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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do you dump someone you love but they can't trust you.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - How do you dump someone you love but they can't trust you. I love this girl and we're good together, it's just we argue all time and it's just too stressful right now... I know it will hurt but I don't think I need the extra stress, we've been going out bout 6 months. =(... (55 words)

Is he gay or bi or straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age - My brother wants to play truth or dare and he dares me to do gay stuff to him and he always does it when there are no girls. Is he gay or bi or straight?... (35 words)

Drunken night girlfriend fight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I just wanted to throw a story out and see if my mind is in the right place or not. Basically, I got drunk at a party with some friends. My girlfriend was with me, along with a few of our friends. She had a little too much to drink and was cursing me and trying to humili... (222 words)

How do I stop my ex messing with my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my ex- boyfriend broke up around 8 months ago but we remained good friends. We don't talk often but when we do the conversations always end with him telling me how much he misses me and how he would love to be with me again. Normally I just ignore him or change the ... (155 words)

Why arrange to meet him when she knows damn well the trouble I went through for her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a close female friend who doesn't know many people in the area. I used to (and secretly still do) have feelings for her but being the incapable blithering fool that I am I successfully managed to destroy any chance of a relationship. A few days ago I invited her out ... (732 words)

I love him but I cannot stay with him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I been with my fiance for 2 years and I recently found out he's been cheating on me almost the whole time we've been together. He lied and told me he was done with the relationship with the other woman so I got back with him until found out it still been going on and he has a ... (89 words)

I don't love him any more but I don't want to lose everything I have worked so hard for and hurt my son.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for about 8 years. We have a son together who is 7 years old and I also have a 18 year old son by a previous marriage who lives with us. My partner is a functioning alcoholic. He drinks daily, starting ususally just before noon and drinks all d... (320 words)

My question is 'how do you masturbate?'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I get really horny all the time and I don't know how to masturbate (I'm a girl) although I don't want to stick my finger up my vagina! My question is 'how do you masturbate?'... (36 words)

I don't want to compromise my own morals but I do want to keep my girlfriend happy and satisfied.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi. First off, my girlfriend (23) and I (24) finally got together about a week ago. Secondly, a little over six months ago, she was finally strong enough to get out of a six-year relationship with a complete moron/asshole who physically and emotionally abused her on a daily ... (415 words)

There is no physical attraction for me on my part.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm with a really kind lovely guy but there's just no physical attraction on my part. We've had sex about 3/4 times and it's just completely boring for me! I do usually enjoy sex but it's more like just having sex for the sake of it or to keep him happy. Don't get me wrong, he ... (110 words)

Is he covering it with his anger?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend dumped me 6 months ago, but he keeps wanting us to be friends. Even though we fight all the time. He's now in a rebound relationship with a woman trying to get out of a bad marriage. He's angry at me because I have a hard time being friends with him but at the ... (172 words)

Who here is really in love after two years?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I decided to ask this question after receiving a reply on here from another user talking about after two years of marriage she is no longer happy with her guy - I've never really lasted much longer than 2 years with any one guy either. Anyone out there who is actual... (67 words)

Do guys have mood swings like girls do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I don't know, I just want your thoughts on this.. do guys have mood swings like girls do??? Lately I've had a high temper.. it seems that every stupid thing gets on my nerves... and since I was sick from a cold my eyes were always watering. I don't know why and sometime... (66 words)

How do you ladies feel when your man forgets V-Day?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

- How do you ladies feel when your man of 3 years forgets it's Valentines day and you get nothing. Not a card, not a flower, not a single romantic sentiment? Please advise. I don't know what to do. Mention it? Or just let the day pass by like it was any other. I am so ... (62 words)

I think I'm falling for my best guy friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Well, basically, I've been such good friends with this guy for ages and ages, and well I think I'm starting to really fall for him, so I got two questions really; - how do I know it's that I'm falling for him or if I just think of him as a good friend? - does it work if frien... (66 words)

Ideas on how to get my boyfriend to give me gifts on holidays and treat me like he values me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I get my boyfriend to give me gifts on holidays and treat me like he values me? My boyfriend is affectionate, a good friend, and the sex is off the charts outstanding. Weve been together for 8 months now. For my birthday and xmas which are a day apart he gave me a ... (254 words)

How can I walk away from my best friend, my married BF?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a single mom of two children.. I've been seeing a married man for almost 3 years. I used to be ok with the relationship, because it was not like most "affairs"..he just had two women that he shared equally. Now things have come to a stand still and I've had enough. ... (138 words)

