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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I be more confident around girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 15 year old boy without a relationship, I think that this is because I can't talk to girls properly, I just get nervous around them and I can feel my cheeks burn up if I think I have said something stupid to them. Can you please tell me how to be more confident around ... (59 words)

My ex and I still love each other after 9 years of on and off, should we make it work this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, when I was 20 I met a wonderful young man of 22. We started dating and became deeply in love with each other. We dated for 2 and half years, then in our first year of university I decided to come to canada to continue and he went to another country. At the time I we ... (1011 words)

I love the man I have been with and I made a very big mistake...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for three years now. I am 21 weeks pregnant and we are both very excited. I was wondering, we had been having unprotected sex for a while and he had been ejaculating inside me. I finally got pregnant, but why hadn't I got pregnant before ... (125 words)

Should I meet with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Got a bit of a dilemma. Kieran wants to meet with me. We started talking about 3 months ago having gone over a year with no contact. Now ordinarily I'd be pretty laid back about this kind of thing, but in the past 2 weeks he's broken up with his girlfriend and had to move ... (421 words)

Am I jinxed???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm really down and could do with some advice. I don't know what's wrong with me or whether I'm jinxed. Last year my dad's twin brother died. I'd never met my grandparents before as my dad fell out with them years ago. At my uncle's funeral my grandmother (dads mam) asked ... (215 words)

Why do I never pre-cum???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old gay male and I dont pre-cum. When I was about 14/15 I used to experiment with masturbating a lot and I used to always pre-cum as I've matured I still masturbate but I have grown out of pre-cumming. Everyone I've been in a relationship with pre-came and I ... (74 words)

WHY does sex hurt the first few times if we're meant to reproduce?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 13 year old girl and don't plan on having sex anytime soon but I was wondering - why does it hurt the first few times you have sex, either when you lose your virginity or when having sex with a new partner? Our bodies are pretty much created to do two things, survive and ... (147 words)

Five years and still no luck!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am in need of major help and fast. There's this guy I've liked for over 5 years and I haven't had the guts to talk to him in person! We both go to the same high school and I'm pretty sure we're the same age. I might be one year older. The problem is I am way too ... (140 words)

I feel insecure, like I'm going to lose her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Last year I was going out with this girl who came to the UK for one year. I really liked her and eventually got to know her. We eventually went out but there was always this other guy bugging her and I always suspected something was going on. Eventually, I found out! On the ... (258 words)

Could she just be an outgoing social person, or did she want to spend time with me in particular?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a somewhat strange situation. I recently met a girl in one of my classes through a team mate of mine. The girl turned out to be very nice, and in the same major as me. Anyway, yesterday I got an email from her asking to meet so she could borrow my vector/tensor ... (256 words)

He gave me 2 STI's and I'm STILL with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me an my partner have been together for a year now and it has to be the best relationship I have had. He's loving, caring, funny, everything I could ever wish for. Then a few months in the relationship we broke up for 2 weeks over someone ringing my phone, but we got back ... (447 words)

She says we're just friends but we act as much much more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my best friend had always been very touchy feely and used to flirt like crazy without noticing unless it was said to us. Okay so about 3 months ago I began dating my best friend. Then about a month ago she decided to break things off as she just wanted to be friends "for ... (428 words)

Bruises and breast cancer.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have heard that bruises on the breasts can cause breast cancer and I wanted to know, is a love bite [hicky] like a bruise? and if so, does getting one on my breast give me a risk of breast cancer? ... (41 words)

I need help in asking a girl out.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and I have liked this girl for a real long time... anyway I have never been able to muster the guts to do anything, I think she does know that I like her but I am not sure. Does anyone know what I should do?... (48 words)

Why do you think he did this...? help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He accused me of cheating when I wasn’t.. he didn’t contact me till 2 months later he called me I told him 2 call me back because I was out.. he called me back and was asking me how my boyfriend was doing (as if I have one) I told him I don’t know. He said he's not trying to ... (283 words)

My period came but it was unusually light, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have had sex but the silly thing happened of the condom splitting. If i have came on my period the next day can i be pregnant? but also i took a pregnancy test on the 14th and one on the 17th and they were both negative. Iv came on 2days late but its like ... (81 words)

