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How to handle my husband's trust issues?

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Question - (23 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am 27 years old, with three kids and a husband of 6 years. We have been together fo 10 years this April. Well, about 4 yeas ago i left my husband for several reasons

the main was i was tired of being taken for granted.

I stayed gone for about 3 months and during these three months i was seeing someone. When i came home he had changd a great deal he said he had realized what he had being putting me through.

About 8 weeks ago out of the blue he came up with this idea that i was cheating on him with one of his friends. I promise you i wasn't i aint i have been trying so hard to get our marriage back on track. He constantly throughs it up causing us to argue. He has no kind of proof and of course i have no way to prove i didn't eitheir.

is there any one out there can give me some advice on ways to handle this i would appreciate it a whole lot.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009):

yes he knew i was seeing someone. everything was great btween us till i went to town one day he said he has this gut feeling he cant shake. no he has gone back and analized everything i have done.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (24 February 2009):

rcn agony auntDoes he know you were seeing someone for the three months? Do you notice any other changes in him, such as being withdrawn etc.? Has there been any change in your routine that may be reason why he might assume something is going on?

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