Should I still confront her even though my bestie told me not to confront her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Well, my bestie hangs out with my ex-bestfriend and my ex-bestfriend talks about my friends which are negative things. My bestie tells me everything my ex-bestfriends tells her and my bestie tells me. My bestie also told me to tell people that she didn't say anything to me. I ... (111 words)

He's just confessed to me he's 29... I'm 18, what should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 18 years old and I fell inlove with an 29 year old man... what's really crazy is that he was an undercover cop. I met him at the hospital in the waiting room, he told me he was 17 years old in high school. I believed him because he does look kind of young but at least like ... (107 words)

Was I right to give him an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend had been drinking excessively and always got violent with me. He's pushed me, slapped me and last time after getting in a fight in a bar came home at three in the morning blaming me for that and kept telling me he would kill me. He promised he would stop drinking, ... (165 words)

My sister's new boyfriend RAPED me 4 years ago... how do I handle this???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - About 4 years ago, I was raped. I was 15 at the time, I am 19 now. I never told anyone but my sister. And I told her to never tell anyone. She gave me her promise. (She is 24 now) it all happend on april 4th 2004. I was coming home from visiting my brothers grave site and this ... (691 words)

Can a relationship be sorted if only one person is making the effort?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my man for 7 years now and we have a beutiful 2 year old daughter but for about a year now we have argued practically every time we are together, he is a full tome chef so we very rarely do get to spend alot of time together. I love him so much but lately he ... (275 words)

Ever since my boss kissed me goodbye I've started to want him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - He kissed me goodbye after out works party, and ever since I've started to think of him in a sexual way, not in a relationship sort of way, he's married with kids so I know nothing would happen but I can't help wishing something would, he's 38 and I'm 17 and I know I'm so much ... (119 words)

What do you think about my ex, should I wait for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - So me and my ex, still talk, we had to break up because she isnt ready for a realtsionship right now, because shes still in the process of getting over her ex, of three years, just 2 weeks ago he finally told her hes done with her, after ignoring her for 7 months, anyways th... (220 words)

I told my friend I love her but she loves someone else, what should I say now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay, there is this girl who I've known since August and she goes to my school and rides my bus. I told her I liked her a couple months after I got to know her. (btw I'm a girl) and then a couple days ago I told her I loved her and she said it didn't bother her or anything like ... (149 words)

Can you get pregnant from the pre-ejaculatory fluid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Can a woman get pregnant with the male discharge before sperm (pre semen fluid) What if she's 2days after her periods???... (24 words)

Confused, don't know what to think or do!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - my boyfriend of 6 years and my sons dad finished our relationship yesterday, i thought it was him havin one of his moods but today he has told me its over for good, and even told his mam and dad and asked them if he can move back home. they said no so he stopped at one of his ... (174 words)

My boyfriend has made me paranoid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey guys, I just need someone to read this and then tell me what they think, its getting me really down. I went over my boyfriends house on thursday, and he was doing something upstairs and i was sat on his computer, Me being a typical nosy female, (absolutley nothing to d... (523 words)

Watching sexy movie - what just happened to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hi im gonna be 14 in a couple months and something really strange happened to me. my parents were watching this movie and the man and woman were having sex in bed. i was watching and i started getting really hot and wet like i was peeing in my pants.(although i didn't!) what ... (60 words)

Without her I have nobody to talk to for comfort. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - My girlfriend and I had been going out for 8 months and yesterday she decided to break up with me. We'd been extremely close friends leading up to the relationship and she still felt like my friend during. I know that I love her. There are so many things about her that I can't ... (501 words)

How can I change my sexuality?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - i think im gay but i dont want to be. how can i change my sexuality so that i dont think about men and stop watching videos.... (28 words)

I love my friend but she has a boyfriend already, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - i love a girl and she also loves me so much but just as a friend and she has a bf (boyfriend) i cannot forget her cause she's my friend also what should I do to be happy?... (40 words)

I'm doing ok on my own and I don't know if I should be in a relationship or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

- It is Valentines day and I guess it has got me thinking. Three years ago my twelve year relationship ended and my boyfriend just withdrew from my life. I have done well in every area of my life but when it comes to romance, I am terrified and with those fears really do not even ... (278 words)

He raped me, and is now dating my sister! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

A little habit! I pull my eye lashes out when I'm stressed, how can I distract myself not to do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i have a really bad habit when im around the people i like. its also when im concentrating and when im bored.. i pull my eyelashes out. ive done it for ages, the first time was when i first realised i liked this guy. its so bad i sometimes pull out 5 at a time! i then feel them ... (99 words)

