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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He didn't text back... Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy is really confusing me! I've asked a question about him before heres the link http://www.dearcupid.org/question/so-does-he-like-me.html anyway today I decided to text him. I said hey what's up. He text back saying so who is this lol? I told him my name and he said... (105 words)

Best friend keeps stealing my guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well to start off there's this one girl I used to be best friends with last year, this one guy liked me and she liked him. She constantly was jealous and now we enter the next grade and another train wreck. 2 long months of my ex-bestie getting into relationships I finally get ... (149 words)

I thought about him every day....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help. I fell in love with a man 5 years a go; and it was love at first sight for me. he never felt the same way and we never spoke again. I never stopped thinking about him and I know i know this sounds cheesy but i really love him.Even though he didnt like me i still ... (159 words)

I lost that special feeling and now that I broke up with her, I want to feel the same way for her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke Up with My girlfriend of 9 months recently and I am so depressed. I didn't feel satisfied in the relationship because it did not feel like it did when we started dating. Now that I broke up with her I am so sad and miss her a lot. I don't understand why I stopped ... (175 words)

Should I tell my mum my 15 year old sister had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I recently wrote the article below but am now wondering if I should tell my mum that my sister had sex? I feel as though I should because I can't lie to my mum about my sister having had sex. I know my mum would get rather angry but she might be able to help my sister. ... (213 words)

Does period pain get less as you get older???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my sister get really bad period pain and we just sit around forlike 1 or 2 days and we always know when the other persons got her period, but I never know if moms got hers. I mean she doesn't like lay around all day or anything. I just wanted to know if maybe you don'... (98 words)

He flirts around a lot but I don't know if it's just me or with everyone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a guy.. don't know how he feels. We used to text and call loads but recently he's taken a step back... he hasn't called me in a month but we still have our online convos.. when I tell him I love him he thinks I'm joking... He flirts around a lot but I don't kn... (76 words)

She wants to have an abortion and that we are over and she won't talk to me right now. I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

2 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiancee for about 2 years. She is 2 months pregnant with our first child. A girl from my past text me yesterday, and, my fiancee saw it and she went off! This girl from my text said "why do you hate me?" Now, I haven't talked to this girl in a while, the ... (114 words)

Age Disparity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am writing a paper about if the law should be changed on what age you can date people and if there should be a consentual age. Please respond with any suggestions or information to help me out. Thanks!!!... (39 words)

Men making noise during sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) age 41-50 - To all the ladies out there, what do you think about men making noice during sex? Turn on or a turn off?... (22 words)

How long should we wait before we sleep together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im currently kinda seeing a guy that lives far away from me we have only been together twice but we email and ring each other a lot in between the times I go to see him. I just wanna know how long we should wait before we sleep together? I really wanna but i dont wanna jump the ... (89 words)

I hate porn....hate it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so i have been with my bf who i love and who loves me back a lot for a about 1 1/2 years. Things are great btwn us...we live together, have a great sex life, went and constantly go thru the good, the bad, the really bad, etc. but he watches porn. I've talked to him about it ... (133 words)

He says he doesn't want to get involved with someone younger than 16

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I've been talking to this guy. And I really like him, my friends say he likes me and that i should just ask him if he does. But he said that he doesn't want to get involved with under 16s after what happened before. And then theres this girl who's older then 16 and she ... (130 words)

Sex wasn't a great experience for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So i was making out with a girl in a club and i was llike really hard that time but then we wanted to take it further..so we went to the beach and we tried to have sex over there ..i got reaaly hard..and i went inside her but it was winter and we were next to the beach w... (297 words)

Is it normal to be interested in older women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

2 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - First of all, in order to understand wher I am coming from, it might prove beneficial to know a little about me. I am 18 years old, and in college. I study Computer Information Systems and Network, with a minor in German. German is my real passion, but for some reason can not ... (430 words)

I'm angry & think he's using me but I love him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound really strange, I was with my boyfriend for a year and he finished it saying I basically drove him crazy because I wanted a serious relationship and he felt we were too young. That was a year ago and we have been carrying on seeing each other and are ... (203 words)

Pregnant a possibility?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, I had sex in november and i had my period 2 weeks afterwards and i had one december but it was late! i didn't have one in january which really concerns me. i've looked up symptoms for pregnacy and i dont really have any. i havent taken a test yet! do you... (67 words)

