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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Met him a few days while in Turkey and now I'm going to live with him there...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I went on holiday to Turkey last year and met a turkish man, I only new him for a few days but they were the best few days ever. When I come back home to England we've stayed in contact and for the past 5 month I have been back, we have spoke every day via: fone every 2 ... (292 words)

The guy I'm talking to now and the ex are friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi guys, well this time last year I was seeing a guy for a couple of months, it wasn't serious, he finished it and nothing ever became of it. We remained civil and talk back and forth. Anyway a guy messaged me on my profile and he's really nice bla we get on so forth, but I'... (129 words)

LDR--do I give up so much to be with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 34 years old, and am in a distance relationship with someone I love. She is 31. We have been together just around a year. She lives in eastern Europe, me in the UK. We are close and notwithstanding the cost, I spend every spare penny travelling to see her on weekends ... (614 words)

Why would my period suddenly become irregular?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm on birth control and have been since last spring. (i wasn't getting my period.) what would cause my period, this month, to suddenly become irregular? i got it at the end of my last pack (as normal) and then 2 weeks later in the middle of this pack, which is totally wrong. ... (62 words)

Sex & the EX & Feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i split up with my ex boyfriend over 3 years ago it was hard for both of us as we ran away from our feelings rather than stick together. weve always been close and we still see each other now and again, although when we do meet up we normally end up having sex. when this ... (137 words)

Relationship effects from sexual abuse

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - From my past of being sexual abused... as well as mental and physical abused it is really starting to effect my relationships... I am 18 yrs. Iv been in many relationships but i can never come to being intimate with anyone. I have difficulty in allowing myself to trust or in ... (338 words)

He lied about his age, was having an affair, what am I supposed to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 244 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - ok well i have a pretty big problem. I've been dating the same man now for four years and im eight and a half months pregnant with our third child but i just found out a disturbing secret about him. First off he's had a dominatrix mistress for a year and a few months and second ... (244 words)

Lose my v-card to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - So i really need advice because i dont kno if i should lose my virginity right now to this guy..he gets his license in 2 days. only 2 DAYS! and thats how much time i have left to decide because that is when he gets his license. and when he does, he plans on having sex. ... (410 words)

Does he still have feelings for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i have been with my boyfriend now for almost 1 year. he told me in the beginning that before he met me he had met a woman online, he used to travel once a month from one end of britain to the other to see her. this went on for 6 months and inbetween they would chat ... (340 words)

How do I get ready for first time sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hi =) this Thursday my bf will turn 18 and we are planning to have sex for the first time. ( well actually its my first time since he is not a virgin). I am not scared or anything but the problem is i don't know how to get ready for it. i want to be perfect for him any ... (73 words)

I caught fiance talking sex on the internet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - My Fiance has a thing with talking to people on dating chat sites, people she hasn't met and i caught her one night talking about internet sex sort of thing. am i being over protective or should i be worried about this?... (42 words)

Is she making me into a pedophile if she lied about her age?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

3 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok, so I met this girl (from this site actually) and we have hit it off, and we are in a relationship, despite the fact we live hundreds of miles away form each other. I'm 19 and coming 20 in a few months. Her profile said she was '13-15'. Which I found out later because sh... (234 words)

Macho behavior is killing us along with the verbal abuse

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i dont know how to explain the following problem but its with my boyfriend.. I have been writing to this column for some time now but the problems in our relationship seems to remain the same.. i can explain what bothers me.. My boyfriend is a very kind man.. he... (816 words)

How do I talk to my brothers about their fight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - K my question is how can i talk about what happened with my two brothers with out causing too much conflict? But a bit of background will also help so here goes, L and D both got engaged L to R and D to A, well they both have kids now but weddings didnt go through, now L is ... (180 words)

Am I wanting too much? Too soon? Paranoid?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently met the most wonderful guy through a mutual friend, who is intelligent, caring and makes me feel wonderful. He doesnt want to rush anything, and is not ready for a serious relationship, as he had a bad experience last time. This is fine with me, as I am not the type ... (184 words)

V-day! A card? no card?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi. ok I need some help from all d males (and females if they wish) I know my boyfriend realy well but I still cant think of anything to get him for valintines day!!! what do lads like?! I am working that day(flower shop, very very busy day!) so we agreed on just watching a ... (125 words)

How can I grind more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - So i ahve been dating this guy for a while and he has a big(the biggest i have had)penis. I like to grind with my man and i cant really do that with him since he is so big...How can i make the grinding part work??Do i have to be more wet or something??... (54 words)