Masturbation at a younger age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is Masturbating at a young age 'good' for a girl?... (10 words)

The shop assistant caught my attention, what now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a shop waiting to be served when this guy caught my eye, he was looking at me and smiled, i smiled back and flirted a little. He served me and seemed really nice, and interested in me i think. it may sound silly but i'd really like to see him again... how should i go ... (60 words)

Are there any programs that can help a disabled full-time single mom own a home

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am single mother of 2 sons who was newly declared disabled. I've worked as an R.N. for 18 yrs until medical conditions prevent me from working. My ultimate dream is to own a small new home. Can anyone tell me of any programs the US govt. or any other private entity offers to ... (63 words)

Help, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a extremely confusing situation... it all started when my best friend began dating this boy I liked which was very annoying because he was the first boy I liked since secretly loving, having drunken relations and trying desperatly hard to hate this other boy ... (627 words)

I even dropped out of uni due to my fear of meeting new people, help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a seemingly normal happy 19 year old male with a loving family and a lot of friends! However I have a huge problem on my hands. My question isn't laid out very clearly and I'm literally just writing as I think so sorry for structure is so crummy. Hope you can hel... (677 words)

Did I just had an orgasm?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Soooo my gf and me were having fun she was giving me a handjob and i was getting close to finishing i started shaking and when i did it looked like a hose had gone off in my pants..... after i was freezing and the light killed my eyes and it almost seemed like i ran 5 miles!!! ... (85 words)

Should I continue to support him financially?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here is my story. I started dating this guy 7 months ago. I am 28 and he is 33, when we met he was staying at friend in their basement. he told me that he moved from another city and was trying to start a business here but for now he was doing small jobs to make ends mee... (1062 words)

Still in love with my ex, is she also thinking of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - im still in love with my ex i don't know if she knows it, she saw me after 6 months i was driving through a bus station we only looked for a couple seconds ..and the same day she texted me on facebook to say hi is she still thinkig off me? i haven't stop thinkig about her a ... (131 words)

Will my crush think I like this boy because I danced with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to my formal party last night and this guy asked me to dance with him so I said ok, since I was sitting out most of the night so I was grinding with the guy and my crush was right there! he knows I like him but I dunno if he likes me back, like he told me he has a g/f, ... (185 words)

Will he still like me? Some advice? Please answer.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - so,i like this guy very much and don't want to loose him.he liked me for 1 year and 4 months.yesterday,when we finished school,i and my friend were waiting for another girl to come.as time was passing,i saw him and his best friend heading out of the school.i don't know how,but ... (219 words)

I don't know how to tell my casual lover that my period is late!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been talkin to this guy for almost two months but we arent datin or bf or gf or anything bc we both just got out of long relationships and are scared to get close to someone else. well weve had sex a couple times and i missed a couple bc this past month and now im late ... (73 words)

I love him even though we're 5 years apart... is it right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have the most amazing boyfriend, but I'm sure you've heard that before. Anyways, I've never felt so happy before. I love him so much. Too bad my mother doesn't let me date. And the fact that he's 20 and I'm 15 becomes a problem. He promised me that we wouldn't have sex unti... (242 words)

Is it a one-sided relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ive been going out with my boyfriend for a month now and so far its beeen great we could talk for hours. i went to his house yesterday and we made out for the first time and it was nice and then his mate came round whose two years older than us and for some creepy reason he saw ... (303 words)

My bipolar hubby is abusing me, how much longer should I tolerate this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my hubby has a lot of problems such as pstd,bipolar,aniexty,ocd... anyway he has had counseling for 2 years but not enough. and i been married for 5 years. he has hurt me, mentally,verbal abused me i want to know how much longer i should give him chances for. i have 2 kids ... (126 words)

My girlfriend is confusing me and hurting me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all my girlfriend is being really confusing latley, i have been with her for 2.5 years, and i have been in the army for 1.5 years. the other day she told me that she doesnt think we should be together anymore, or shes no sure if she loves me as much as she did, she still ... (255 words)

Can you name some fun places to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my gf have been together since Decemember and she wants to know where are the best places to have sex besides inside the house or the car? cause she likes doing it in different places... name a few places would help us!! thank you... (57 words)

