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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do most guys act this way after sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Do all guys, or most guys act this way the day after sex? I've noticed this with the past (2) relationships. We have an amazing time, sex and all. Then the next day it's like short answers, small talk, a bit distant, and expects for the girl to be all over them. At the end when ... (254 words)

My friends are all getting boyfriends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - please help. I know you cant actually comfort me that much as the fact I have are bleak..but I just need to tell someone, anyone.. I feel so trapped at the moment. My friends are all getting boyfriends..or already have bfs and are all so happy. Theres a guy I like..who ... (128 words)

Ways to sexually satisfy an older woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) age 26-29 - I am close to an attractive older woman who is 12 years older than me. I would like to consider sex with her. Is there a way I can confirm that she is interested? I am a bit concerned about satisfying her sexually if we do it. I know she has more experience than me given th... (100 words)

She says "Why do you always doubt me?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm not 100% sure if my best friend cares, loves me etc... I asked her if she did, and she always says "yes, why do you always doubt me?". When I text/IM/call or whatever she sometimes doesn't answer or replies back to me.... (43 words)

I don't want a bad reputation but I want to fool around and have fun!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 15 and all these guys are trying to get in my pants, like at a party these hot guy i was dancing with put my hand on his dick, and he had a huge boner, and this other guy kept raising my dress til it was barely covering my butt. Im not ready to lose my virginity yet, but i ... (182 words)

I don't want to like him and then he ditches me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - ok so ive met this guy..recently ive had some bad relationships that have ended up goin nowhere and leaving me hurt...so i wanted opinions on this one before i get too involved. ive known this new guy for a couple of years but nothing ever happened..but he asked me to go o... (201 words)

Please help! How do I get her out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 281 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was seeing a girl a few months ago, and it didn't work out. It's been over four months now since we broke up, and over three months since the last time I spoke to her. We're never going to get back together or anything, in fact it's unlikely I will ever even see her again. ... (137 words)

B/f & I are always arguing about sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - me and my boyfriend are always arguing over sex.its been an issue for a while. well i finally caved and told him it would be within a few months. i dont really have a problem with this. but then hes like 'no no dont do it, i dont want you to feel rushed,youll hate me, ect' im ... (171 words)

Losing my V-card on V-day, I'm so scared and nervous, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - well ive been going out with my boyfriend for like 4 months now and im a virgin, we have been talking about having sex lately hes 19 and im 16. weve talked about having sex on valentines day which is like 4 days away, i need some advice really on how to relax before it , im ... (97 words)

Do you think it's possible to love someone without him/ her loving you back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Do you think it's possible to love someone without him/ her loving you back? Personally, i'm not sure... it sometimes seems like an obvious NO... but other times, when i look back at people i've "loved" (when it wasn't reciprocated) i think that it must have been love for me to ... (85 words)

I'm so conflicted about whether or not to break up with him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, i have a problem, i love my boyfriend and we've been going out for almost 6 months. But there's a couple of things that really irritate me to the point that i don't know if i should just move on. sometimes he can be really loud when its not the right time and it's really e... (158 words)

Is it called a break-up because it's broken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - my girlfriend broke up with me because i acted differently when i was around friends and family. i told her that i would change many times before and she doesnt believe me anymore, then she told me that she needs time for her. what should i do?... (47 words)

If my boyfriend keeps acting clingy all the time I will end up doing it because it annoys me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) age 18-21 - I was clinically depressed last year and had to see a counsellor for a couple of months. I couldn't function in college , lost interest in my work and couldn't sleep. I was hoping for a better year, recovered new bf and stuff felt happier.so when new year came i wanted to be bo... (430 words)

Is he just horny or does he actually want something with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - So i've hooked up with this guy twice, and i kinda like him. hes just a huge flirt, and seductive. And then last night, i went to a party, and he was drunk and flirting with a bunch of girls, then he came up to me and started dancing with me, and said "i love this song, ... (164 words)

What do you think of coincidences in your life, and how does this affect your thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I wonder what anybody else has to say about this. I have so much coincidences in my life, they are really just mind blowing. I'm not a superstitious or religious person, but I can't avoid to notice them and wonder ,what was that,what do they mean? I can't see any meaning,... (115 words)

How do I prevent the condom from ripping and can I get an STI while wearing one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (?) age 16-17 - Ok first off im a virgin ok and im planning to have sex ofc im gonna use a condom but my gf wont use the pill i respect her choice but how can i prevent, number 1 condom from splitting :-/ and 2 if i use a condom can i get any std's i know its my girlfriend and she would of... (102 words)

Will my BF mind if his GF isn't great in bed or incredibly forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I know there's no straight forward answer to this, because everyone is after all different but I was hoping I could get some advice on here. My question is more or less 'do guys like virgins?' but specifically 'will the boyfriend mind if his girlfriend isn't so great in bed/not ... (604 words)

Why are condoms called johnny's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - this may come across as a daft question, but what is the reason for condoms being nicknamed "johnny"? ... (18 words)