I kiss a lad and now he doesn't talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me n me bf been going out for 5 months now. he hardly tlks to me and when he does tlk to me its usually about sex or me leaving him. I dnt wnt us to split up because I love this guy. He always ust to tell me he loves me but now he dunt he dunt hardly meet me n he dunt hardly ... (191 words)

I'm just not happy with who I am

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really hope this doesn't sound stupid... In the last few years, I've had a few problems in my life, as everyone does. I struggle with my mum's relationship with my brother. He's a year older than me. I'm very envious, which often makes me nasty towards both of the... (911 words)

1st gyn visit--mom will be there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have many issues that I'm really worried about and have been for years, and I've been telling my mom that I wanted to go to a gyno since I was in 5th grade. She always said we could never afford it even though she had no problem paying to go to the pain clinic twice a week. ... (512 words)

Anyone know what this pain might be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - for about 8 months now, ive been in quite alot of pain, its constant, i am sexually active im 15 i started my periods at 13 i use tampons every period, umm ive been sexually active for about 1 year and a half, ive been with the same partner for 2 years never had sex with anyone ... (225 words)

I told her I loved her but now she has found someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Please i need help. There is a girl who is a close friend of mine,i told her that i loved her and wanted her to be my gf,but she said no. Later she told me she had gotten a bf,i felt bad but bcos i loved her i remained friends with her. But i always told her that i loved ... (161 words)

Should I tell her I love her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

2 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a good friend named Jenny who is in a long term relationship who I'm in love with. I'm single and we hang out a lot because her boyfriend lives the other side of the country. I've had a crush on her for a long time but just recently my feelings have gotten really strong, ... (280 words)

Cannot orgams with boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been dating a man for about 2-3months now and i cant seem to orgasm vagina or clitoris when we have sex. i am quite a shy person and i tend to become self concious when he is looking at me when he is trying to make me cum. i know it sounds wierd. but if he looking at me ... (132 words)

Cheating with him and now he says "No sex"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm currently involved with a married. We have been together for almost 7 years. He often says that he feels bad about cheating but keeps doing it. I'm not trying to take him from his family but I enjoy the time we spend together. He recently told me that we need to stop ... (70 words)

Broken hearted and can't seem to mend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - the story is....i was with my ex for 7months, i was and still am head over heels for him, we are still good friends and i get on with the family really well. i was fine with the fact that we arnt togeather anymore, but a new girl has come on the scene, someone he works with ... (163 words)

Emotionally needy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5560 days ago

2 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I’ve started to see this boy, its been about a month. He’s a kind-hearted, sweet and generous person. One of the best I’ve met on the gay scene, undoubtedly. He’s very close with his friends and they mean a lot to him and he spends a lot of time with them. He also works as a ... (480 words)

In love & he's too old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i no this is going to sound weird but i go to this store and there is this 27 year old guy that works there and he is sooooo nice to me we talk all the time and he is just the most coolst guy in the world. well at first when i started going there things were cool like i had ... (345 words)

We fight! Is he right for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for about 9 months, and we have talked about marriage a lot. We got into an arguement the other day and i broke off our relationship. he's been calling constantly and he says he knows we can work through anything, that he loves me, and we're supposed ... (201 words)

Help with paranoia & trust issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok... i have been with my boyfriend for just over two years. when we met i was independent, i wasnt that bothered about whether the relationship lasted to be honest. a few weeks into the relationship i realised i was falling in love. i have a problem though, after ... (161 words)

How do I comfort my sister after breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Recently my sister (15) got a new boyfriend. Last night, after having dated for about a month he broke up with her. She was devastated. Shortly after I found out she had sex with him during their relationship, thus losing her virginity. My sister and I ar... (130 words)

Can anyone help with getting into a yahoo mail account?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I'm having trouble getting onto my yahoo email account.After i sign in,the screen freezes,and a sign comes up saying " restore your last session " and says that my last session timed out.Then another sign comes up saying " Internet explorer error report " and something like " ... (86 words)

Should I bring my cat to the shelter?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know I may sound mean , but I am having trouble with my cat because it’s actually a family pet but most of the time, I do the cleaning, feeding, etc. What do I do? My mom was once actually sick of the animal too but my dad still wants to keep it. My brother doeesn’t take care ... (219 words)