My mum thinks I'm sleeping with my own brother!?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 15 going on 16 and my boyfriend's 19 going on 20. my mom's bitchin cuz she think where havin sex when were not. she want's me to take a virgin test, but i'm sure i'll fail. and his gonna be locked up. how am i gonna get my mom to listen to me, and can she do any thing when ... (64 words)

Do you think my ex he wants to get back with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Well me and my ex broke up and I still care very much about him cause I mean we were in love and still are but a lot of stuff happened that made us break up... Nothing bad but I found a new guy that I like and we have been talking for a week or so. Me and my ex did not talk ... (107 words)

Why is my name in your mouth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - My ex tells everybody he's over me and hates me. But the thing is he can't keep my name out of his mouth and his friendz keep harrassing me. I would really like to know why my ex can't leave me alone if he says he's over me?... (48 words)

He doesn't care...!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Today is valentines day.... and he hasn't even called me or sent me nothing! ... (14 words)

How do you find out if your dad is cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My dad has been acting kind of strange lately well I have seen him like this before too, it seems like it happens every once and a while. My dad works long hours, recently just a few days he has been leaving early to go to work and then coming home really late, I don't kn... (473 words)

He's expecting me to be a virgin..should I tell him I'm not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hey guys i reali do need some advice from u cz i got some problem. i met this guy and he is a family friend he likes me and i like him 2 however he is way older then me and has kids. he knew that i had bf before but i neva told him i've slept with my ex tho and he asked me to ... (114 words)

I'm scared so I send annoymous "I like you" messages

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - okay, i like this boy, i have known him for a little more than a year. we were like best friends but then he moved to another school that isn't too far away from where my dad lives and i come over to my dads every weekend. anyways before i even knew him i asked him out, he said ... (177 words)

Why did he do this to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi There is this boy that I like and my friends say he likes me too, and today I said hello to him on msn and he was replying to the message then stopped and never replyed at all, does this mean he doesnt like me and should I try to talk to him again or just leave it? I know... (83 words)

The crush I've liked forever likes me now but I have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - well i been going out with this boy chris for about 3 months now and we've been having a rollercoaster relationship. we broke up 3 times, and we almost broke up recently but no lie he is completely and 100% in love with me. his only problem is that hes all over other girls. ... (213 words)

What can I do to get people to stop asking questions like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 14 and a very jolly girl, happy all the time etc.... but when i started secondary school when i was 11 or 12 i was happy but between my eyebrows the skin scrunched up and it looked like i was angry when i wasnt that happened cuase i found it hard to see in the light and the ... (237 words)

Why does he keep denying a GF?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy I met a month ago. He's a flirt and since I met him he worked himself to be close to me looking for me and all. Once I thought he was really interested he backed off, so I wonder why? Well, searching in myspace I found his Girlfriend. I felt like used( Thank God ... (239 words)

How to act after rejection, so he'll come running back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Theres this guy that seemed so into me, like majorly. (hes dead nice, and i think its unlikley hes speaking to other girls the same) he mentioned going to the cinema with me and hanging out , etc etc. we bumped into each other twice since weve been speaking online and on te... (241 words)

The man I'm seeing is 33 and still lives with his parents!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been in a 4 year relationship with a man and we have a 4 year old son together. I am 24 and he is 33 but the problem is he still lives at home with his parents. He lives and works an hour away from me and and we only get to see him 2 days a week. He has been maki... (155 words)

I'm tired of all my husband's lies!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years (end of May). He lies constantly about everything. I caught him telling his ex-girlfriend that he misses her (at first he denied it, then he admitted it and said that's how he is with all his friends...ummm..NO). I'll ... (344 words)

I hate my father...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I hate my father and mother. I stilllive at home and I have no friends and no boyfriend and nobody wants me. I am always helping my dad on the farm and I get nothing for it. When I ask can I do something he says I can't, but I can when it suits him I can do something. He sai... (347 words)

I found a text on his phone telling his ex he loved her...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months now and we're really happy together, there's just one thing that upsets me. He's always texting his ex, and I know I shouldn't mind as everyone tells me she's his ex for a reason but it just really gets to me. And then the o... (405 words)

I'm depressed & its getting worse day by day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - dear dear cupid, im a 16 yr old indian girl.i think i am highly depressed though i try to deny the fact to everyone.i act and infact really feel happy and energetic when i am around in college or with my friends. its been nearly 2 months since i broke up with my boyfriend.whe... (597 words)