Busted by Mom during a wank... how do I cure the awkwardness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - hi guys.. Well today i was in my room and i thought my mum was away so like any normal teenage guy i started to have a wank in the privacy of my room.. but about ten minutes through my door opened and there was my mum lookin down at me.. she just stared and walked away.. i... (67 words)

My fiance talks way too much about himself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my fiance always seems to talk about himself, he will finish work and start talking and when hes finished saying what he had to say about work, clients, what he ate for dinner. then hes actually asks how i am and by that time ive given up and just say "ok" and sooo then he thi... (85 words)

Does he miss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my ex and i broke up 2 months ago after being together for 2 years. we were very much in love but he has some issues with college and setting goals and i have anger issues. so we would argue a lot but it didnt really get bad until like 3 months before we broke up. i said i was ... (704 words)

Ladies, how can a guy make Valentine's Day special for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) age 18-21 - Ladies, how can a guy make Valentine's Day special for you? What are some fun ideas? Do you like to have a romantic evening leading up to sex for Valentine's Day? Do you enjoy sex on Valentine's Day? How can your guy make Valentine's Day sex for you?... (48 words)

If a guy annoys you in class does it mean he likes you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay so i'm in love with my teacher, but on the otherhand I can't stop flirting with this guy in my class. Well i think hes flirting i can't tell because my mind wanders and i always think about this teacher i'm in love with. I just wondered if a guy annoys you in class doe... (176 words)

What is with these text messages that mean nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend broke up 40 days ago. I have not contacted her at all. I have received two text messages from her one was for my address which her mom called me and asked if I could please give that to her, to let her in , that she wanted to send me some letters. Well I ... (118 words)

She's on the Pill, so can I go without a johnny?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - hey guys bit of a sex question here.......wasnt really told this in school lol . errr my GF is on the pill that apparently makes her 95% less likely to get pregnant or somit, she finished her period like 4 days ago, she recons its nearly impossible for her to get pregnant? sh... (69 words)

I don't know how to pursue him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - okay so i really really like this boy that goes to my school but he is in the year above me, and i have a pretty good feeling he doesnt like me at all! he looks at me with a strange expression most of the time; he is friends with people in my year though of whom i dont re... (173 words)

Is "I'm falling for you" close to "I love you"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My bf said, "I think I'm falling for you." Is that getting close to saying 'I love you.'?? ... (18 words)

How long does it take to get over a 5 year relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey everyone, Ive got some advice on this issue before but now its finally hitting me. How long does it take to get over a 5 year relationship? She was my first Love and first everything. I'm so down because she wanted to see what else was out there and didn't know what she ... (265 words)

I can't keep stringing them along, so who should I go for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hi, i need help, basically there is two lads i like, they are both really sweet, caring, and seem like really decent lads, one is 19 , really nice looking and really hot and he is really caring and knows how to show affection, hes at college and works aswell and see... (257 words)

Am I doomed to be one of those creepy cat ladies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't know what to do anymore. My really good friend doesn't talk to me anymore. I didn't do anything wrong. I had a huge thing for him and he might've liked me too, but I never pursued anything. I don't think he even knew. I feel dumb for ever liking him when obviously ... (112 words)

How can I bring on my period?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, i know questions like these come up all the time cos i've seem them myself, but i just cant not say nothing! to cut a long story short, i had sex 3 weeks ago, first time with my current boyfriend and we used a condom, didnt see no split or nothing. i was due to come on m... (211 words)

How do I help my man regain his confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 284 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

- I have met a guy and been seeing each other for 2 months now.He's wonderful and caring and so attentive. my question is tho that after he split from his ex(1 and 1/2yrs ago) he had a breakdown. she was nasty and banned him from seeing kids..she chucked him out.now he sees ... (182 words)

Do any other mothers feel like this... abandoned?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some advice.. I am a work at home mom with a one year old son.. It is very hard. I sometimes get very angry with him when he refuses to sleep or eat because I have work to do and I am so tired.. My husband of 2 years refuses to understand how this affects me.. He just ... (156 words)

He'll be leaving the company soon--should I say goodbye? Or leave him alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 283 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I'm having a real problem at work at the moment. I've been working at this company for nearly 5 years. A couple of years ago a new guy joined and he had a wife and two daughters. To cut a long story short I grew closer to this guy and eventually we started seeing each ... (578 words)

If he wanted to date me, he would've asked so does he just want sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm not sure what this guy at work wants. When we see each other we chat a lot and he kinda looks at me lovingly but he never asks me out he does however make remarks like we should get a room together, we have known each other for about a year and a half and it has always ... (97 words)

How do I give oral sex and does it matter if I mess up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I have been seeing this girl for a while now and I want to move things on, I want to go down on her but I am not to sure what to do or what to expect, will she tell me when she is coming and does it matter if I mess things up.... (54 words)

My boyfriend is way too close with his brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend has referred to his brother as his heterosexual life partner - they currently own a house together. I don't want to suggest any distancing between the two, but I'm afraid of getting caught as piggy in the middle. Am I wasting my time here if my objective is on ... (56 words)