Why does he flirt with me if he loves her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm a 14 year old girl and i really really like this guy in my class. my best friend used to be his girlfriend but then they broke up and then she dated another guy and he is still in love with her. i told him i liked/loved him and he said that hes not rejecting me its just ... (111 words)

I've lost all my close friends and I've been crying for a week

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ive done something and have lost all of my close friends (ide rather not explain and its too long and complicated), i need anyones help. ive been crying for over a week now, my life is miserable. ive lost all 4 of my closest friends (i still have a lot of friends just not my ... (156 words)

Where can we go outdoors?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I know it says 13-15 but I am 17 I thought you had to be a certain age to join this. Me n my boyfriend do a few sexual things but not sex as yet. We have only fingered and wanked. How do I really drive him crazy outside as we cnt be indoors because we wud be interupt... (73 words)

What's with the itching?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hi i really need some help im a 15 year old girl and i keep itching down bellow around my vagina its really iriatating me and when i piss its really saw i have no vagina hair down there but im just a bit concerned wat it could be?i am quite sexually active but i only have sex ... (99 words)

How do I talk to my b/f about lack of sex in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like some advice on how to speak to my boyfriend about the lack of sex in our relationship. We have been in a long distance relationship for around 18 months. We are in our early/mid thirties. In the run-up to us having sex for the first time we were really lovey ... (388 words)

Why does this bother me so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

- Im confused....why has this affected me so much? Basically, a man I slept with a couple of years back I have just found out that him and his gf of a year are expecting a baby. Instead of being happy for them, Im wishing it wasnt true and I havnt thought about nothing else all ... (122 words)

We're young want to marry--not socially acceptable

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I are both 19. We are freshman in college, and we have been together for about 3 years. We have known that we wanted to marry each other since before we were even together. We spent a year as friends before we were anything more, we just took our time trying to ... (738 words)

He pouts when I don't want sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - He says that he can't stand drama from a girl. Yet, he ignores me for a few hrs. when I say no to 'sex'. Or he'll try the whole guilt trip, being manipulative, things like that. After he ignores me, the next day he'll expect me to respond to his text or call. And just a... (96 words)

Should I mail his wife and let her know the affair is over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had an emotional affair with a married man. His wife found out and wants a second chance to work on their marriage.He agreed,but I do not think he is putting a lot of effort into it because when I speak to him he always tells me that he loves me and misses me. He said that ... (287 words)

I don't want a life of emotional abuse! But how do I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. We've been together well over a year, but in the last 4 months things are different. I have written here before about how he started changing and is almost kindof emotionally abusive (name calling), and how he playfully poked and ... (598 words)

Why is there so much pressure for virgins to give in?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i've come across alot of teen girls on here who say they are virgins and are not ready for sex, yet they want to do it just to please the guy. please tell me why girls feel so pressured into having sex when they don't want to. why do SOME guys not understand the "i'm just not ... (114 words)

Feels like a lose-lose situation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Do I stay with a boyfriend that I don't love? I've been going out with a guy now for almost eight months now. My feelings have always wavered about him, since I wasn't looking for anything serious when I met him, and I told him this. Unfortunatley things have got serious... (300 words)

Has anyone 'come out' at this age (16) to friends and family? How did you do it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

3 February 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi, I'm nearly 16 and I live in Warwickshire in England. The question I wanted to ask is has anyone here came out at this age to their friends and family? If so, can you advise me on how to go about it? I usually would have little trouble, but my mum can be homophobic and... (145 words)

Why have I lost my sex drive with my man? I've considered cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Help im so confused! I been with my boyfriend just over a yr and half we have a 7 month old daughter together. We have had our problems, with him drinkin but he is doin much better now. I do love him and am attracted to him its just for a while now i feel i lost my sexual ... (94 words)

I feel overwhelming guilt about what happened with my brother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, i really need help. my brother and i used to play together, princes and princesses, but it became more than that, we started kissing passionatly and (i cant believe im admitting this) i sat on top of him. ive always loved him but only as a brother. it makes me feel ph... (153 words)

How do I sweep my girl off of her feet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - hi my names john am 20 years old and i want to sweep a girl off her feet!, we have history me and sara, we dated 14 months ago and had intercourse, i wrongly called the fling off, from then on we have played a lot of mind games with each other whilst out in our local club every ... (183 words)