I let my ex move in with me..should I kick her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Alright, I will try to spare you as many of the stupid details as possible. I had been dating this girl for about 10 months and we just recently broke up. She got kicked out of her parents house, and I let her move in with me, even though I knew it was a terrible idea. Now she ... (380 words)

He talks to my best friend, not me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 284 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - okay so im 13 years old and i really like this guy but the thing is that im not so sure he likes me 2... i text him alot but wenever we hang out at school he doesnt really talk 2 me, he talks to my best friend.. what does this mean? plz help... (54 words)

I'm NOT pregnant and b/f driving me crazy asking me every day if I am!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my bf off and on for a year now. One of the reasons we broke up before is he drove me nuts asking me everyday if i was pregnant. I am on the pill and he pulls out, usually. Well, last weekend he didn't pull out but the next day I started my period. I'm not ... (152 words)

I think I have an STD but I'm scared to ask for help

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - kay this is complicated. when i was 11 i got raped by a relative, n im now 17 n i think i have an std. i have discharge, weird smells, n other stuff that shouldnt happen does. im serious with my bf, once we didnt use anything, no protection. And im afraid that i might of gave ... (111 words)

Valentine's Day was horrible!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - today is our first valentines and sadly its the worst valentines day ever till today. calls me 1 am this morning after he finished work and tells me ohh todays valentines day i forgot happy valentines day honey ,, "yeah u 2 babe" so i wake up in the morning he calls me and says ... (346 words)

I know he wants to be in a committed relationship, but with me? Or someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm a 24 year old female and I've recently gotten out of a relationship and am completely over him - we were completely wrong for each other and I am much happier not being with him! At the same time, a friend of mine (same age) was just dumped by his gf of 3 years, who has a ... (614 words)

Should I dump my boyfriend today?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Its been 6 months and my boyfriend still hasn't told me he loves me. Being valentines day I thought that it might happen today but its 5 pm here and still nothing. Im getting sick of not knowing if im important to him or not. Dont get me wrong he is kind, considerate and lovi... (188 words)

I think my husband is bi-polar and its tearing me up inside that he just doesn't care about all the pain he's caused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently split up with my husband. I am 100% sure he is bi polar. Although his behavior has never been good, for the past 6 months we have been like room mates w/ very occassional benefits. This is not at all what I wanted. I feel like I have spent 2 years crying, begging,... (1659 words)

My head is swirling with doubts---HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok,i need some help please.I realy love this one guy and he loves me 2.We'v been friends for 2yrs almost 3, and were about to start dating.But im starting to think that this wont be what I thought itd be....for either of us.He's starting to be really bossy and possesive ... (229 words)

I'm seeing a married man! Should I stop?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am seeing a married man and I am in love with him. He is love with me but cant leave his wife right now because of his business and financial resonsibilities. Hes afraid if he gets a divorce she will try to take his business, and destroy him financially. Should I not see ... (66 words)

I'm very angry and can't calm down!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey, I've got a problem that won't go away! I get very angry a lot and can't calm down, it may be because I've been rudley dumped (which might happen because of the temper) or becuase of other things. I really cannot calm myself down, though I try very hard. My mother has trie... (136 words)

FWB--I want him to say he wants to be in a committed relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Last week I wrote a question about my fwb. I have a hard time understanding him. This afternoon I called him up to see what he had planned for the weekend. He then asked where I was and I told him I was at the office finishing up some work. He told me to wait there that he ... (346 words)

What's the big deal? I called her I dyke and she overheard it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (?) age 13-15 - Me (we're all 15) and some of my friends went this school dance last week. Well one of my super annoying friends (I think she likes me but I don't) kept asking me to dance with her finally I gave in (and I wanted to make my ex a bit jealous). After the dance I was was talking ... (219 words)

My girlfriend is bothered by the girls in my past. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - hello ive been going out with my g-f for 1 year and a half we love eachother very much i changed my whole life for her i quit drugs i dont fight (as much) anymore i dont get in trouble with the cops anymore and just am a socially healthier person than what i was. i love her ... (210 words)

He's out of my league, and we will never be. But I love him so much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I love this guy I met, when I say love, I will drop out of college and start a family, or even have his baby if he wants me to. I just love him, I may even be infactuated with him. I think about him and cry sometimes, he is 28 and has his life together and I am jus a college ... (226 words)

Dumped my married man and now, he hates the sight of me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke it off with a married man whom i was seeing for 7 years and we have a 5 yo child. Since now, he can't stand me, he lies to his wife and family saying I'm calling his phone and playing with it up, telling me need to get a man. He trys to compete with whatever ... (165 words)