How do you get a guy out of your head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Basically I can't get dis new guy out of my head. Is it always a good idea to tell people wat u are feeling? He says he likes me. I can't focus on ANYTHING!! How can I stop obsessing about him?? Please help!!... (43 words)

Once a liar always a liar? Or is there still hope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my fiancé for just over a year and a half now. My past relationships have scarred me severely. I have major trust issues now. I don’t consider myself a control freak or anything like that, but I question peoples actions that I used to not ... (1006 words)

First time humilating sex leads to a bruised ego and erection issues.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Ok So i am 16 years old i tried to have sex with a girl at the beach we were making out and i was really hard(never had any erection problems) it was my first time and when we took off our clothes and i got inside her i didnt quite enjoyed..i expected it to be more pleasant... (302 words)

If us being together will jeopardize his career, should I break it off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid I'm not sure what to do, ive been dating the I.T technician from college and we had sex the other night and now hes worried that he may lose his job, we both really like each other but if it's going to jeopardize his career should i break it off? all comments we... (61 words)

I'm 16 and my voice hasn't broken yet. I'm worried!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - well to be honest every time i talk on the phone or on the computer my voice is real high and people think either im 11 or im a girl but im a boy and im 16. im rather worried about it coz i get bullied for it. is there anything i can do or will it be very soon when it bre... (79 words)

Troubled by feelings for a younger girl and my older teacher...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Basically, Theres a girl a couple of years younger than me who likes me. She is openly gay, everyone knows she likes me. I, on the other hand am a coward, I see the way they shun her and I just don't want that to happen to me. She's in isolation untill half term for fingering ... (487 words)

Should I move in with him and his family? Or stay on my own?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I posted on here recently about an internet dating experience and got some great advice, so I thought I'd look on here again for some more advice. I met a guy on the internet at the start of December. We started talking via MSN and webcam straight away and within a few day... (423 words)

I have fallen out of love with my husband!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have fallen out of love with my husband!! I would love to have my relationship back, but I feel I am never happy with what he does!! He is a fantastic dad to our 3 boys (4,2and 1) but I am constantly picking arguments with him and I dont know how to stop?! Our sex life is ... (124 words)

What is the coolest, easiest way to make friends in a small town?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

- I'm getting fed-up. I'm trying to widen my friendship circle and its hard. I'm 25 and live in a small town. I have a lot of friends but I feel we are growing apart slightly and I want to make new friends. Because I live in a small town I know alot of people but I wouldn't class ... (135 words)

How can I stop myself from harrassing this guy if I am??!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I recently started seeing this new guy, for about the last three weeks, and I'm in need of some advise! I'll start at the beginning... We have been friends for a long time but recently we started texting each other increasingly more flirty. The problem was that we were usi... (408 words)

Are married men happier where they are??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so in love with someone I shouldn't be in love with. It's been 12 months of trying to forget him, being permanently drunk and just acting psychotically. He wants to be with me but is married to a wife who says that she loves him and still wants him. I deserve nothi... (176 words)

My family loves my BF but my friends don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What can a girl do if your friends doesnt like your boyfriend, but your parents and sisters and brother like him and they dont know him like i know him. it make me so sad. i dont know what to do..... (41 words)

He's cheating on her with me and I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a best friend who I've been friends with since middle school. In our 9th grade year she started dating this guy who dated my sister in middle school. I didn't know him all so well. Eventually at the end of my 9th grade year me and my best friend and her boyfriend were ... (440 words)

Have no reason to think he is cheating on me, so why am I so scared of disloyalty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i have been in a long distance relationship now for over 10 months.. hes amazing buys me gifts, flowers at my work, always tells me he loves me but i just get really paranoid when hes away.. he always says to me just do one thing never cheat on me, and i have said that t... (301 words)

Are there different stages of erectile dysfunction? Please help us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was wondering if theres different stages of ed? My man has had a problem all his life and thought it was just normal for him to get just erect enough to have sex. The problem is.. hes getting erect enough to have sex just not getting erect to his full potential? Is th... (258 words)

I am ready for Mr right...? What am I supposed to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi guys. I will start off with my name is Deborah, I am 20 years old. I have had an active life and I am ready to settle down. I dont think I am unattractive. I dont have much confidence, but I know I dont look horrible. I am 5'9 120 pounds small waist small chest light blue ... (196 words)

Why doesn't he ever text first, does he even like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ive met this guy recentley. long story cut short, i dont see him often, and we dont have any mutal friends. Ive been speaking to him online for like the past 3/4 weeks and ive spoke to him in real life 2 times. The last time we spoke we got on SO well. we bumped into eac... (243 words)

Is it normal for a man to get angry at his girlfriend for not liking anal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it normal for a man to get angry at his girlfriend of almost one year for not liking anal? I told him that I didn't like it while we were doing it and he insisted that we continue because I was only lying that it hurt so that he would think I am a 'good girl'.... (58 words)

If I don't tell my mother I had sex, my boyfriend's mother will, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't know what to do. I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who i love to bits but the last time i stayed with him we got caught having sex by his mum. To make matters worse i told his mum that i had told my mum about what i had done but i didn't, i did try ... (171 words)