Should I be the one to blame?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years(in May). The past few months have really been rough. All we ever seem to do it fight and argue. The thing is... and maybe it's just all in my head but he seems to always be pointing the finger of blame at me for the ... (560 words)

We have equal shares in the apartment and he wants out, what can be done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend keeps saying he wants to move out . We share an apartment and have equal share in it. I don't want to leave and he is demanding that I give him half of the security deposit or get out. Is there any way around this or any kind of time period. We live in new York ... (62 words)

Does rough sex hurt the baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfrien just had crazy sex and I may be pregnant so I need to know if hard sex hurts the baby and if u don't honestly know don't reply... (32 words)

Lesbian verses Penis

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been attached to women for as long as I can remember. The past 4 years I've only been dating women and can only picture myself with a woman... but the only way I get off is to think about penis or use a dildo! My current girlfriend of over a year has never made me orgasm ... (136 words)

How can I develop this friendship into a relationship without scaring him off?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a boy through a dinner gathering twice. Since that second meeting, we've been chatting almost everyday several times a day, occasional texts, comments actively on my facebook wall - mostly his initiation. Intuitively, I thought he liked me and was interested. I'm 33, ... (527 words)

Stickler for Manners!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is constantly burping, farting, coughing and half the time in my FACE! I was raised with manners and I find this disgusting and a total turn off. We barely have sex any more because I'm just not in the mood.. and instead of talking about it she will get mad or ... (128 words)

Boyfriend nightmares

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have a problem - I have a long term boyfriend who used to treat me really badly and he used to make me do things I didn't want to do - and this has affected our relationship, as I don't feel like I can ask him for anything or approach him for anything, because I don't know ... (183 words)

Do we always have hope that things will turn out good at the end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Do we always have hope that things will turn out good at the end? What if there isn't, because your life is a proof that it is just going bad with no breaks? Where do you get hope, if you don't see it in work? Do we all get saved? Or some of us will suffer, to the last clic... (87 words)

I am willing to do anything to make the relationship with the man that I love work.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a tough situation. My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 2 and a half years. Over those two and a half years, I have been a less than perfect girlfriend and have lied to him many times over small and large things and have kept things hidden from him. About ... (364 words)

I fell in love with one of my best friends but she also has a boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys, I'm in a really depressing situation at the moment. About 2 years ago, I met a girl at work who pretty much made these last 2 years the best of my life. When I first met her, I was automatically attracted to her. She was the girl I have been waiting for. Sh... (402 words)

Now he is back and my head hurts and I can feel my own blood pressure rising. I can not live like this, but what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have moved 3000 miles to be with my husband. He has been mentally and verbally abusive to me in ways I can't even begin to describe. In ways that caused me to vomit blood while he laughed. We rent a house, I have nobody here and no way to leave and no where to go. 3 weeks ago ... (338 words)

Is it possible I could get pregnant if only on the pill for four days?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm really worried, I've just started having unprotected sex with my boyfriend but don't worry, we haven't been stupid and I'm on the pill... but the first time we did I was only on the pill for four days! We looked it up but it said there was no chance of pregnancy because ... (95 words)

Affair with a married man - why is it so hard to choose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having an affair with a married man whom i met 16 years ago and then he suddenly appeared again in my life at my grandma funeral. He is married and they have 3 kids. They are not getting along very well and been not sharing the same room for 2 years(don't tell... (818 words)

My husband helped the neighbour who disrespected me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - before me and my husband got married we bought a flat which has very thin walls so i can even hear my neighbour snorring. when we moved in we argued a lot and obviously our neighbour could hear us. it was disturbing her so she started banging on the walls as we were arguing and ... (345 words)

He says he doesn't love me anymore, I think he's just depressed. Do I wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Alright,so I've been "with" my lover for 3 1/2 years. We were boyfriend and girlfriend for 2 1/2 years and we've been on a break for the past year. Although it kinda can't be called a break because we never really stopped seeing each other. On average we would spend 4-5 ... (1116 words)