Why would he say "I love you" one minute then "thanks mate" the next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I am a little confused, been meeting up with a guy (who I like) for a while now, we're always flirting and he has told me he like me. We've had sex twice which is fine, we're both single and get what we 'need' The only thing is last time it happened I clearly heard ... (117 words)

Am I being paranoid here? Am I crazy???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I have taken a pregnancy test that came out negative, but my period is irregular, I'm gaining weight even though I'm dieting and exercising, I'm tired, my boobs are sore, and are getting bigger and I'm always hungry. I just don't want to be one of those people who look and and ... (69 words)

Is it acceptable for a 27 year old to date a 17 year old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

2 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 27 year old guy and have recently found myself in a tricky situation. I really like the sister of my workmate. I have chatted to her a few times, and we had a really great time together at his birthday party. She is drop dead gorgeous and we really connected. However I ... (166 words)

I'm straight but dream about women having oral with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I would just like to know what or whatever others think about this: I'm totally straight, I love men but I fantasize about a woman sticking her tounge up me and swirling it around. Am I a perv for this? Just thoughts tbh x... (48 words)

Why is he not comfortable when I kiss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused about my guy. I have just started to date him in the last few weeks and he is quite comfortable when I rest my arm on him and hold his hand - but when we kiss he never uses his tongue and I'm sure he leaves his eyes open too!! - What's going on?... (56 words)

I get guys but lately I've just been going after the ones that I know I can't have.. What is wrong with me cuz I'm a wreck right now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just a mess.. me and my boyfriend broke up last week and I've been trying soo hard to get over him. I was in love with him and I got very weak but at times I was strong and I guess I'm over it. I hung out for the first time with this guy that I've always been attracted to. ... (186 words)

I can't tell him about my past... SHOULD I tell him? I don't know what to do for the best...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in a moral dilemma. I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now and both of us love each other more than anything else and planning to get married. In fact, I never thought that I can love someone so selflessly before I met him. But there is something that's b... (456 words)

Should I stop the teasing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend gets all quiet and I can tell he's bothered after some passionate kissing and touching. Do all men get like this if the girl decides not to put out after all these efforts?!? Should I stop the teasing? I mean he initiates all this... I continue but I only let it go ... (145 words)

If I talk to another guy on MSN, is this cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so i have been goin' out with my guy for ages now, and i'm in a secret and luving relationship. about 5 days ago, a lad added me on msn, and we started talking all he does is shower me with compliments, but everytime he talks to me, afterwards i feel guilty, like i'v... (113 words)

How can I cope with my boyfriend going to prison?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriends going away to prison for 7 months and i don't know how im gonna cope. i had to wait for my last boyfriend for a year and a half and i don't know if i could do it again? i don't want him to go but i can't do anything about it? how am i really going to cope??... (61 words)

Am I a fool for waiting for her for so long already? How can I make this marriage work?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

2 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi I've been on here afew times...but deleted my account for various reasons.... I am in a very hard situation that I don't know what to do.... Basically, my wife (married for 5.5 years) took an amazing job back in her own country (12hrs flight away distance)in 2006.... (457 words)

My husband watches the sex tape he filmed with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have the greatest husband with one flaw, porn, I learned to live with him watching porn from time to time and this as gut wrenching as it is I did but...when I met him (we have a very open communication) he told me he did a home made porn with his ex girlfriend of 10 yrs. I ... (306 words)

Did I ruin everything by not making him feel good in bed? I'm a virgin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There has been a guy friend that I have liked/flirted with for 3 years off and on. There has always been an underlying sexual tension between us but he has had some girlfriends here and there. But lately we have been talking/flirting again. This weekend I got drunk and stayed ... (309 words)

How can I get his bunny boiling ex to leave us alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my bf for over 3 months now and were still having problems with his ex. weve both spoke to her to tell her to back off, we were nice about it at first , because i could understand her being upset, but its getting ridiculous now , shes threatening to hit me and ... (235 words)

I don't want to lose my fiance, but my ex threatens to tell him we have slept together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 23-year old girl from a very good family.I am completing my education from a very reputed college in India.My problem is that years back , when I was in grade 11 in school, I had this huge crush on my classmate. He was cute,friendly but a hard-core flirt,... (381 words)

Help me, I'm in love with my friend, but I messed it up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've liked this guy for about a month or two now. At first I tried to surpress my feelings but his name kept cropping up everywhere I looked. So I admitted to myself that I liked him. We'd just started to become friends at that time and we walked home together sometimes too. T... (238 words)