Another man plagued by his girlfriends past... how can you get the ex out of your mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) age 18-21 - i cant forget my girlfriend's sexual past although she accepts the fact that i have slept with a hooker and my ex girlfriend. i feel like an asshole for being like this. we really love each other and want to get married too. i love her too much and can't let her go but at the ... (161 words)

Is he too cozy with his ex-wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he too cozy with his ex-wife? I have been dating a guy for 9 months now and the whole time have felt he is too cozy with his ex. They have three teenage children together and I totally understand having to deal with her BUT..... She calls him all the time to borrow things..... (352 words)

My boyfriend keeps pushing for sex and I don't feel ready!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend keeps pushing the issue on 'Sex' And I'm not ready. He tries and tries again, but his efforts are useless. We've gone as far as very passionate kissing and touching, rubbing that kinda thing. I'm not a tease but he initiates all this and I end up putting the brakes ... (197 words)

He wants to sort out some issues and in the meantime just be friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have recently met a lovely, caring man through a mutual friend. We have been seeing each other a lot, and have been out on what I see as dates, and have spent lots of time kissing and cuddling and watching movies. We have got touchy feely, and there is obviously a huge amount ... (230 words)

Honesty...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a divorced 34 year old male. My last marriage was one full of trust issues and what I like to call lack of love. I am now engaged to a gorgeous and wonderful women. The one good thing about my last marriage is that I learned the number 1 and most important key to a ... (232 words)

Lack of intimacy in our year long relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm 23 in a serious relationship, and my girlfriend (21) and I have been together for a lil' over a year. We both love each other dearly and we communicate well with each other...however, there's a lack of intimacy in our relationship. I'll give her kisses and she'll give me ... (186 words)

I don't want to make a fool of myself, should I send him a valentine card?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I met a really nice lad followed me round bars on night out and left his mates to come to next bar to see me. He was a proper gentleman. Went out a couple times and everything was going well, he invited me back to his to watch tv and insisted on paying for everything. ... (117 words)

I'm seriously considering getting a hysterectomy...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a question that may offend some people, for which I'm sorry, I just feel like I can't ask anyone I know, because they'll judge me. I'm a 16 year old female, and started my periods when I was 12. Every month, I get such extreme stomach cramp that I can't bear to mo... (338 words)

Non-experienced girlfriend with master of experience boyfriend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm a 15 year old virgin with ZERO experience in the sex department and my boyfriend seems to be a FREAK in that department. He's 18 but you see I wanna be able to fufil his sexual desires but I'm a virgin and I dunno if I wanna lose it yet. Yet I don't wanna disappoint him ... (70 words)

What do you reckon? Does my ex still have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm always going to have a soft spot for my ex (my first love) we broke up 4 years ago, but I'm wondering if he still likes me. When I went to look around the place he was at College, I text him just saying I was there. He text me back asking what I was up to, who I was wi... (307 words)

Why does our country (UK) come to a standstill when it snows when other countries manage to keep going with transport etc?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Why can't the UK get it's self together and provide snow ploughs and more gritting lorries when it snows, instead of just giving a weather warning out and having drivers crash? Why does the country have to come to a standstill? They want us to use more public transport, but ... (73 words)

Should I be annoyed my wife is discussing our marital problems with her friends.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

3 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Should I be annoyed my wife is discussing our marital problems with her friends. Because I am! I know we have problems but I haven't talked to my friends about it, I feel it's private information. What do you think?... (42 words)

Why do I keep thinking of cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid. I'm thinking about cheating on my boyfriend. I do love him and we have a baby together and there is a guy totally hot for me and we kissed today, and the thoughts I have about him are wild. And I can't get this feeling out my head that if I don't cheat with this guy ... (75 words)

Connection at work - what should I do? Do you think she has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was moved for training at my center where I work. I was placed for training 2 weeks - my trainer and I had a connection, always touching my hand and making a comment about my ph voice. I left to go down to a diffrant area- she would find excuses to go down there and talk to ... (888 words)

He swears he wants to be with me but what do I do, he is messed up and unstable...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have had a very rocky relationship. We started dating almost immediately after my previous relationship, which was a huge mistake on my part, because for at least 6 months into the relationship, I still wasn't over my ex. My ex came back to me and for a few ... (530 words)

Help I'm in love with my cousin!!!!!!!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - A few months ago I went out with my cousin but after 2 months we broke up. Later a friend and i talked about him and expressed how i still loved him. She went on to tell him and he was so angry we had an agument and we really hated each other. Later on we discussed to min... (141 words)