Should I ask my mom for masturbating tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I am 14 and have been secretly masturbating any chance I get with a back massager. I want to talk to my mom about it and see if there's something that might feel better in me or on my clit but I am afraid she will get mad at me. I am a Christian and.come from a Christian ... (88 words)

What do I do about my g/f's dad and his sexual attitude towards me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, my girlfriend's 22. We've been together for just over 4 months now, and everything's great. There's no major problems in our relationship, it's her family that's the issue. Whenever I go over to her house (which is semi-regularly), her dad always tries flirting wi... (462 words)

Different ways to please my partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - right I really need some help. Everything I do sexually to pleasure my girlfriend doesn't work. It has worked for other girls but it doesn't with her. i've gone down on her, fingered her, had sex with her, she says she can feel it but she doesnt know what pleasure is... ... (66 words)

My friend's g/f is jealous because he talks to me, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a guy friend, that i talk to on the phone, he tells me that when he talks to me i help him sleep better. But he have a girlfriend that is jealous of our firendship. She said that she don't want us talking on the phone or even talking at all. But theres nothing goin on ... (90 words)

In a relationship with a married man and scared of being alone again, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm 41yrs old,and in a awful mess. Long story short. In a relationship with a man who is married, we weren't suppose to take this any further than just that one time. Now its been 9months. He is the one who plans everything,we have seen each other everyday since then,even ... (257 words)

I'm thinking about using viagra but concerned it may be dangerous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i'm a 26 year old man who was wondering would it be dangerous or silly to use viagra or a safe substitite.the reason i ask this is because sometimes during sex condoms make my erection a bit soft and i was thinking if i took viagra i wouldn't have this problem and would stay ... (91 words)

Am I covering their affair by remaining silent?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello dear friends, I am facing a dilemma right now and I don't know what to do. At my workplace, there is an affair going on between a male driver and a female officer both married.Everytime I tried to talk to her, she justified her act, she says that she has a violent ... (300 words)

My libido is low for the past few months, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Iam 27 and have been with my parnter for almost 4 years. We have sex around 4 times a week but in the last 3 months i have not been into sex. I was not feeling that good about my self so my parnter seek out some very sexy PJ's and underware in hope that would make me feel ... (95 words)

Where do I go from here? We have different goals!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! This is my first time asking a question ..its going to be long but bare with me please. here it goes. I am turning 21 next month. I have been with my boyfriend, 21, for 4 years now, we have never broken up once, nor have we ever taken a break. He is a sweetheart, roman... (878 words)

Why can't I make up my mind whether I want to be with him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend but i don't know. Help, tell me wether you think i should or not ? Well... I don't really enjoy his kisses, are relationship is suppose to be a secret for a bit while i sort other things out but he keeps telling loads of people a... (319 words)

My partner has genital warts..what does this mean for the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My patner and I recently had sex tests as we both wished to have unprotected sex, thankfully my results came back clear but he was diagnosed with HPV (genital warts)From research on the internet I understand that this is a highly contagious infection and can be spread even when ... (77 words)

Lack of performance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in my younger 20's and have a big problem. When ever I would have sexual intercourse with my girlfriend I would not be able to last more then about a minute. It's a really big problem because I want nothing more then to bring her pleasure and make her feel good rather then ... (113 words)

Do I actually have a chance this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A couple of years ago i fell in love with this girl- i fell so deep it was unreal. When i went to her house we would always have fun and have a laugh but we used to kiss a lot... and she knew how i felt but she would not go out with me. Recently i have been feeling the same ... (119 words)

Our personalities are so different and we are now broken up but I still love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly a year and a halve and we have always argued as have our personalities. I met him when i wasn't very confident but a few years later i developed my confidence which led to me actually asking him out. I had always known he had crushed ... (1332 words)

I'm curious about this after watching it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey well i'm a gay male, and i watch a lot of porn where guys eat the cum. So i was just wondering, what's it like? I mean how is it? uz lately i've been thinking abot it after i jack-off, then i think about it for too long, and end up not eating it. So yeah i'm just a... (73 words)

Its killing me having all of these feelings!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, and theres this girl i've known for about a year and really really really like her. We are good friends and she considers me to be one of her best friends, but she drives me crazy. Like a couple of weeks ago we were at a party and both got drunk but by the end of the ... (284 words)