My boyfriend is not emotional, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, My story is quite long but i would love someone would give an advice. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, he is a very good guy. My problem with him is that he is very unemotional. He is always telling me that I look very cute, he holds the doors ... (383 words)

A question about including and welcoming others...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I think this is an interesting question for discussion. We have had much discussion on social groups, friends, etc. So my next question is, why would some people fit you right into their group of friends and for others, hell would have to freeze over before th... (195 words)

I'm having doubts about my marriage and I don't know how to stop them.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well here goes. Recently I've been having doubts about my marriage, see myself unhappy, feel selfish for being unhappy, and find myself rolling downhill like a snowball that I don't know how to stop. I've been in this relationship for 10 years. It's always been based on af... (468 words)

Does he mean it when he says he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 3 months and in the beginning of january i found out that he had doubts since the beginning of december if he loved me anymore, we sorted things out and he told me that he does love me and everything but since he has told me ... (144 words)

Any girl here who is in relationship with a Capricorn? How did you "catch him"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello.. I have one quick question for all of you, who are interesting and experienced in astrology. I found myself very attracted to Capricorn guys (that's because i have all "love planets" - venus, mars and mercury in this sign). But they're really hard to get, even though i... (136 words)

How should an adult relate to teenagers on social networking sites?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a bit of a moral-social dilemma and would like your opinion on it. I am a bi woman who was born in 1982 (I am 26 now) and although I personally still feel like a 22 year old and get on well with people who are 2 or 3 years younger than me, it cannot be denied t... (644 words)

Could it be that I love her after 8 years? I'm married to someone else...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (M)

age - Please help. I need help and advice. I am an unhappily married 46 year old man with two children aged 13 and 8. Heres how the story goes, 8 years ago now I met what I feel was the love of my life, my soulmate. I worked with her 8 years ago and she was only 22 at the time, ... (519 words)

I'm in my last year of high school and it's been hell...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need some help. im in my last year of high school and its been hell. last year my previous best friend went out with my ex behind my back (among other things), and now it seems like everyone is still in love with her. all my friends tell me what a bitch she is for what ... (217 words)

Recently I've been finding it hard to sleep, any ideas?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old and recently ive been finding it hard to "fall asleep" once I am asleep I am fine..I can sleep for 10 to 11 hours if I have to. its just falling asleep thats the problem. i toss and turn and stress out because I have to be up at 7am for uni.. Sometime... (130 words)

Why if there is no regret does my husband cry all the time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age - Hi there well my question, I found out that my husband was having an affair a year ago,after 32 years of marriage. But he says there was nothing wrong with the marriage but he fell in love again with his first ever girfriend from ... (336 words)

What can I do to change the taste of the pre-cum or make my wife like it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) age 41-50 - well my wife does not like the taste of the pre-cum and stops right there. what do i do to change it/make her like it?... (25 words)

Why did he cause this scene for a common cap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everbody......So my boyfriend and I finally broke up about 3 weeks ago and I just found out he was cheating on me. Our break up wasn't official, we just stopped talking. I thought it was one of his silent treatments but then I found out he is cheating. I just forgot abou... (366 words)

Does this mean my mum suspects I'm gay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

2 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey eveyone, just so you know right from the begining, I'm 15 and gay. Im still in the closet about the whole thing. Now, my mum always makes the comment of, "you will make your wife very happy" or "you will make your girlfriend really happy" just so where clear on this she... (110 words)

I want my elderly mothers last years to be good, but my family are blocking me out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

- This is not a relationship question but it has been causing me some sleepless nights...hopefully some people on here might be able to help. At the request of the retirement home where she was living, my mom has been put in the nursing home side of the retirememt side ... (353 words)

Should I give in and have this abortion?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - right here goes im 21 years old im pregnant and facing one of the hardest desicions i think il ever have to make......my partner of 5 years and my 2 year old daughters dad has informed me he doesnt want another chid and wants me to have a abortion. i have always said i wo... (191 words)

I don't want to be rejected for the 3rd tme!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid. I'm at university and im having a good time although im at a bit of a loss of what to do. Im finding myself falling for one of my housemates (whos also female), we are very close and in a friendship group who are deciding to live together next year. We got ... (628 words)

My 2 best friends proposed to me on same day? What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi , I am a 25-year old working girl and have an excellent job.Since class 8th , I have been best friends with 2 boys , and we have been great friends ever since , always hanging out together and supporting each other through think and thin.coincidentally , we landed up in ... (182 words)

