationship. We lasted a year after that until she moved away to college a few hours away. I always made the effort to see her as ... (353 words)

How is a girl supposed to talk to guys?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no idea what to talk to guys about! I mean, there's only so much that you can talk about that's school-related and i know nothing about sports and don't care to. luckily, the guy i'm into right now isn't into that stuff (he likes art)... but i know nothing about that ... (64 words)

Is she having me on? Should I cut her out of my life?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl a few months back who has low self esteem but underneath she seemed a nice girl, she is also a virgin. She had a boyfriend at the time but he dumped her and then soon after she asked me out. We were together for a few weeks but then she said she couldn't ... (306 words)

Like me? Or just want to make out?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my friend Brian set me up with his bestfriend and we started dating. Well Brian has a twin named Brad and one day I was over at their house with my ex hanging out and while we were there my ex (he was still my bf at the time)was being stupid and laying on a pile of blankets ... (660 words)

I am scared of my wife

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8 February 2009 (M)

age - I got introduced to my wife on the phone 2yrs 4mths ago.We instantly took to each other.I was in Africa and she in Europe.We kept communicating on a regular basis.I actually proposed to her over the phone after 4 weeks of talking.I look back now and tell myself that was ... (634 words)

Do I tell him not to communicate? Or just go with the flow?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a guy I met through work for about 6 months. Not very often at first as I have two kids and only get a break every other weekend and he is very work dedicated. We talked online and on the phone for quite a bit for months before we met. On our first 'date' we ... (508 words)

Thoughts of a past crush keep popping up in my head!

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm at my wit's end right now. For the past month and a half, I thought everything was fine between my boyfriend and I but thoughts of a past crush have once again crept into my head! Here's a little history.... I have asked for advice in the past about my four year ... (244 words)

Whats the matter with this guy?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this guy who works in a company who is my customer. Lately, I've been assigned to visit his office very often. I work in sales so since the beginning he showed being too out there like flirty and stuff, not only with me but every girl. Now, with me is been quite so... (190 words)

My feelings for my best friend are ruining our friendship

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-i-mistook-loving-her-for-just.html This situation is somewhat similar to mine, except in my situation, I am in fact the girl who has fallen for the other, if that makes sense. When I read the reply, I nearly cried. I thought, ‘So I w... (1021 words)

How do I tell my b/f I'm going out with his brother?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - what should i do??? im going out with this guy and somebody else asked me out..that person that asked me out was the only person i really liked..so i decided to go out with him..and brake up with my other boyfriend.. but i just relaized that they are brothers.. and i do... (73 words)

I'm extremely insecure and self conscious and its affecting my life

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm extremely self-conscious and insecure, so much that it's sometimes stopping me from expressing opinions and feelings even to members of my closest family. I can barely look people in the eye and feel lousy most of the time I spend with them. After ending a conversation, I ... (161 words)

Should all boys and men be circumcised?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Should All men and Boys be circumcsied? If so why and when would be best, and would it be an american thing ... (22 words)

Why won't she tell me things?

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I think I know the answer to this but just need confirmation. I have been talking to this woman(long distance)for quite a few months now. We talk almost every day but she won't tell me certain things about her. She says she doesn't trust anyone but I'm getting the feeling ... (304 words)

I met this guy and I can't stop thinking about him

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, lets get straight to the point, see, I met this guy one day. I was leaving the nailery, and it was him and a few of his co-workers, they worked with the water department in my city. As soon as I walked out the store they all were yelling and waving there hands trying to get ... (428 words)

I had sex with the ex to mess with her head!

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8 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Split up with my ex girlfrnd of 5 years last year. I always fancied her, and because i was young i put her on a pedastal and chased her for ages, she finaly gave me a shot and we were happy at first. I got a house and we lived 2gether for a year. After a while i dumped her ... (429 words)

Intimacy issues

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8 February 2009 (F)

age - I have been dating a man for 3 1/2 years. Throughout the relationship, commitment to the relationship has been challenging, i.e., making time to see me. My boyfriend has also had problems with intimacy, i.e., sex and taking the time to have sex. Sometimes we go for months. ... (207 words)

Should I break things off? Or just let things end on their own?

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8 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - So over the summer I met this guy, and we spent a lot of time together, and talked about trying a serious relationship. I had to leave to go back to school, and we've been talking through phone and email. And we were going to try to get back together next summer, and start a ... (229 words)

Does anyone think I should feel neglected or be worried?

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8 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year now, and I feel like we shouldn't have some of the same problems. When we met, I knew him as the party person, but we hooked up after talking for about 6 months. In the beginning things were so good, and it was my ... (567 words)