How long should we wait before taking the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I know this seems silly but I've been best friends with this guy for 13 years and we've started going out now. We have trust and respect for each other, we're not afraid to tell each other what we want and we have a good balance between friendship and intimacey. But ... (144 words)

Unhappy with my girlfriend and in love with another girl

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm in quite a miserable situation and ask for any advice, as it's hard for me to discuss the situation with a friend. I would be very happy about any comment or advice. I'm together with my girlfriend now for 3 years, and we have been very happy for quite a long... (407 words)

I think there is something between us..how do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, Im 15, bi and recently came out to my friends. One of my friends I am really close to (lets call her X), and I really fancy her and months ago she said she was bi, but then told our other friend that she was not. Then, a few minutes after I said it, she also said "I'm ... (314 words)

Got drunk, unprotected sex, now afraid of pregnancy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Umm ok... on the seventh of this month I got drunk and made a mistake with a guy. I had sex with him and we didn't use protection. Well... I was supposed to start my period like the next day after that or so but I didn't. I sort of have an irregular cycle but for the past six ... (239 words)

I need sex! How can I help myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 and so horny that i am fingering my self.I need sex but it bad. how can I help myself?????????????... (23 words)

I don't want to play too hard to get or become cold because this could damage the friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this friend who was getting closer to me, hinting that he likes me and flirting and then suddenly it stopped!!! I don't know why and we never spoke about it. I am in love with him but I don't know what to do! We are close friends, but I feel that he doesn't flirt or... (171 words)

I'm really confused about women! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I'm going to be really simple here: I like this girl, I'm too afraid to tell her because I'm sure she won't like me like that, it's been a year since I've known her. Her behaviour is very confusing: Only when she wants to she will call me. If I call, email, message o... (299 words)

Living with parents family..a big mess! Need advice!!

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 26 educated bold and strong lady.problem is that i a am married to a man 6 months ago to whom i met online somehow. he seems very innocent sweet and kind person to me although he was not much educated and is a average looking man after 2 month of telephonic friendship we ... (333 words)

My ex has me very confused

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I were together for 9yrs, we started dating when I was 17. We have 2 wonderful children together. 4yrs ago our relationship ended for a lot of reasons. We had been talking for quite sometime about how we loved each other but were unhappy, we were not moving foward. ... (474 words)

Can anyone understand why my b/f makes such loud strange noises?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age - I have tried to understand and am at a loss. Please help me if you can add any insight. My boyfriend is a wonderful person and seems very loving and compassionate. But... Sometimes he scares me. He will vocalize very loud at strange times. Such as reading e-mail and will very ... (184 words)

Will you have orgasm as fast during sex as when masturbating?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - While having sex, will I orgasm as quickly as when I masturbate?? I'm not thinking about having sex, but I'm just wondering.... (22 words)

On V-day I got my boyfriend having sex with my sister

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21 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend told me not to come over to his place on Valentine's day because he said he wasn't feeling well and didn't want me to get sick. But I forget my phone there and I needed it so I went there anyway. I went get there (he give me a house key since we together been to ... (128 words)

How to get rid of flabby fat! URGENT!

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have alot of flabby fat around my arms and tummy. Whats the best excersize to get rid of it? Im going on a 'date' on friday and i want to look amazing. ... (33 words)

Should I text him? Or will he contact me again about his rudeness

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy on Oasis the free Internet dating site who lives in NSW. I live in Perth. We seemed to get along really well. He then started sending me pics of his lower private parts and wanted to know what I was wearing etc and wanted intimate pics of me. At first I said excuse ... (1155 words)

How do I admit that I love her?

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21 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi need help with a girl i like, i meen i can hook up other people but i am to nervise to tell her that i love her, and all i have told her that i like her and i don't think she know's that i truely love her.how do i tell her?????????? ... (55 words)

How do I know if I'm marrying him for love, or for the kids?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How can i tell if i'm marrying this man for love..Or for the kids?I think i love him..But he always gives me a reason not to trust him..He has been unfaithful atlease 2 times that i know about..I have two boys with this man.I think alot has to do with trust.... (51 words)

How do I let a guy know I like him?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I let a guy know I like him? What do I do?... (14 words)

I have a hard time holding my erection, but want to have sex with my girlfriend. What should I do?