Any suggestions on how to get more sleep?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It all started when my first dog that I ever known got put down. I use to be able to sleep fine 10 hrs. But now I only get six hrs of sleep a night. I know that its from grievance but what can I do to help me sleep more? Asking for help... (55 words)

Breaking up and getting back together? Can it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just a quick question is it possible for a couple to get back together after a break or a break up and have a succesfull relationship? My boyfriend of 9 months who asked me to move in (totally his idea) has asked for some space apart saying he still inlove with me but things ... (148 words)

8 year relationship with no proof of one

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my man and i have been together for a little over 8 years now and we have a 2 year old daughter together.....we have been through alot together and i just hate giving up but lately i don't feel like i care anymore............in 2005 we were supposed to get married in his ... (1039 words)

Problems during fellatio, any ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) age 36-40 - well my girl has a problem in giving me a blow job. she likes to suck,rub and perform the whole foreplay. but wen she sucks the head I am not climaxing/dont even feel like I am gonna cum but then she says she gets a very salty taste. I am confused! i was definitely sure i was ... (106 words)

I split with my cheating boyfriend, need some advice as I'm not feeling well!

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I split with my boyfriend of two and a half years, last week. The split was due to his cheating which happened on two occasions with different women. When we split he said that he was sorry and that it is his loss, and that he wishes we hadnt split up. He text me last nig... (439 words)

I am attracted to the friend of a lady I dated for a bit - What do I do?

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2 February 2009 (M)

- Last summer, I(38) went out 5-6 times with a lady, Susan(33). However, things between us didn't work out; she was "not ready for anything heavy due to a busy schedule" I kept in contact ,discreetly,but nothing came of it. Around January 10th, Susan invites me to her pl... (508 words)

Should I accept my male friend (I'm bi) or live a lie with my fiancee?

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2 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 year old bi male, who has been in love with one of my male friends for 5 years. I was going to tell him a few times but I always thought he was straight. He has now told me that he fancies me and wants us to be together. I would have been the happiest person ever ... (173 words)

We are virgins and getting married soon - any advice about our first time?

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am getting married in a few months. We are both virgins..but I am scared. Don't know how he feels about the first time. Is it painful? If I bleed a bit will he be disgusted about it? What is the best position?... (49 words)

Jealous? Or something fishy going on?

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2 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, i'll keep this as short as possible, but it's a somewhat complicated, long situation, so here goes: I'm 18. My gf is 16, and I've been with her 2 years now. It is a long distance relationship (she lives in the town where my father lives, and I visit every weekend). I have... (594 words)

My boyfriend drooled over this girl at a bar?

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend walked into this bar/club/seedy place.. Boy you should of seen the guys staring at me I felt like a movie star!! So any-way we go upto the bar order our drink, his talking to his friends we are all having a great time until these 2 girls started dancing and ... (395 words)

Is my ex-friend normal? Just hurt? Or crazy?

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i dumped a very close friend. she was getting to be a pain. she got insecure and always wanted me to spend time with her. and if i did not and did things with others, she would wonder if i just do not like her company. partly, i may have a role because i do not like to share ... (290 words)

My boyfriend and I are having a lot of issues and I don't know what to think

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend i know loves me, and will be with me forever, but something he did i just cant get out of my head. We were having a fight and i was at a party, and drinking, and we were texting, he told me that he was really upset about something he did, he had looked at gay porn ... (115 words)

I cancelled our anniversary to be there for my sister, how to make it up to the husband?

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2 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My husband and me were having our year wedding anniversary. Until my sister came crying to me because her boyfriend was cheating on her with her best friend and she broke up with him on the spot. She was really upset about it so I cancelled had our anniversary and I even let ... (89 words)

I have Bacterial Vaginosis or Candida and it's really effecting my life

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I also have a boyfriend and I'm trying everything I can to hide it from him because I'm too embarassed to tell him... I have been tested for every STD you can think of because I was wondering why I had this (swabs and blood tests)... I believe I have had the condition for about ... (179 words)

My gf wants to speak to me all night every night, how do I make it stop!

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2 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I see each other everyday. She still lives with her parents, and so do I for my families financial reasons, but after I get home, she calls me every night and won't get off the phone with me. I have tried to hint over and over that I want to get off the phone, ... (290 words)

My girlfriend truly believes she doesn't deserve me, what to do?