Please suggest something romantic yet a bit wild?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend has an erection all the time, I mean ALL the time. All I have to do is kiss him and there it is! Lol. He says, that's a good thing. Plus, he has a very high sex drive. I do too. But sometimes we just can't have sex..you know responsibilities and what not. But wh... (102 words)

The famous "what if we break up" question! What did she mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I just had a nice evening then she asked me something that irritated me. She was wondering how long it would take for us to rebound and date again if we hypothetically broke up. For me, I am quite clear that it might take a while while she said that it wou... (187 words)

Guys/girls, does your partner's sexual past bother you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

9 February 2009 (?) age 26-29 - Hi i was just wondering how many guys and girls out there are bothered by their partners sexual past? And if it bothers guys more than it bothers girls? Do you care how many sexual partners your partner has had before you even existed in their life? I know guys and girls who ... (168 words)

My coworker is an unhappy marriage, should I tell her I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am bisexual, my coworker and friend knows I gave big hints. I really like her she's in a unhappy / abusive marraige. We have had a connection always touching each other hands 2 her complmenting my voice. She and I have a eye connection thing going on -she waits till I look ... (274 words)

I have a relationship with an older woman but she is hesitant to have sex, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) age 22-25 - Hi, there, I have a good relationship with an older woman. I have mentioned that I would like to have sex with her. She says that I just want to try sex with an older woman. While I do want the experience of sex with an older woman I would like to do it with her in particula... (86 words)

Our families want to marry us to other people against our wishes, please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend are already a year together..im older than him for about 4 years..we have too much conflicts like nationality, religion, and culture..but we didnt let these things be a hindrance of what we feel to each other..we love each other so much that we even tried to ... (90 words)

I haven't had a period in two months, what could be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I haven't had a period in over 2 months. I'm obviously a girl, I haven't had sex. What's going on with me? :/... (23 words)

I have his number so should I make a move and what should I say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been interested in this guy for about 6 months now and I think I may well be falling for him. I always got the impression that he was keen on me, so it wasn't a huge surprise when two of our mutual friends both texted me and said that he wanted to get together with me ... (291 words)

I like him but he says I'm too young for him!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - im 16 years old and the boy i like is 19 we have been talking for a while he came over to see me and we talked in his car for 2 hours...then i told him that my uncle said he dont want us dating and come to find out they are friends due to his cousin being my uncle's ex anyway ... (132 words)

My husband doesn't treat our daughters (from previous relationships) equally!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been married for 8 months and we dated for two years before that. We each had a child from other relationships. Since being married my husband has really made me feel like my daughter (she is 8) is a brat, he is always getting mad at her for the way she talks and ... (153 words)

How can I get my bf to kiss me without being pushed by our friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - okay so i have kissed my bf but only when our mates force us to . it isnt natural... we were alone the other day and nobody not even our mates were around. i thought that would be a good moment and to kiss naturally without people forcing us to. i hinted but he sort of didnt... (74 words)

Why have I been feeling these really bad cramps in my lower stomach?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - ive reciently been getting really bad pain's / cramps down in the area just below my stomach. i never get cramps on my period, and my period isnt for another 2 weeks or so. i havent had sex , but i have had oral sex. could i be pregnant ? what could it be ? ... (55 words)

Can actually I find a nice honest guy out there who doesn't play games?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Id like to ask those males out there or the women who its happened too! Is there some hope of finding a nice honest loving man. Who would give u the earth? Who wanna settle down and have a family.marriage? Cos i just seem to think that there isnt! I had a very controlling ... (113 words)

Does he really like me or is he messing around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Well, there's this lad i like and he is one year older than me, he says he likes my back and he can't go out with me just yet because of family problems but he promised we will be together. The Problem is, he said he liked my friend and told me he said it for a laugh as she ... (157 words)

Should I be hopeful in thinking that something might spark up in her again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My first love and I broke up two days ago.. It was probably the best breakup ever, both in bed, we cried, laughed, hugged, said jokes, etc. Very mutual and mellow. We were like two droplets of water completely identical to each other. We lasted 9 months, and were in sync for ... (318 words)

Should I ask him to make out a living will and a will. How strong would this hold up?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I will try to get to the point. In my last post I wrote that my husband is still legally married to his ex. They haven't been together in over 15 years now and we just found out a few years back. He said we will take care of this (meaning he will get the papers done) but I am ... (344 words)

My fiance won't get rid of the pictures from his ex'es, I dislike this!!!

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok...I have been with my guy for a little over 2 years. We moved in with eachother after dating for 4 months. When i moved in I started to notice that he keeps pictures (Both of his ex-wife and ex-girlfriend) I asked him to get rid of them. I let it go for a while, after a year ... (345 words)

Best kind of venues for a first date?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - What are some good places to go on you first date with a guy you really like?... (17 words)

What is up with this married GUY???

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello: there is this married guy at work who always complains and badmouths everythiing, pretty much, every one is miserable there...I'm happy all the time so people gravitate toward me. Well, this guy and I have common interests that revealed this chemistry beween us. Ther... (509 words)

I don't want him back but I can't let go!