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21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 16. i have a wonderfull girlfriend and we been together for a lil while now i love her with all my heart and we have tried sex a couple times but durin the hugging and kissing i get a really hard boner but when we get are clothes off i get soft i thank im to stressed and i ... (119 words)

Should I just let this go wherever it goes, or guard my heart from being hurt?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im having an issue with this man ive been seeing.We first started talking in December.He is very sweet,wonderful personality,a getleman...all great things.But,we are not a couple at this time.And we got on the topic,and my general understanding is that he just likes being ... (342 words)

I need ideas for conversation with this guy, help?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I teelin to these dude n we don't have mch 2 talk bout, so theres always this slight silences. So what do we talk bout. I need ideals or subjects bad!!!!!!!!!!!! Please help me... (34 words)

My boyfriend wants sex, don't think I am ready, what to do?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13 and my boyfriend keeps wanting me to have sex with him......i think in want to too but am still only 13, you only live once!... (28 words)

How do I get my friend to flirt with me?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - umm...i wanna get horny with my friend?wat should i do to get them flirt back or get horny back with me... (21 words)

How can you be friends with benefits, but not be in a serious relationship?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - umm..how can u get ur friend be friends with benefits with u.with out doing a serious relationship like going slow.and flirt with them... (23 words)

He wants to travel, I don't want him to, what do I do?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I NEED HELP... I've been with my boyfriends for a while now, and I love him to death there's absolutely no one I could imagine spending my life with. He's my best friend, and we share these same feelings. My boyfriend and I have experienced so much together and fought... (340 words)

He said he met someone else, but does not want to end it with me, your thoughts?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age - I was in a twenty year relationship and was married to this man for fifteen years. I felt him drifting away just before the holidays. Friends and family were shocked when he announced that he had met an important friend, and no longer wanted to be with me. I ask that he ... (144 words)

Should I have gotten back together with her?

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21 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I know my dribble must be annoying by now. I called our relationship off today based on what I found last night, I put that she grabbed a guys grion behind us because she said she wasnt that type of girl and was drunk at the time, though the pictures I found would sudgest ... (151 words)

My ex is now going out with her cousin??

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21 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well I was going out with this girl for 3yrs but last year well she broke up with me the reason was that one of her cousins told her that I was talking to someone else we live like 20miles between us anyways but yea he told her and yeah it was true it was like a 5th ex gf that ... (523 words)

Am I normal? Or abnormal?

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21 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Am I normal? I'm 15 and me and my girlfriend who I love really much don't have sex because were not ready for sex( but I do finger her sometimes) Anyways My penis is 6 inch and I don't masturbate a lot.. But for me it takes about 20seconds- 2 minutes to reach orgasm... (141 words)

I feel I'm invisible because guys don't notice me

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21 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i am the type of person who would only be considered a friend or an acquaintance. i sometimes feel that i'm invisible because guys hardly ever notice me. i also have a hard time feeling comfortable around guys because i have always had trust issues after growing up in an ... (96 words)

My best friend and his wife split and now he thinks I've taken his exes side.

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21 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. My best friend and his wife recently seperated. It was an amicable split. Recently, they had a disagreement and my best friend and his wife both tried to get me on their side. I told them that I am not getting involved with it and kept out of it. Now, I am ... (207 words)

I left my husband without him knowing, why do I feel so guilty?

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21 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I just left my husband without him knowing because he is a very angry man. I feel kind of sad but he would of try to hit me or something. I left him because he is controlling,lazy,has a anger problem,he takes the phone so i cant talk on it. I cant go any where with my ... (118 words)

He looks a lot older than me and my family is overprotective, help!

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend that i really like, and that i really want to keep seeing, he cares about me and my opinion, but my dad and older over protective brother have seen him and think he looks alot older than me, but ive told them that his 16 years old just like me and that im ... (113 words)

How do I talk to him about this without pushing him away?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been friends with a guy for over a year, we kissed last year, and we did not get together because he was dating someone else (a mutual friend). They broke up 6 months ago. We had sex last week, but I always really liked him. How do I talk to him about this without ... (60 words)

My GF wants to go to the prom, but I don't... what's a good alternative?