Do I tell her I love her or would this scare her off again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a very special girl in my life, yes we call each other a friend. We are practically a couple but the truth is we don't go out and she has said she's not looking for a boyfriend right now. We talk all the time, we have trust and are honest with each other. We seem to ... (357 words)

Why is he behaving like this? Does he really only want to be friends or does he need time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend of 1 year and 2 months, broke up nearly six months ago now, but have remained friends since. His reasons for the breakup were that he wanted to concentrate on himself (his family, studies etc). For many of these months I was constantly... (570 words)

Pregnant and not feeling ANY effort on his part, help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together about 2 years (in May). I am 4 1/2 months pregnant with his child. For the first part of our relationship he was an abusive alcoholic (up until he became sober 4 months ago). 3 times he destroyed my home, he damaged my car, he's gone so ... (475 words)

We used protection but I can't stop worrying about unwanted pregnancy, help, I'm 14!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I dont know if i am pregnant or not? I am 14 years old and had sex 3 weeks ago, i haven't missed a period yet but i am so worried. I should be coming up to my period in a few days but i am so tired all the time , and my breasts have become bigger and tender, i always feel sick ... (116 words)

What should I do for Valentine's Day?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

3 February 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Valentine's day is nearing and i'm worried.. very worried. This'll be the first valentine's I've not been alone. Valentine's a day before mine and my girlfriend's 3 month 'anniversery'... which makes me feel yet more under pressure. I was thinking of keeping it simple and ... (82 words)

My boyfriend told me I love you after 2 weeks of dating. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - MY boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 weeks now. Everything seems great and we get along so well. But last night he said I love you to me so it freaked me out and I made him leave and go home... He kept justifying hiself saying he was truly in love with me and all ... (138 words)

Any way of being 'less tight' during first time sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for a while now and am seriously considering having sex with him in the not too distant future. I'm a virgin and he's not, one of my main concerns is the pain I might experience as well as the fact that I don't think I'd be very good. I've spoken ... (155 words)

I feel the odd one out. I'm not like my family. How to talk about it without starting an argument?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok so this isn't a relationship question but I think this site looks like a semi-respectable, if not more, place for advice. So I am 15, nearly 16. I have an older sister who is very very clever, heading to Uni in september etc, turning 18 this year. I have a younger brother ... (382 words)

Are his questions healthy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it healthy for a boyfriend to ask his girlfriend about her past in such details so as to know (for example) how large another man was, how he made her reach orgasm, how strong the orgasms were with other men, or how long they would go down on her for? ... (51 words)

Self conscious during sex with husband because he never pays me compliments, etc. How can I get over my trust issues?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I have been married for 11 years,and I am 31 years old, my husband is 34. We have 4 kids together ages 15,11,9, and 8 months. I consider myself to be attractive even after 4 kids...meaning I’m not skinny or overweight. I’m Latina so I have a naturally curvy ... (517 words)

I have got accepted for a job nearer him but he's going to join the army....will I always be wondering 'what if'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Theres a man Ive liked for over 4 years now (I got talking to him more after I'd split up with my ex)and we became really flirty and really good friends wieh eachother (over the internet). Last year, we finally met up with eachother (3 times, he lives around 3 hours away) and ... (351 words)

Should I tell his new girl that I had sex with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex bf broke up about a year ago, we were on and off for 5 years. He chased me for years and i knocked him back, until finaly i thought i'd just give him a go, and lived together for 7 months, i thought i wasnt happy so i walked out. He went to live at his mums because ... (454 words)

Am I destined to be fat forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to, and I have decided I am going to try. I feel like a fat hog, and it's gotten to the point where I'm sick of looking in the mirror. To tell the truth, I am so scared, though. I've read about, and been told, that there are some people that just CAN'T lose weight. ... (97 words)

How can I make sense of this so that I can move on with my current boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I met my ex boyfriend a few years ago and fell deeply in love with him, I never knew love like this before, he was everything to me. He told me he loved me too, we started to look for a house together, talked about kids and everything was great until things started to go down ... (479 words)

I gave him a hard time and now he's left me. How do I get him back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, right here goes... I have been with a guy for 4 months now and we got on amazingly, i mean he seemed smitten with me, always telling me he missed me, wanting to see me all the time and telling me he was miserable before he met me and that he's been so happy with me, thinks ... (303 words)

Am I am Lesbian?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 15 and I think I might be a lesbian, but I'm not sure AT ALL. Last year, I started thinking about what it would be like to be with a girl and now, The idea of being with a man kinda seems distant. Theres only one guy I've been really attracted too, but he plays around a l... (139 words)