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help! Can anyone explain why I feel this way. I split with my ex over a year a go, and he is with the girl he cheated on me with. Throughout the year we have been apart, we have slept together several times, as I was stupid enough to believe that he had finished things ... (305 words)

Could this be a beginning?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - HEllo: I was in an abusive relationship for 12 years, my weight and self esteem were out of conrol, I have gotten myself finally feeling the best about myself since even before I met that parasitic monster... I had been encountering married men who come on strong at my new... (604 words)

Am I in love with my priest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a problem, it happened about a month ago when my husband and I went over to his friends house for the weekend to drink. My husband had a rough night and too much to drink so he passed out. His friend started telling me how much he likes me, how he always has, how he ... (205 words)

I want to propose to my g/f but I'm afraid of what my family will think/say

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9 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I want to propose to my current girlfriend but im afraid of what my family might say/think. I proposed to my ex girlfriend nearly 3years ago and we end up breaking up before we got married, and to be honest i didnt really want to get married to her, i was young and i thou... (223 words)

He says he likes me so much its degrading..what does that mean?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Long story turned into a short one, i'm with a guy who told me that he likes me so much it has got to a point where it's 'degrading' to him, like he's changed his ways. He emphasised on the 'degrading' part and i know what degrading means but I'm just a little unclear in this ... (81 words)

Are we truly in love?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid I went out wit this guy 4 two months and we broke up because of a realistic reasons. After a few months we became really close, but we never went out. This tym we started going on dates and ended up kissing. When it comes to sex he respects me so much... Recentl... (128 words)

Are we related? Could we marry?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid I have A cousin (thats what i call him) but i dont know if we are really related. My partenal grandma had a brother the brother had a daughter. the daughter got married and had a son. this son is the cousin of mine. My question is are we related and are there an... (64 words)

Would you ask the guy to get circumsized? Would you pay for it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Girls you really like this guy you have gone out with for a couple of mouths, he decided he wants to have sex with you and he is not circumcsied,would you ask him if he would go and get cut because you only like men cut and if he does would you pay for it.... (55 words)

My friends are taking alot of time away from my son & my guy

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9 February 2009 (F)

- Hello there, views appreciated. I have several girlfriends who are single, some recently divorced. They ask me to go out with them at weekends on my own, but those times are very precious with my son and partner. I invite them to join us for dinner and they do, we go to pub ... (238 words)

My soon to be husband expects us to live with his family

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - im confused and need help!! ok im 20 atm and have been dating by boyfriend since oct "08". we have known eachother since june 2008 during the time i met him i went overseas for three months and he would call and text me while i was away.I hAd strong feelings for him while i ... (726 words)

My boyfriend doesn't trust me after I kissed a boy for a play and then kept in touch with him unappropriately!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, about a year ago i was involved in a play that required me to kiss this boy during many rehearsals for about a month. at the time i had a boyfriend of six months and i'm still with the same guy. after the play ended me and the boy kept in touch via secret emails, nothing ... (235 words)

What I'm wondering is what are my chances of being pregnant?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Basically last Saturday I slept with a guy. I really cannot remember anything of what happened but i do know we slept together 3 times that night. I have no clue also but i think it was definately unprotected sex, i do not really know the guy and so was to embaressed to ask ... (194 words)

I'm torn and cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been seeing my boyfriend on and off for just under a year. All throughout the relationship he has dragged his feet. At first saying he didn’t want a girlfriend - until I told him then he should just not have one and that if he wants to be single then he should stop ... (395 words)

Should I stay with my boyfriend when I miss my old one so much?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I had a boyfriend who was absolutely lovely in every way, he was the funniest most caring person I could've ever dreamed of, but after 2 and a half years i ended it because I was finishing uni and wanted to go travelling, see the world meet new people etc, just generally do ... (380 words)

New LDR Crush Need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 282 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 23 year old male in Minnesota and I met this wonderful lady on IM the about a month ago. Immediately, I felt a strong connection with her. She is in Florida. We chat everyday for around four hours at a time and we have fun with each other over webcam. We talked about ... (199 words)

How can I get closer to him and spend some time alone together?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now and we have a son who is 1. We've known each other for about 12 years and have been in and out with each other since high school. He's my first love and still he's the only one I've ever really loved.. The thng is he ... (269 words)

How can I be more aggressive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. I have been with a girl for a long time now, and things have always been fine up until recently. Lately she's been saying that she needs more aggression from me, but I am not an aggressive person and I get nervous being aggressive around her because I am bigger than her. It ... (116 words)

Ladies & Guys..is this the RIGHT way to let go?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I was getting to know this guy after a month he always seemed like he was playing games emotional ones and i had enough of it. if you look at my other questions i posted..that will give u some back ground so i decided to say bye.It was a nice good bye, no bad feelings or ... (246 words)

He cheated on me with an ex, and says its the biggest mistake he's ever made

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i was with my boyfriend for 4 months and never had reason not to trust him. he always wanted to see me, never dissapeared with his mates and always made me feel special. then over christmas he had no work so had to get a job he hated, he was always home late and we never saw ... (187 words)

Will people think I am just rebounding?