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2 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for a year this February. Whenever she upsets me, she'll follow her apology with, "I'm a horrible girlfriend, you deserve so much better than me," or some variation of that. We sat down and had a talk months ago about how I don't think I deserve ... (149 words)

I'm seeing a 'party boy' and I'm not quite sure what to do in some situations

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, this is a silly question.. but im 18.. and lately i've been seeing this guy thats 24 and unlike me he's pretty much a party boy and i dont mind that, dont get me wrong. but he picked me up at night and we went for a drive around and the thing is.. he pumps up music.. and i ... (104 words)

Looking for songs that capture how I'm feeling to show my husband

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I are going through some pretty rocky times, we have been here before and it ended in disaster. Although, in that case, he was the one to blame, it still hurt like hell when I thought it was really over, forever! I love him, there is no denying that. I guess he ... (910 words)

Why some people include your in their social life more willingly than others?

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2 February 2009 (F)

Torn between two guys, how do I decide what I want?

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner now for about 6 years. We’ve lived together for 4 years, but are not married, and no kids. We even survived him going overseas for 6 months. I love him to bits, I identify with his quirkiness, and we have so much in common. And before you start ... (592 words)

How to get on with life after a break up?

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Six months ago, I went through a break-up with someone I am truly in love with. We went our seperate ways, but about two months ago, he stumbled back into my life (single again, of course.) I still felt the same way about him, and after a month, I told him I just couldn't do ... (207 words)

He's moving on after a week, will he realise what he's lost?

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend split a week sgo. He has already hooked up with 2 girls, and says that their just his rebounds, to try to get over me. He's not in a relationship, just fooling around fun. I'm heartbroken about it. Do you think he will realise what he lost with me, or... (68 words)

I'm 15, why do I REALLY want a baby???

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this may sound totally stupid and immature but yeah... I don't know why but for some reason I REALLY want a baby (A daughter mostly) I have been wanting one for almost a year now... I am 15 for gods sakes! What the hell! Out of nowhere last week my boyfriend was talking to ... (188 words)

My brother's GF will not let him go anywhere without her.

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My brother's gf will not let him go anywhere without her. When he is not with her he has to be on msn with her. She has put 18 pictures of the two of them in his room. She writes him letters that say she cant live without him and that he is the reason for her happiness. She ... (128 words)

What can a 25 year old female do to meet guys?

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I know you guys are going to be like "boy, her life is soooo sad" and I'll be the first one to agree with you. That's why I'm hoping people could offer me tips on what to do. I am a 25 virgin. I have only had one "technical" boyfriend and that was when I was around 14.... (250 words)

I've asked her out but she keeps changing her answer!

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2 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, The question that i have is that a girl that i really like has been sending me strange messages. I asked her out on a date and she said yes......then maybe.....then no altogether. She has repeated this cycle for a while now, and has said that she wants to go out ... (114 words)

My boyfriend wants me to have a baby I'm not ready for

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi just needed some advice, ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years everything is good but he has a daughter of 2 years old that he hasnt seen in over 2 years cause his baby momma took her to jamaica with her so since he hasnt seen his daughter he kind of putting pressure on me ... (111 words)

How do I move on from my long distance ex?

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up a week ago as I moved states, and long distance is too hard, I still love him...so this week was spent crying, and talking to my girlfriends..... They sdvise me to stop talking to him.....So the next time he called I told him I still love him, ... (176 words)

My dad physically abused us but I think my mum will still take him back

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I come from a screwed up family. My father used to physically abuse me and my older siblings and mum. A couple years ago, he was jailed for molesting 2 underage girls. My mum divorced him, and I thought we wouldn't ever see him again. Now he's started visiting my house, t... (106 words)

I saw my ex gfs pic on a dating site and it really hurts

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2 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I am 25 my ex is 24. She broke up with me a month ago. I got a huge speach about how she does not have time, since she moved down and starting her life. I have not called her or contacted her in any way shape or form. I looked through a site tonight and saw her picture up ... (177 words)

I lost my virginity last night and now I'm feeling itchy..