Can we get though this or am I kidding myself that he is sorry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i wrote on this site a while ago after i found out about my husbands 3 affairs.Since then we have tried to work things out i accept some of the blame as to why he cheated but feel that he should of talked about the way he felt at the time.In my mind if he felt that i only ... (284 words)

Does beauty compensate for not being sexy in marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am married for 10 years and have a 7 month old baby. My wife is a beautiful, intelligent and successful woman and a great mother. However for as long as i can remember i have requested her to dress be sexy to some degree. I have spent many hours describing what is sexy, i ... (584 words)

How do I not make love with the man of my dreams??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i'm in love with this gr8 guy who happens to be all i've eva wantd +more. he makes me feel lyk flying and i love him to bits. this myt sound silly but i need ideas on how not to have sex- yet. he asked once but we talked about it and we agreed to wait till we gt married ... (166 words)

Open relationship backfired! Can we save our marriage or is it me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is my marriage over? I feel so insecure he is with me for the wrong reasons. Here goes, I have been married for 10yrs and with my husband for 13yrs. Our sex life goes through cycles, over 2 years ago it was bad I admit, once every 6 weeks. We tried new things to renew ... (453 words)

My ex is now my sister's boyfriend but tries to get me to me to sleep with him! Any help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a bit of a problem. I have a boyfriend and have been with him for seven months now and hes amazing. I would never in a million years cheat on him but my sister has been engaged to this man, we'll refer to him as Dan for five months and they dated for a year before that. ... (276 words)

My emotional affair ended with the married man! I miss him..any advice?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I had an emotional affair with a married man with 2 kids for the last year. i trapped in his emotional talks only. e said so many lies to me that "i swear on god that i love you so much" i used to discuss my all the problems with him so openly. he used to hear all very ... (239 words)

Why do gay men like to talk about sex in public? Is this in fact true?

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Why do gay men make point of talking about sex in public like in a graphic way . I don't know of any of my straight friends that need to fulfill such a urge. Are they just exhibitional, is this part of being gay? I find it kind of degrades them and their causes to be tak... (60 words)

Is my Army guy interested in me or not?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am "seeing" a army guy who has just recently been deployed. I thought we had made a connection before he left and we said that we would here for eachother and talk on msn. However when i emailed him 4 days ago, i did not get a reply which is understandable. But yesterday wh... (169 words)

What does "make me feel like a girl mean"?

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Dearest, I am engaged to the most beautiful lady I've ever known, after a long 6 years relationship. I can never see myself with any other lady than her. Now the thing is, I am trying to maintain a long distance relationship and apparently its really hard, I am working he... (189 words)

Star signs & relationships?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I was just intruiged about everyone's views on star signs being insightful into relationships? -To what extent does being a scorpio (for example) effect your relationship? -What star signs go 'best' with others? -Should Aquarius avoid other Aquarius (for example)?? ... (63 words)

A little piece of encouragement

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i just wanted to say a few words of encouragement to all of you who might be have a hard time with relationship and such. first off all, the God who made you loves you and is watching you all the time. God did not design your body's for sex, so if you are considering s... (239 words)

How to invite female to flat for first time?

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - how can i invite a female friend to my flat for first time. I need a good excuse, maybe invite her to watch movie and order food? Please give lots of suggestions! Thank you... (34 words)

Unwanted texts & phone calls

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - my friends boyfriend of abt 7 mnths has been disturbn me lately with texts n calls. he even told my friend that i dnt call him or contact him n he hates that i dont. its scary coz this is the third tym her boyfriends r doin this. she wud nt undestand am innocent n wud think it ... (95 words)

Guys intentions?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - HI guys! Just a quick question really... Recently me and one of my male friends have been drunkenly 'getting together' for sex :S basically, we have been really close friends for about 4 years but I'm not sure what I want from this yet. He has text me alot and drunkenly de... (156 words)

How do I find confidence & be happy with myself?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm insecure with how i look. i have all these family/friends/work problems coming at me all at once. and dealing with a break-up! i know one of my problems is that i am too passive and naive. (is it wrong to be nice and trust everyone?) another problem i have is that i don't ... (181 words)

Does it matter that I'm single? Or is he only interested in sex?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello everyone... I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year. We had a fairly deep connection, but things did not work out well between us, and I decided to finally break it off a few days ago. During the last week before we broke up, I cheated on my boyfriend ... (243 words)

What's it mean if she doesn't reply back?