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9 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey i broke up with my gf for 1 month already she is from the other class in my batch, well now there is this girl in my class that i like and i want to go after her but i am not sure if i should since people might think i am just rebounding what should i do?... (59 words)

He says I'm a deep thinker and wants to see more of my personality

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a huge crush on this guy i think he might like me too but i don't know. He's rather friendly to most people (smiling, joking, etc.) so it probably isn't anything special that he's nice to me and smiles at me in the hallway...but he told me that i'm a deep thinker and he ... (85 words)

Why doesn’t he respect my feelings?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone, I have known this man for a year, my friend was interested in him and they ended up kissing and then he wanted my cousin after a couple of weeks they were history, still don’t know why, he also ignored my friend and blamed me for pushing her to him, I don’t know ... (206 words)

Am I a 'slag' for wanting sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'm 18 and recently split up with a boy I was going out with for 4 months. I thought he cared about me and he started off really nice but as soon as we made it official he wasn't as attentive - not calling for days etc. whenever i mentioned why he hadnt called he would say ... (376 words)

Sad and Lost husband

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9 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently, my wife told me that she want to split with me, reasons being that she does not have the spark and feeling with me anymore and she can untie that knot from me. She told me that the relationship have been detoriated since 8 or 9 years ago and yet I was not aware. She ... (205 words)

What are some of the things that make women fall out of love with men?

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9 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What are some of the things that make women fall out of love with men, and not want to have sex anymore? When you were in a committed relationship and for some reason, things just started to go downhill. Thanks! ... (50 words)

Should I just stand back and let her carry on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - well im not really sure what i sohould do about my freind, we have been best freinds for 9 years now. me my family and my boyfriend have been so good to her over the years. me and my boyfreind put a roof over her head when she didnt have know where else to go, my family even ... (379 words)

How can I recover from this break up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Is there anything I can do to help me recover from a terrible breakup quicker? Its been a year now, and my ex has been seeing the girl he cheated on me with. We slept together several times over the space of that year, and now he wants nothing to do with me as... (321 words)

Is he replacing his wife with me?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there well i am getting a divorce from my husband found out he was seeing someone. It has been a year now we have been apart, But my problem is that i have met a great guy who is a widow, we have been together for a month and ... (372 words)

Massive neon sign that this isn't true love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 213 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello dear friends, This is crunch time and I'm guessing that putting it in writing might solve the problem itself, but I would love to hear your advice and another point of view, here goes: My Girlfriend and I been together for 6 years (both age 31), we had ups and do... (293 words)

Should I worry about being circumcized?

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9 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - im an 18 year old guy from Australia, i was wondering if i could have some uplifting advice on being circumcised....as i am. i worry about what a girl will think if i am..should i worry if i am circumcised or not?? ..and my mates always crack jokes and i always deny that im not ... (103 words)

Will going out with someone else help me forget him?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hey i like this guy called james* hes lovely sweet and every thing i mean we have kissed and stuff before and i want to ask him out i mean tommrow in history thats when isit next to him and chat alot but hes one of my best mates and in are little group theres this guy c... (188 words)

Torn between abusive man & family

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi every body well I have a serouis problem if any one can give me some advice I will appresiat it. Well I was engage with this man for over 15years and have a son now 4years old I was married before and have 2 teenage girls with my 1st husband. Well I don't know where t... (278 words)

My married man is not treating me well!

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there. I have been dating this man for the last four years, he is married though, but somehow we clicked and we have this thing going on. I have a lot of respect for his family and they always come first, though he gives me time too. Now recently, we started having issu... (315 words)

I'm not sure if confronting the ex is a good thing?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi Everyone My bf and I broke up like a month ago, he was cheating and just stopped talking to me so thats how we broke up.Anyway, the girl he was cheating with and still dating just moved in closer to where I stay and she has been confiding in me, telling me she never knew I w... (202 words)

Pregnant & sad

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i'm 15 years old, and im almost 4 months pregnant. the father of the baby, i was with over a year.. then we broke up .. now he is putting alot of stress on me and i don't know what to do, he doesnt want anything to do with the baby or me. but he just wont leave me alone ,... (107 words)

Should I buy her something for V-Day and try to reconnect with her?

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9 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello, Im a little confused about something. I met this girl last year. She's a cool and fun girl, a lil bit reserved. we dated for 2 months and started liking each other. However, she started confusing me. For instance, I was getting mixed signals from her which didnt help me ... (283 words)

Is it wise to expect a good friendship with my ex so our children could be proud of us?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Seperated for 2 years but not yet divorced. Recently found myself thinking back over the good times and sad for what we could have had. I do not wish to be back in his arms but he was so much part of my life and with grown up children who could be proud of a good friendship ... (127 words)

I don't want to lose her as a friend by dating her with the possibility of a break up! Please help!!!!!

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9 February 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Alright i have a few questions.... i have liked this girl for a few years now and we have just been good friends. we have alot in common, and i have the sence that she likes me to. she is always giving me random hugs and what not. so i think its time to ask her out and quit ... (172 words)

She broke up by mail but we still love each other, I want to get her back, help!