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I just lost my virginity last night. It hurt, but that's to be expected. Now, I'm quite a bit itchy ''down there''. I've got a bit more discharge than usual, but it doesn't have a strange scent or color. I'm wondering if I was just allergic to the latex in the condom/the ... (68 words)

I'm forced to live at home with my family and it's driving me crazy

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i'm a 27 year old woman and i live in my bedroom and its driving me insane, and causing me to be depressed. i live with my mom and two brothers in a family home in a small village. I have had to move here because I am now unemployed and can't afford to move out until i... (432 words)

How can we accept what our daughter is doing? We are so against it

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2 February 2009 (F)

age - my daughter is living with her new boyfriend of 4 months. we are really against this.dad roman catholic and mother christian but disapprove also. she just came out of a 6 year relationship that broke up.we have not met new boyfriend yet . she says she does not call him a ... (125 words)

Keeping relationship secret but I'm worried he's seeing others

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i'm 16 and i've been seeing this older guy. He seems to like me, but we can't let anyone know that we talk, cause he's just above the age limit for my families approval. So he tells me that he wants to be with me when i get older, and we still talk secretly but he lives ... (211 words)

It means he cares, right?

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. so.i had a problem,the guy i love (we arent going out yet but i think he is in love with me too,we are close friends).well..i had texted and called him a lot of times from the past 2 days without getting a reply.i got really scared and assumed that either he is too busy to ... (152 words)

Pregnant from bj?

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I gave my boyfriend a blow job, and I'm afriad I may be pregnant because the sperm got on my hands. i waited about 30 mins before i went to the rest room though. what should i do?... (40 words)

I'm scared that I don't love my fiance anymore

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - been with my fience for 3 years. im scared i dont love him anymore,i know deep down i do,but im scared im doing it all wrong and maybe there is someone better out there for us both one minute he annoyes me and we will argue and the moment i see him and just hold his hand im... (81 words)

I just want casual sex - but he calls every day!

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2 February 2009 (F)

age - I'm going through a divorce and it has been a very long time since I have been with a man. Well, my daughter introduced me to her supervisor and I explained that I am just looking for someone to help ease the sexual tension. He calls me almost daily just to talk about how my ... (153 words)

Long term relationship but like someone else

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 21 year old female and have been with my boyfriend, also 21 for 4 years. I love him but recently have developed feelings for somebody else. He is 38.. I really don't know what to do. I know my boyfriend loves me and it would kill him if we broke up. do you think we shoul... (227 words)

We've had sex twice in six months - any advice?

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2 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now. Everything was great and we did all the things any couple would do, except she did not want to have sex until about 4-5 months into our relationship. The first time I tried to initiate sex was about one month after ... (235 words)

Am I in love witha straight guy? Or is there a chance?

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2 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - It's taking alot of courage to write this, but basically i've recently started university, and a few months ago i began talking to this one guy on my course. He's the same age as me and we have similar interests. Since then i've grown to be his friend, best friend and now i'm ... (387 words)

I came before penetration - am I a virgin?

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2 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently, a female friend and I were fooling around. I was wearing a condom and there was some foreplay involved and it got me hard. I was then on the bottom and then I came first then she went in. Right after she went in, I said that I came. This is probably a dumb question,... (88 words)

I get very jealous of my boyfriends behaviour

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so, I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years of and on but now we're engaged and I'm so jealous and I don't know how to stop. I mean I love him to death but he talks to all these other gurls on myspace and calls them babe and stuff like that I don't know how to make him ... (90 words)

My girlfriend has no time, sympathy or affection for me

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2 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. My girlfriend an I have been together for 2 years now and things have taken a huge change. She has a problem keeping her word on most things, she is never in the mood for sex even though she always tells me " I want you to just take me" or " No i like it when you do ... (592 words)

I can't trust myself not to cheat

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay big problem I have a boyfriend, but we are both pretty young, his number one rule is do not cheat. well, I'm afraid i will break that rule. I've have a ton of relationships in the past so I know I can date. I have big problems with trust I can't trust myself even, I really ... (118 words)

He's distant sometimes, does he like me?

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing this guy and I hear from him for a few days and then nothing for a few days. Why does he do this? Of course I act as though nothing is wrong. Does that mean he's not that interested in me? But he also has invited me to go on a vacation with him for valentines ... (75 words)

How to get rid of hormonal breakouts?

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2 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Urggg! My period just ended, so naturally, i'm a hormone fest... so i'm breaking out! joy. i tend to break out around my nose, and chin around my mouth if that helps. it's not too bad, luckily, but still! what can i do? what do you do when you get a breakout?... (52 words)