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - i met this met girl today and she seem nice and all n i got her num today and i dont wanna text heron da first day so i jus left a message sayin hey how are u? its (name)im not sure if u remeber me but this is my number. hoe you are well x now tho get to me question she hasetn ... (100 words)

Could my best friend be the one?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my best friend, we have been best of friends for 20 years and I am torn.. I have been with my husband for 15 years, married for 9. I have found that even though I love and care for him, I am not IN LOVE with him. The more I think about it, the more I realise ... (123 words)

How do I tell him after we had sex that I want a monogamous relationship while at this level?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I tell a guy after I have dated him six times, had sex with on the sixth date, and want to have sex with again, that I want to be monogamous while we are in this level of the relationship? It's an ex post facto thing and, although specifically monogamy was not discussed, ... (126 words)

I feel she takes me for granted, what can be done here?

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I've been dating a girl for 3 1/2 months but it seems like she would rather hang out with her friends more than hang with me. Like we won't see each other for 5 days and when we suppose to hang out it will only be for a couple hours before she has to do something else. I know ... (81 words)

He broke up with me after my mum made this scene, should I wait longer before telling him I miss him?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My dad past away 4 month ago. He was always there for me through all my relationships. When he passed away, they said I have to come live with my mother, who i havent seen since she left me at age 8 years old. Well i started living with her, she's persian and really strict and ... (728 words)

Is there any way I could get my party boy to want to settle down with me?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I went to my friends house and met his roomate who was really cute. The first time we just kissed and he took me to his room but I said that I should go and left. Then when I went over there again, we kissed again and this time he was trying to do more, feeling me up and stuff ... (172 words)

How long should I wait before texting?

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - hey i recently met this girl at my school only for 2 day pretty much and yeah i got her number like after school like at 3pm when do you guys suggest it be good time to text her coz i dont wanna text to early n like seem desperate or i got nuthing else better to do ay shuld i ... (64 words)

I'm attracted to my ex more than my boyfriend.

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I love my boyfriend I've been going out with for a month,but im in love with another boy I had sex with before I started talking to my boyfriend.the another boy I had sex with is confusing me on his feelings about me.I really really wanna have sex with him again.I don't know ... (87 words)

Is he too busy or has he lost interest?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - So I have been getting to know this guy since november(he's 22 and I am 18), we started out texting and talking on the phone everyday, we didn't really see each other because he lives about 30 minutes away. But when we did see each other we had great conversation. Even though I ... (485 words)

Should I still try be friends with them, or move on?

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - So I've been best friends with these two guys for a couple years. We all look at porn and masturbate. One time I was at work and they were looking at internet porn together and they thought it would be new and exiting to give each other hand jobs. Now they are really close ... (113 words)

Shared friends or separate social groups better in a relationship?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I was curious as to which scenario you think makes a relationship work better. If the both partners have the same group of friends that hang out on a regular basis or if each partner has their own group of friends that they alternate hanging out with or spend time with ... (69 words)

Should I voice out to my mum???

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am turning 20 this year. i have not been in a relationship before. My family is quite conservative about this matter, especially my mum. I started to hang out with a guy recently. And she started to giving some advice... hint me not to hang out with him too often. I think t... (143 words)

How can I connect with my GF's Amish father?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok, I know this is going to sound really weird and completely unbelievable, I’m sorry this is so long. But please follow the situation… My girlfriend’s father was Amish and he was shunned, but he still likes to keep some of the traditions of the Amish in his household. For exam... (591 words)

My three daughters are treating my girlfriend like crap!

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3 February 2009 (?) age 26-29 - My three daughters (they'll 5, 4, and 8 but mainly my oldest) treat my girlfriend (of a year) like crap. She (my oldest) tells my gf or me to f*** off or to drop died (her sisters are starting to copy her). She have been acting like this since she started hanging out with this ... (133 words)

All men! Is confidence... Hot or not???

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have never been a confident girl. Althought people tell me I should I like every other girl, see nothing more then my FLAWS.. I have heard from a number of people men see confidence attractive? I in many ways believes this. But I have never heard it from " the horses" mouth ... (92 words)

Is shaving anal hair a turn on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I've heard about people who shave their anus... It would be something I would consider because I think anus hair is really gross but its not exactly an easy area to reach and I don't want to cut myself. I've also heard of people who have their partners shave that area for th... (101 words)

I have two college degrees, but have been unemployed for awhile now. Got a job interview, but not sure if I even want it. What to do?