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9 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend of six months just broke up with me and I want her back so bad. She meant everything to me and I loved her with all of my heart. We broke up recently about a week ago. I have not made any effort to contact her since then. I was im'd by her just a few days ago and ... (421 words)

Aroused by thoughts of my girlfriend with her ex, what's wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have lived together for the past 8 months. We've dated on and off for years, but have been together since 2008. We've both dated other people during our numerous breakups. She dated one guy in particular who she was crazy in love with. For some reason, I ... (166 words)

My married ex and I are in love. Does love conquer all?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I was with my ex for 4 years. We were very young at the time (early 20's)and both of us had been through a lot. We knew that we loved each other and we had an unbelievable connection. We were the couple that everyone said would be together forever. But, our immaturity and ... (654 words)

How do I convince him that he's the only one for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend is afraid that i'm gonna find somebody better than him when i go away to college. how do i convince him that he's the only one for me?... (30 words)

I desperately need some advice on how to be more trusting.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my bf for a while now and we've been friends since we were in elementary/middle school. I trust him mostly, but he has a history of being very friendly and flirty. He works with mostly young women his age and has MANY female friends. To the point, I am a very jea... (98 words)

How do I know if we are just "dating" or in a relationship?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - How do you know if your someone's "girlfriend" or not? I've been going on dates with this guy since the beginning of January.A few days ago,I went to his house and he made dinner for me(which i thought was VERY sweet) and we watched movies.He acted like a boyfriend would ac... (234 words)

He invited me for a walk, you think he likes me? What should I do to get with him?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok it was me ,my twin,my boyfriend,his brother,his friend and we were hangin out at his brother house and my boyfriend didn't talk to me or anything not one word was said between us and when it was time to go home he got frustrated cause my stepfather was in front of his house ... (219 words)

Why won't he stop making contact with his ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend cheated on me twice with the same girl, we broke up after the second cheating occurred.He dated her for three years. they broke up after a big fight. then we ended up getting back together. How do learn to trust him. he still make contact with her, He bought her a ... (124 words)

People in animal costumes doing group sex activities??

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello everyone! I am going to try to ask this one more time! My last 2 tries were denied! Urg! Ok I was watching TV and it showed people in animal costumes doing group sex activities! It said that it was a common practice and the people that did it were called 'furries... (80 words)

How can I know if this girl likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. I'm 19 and in college. Ok so I met this girl in one of my classes. I think she's pretty attractive and I think she feels the same way about me because I have caught her looking across the room at me multiple times. She does it repeatedly. One day I talked to her on our way ... (123 words)

I made a bad choice when I was younger, and now it's affecting my relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - When I was 16, I was crazy about this boy in school. For years I dreamed of returning the feelings, and even though we were good friends, I knew he didn't feel the same way... until I had a party and he kissed me. But next thing i know, I ended up in a bathroom, down on my ... (219 words)

Am I attracted to him, or his skin colour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi Ok so im 15 and a sophmore in high school and my peoble is a little odd. I'm white and about a year and a half ago realized that I am more attracted to black boys than I am any other race. So when I figured this info out I kinda kept it to my self and when I started ... (266 words)

Should I confess to my boyfriend what I've done in the past, or simply be the perfect, loyal girlfriend from now on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hey, i have been with my boyfriend for four years....ive always done little things that he wouldnt have liked in the past but i didnt think of them as a big deal....this past month i cheated on him....it wasnt really big, i hugged a guy intimately but i thought of it as a big ... (361 words)

How do I perform good foreplay on a circumcised guy?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've just started a relationship with an older guy (25) and I know that he's been circumcised. I've been with a few guys before and have no complaints but they've all been uncircumcised. I'm just a little unsure as to how to make foreplay good. I don't want to hurt him. I can't ... (153 words)

Will my penis get bigger as my body/facial hair growth increases?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey, I don't know if you have read my last question but I'm 18. I am a late bloomer, I have pubic, underarm, and leg hair but not really any body or facial hair. I shave my little mustache, that's about it. I'm wondering if my penis will grow more as I begin to see body and ... (76 words)

My father issues have made me needy for male company.

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, posted on here before about doubts with my boyfriend, lack of wanting sex and affection, too 'busy' having fun to want to see him. The doubts I have been having have worsened since coming to uni, after a rather unpleasant childhood and father issues I have grown to be ve... (185 words)

Why won't he tell me in the first place that he's just in a bad mood?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 288 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - ok so my boyfriend has been acting very weird around me whenever i talk to him on the phone or text him. i will try to talk and tell him stories about what happened that day and all he replys with is "yeah" or "ok" and so i think of something else to say and he says the same ... (256 words)

Should I put up with his moods to prove that I care, or just move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this totally awesome guy a couple weeks ago. We go out or just hang out at his place. We have so much in common it's crazy. I've never believed in the soul mate thing till I met him. Everything was fine. He told me he was falling in love with me and that was after we had ... (296 words)

I just want him to cheat on me so I don't have to make this decision.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. So, been with my boyfriend a few years. Had many, many doubts, dating back to one night when I kissed another man, 9 months into our relationship. He knows about this. I doubt whether I love him sometimes...doubt what I want with him, whilst other times I think I want all... (199 words)

Will my mother jump to conclusions if she finds a lighter in my purse?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Do you think my mom will think anything of it if she finds a lighter in my purse? I don't smoke, I just have one for friends that do that forget their own sometimes.... (34 words)

It feels like he only wants a live-in partner, not a lover.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am middle aged, 2 years seperated, in a 13 month relationship with a single guy. Nice guy, does not show or express what is going on 'inside'. No talk on future plans but behaves as though we are an item. When questioned, he states, "I spend all my time with you. What do you ... (187 words)

I think I'm bi-polar...