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21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a senior dating a sophmore. prom is coming up and she seems interested in going but i really don't want to. i've been to a few dances and just didn't like it at all. so i would rather offer up an alternative. how do you think she'll take it and what might be some good ... (58 words)

My ex is bugging me to let him back into my life

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my boyfriend about four days ago. We had been dating for a year and a half with a brief break up period around 8 months. Everything was great at first and I thought that I might actually spend the rest of my life with him. But after that 8th month ... (322 words)

My boyfriend suddenly stopped talking with me a month ago

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well it was almost a month since my boyfriend stopped talking to me. We didn't get in a fight or anything; we was supposed to go out and we was talking as normal and we didnt follow up to our plans because something happened with his car. So the next day he said we would go out ... (127 words)

Hymen bleeding after having sex 3 times?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is your hymen still supposed to bleed after you have had sex for 3 times?... (15 words)

I really like this boy who randomly touches my boobs

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a boy I am really attracted to. We get off at the same bus stop and all. The other day, we were just sitting on the bus when he touched my boob. Randomly, out of nowhere, just stuck his hand out and touched my boob. I was caught off guard, because I've never been ... (163 words)

Is my mind messing with my love matters?

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21 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well its me again. Since I was like 12 years old my mother started talking to me about love and other things.Well everything that she told me about and what other people would tell me about made my minds growth speed a'lot,well now im fifteen Ive been in 5 short relationships ... (199 words)

My breasts are different sizes

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 16 and my breast's are different sizes. I know that its perfectly normal because no woman has two equally sized breasts, But i wear a C-cup bra, and one is too big for it, and one is too small. So im guessing, one is B and one is D - thats two sizes difference. I s... (183 words)

My friend took my bruises completely out of context

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21 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I play a lot of soccer and other sports so I have many cuts and bruises from it. And I have very (very) huge bruise on my right arm from soccer. Anyway my guy friend saw it and freak out because he thought my boyfriend was doing it and he start questioning me my bf was beating ... (113 words)

I feel aroused by reading about others sexual issues

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is my first question and I really enjoy this site. I read it every day and pretend that I have some other problems others have. I have never been kissed or held and my folks told me very little about sex. In reading about those who are anticipating first sex and those ... (119 words)

Will I lose weight on this diet?

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21 February 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have started a new diet where I eat nothing the except food supplements 'echinacea' and exercise 3 hours a day on my treadmill at 6.5 km per hour. I have been on it for two days now and feel fine though I was just wondering whether this would lose me weight or would the ... (75 words)

If he really wanted to get rid of me why wouldn't he have just left it at that and be pleased that I had said goodbye. Why re-contact me again.

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21 February 2009 (F)

I have spots on my penis!

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21 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I'm 15, I'm a virgin and I have these spots on my penis where they were only at the bottom but now all over. They are the same colour as my normal skin. I don't think they are genital warts. They aren't huge. But I haven't had sex yet so I don't think it's an STD. What ... (62 words)

I don't want these feelings, I want to be straight!

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, here's the thing. I know I am really attracted to guys. When I see a really hot guy, I automatically have a picture of a perfect penis in my head and if I'm near a bed, I'll hop into it and start to masturbate immediately. But lately, whenever I see a really hot girl, I ... (211 words)

He acts like I'm nothing, like I'm not there.

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I tell my boyfriend? He treats me like I'm his trophy. He ignores me all the time and would rather have me at his side when he wants to compare me with his friends girlfriends. I used to like him but I don't any more. He acts like I'm not there. I don't want to break up ... (98 words)

My b/f has a son & ex-wife, how do I deal with that?

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21 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend work together, and thats how we met back in July. We've been together just about 2 months now. He is in the process of a divorce, but the courts won't finalize it until after his ex wife gives birth to this second child, whether its actually my boyfriends or ... (213 words)

We want to pleasure each other without actual sex!

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21 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hye guys.. im 14 and me and my girlfriend have been together for a very long time...and we really like each other, but we've decided not to have sex yet..(yes we're smart).. sso anyways im always turned on when im around her, but i fight the urge...so we've decided to... (217 words)