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3 February 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have a problem. I have been unemployed for a looong time and living with family. I live in a territory in which is very normal to be unemployed because most of the people go to college but there aren't many jobs. I ocassionaly work part time filling out surveys cold can... (591 words)

Should juvenile offenders be tried as adults when committing adult crimes?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - ok so i know this has nothing to do with sex, love, dating or relationships but i didnt know where else to ask this. well my question is should juvenile offenders be tried as adults when committing adult crimes such as murder? we're going to have a debate tomorow in class and i ... (89 words)

Does he really want to be just friends or does he just need some time?

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3 February 2009 (F)

Could someone shed some light on the idea of tantric sex? What's it all about?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello all! Im not having a relationship problem,thankfully.But im here seeking some insight into something that I know nothing about.I was talking to my boyfriend last night.I asked what he was up to,and he was online reading about tantric sex.Ive never heard of this before,he ... (156 words)

I think my friends back home have replaced me with a girl I can't stand!

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, I think my friends back home have replaced me with a girl I can’t stand! I am 26, and live in a city far from my hometown (by choice). I have a job I love, some wonderful and supportive friends, and a boyfriend (who was once one of those wonde... (566 words)

My boyfriend has become violent with me, and I no longer feel I can trust him. Can our relationship ever recover?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Two days ago in what should have been a simple albeit heartfelt discussion about the way our relationship was going, my boyfriend and I started arguing. He swore at me before I had time to finish a sentence or really even start upon what I wanted to say and so I pushed some ... (734 words)

What is the legal definition of common law in Canada?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am curious to find out the legal definition of common law in all of Canada by breaking it down by province. Someone is convinced that common law status in Alberta is three months, but that is incorrect. Also there is this girl on facebook that met a guy, moved in with him, ... (119 words)

Is it worth the risk to fall in love again?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a real dilemma on my hands. I reconnected with someone I knew in high school. Didn't date him then, but I ran into him recently at an event. We talked and I was very attracted to him. So, I emailed him and we've been talking over the phone as well for about 2 months ... (230 words)

For you computer geeks..is it possible to find anyone's current email address?

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3 February 2009 (F)

- I have a problem, my boyfriend is getting emails from and ex who is truly a troubled woman, she has bipolar disorder...I set up a new email account for him and about two months later, she has found it and sent him and email acting as if they have been talking and sharing his ... (117 words)

Does anyone have any ideas on how I can break up with him once and for all?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If anyone out there can help me, I would be so very grateful... I have a lying, cheating, stingy, emotionally and slightly physically abusive boyfriend. I know I should break up with him. I know he is bad for me. I have caught him on Adult Match maker several times ... (263 words)

I'm suspicious of my uncles and sister's relationship.

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a suspicion there is something more than normal going on between my sister(22) and our uncle (36). This suspicion is shared by a handful of other people close to both me and my sister. My biggest concern is the fact they are sharing a bed and have been living together ... (158 words)

Does she want to be friends, more than friends?

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - ok so... ive asked all my friends and id like to hear someone elses opinion on this.. ok so i like this girl. on the first day of school she asked me for my cell number, and we talk alot every night and we hang out a lot. ive asked her out but she was going out with this guy... (170 words)

Could I be pregnant from his naked rubbing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend and I recently had sex. We used a condom, but I just realized that he rubbed himself against me while neither of us were wearing clothes and he didn't have the condom on yet. Could I be pregnant?... (40 words)

My GF has been haunted by her fathers sexual abuse, how can I help her?

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - OK well i have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over three months and she recently told me a secret that she has never told anyone not her friends or her family she told me that her father has been what i guess u can call raping her since she was a little kid... (116 words)

How can I help my wife get over the still birth she just went through?

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3 February 2009 (?) age 26-29 - My wife had a still birth (a month ago). We both wanted to be parents but something went wrong (we`re not sure yet). She`s been moping around the house. She is blaming herself for happen. I been telling her it isn't but all it does causes fights. She doesn't want sex (we should ... (64 words)

I'm completely scared about the pain that will come with first time sex!

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I dont want to seem naive or typical when i ask this but i have a sex question. My boyfriend wants to have sex and im not opposed to the idea but im scared about the pain. He's an amazing guy and hasnt pressured me into anything but i know he wants to have sex. i love him a lot ... (86 words)

Do intentional one-way conversations work?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am taking a break/vacation with my boyfriend of 10 months right now. It's only been a few days, but I realized many things. One being that I feel that taking a break is just running away from our problems. I'm want to give him space and all that, but I do want to talk to him. ... (139 words)

How can I warn her that her new BF is an abusive ass??