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hey...is there a way to know you're bipolar without going to the doctor?. sometimes i think i'm bipolar because all of the sudden i start to cry and get angry at others for no reason..if you read this and your bipolar can you tell me some things about being bipolar?... (50 words)

I don't want sex (or his affection) anymore...do I still love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello! Little help please! been with bf four years, truly amazing man. Does everything and anything he can for me, to losing weight (yes men can do it!), growing his hair and pretty much anything really. People say im so lucky to be with him. And yet I have contstantly had ... (146 words)

Are we going to be "friends with benefits" forever, or does he want more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this man about 8 months ago. At first we went to lunch together everyday and we spent the night together every weekend and sometimes through the week things were awesome. Soon we quit having lunch together but that was because he no longer works in the same town as I ... (533 words)

We've tried spicing it up, but I'm happier on my own. Any advice?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi all. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and we have our whole future planned out. sometimes this makes me happy, other times I think about it and get scared. I got wind of him proposing to me once and freaked and split up with him (not very nice I know.) ... (341 words)

I'm beginning to think my only attraction to him was physical.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, so i wrote a question on this site yesterday and i still have more questions. So my boyfriend HAS been dropping hints about sex for those of you who read my question and we sat down and talked about sex. But here are the things that set up a red flag for me. 1. He was ... (156 words)

I got back together with my ex because I felt bad, but I'm faking it now. Should I let her down nicely or simply vanish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I told my X that I wouldn't mind trying it one more time.But now I want out. She was crying hysterically and I felt bad. I don't think she has changed enough, there is no newness to being with her agiain. and since our break up I feel like a new man, doing new things and ... (116 words)

She has feelings for me, but I don't feel the same. How do I let her down gently?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello everyone, My problem is difficult. I've been working in a crap, deadend job for 7 soul distroying months now (yes i would and have tried to move but there are absolutely no jobs at the moment for obvious reasons). During this time i became close to a girl i work w... (262 words)

So much has happened but I love & miss him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

- What do you think the best next step is to do in a relationship on the rocks? To keep it short, I met a guy two years ago and after a long friendship/romance he moved into my house where he lived for 7 months until I asked him to get his own place because I was unhappy with... (1103 words)

Guys: What do you consider sexy? NOT slutty!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I would like to know from the Guys. What is attractive to you. Explain to me an outfit you like to see on a woman that looks attractive not slutty, but sexy..?? More so an outfit that covers her body and is not showing a Butt load of skin either. Yours truly, Needs advise fro... (60 words)

I just had to hear his voice

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay, So me and and this guy broke up and and we dated for a long time and and i miss him alot and and we still talk and and say i love you but he gets mad at me alot and and i just can't take it. . .i love him so much and and i just can't let him go what ... (118 words)

Should I be dating him before we have sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - So me and and my ex have been talking about having sex and and all that stuff and and i love him very much so i know it would not be a mistake if i did it but i have one question should i be dating him before we do... (59 words)

I have a hard time getting boyfriends because I'm in a wheelchair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - ok, i have a hard time getting boyfriends...or even guys to like me becuz im in a wheelchair. i feel really left out alot becuz all my friends are dating. i've tried dating websites, chat rooms..i dunno what to do ne more...and my friends say they understand but deep down i ... (61 words)

I'm 15, she's 18 and she wants to have sex on V-day

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok well im 15 and ive been with my girlfriend(age 18) for 3 1/2 months and i love her and she loves me. We trust each other with everything and have told eavh other things we havent said before to others. We have been having sexual talks alot lately and she says she want to ... (150 words)

I want to sleep with one and date the other!

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Greetings all! I met these two guys through my friend and we all partied together. I was drunk and made out with one of them two nights in a row, although he wanted to do more but I didnt let him. He is an exchange student who will only be here six months so Im guessing he ... (175 words)

Is 22 year age gap too much?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there is a a 22 year age gap between me and this guy that i has sex with he is older. we were co-workers and we both wanted it, do you think that is too much of a age differance? he has two sons that close to my age and i have to younger children? what should i do???... (59 words)

Will vaginal hair keep growing?

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9 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello aunts and uncles :) I was just wondering about pubic hair, more precisely..vaginal hair..i'm curious as to whether it just keeps growing? (if nothings done about it of course) Like if you just left it..would it just keep growing? Thanks :)... (48 words)