He called me a psycho gf and dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I made a mistake the other night, I was a psycho girlfriend. My boyfriend and I were going to hang out as normal around 730 to watch a game on tv. He called about 620 to say he was going to his old bosses and might not be back right on time but he'd call. Meantime had to take ... (387 words)

Am I deluded here???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi people, I'm a 26 year old guy, and thought I'd write here to get some advice on my relationship with my girlfriend (23) of 6 years. During this time together, we have had our ups and downs, and as most couples do, broken up to make up again. Usually our tiffs last a max... (600 words)

I'm seriously down because I just can't get over my ex...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, Well last August I met this really amazing guy...well I thought he was. And it was a few weeks later he told me he liked me. Anyway, in September we decided to meet up and we kissed which was my first ever kiss. He asked me out and I said yes. We were together for a m... (547 words)

My heart is not in this marriage any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice. I have been married for over 10 years and have a 5 year old son. My husband and I have drifted apart since my son was born. He has treated me like an enemy and I feel like I have been drifting further away and with drawn from him. I don't even want to be ... (233 words)

I felt really uncomfortable when he touched me "there!"

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14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - there's this guy that I've spent nearly everyday after school with since I was 12. He's my mom's best friend so she don't have a problem with me staying in his apartment until she gets home from work. He's been acting really strange around me latly and he's started asking me ... (192 words)

How can I let him know I'm nowhere ready to sleep with him?

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14 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months. I once told him that I'm not abstinent because of my religion but I explained to him that I'm not just gonna give it up to any guy but I think he's been hinting me that he thinks he's gonna get lucky with me and he's not. He ... (194 words)

I feel he doesn't even know that I exist!

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14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I need some help. I have had a crush on this boy in my grade at school for the longest time. In the past, I've sent him an anonymous rose for valentine's day and an anonymous candy cane for christmas. Both times he figured out they were from me. I don't know how but he did. ... (463 words)

I have the serious hots for her!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

14 February 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I have a problem, I've been going to the same school as this girl and every day I see her and never felt anything special for her but the other day... all of a sudden my system starts freeking out around her, my palms start to sweat, I'm as hard as a rock (embarrassing) and I ... (94 words)

What is this small mark on my penis?

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14 February 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - It looks like a bruise and it doesn't come over the skin, I can rub my finger it and it doesn't hurt although there are slight pains at times and there's no bump or anything and there is a vein leading up to it, I would love to get tested but I don't know where to go and I was ... (73 words)

He stares at me at weird times. Why Does He Do That?

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14 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - There's this guy in my class, the thing is he acts weird to me. I've run into him outside of school and obviously he recognizes me (small town syndrome) but he never says hi to me or anything yet he stares at me very intently (I'm observant I know). He doesn't even do the nod ... (298 words)

How do I decide what to do when things are so up in the air?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 284 days ago

14 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My partner and I met at Uni four years ago and had a laidback relationship for six months. During this time I cheated on him numerous times. We had not made it a deep and serious relationship (although monogamy *was* expected) cos we were both likely to go our separate ways ... (786 words)

My guy writes down other guys penis sizes!!!!

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14 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is my guy bi or gay if he calls all male gay talk lines? I found him doing this soon after we met in 2006.. he'd ask guys their penis sizes by the way he'd write them on paper and I'd find them. also he would have their phone numbers but he said he didn't call them back. I ... (145 words)

Why are my nipples so tender?

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14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 17 years old and I have regular c sized boobs. My boyfriend is a real boobs man and likes to touch and squeeze them. My problem is that they are always really sore and it hurts to have them touched. I wear a bra all the time coz it's the only way they don't hurt. When I ... (143 words)

How can I make him cum like he's never done before?

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14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I want to make my man cum like hes never did before! I hear you can do that by putting your finger in his anus... but what do I do, just put it in and that's it? I need help cause I am very much freaky and I wanna suck him off and I want him to cum like he's never done ... (74 words)

How do I help myself orgasm?

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14 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok I'm 17 years old and I have just started being sexually active... I have a guy who is a bit older than me so he's quite experienced, and we have really good sex. The only problem is I've never had an orgasm. I really want to, but I don't know what it feels like or wat to ... (88 words)

Did I still need the morning after pill?

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14 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi there, I tried looking it up, my question and it does have to do with sex, I'm seeing this guy and well we had sex a couple of times made love we used a condom and we were in to the love making good and well he came and after he caressed me, he pulled out and the condom ... (174 words)