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I dated this one guy for two years and a year and a half of that time was utter hell for me. Though I didn't know I was actually being abused until just a couple months ago. Since then, I broke up with him because he eventually cheated on me and I caught him in the act. ... (326 words)

Engaged to a guy I love but wish I was still with my ex for the sex.

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - OK,I have a few problems in my sex life, all of which I would assume are my own for not speaking up, but the main is, I'm in my mid 20s and I've never had an orgasm with any partner, by myself no problem, but I know the main problem is because in the heat of the moment, it's ... (177 words)

I lied to my girlfriend, how can I fix what I've done?

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Hey, i have another issue. I did something really bad I lied to my girlfriend and like i told her that i was going to my grandpas house and then like i went to the movies. Then when i got there her friends saw me and i was sitting next to one of my friends that was a girl.... (228 words)

I'm losing my platonic male friend because of his jealous girlfriend, help!

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male friend who I have been friends with for 4 years. Nothing sexual just great friends, We do all kinds of things together, camp and even sleep in the same tent with never any sexual feelings. His new girlfriend is jealous of me and refuses to let him and I do things ... (65 words)

I went from wanting him for sex to wanting him for a relationship.

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok. Me and this guy had been texting, bumping into eachother on the odd occasion and having very few one-to-one sit down chat sessions. But one thing is sure, there was some major sexual chemistry between us both. Weeks went by and he visited me early hours of saturday morning ... (168 words)

Is this what they call police officer mentality???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend goes from nice to mean constantly. It's very annoying. We have stopped going out together, which also is because I'm at my job from 8am to 430pm and he's at work from 3pm to 11pm. So the two days off a week he has off he goes out with his friends. He never asks me ... (265 words)

What do I do about my out of control crush?

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Hey. I think I'm a bit psychologically unstable. I recently started to have a big crush on this one girl, but for some reason this is different. When I'm not around her, I think about her all the time. I can't concentrate on homework, and whenever the thought that she might not ... (147 words)

His family & co are living with us and its driving me crazy!

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - ok well me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and half now and have been living together for eight months. Recently his sister who is a lesbian lost her job and her and her girlfriend needed somewhere to stay. I'd never met the girlfriend so i was kind of weary at ... (284 words)

Does this make me a bad person I wonder?

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3 February 2009 (F) age 13-15 - I been Friend with a guy for a really long time and he's liked me for years but i was never single or had the same feelings for him, But Know That he has a Girlfriend (wich i know he doesnt like her that much) but i find myslef feel jelious, but i still Dont love him i think i ... (80 words)

Living situation?

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello! I'll get right to the point. I currently live with my father and have for several years now after my parents divorced. My current life is nice, though I have no motivation for anything. It's an extremely small town with no movies, malls, cell service and all that... (508 words)

What are these guys thinking?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Over the last couple of years, I have had several guys do this to me and it is driving me crazy. These guys take my things without asking. The first time, a nice guy took my calculator all the time without asking. At first I asked for it back, but he kept doing it so I gave up ... (154 words)

Wrong for 19 year old guy to want a 13 year old girl?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - well my question is, is it wrong for a 19 year old boy to want a 13 year old girl (he wants her in the bad way and has done the same to other girls and then dumped them after he got what he wanted) and if so how do i help this girl if she won't listen?... (58 words)

I cannot sleep most days because of the guilt I carry

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am engaged to be married and both of us have been in love for a few years now. when i first met him, he was very broad minded about things, it was only after he fell in love with me that his thinking changed and he had to accept that he was old fashioned. My problem ... (304 words)

The importance of pictures in a relationship

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, My gf and I have been dating for a while and it has really been wonderful. There is one thing that bothers me though, we rarely take pictures together and when we go out we don't take as much pics as I would like us to... Is that a problem or am I thinking too muc... (110 words)

How can I enlighten him about sex?

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3 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I recently got with a new guy who isn't very sexually experienced. He comes across quite dominant/confident sexually, which is good because I want him to do what he feels comfortable with. HOWEVER, the other day I was stroking 'him' and he was saying that he thought I should ... (211 words)

Does she see me as a friend? Or more?

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3 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I just wondered if i could have your opinion on a situation i'm in with a girl. I've known this girl for about 8 years now, she is the sister of one of my best friends. Although i have known her for quite some time, it is not until recently (ie. the last year) that we have ... (335 words)